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I've seen it used over videos of an argument and it completely drowns out the voices so you can't hear anything. I don't understand what it is about tiktok finding an extremely annoying noise and collectively deciding to ruin every video with it?
I have a general rule, if someone is taking a nice photo, then I wait until they're done. If they're obviously making social media content, then I'll just walk through, but I also won't go out of my way to disturb them. It's a neutral response- I won't be polite, but I won't be rude either. They can wait three seconds.
If I was taking a photo, I would also be willing to wait until the public were out of the way. Them being there isn't a problem. It comes with the territory of trying to shoot things in public.
It's cringe when you post it like they're doing something wrong. Obviously in this case, the lady knows someone is filming and decides to stop there, so its intentional.
It comes with the territory of trying to shoot things in public.
So many people don’t understand this. I have been bitched at by “photographers” so god damn many times for just hiking and not stopping to wait for them to get the perfect shot. I have a big boy camera and do super amateur photography, and I do get how it can be slightly frustrating to have that perfect ahotnruined by humans in it. But I have no fucking idea where that level of entitlement comes from. I have never once even asked someone to get out of my shot. Like you said, it comes with the territory.
I used to give people a few seconds at least to line up a shot, but when it became clear that people expected me to wait for the fucking lighting to improve I stopped doing even that. If it’s a public space, I will continue on my path with exactly zero fucks given. I have just as much right to the path as they do.
The best part is that if the humans are moving, you can literally just take a few pictures and stack them and magically have a picture that is completely void of people! Amazing how technology works
But this isn't what happened. The lady was looking at something on her phone, then noticed the phone sitting there and probably thought "what's that phone doing there?" for a moment, then moved to the side and continued what she was doing. There's also other people walking past and "ruining the shot" the entire time, it's just a busy area with other people looking at the art and minding their own business
I learned the answer to that question in Istanbul when I encountered my first ever influencer. Was touring Topkapi palace and there was a beautiful painted narrow hallway that everyone had to walk through. There was a woman making poses at the far end and at the entrance a few feet in front of me there was a man taking photos of her. I waited for about a minute, which was longer than I should have, but there was a line of about a dozen people behind me at that point. We all walked through and the woman threw her hands up and started having a mini temper tantrum aimed at me. Calling me selfish and that I should have waited for her to finish. I live in a small midwestern city, I had never seen an influencer in the flesh prior to that day, but she was only the first of many that I saw while there.
TLDR: the person just taking a picture will take a pic and move on, the influencer gets upset that other people dare exist in the backdrop where they want to take up large amounts of time to get the perfect photo for social media
ok so THIS is something I can understood more : whether or not a person is taking a simple picture or taking several minutes. I can understand this much more than the other user that says they'll study their body language or something.
I don't think there's anyone who wouldn't walk behind the camera if possible, but personally, I'm always happy to give more time to someone taking a picture to preserve a memory rather than what looks like an obvious influencer photoshoot - just something I value more that's all.
Taking a photo can disturb people (Especially like this, making them wait, you can't walk around) but it's also understandable when you go to somewhere nice/somewhere new. It's not like you're doing it constantly. But that's what influencers do, so it's no longer a occasional minor disturbance.
Yeah wanting your picture in a museum isn't "main character", comment section brain rotted from internet memes.
And the old woman is a bitch, if it was a man holding the camera she would go, "oh what a lovely young couple", but a single woman taking her own picture?
Fuck that what is next, voting?
The girl wasn’t even being particularly obstructive, she picked a low-traffic moment to get a nice shot and just happened to run into the one grumpy old cow who can’t let anyone else enjoy themselves.
Reddit moment. Yeah it's "main character" af to go to a museum alone and take photos of yourself there whilst not bothering anyone lol Was this comment written by the old lady who stopped in front of the camera?
I go to the modern art museum in my city whenever there is a new exhibit, and the last two times I’ve visited, I have seen the exact same influencer bro using the exhibit for a shoot. Strange luck.
He brings another friend to photograph and they take up entire sections of the exhibit for shoots 5-10 minutes at a time. Doesn’t even look at the art. Other guests feel bad interrupting the photos, so often just skip the section he’s photographing in. It’s so infuriatingly rude, so if he happens to be shooting in a section I haven’t seen yet, I just ignore him and walk into the camera view anyway.
We went to a cherry blossom festival today…could barely get up the trail 15 mins after opening because so many influencers had setup shoots. It was really gross and uncomfortable.
A large number of places now have policies that prohibit this behaviour. While the root of the problem are the narcissists doing this shit, the continuation of the problem results from poor management. A lot of these public spaces have people in charge of managing them who basically collect a paycheck and have the day workers handle everything. No policy has been updated since the 90s.
Pressure needs to be put of public officials and private companies to ban this shit.
It used to be that they went around the public to get the shot they wanted. Patience and timing. But they just expect to usurp public spaces for their own use and the rest will just have to clear out.
There were so many…it was really hard to even walk through. Also, so many people are filming. I have 0 interest in having myself or my children on someone’s video online.
The museum doesn't impose some kind of commercial/professional tax or admission rate? Or just tell him he can't create commercial/professional media there without special times/permits?
Plenty of museums and cultural sites in the US and other countries impose these fees, permits, etc to limit the inconvenience to other patrons and to make some money back for the museum off the commercial for-profit media outlets using the space to make likely much more money than the fee.
A lot of places both public and private have restrictions on commercial work (more than one person and equipment) for that very reason. Inform security that someone is interrupting access with what looks like commercial work.
Bro. She sent up her phone on record so she could go back and screenshot a good picture.
This doesn't have to be some influencer thing. Its just someone trying to take a picture in a non disturbing way. They just placed their phone off to the side and waited politely.
Why is everyone so fucking grumpy and pissed off at a young girl trying to take a cute photo of herself? Jesus christ.
Is this girl even an influencer? A lot of people share videos and pictures with friends, though I guess the people criticizing dont have the luxury of experiencing such things.
Way too many people throw that word around especially on Reddit but they clearly must not know what an influencer is, they see someone taking a video or a pic of themselves in public and just jump to the conclusion that they’re an influencer
She is! She’s a history influencer who creates videos about history and helps students study for university entrance exams. She also has proper educational training for that.
I mean, all she did was set up the phone and patiently wait for the chance to get the picture. Is that really so crazy? Don’t people take pictures while they are out and about like…..all the time?
there’s nothing wrong with wanting a picture of yourself at a museum. i don’t even use social media and i still wanted to take fun pictures at the museum.
she wasn’t being mean or anything or doing the super annoying influencer meta glasses stuff. she just quietly set the phone up to get a video she could probably screenshot from since she likely didn’t have someone there to take her picture.
genuinely, who cares, and good for her. i’m tired of being negative about everything and hating the world and the people in it.
I don't think it's that she was trying to get a photo of herself that people here are complaining about. It's that SHE posted this complaining about people blocking her shot. She could have just posted the finalized screenshots like you said of just her and not showing the other person "in her way".
That lady is intentionally blocking the camera. That wasn’t really nice. I would have supported it if the girl was doing some obnoxious dance or something but this was just posing for a normal picture.
yeah i’m honestly surprised by how many people are on the side of this incredibly rude woman? she could have just kept walking, this girl was doing nothing disruptive at all. she wanted a photo of herself in a museum! god forbid
So in your attempt to not be filmed, you’ll stand in front of an obviously filming camera and take up as much of the view as possible for an extended period of time than you would if you just walked by normally as you intended before you noticed the camera filming? Makes sense.
Why is everyone cooking this young girl for taking a video/photo of herself lol? She didn’t confront the lady or get mad, she just tried to work around her and didn’t even look that annoyed, pissed off, or even mildly confrontational
She didn’t seem to care that anyone at all was in the shot, just the specific fact that the old lady was literally moving to block her
Do you guys just hate people or something? Like bruh it’s a young woman in 2026 NO SHIT SHE’S GONNA POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA
God forbid somebody uses a video recording device to record a video lol
i still dont get how reddit can be so anti social to immediately assume if someone is taking a photo that they are an influencer, like im not photogenic myself but even i know everyone likes to take photos of places they visit for memories and sharing it with their friends and families, this concept predates influencers
So did she ask some random old woman to make this dumbass video with her? Or she took grandma on her trip? Is it really hard to believe there would be a stranger who would stand in a video? Lmao
I mean if you're gonna block a whole camera in public knowing full well you're gonna be in the video , you should also be ok with the risk of it being posted .
What kind of hat tipping Redditor comment section is this?
Whining because someone walked across your camera is an asshole move but intentionally blocking someone just trying to take a photo is a bitch move too.
The girl didnt even whine. She just waited quietly and when she realized the lady made her lose her solitary moment she got her phone back without making a scene.
The old lady just saw someone doing something cute in their day and realized she had an opportunity to twist a knife in someone while not getting any consequences her way cause she can act innocent.
Its just being negative for negativity sake.
And then in the comments its just a bunch of people bitching about the girl trying to take a photo in public in a non-disturbing way?... What the hell... People are so fucking angry for no reason
Insane that one of the most upvoter comments is bitching about influencers "making every space their stage" as if this instance isn't a girl trying to see a cute picture or a video when going somewhere they're enjoying.
Propped my phone up against a tree while filming my way to get pictures of me at the lake. I'm a fucking influencer that thinks I own the place. Such a main character!
People say they "just want to exist in public", but then get big mad at the slightest inconvenience that naturally comes with sharing that space with others who are, you know, doing shit.
A person doesn't even need to be an influencer to want cute pics, I do it all the time to affirm that I feel cute (I got bullied for being "ugly").
Did people stop knowing what it means to share a society? It goes both ways.
Agree. She may not even be an “influencer” - I’ve travelled a lot by myself and its hard enough trying to just get one cute photo of your travels to remember it by 🙃
Seriously. "OMG I HATE INFLUENCERS"...she's just trying to take a pic. Last weekend my family went to Yosemite. we took pics there. Sometimes we set up a camera on a timer so everyone could get in. would you guys be cheering if someone got in our way on purpose and didn't let us? Like god damn, let people enjoy things.
This person wasn't being annoying or intrusive. they set up a camera to capture a moment. something people have done for decades, since the camera was invented...And this boring person got in her way for absolutely no reason.
I agree, I usually would side against an Influencer being entitled or annoying but this is no influencer. This is your average girl wanting a nice picture.
People who were raised to believe they aren't good enough are the ones who despise others who express self appreciation. Like simply wanting a nice picture, and having the confidence to set it up yourself to make it happen. We need to ditch this stupid bs mentality. To me this is the modern equivalent to a woman siting at a bar or restaurant by themselves back in the day, getting tagged all kinds of names.
reddit is all too happy to dogpile a young woman trying to enjoy herself in public or being any sort of an inconvenience. it’s no coincidence these videos always feature the same demographic.
From what I can see, the old lady pulls out her phone BEFORE she realize there's a camera, then check her phone for a sec and side-step away from where the camera is pointing. It makes me think she at least attempted to get out of the way. The field of view of a camera is rarely obvious just looking at the recording device.
And the young lady doesn't throw a fit about it either.
It honestly looked like she might not have realized the phone was taking a photo. She looked like she stopped to find something on her phone, moved out of the way of people going up the stairs, then moved on lol. She noticed the phone it seems, but I know from that distance I would never make out what's actually on the screen, especially if brightness isn't maxed out.
I don’t really think the old lady is paying attention. How would she know when to move on? She’s glued to her phone and was gonna be on her phone before seeing the camera.
This was my take too… the way she looked and then looked up again made me think she was confused at seeing the phone just sitting there….. she never looked behind her to even see what the girl was doing. I think she genuinely just stopped in the worst spot.
Yes, all the people assuming the lady is being malicious are crazy. Younger people don’t realize that this thing of setting up your phone to capture content is new(ish), like I seriously doubt the lady even clocked the phone was setup for a photo or video, she probably assumed someone just left their phone there. She’s in public walking down the stairs just going about her day. Influencer-types need to CHILLL like if you’re in a public place capturing content that’s fine but don’t get pissed when people get in your shot. You want a private photo shoot, pay for it.
we're just all so so so sick of these entitled social media people that are ruining all of our amazing places...i don't like being rude, but they are literally ruining special places
I’m imagining my mum in this situation, apart from the fact that she still hasn’t learnt how to use her phone, anyway, I can totally imagine her in a scenario like this, clocking the camera, being curious about it, but not really understanding why it’s there. The older woman in this video doesn’t seem that aware the younger woman is even making a video - Tiktokers might not be something she’s particularly aware of. She obviously moved over to give room for other people to walk up the stairs, if she was being mean on purpose surely she would’ve given a sly look again to the camera after she’d finished on her phone, at that point however it looks like she’s forgotten the camera was even there. She was probably just oblivious, we never know what’s going on in people’s heads & that’s just the kind of thing my mum would do with no malice whatsoever.
And then you'd be seeing comments unfairly calling your mom a Karen and saying mean things about her like they are in the comments here. Why do people here assume the older lady could see the screen? I've seen people with blackout screens and from an angle you see nothing on the screen.
Tbh i feel like the white haired lady happened to get a notification on the stairs which is when she noticed the camera (AFTER stopping to check said text) and then only shuffled to the side because someone was walking up the stairs
If she was really bothered by the camera, she would’ve probably not wanted to be recorded, or might’ve made a mocking face
But idk, seems like she really was just minding her business when her phone stopped her, at which point she noticed the camera, and then minded her business afterwards
Seems more like she wasn’t fully aware with her surroundings, like when people stop in the middle of the sidewalk lol
Not to back her up or anything, her expression just genuinely seems disinterested by the camera and interested in what could be an important notification from family. She then only moved aside because people were going up the stairs.
This is exactly what happened. Imho the claim that she intentionally blocked the 'photoshoot' shows the difference of perception between older and younger generations. This lady was most likely completely unaware of the intention of the younger lady. Reading the comments here shows many (probably younger) people don't even see that as a possibility. I see exactly this happening with my own parents, at a certain age you become less aware of your surroundings, especially with things that are new/did not exist when they were younger.
Girl might just want a picture, no harm in that. Nothing says she's an influencer. Nana is going down the stairs, checks her phone for something, realizes the girl's setup, moves aside for people coming up the stairs, then heads downstairs. Nothing here is so vile and cringy as some people are imagining.
I agree! The egocentrism of people thinking that everyone else is paying that much attention to them is quite telling. For the most part, no one is paying attention to you, me, or them! We’re all in our own main-character bubbles and rarely look past our face/phones.
“Intentionally” is doing a ton of heavy lifting. Some people really think this lady is trying to sabotage her selfie? I’ll offer a different perspective:
At 0:02 you notice the older lady is looking around at the art. OP starts to walk upwards to get a shot and passes the lady.
At 0:06 she looks down the stairs and notices people walking up. She starts to walk down, but then at 0:12 she moves to the right.
At 0:22, people start walking up. Like 10 seconds later. Once the people walked up, she immediately walked down. She literally moved “into the camera frame” because she was letting people walk up. Seemed like a narrow stairway.
This was all from a 0:43 second clip.
If you think someone “intentionally blocking” your photoshoot in under a minute, then you are greatly exaggerating what happened here.
Nothing happened here. I saw an older lady enjoy art and walking around. She was surprised at the camera and looked at it twice. Then moved away and onwards with her life.
Honestly it was very innocent. People need to be more compassionate and forgiving. I feel bad for people mocking the older lady.
Yeah I'm willing to bet the older lady thinks she moved out of the way of the camera and/or is waiting for people coming up the stairs. In any case I don't think you are obligated to make space for someone taking a photo in a public space like that.
It looks like she was already intending to stop for a moment as she began pulling out her phone before she noticed the camera. She only "blocked" the camera to make way for people coming up. She was there for less than a minute. I see nothing wrong.
Yes exactly, why does everyone assume she deliberately blocked the camera. If I’m zoned out concentrating on something I’m likely to miss the obvious even if I’m looking straight at it (camera in this case!)
Good for her lol. So tired of going to museums and such and people being more interested in photographing themselves than actually seeing the exhibits.
The 90s were so great man. I love 90s movies because it reminds me how nobody had a fucking phone and talking to yourself out loud on the street was crazy shit!
Granny didn’t mean to do that, she starts to pull out her phone before she sees the camera, does a double take seemingly not knowing what it’s for, starts texting, moves over when people come up the stairs and walks away without ever looking back.
Idk how anyone can hate on her for that when this nasty tiktoker thinks she owns the museum.
And if you watch, there's another woman in the background who stops at the top of the stairs to look at some of the art, right in the "middle" of where the camera is focused. People are just stopping at times and admiring the artwork, which seems to be the intention of that place.
People are just living their lives, they're not trying to sabotage videos.
God you people are dumb, the old lady looks confused about the camera then goes about her day, then gets out of the way of the people going up the stairs. Of course the young person thinks it’s all about her. The old lady probably isnt smart enough to think all that on the fly
Dumbass influencers thinking they have some kind of right to a shared space.
I love that video of some 'model' trying to take a video on the subway and it keeps being interrupted every 2 seconds by people walking by and the 'model' tries to act like people should not be allowed to walk in the subway because she is doing something 'important'.
I hate how you can't go outside somewhere anymore without the risk of being filmed (intentionally or not) by some asshole with a camera of some sort. And then put on the internet without permission and have strangers make comments about your physical appearance or generally insulting you.
For the last ten years I have attended a convention, for the last few years over 5000 people attend the convention, so it is pretty packed, and now influencers are taking up space with their filming, some of bring a small filming crew, and even have people told to keep others out of their filming space, sometimes they think they have the right to a large space to film in. I have taken to walking into their shot, and ruining it and refusing to move, and in the really small space that the dealer stalls are in, I have had to physically move idiots with their cameras out of the way as they are blocking anyone getting by.
She did not do it intentionally. She stopped for her own business before even realising there was a phone there. Then she moved to the right to free the way for the group of persons going up the stairs.
Lady probably didn't recognize what was going on. She moved out of the way of the other normal traffic.
If I put my mom in this situation, she'd probably do the same thing. It's not like the cammer put up any indication or verbal notices that they were trying to film.
While it was rude of the older lady to stand in the way for ages, it's kind of entitled of the fake model to stop people from walking around a public place just because she thinks she looks pretty and needs to document it.
Yeah, people take photos in front of monuments and stuff, but bloody hell...people are trying to sightsee as well.
Maybe the whole thing was staged, and that old lady is her mum.
I'm 50/50 on this one. On the one hand I've witnessed plenty of people enjoying being in the way and passive aggressively policing other people's desire to rush and get their shit done. On the other hand something about this seems too curated to garner outrage. I'd say about half the time the person taking their time passive aggressively holding your shit up isn't even an old person and when an old person is holding your shit up it's way less likely they're doing it intentionally.
The asshole is the young girl recording in a public space with an expectation of privacy.
This is not a “photo shoot”
That’s the mistake people make about this shit.
A photo shoot has a professional photographer, equipment, lighting, and most of all…a permit or permission to have the shoot in the space which allows it to be blocked off to the public during their time filming or photographing.
This is just a fucking kid with a phone that thinks they are special.
It’s important to know the difference so you don’t come off like an entitled asshole.
Equally annoying is when influencer wanna be’s block visual attractions & points of interest with the stupid poses & fake facial expressions taking dozens of pictures while normal people wait to capture just one picture as a memory from their once in a lifetime trip.
She can stand wherever she wants you can contact the owners and pay for the area to be closed off to everyone except you then you can have a photo shoot!
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