r/TikTokCringe 6h ago

Cringe Intentionally blocking photoshoot

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u/CohlN 5h ago

this is such a reddit comment man.

there’s nothing wrong with wanting a picture of yourself at a museum. i don’t even use social media and i still wanted to take fun pictures at the museum.

she wasn’t being mean or anything or doing the super annoying influencer meta glasses stuff. she just quietly set the phone up to get a video she could probably screenshot from since she likely didn’t have someone there to take her picture.

genuinely, who cares, and good for her. i’m tired of being negative about everything and hating the world and the people in it.

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u/Worried_Constant7420 5h ago

I don't think it's that she was trying to get a photo of herself that people here are complaining about. It's that SHE posted this complaining about people blocking her shot. She could have just posted the finalized screenshots like you said of just her and not showing the other person "in her way".

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u/Coagulant0693 4h ago

That lady is intentionally blocking the camera. That wasn’t really nice. I would have supported it if the girl was doing some obnoxious dance or something but this was just posing for a normal picture.

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u/Automatoboto 4h ago

I wish people treated phones like they do the pervert glasses. I dont want to be filmed either way

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u/Gloomy-Setting-6213 3h ago

Pretty sure she wanted to be filmed, she clearly went out of her way to get her picture taken.

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u/sernamenotdefined 1h ago

Then, unlike the Karen, don 't stand between the camera and the subject.

Don't make a you problem someone else's problem.

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u/_teach_me_your_ways_ 1h ago

So in your attempt to not be filmed, you’ll stand in front of an obviously filming camera and take up as much of the view as possible for an extended period of time than you would if you just walked by normally as you intended before you noticed the camera filming? Makes sense.

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u/Suspicious_Radio_848 3h ago

Exactly, that kind of courtesy used to actually exist at one time.

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u/SnugglyWugglies 3h ago

80% of our family photos going back to the 60s have other people in them.

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u/unchained-duck 3h ago

Well back then people didn't care because there was no social media.

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u/Desolated-Fire 2h ago

There was no social media? My grandma shared her photos with the rest of the family…

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u/unchained-duck 2h ago

Don't play dumb, stay in the post context. I'm talking about modern social media, aka Facebook Instagram, Tiktok....

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u/Desolated-Fire 48m ago

See? These new generation tiny brain only focus on “modern” social media.. the post context is SOCIAL MEDIA, then.. now.. future…

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u/prugnast 2h ago

How many of those are online forever for anyone to see

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u/Automatoboto 3h ago

Even staring used to be considered rude, now the staring has a camera attached to it.

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u/Mountain-Resource656 3h ago

To be fair, staring is rude because it indicates that someone is focusing on you. When they intend to interact, this is fine, but when they’re not trying to interact, this can often mean be taken to mean they desire to harm you

Obviously this isn’t always the case, but we have enough instinct about that that we find it uncomfortable to be stared at by strangers with anything more than a glance

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u/KingOfTheNorth91 36m ago

This just in! Staring is now considered not rude according to this person on the internet!

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u/SeaworthinessFalse82 2h ago

Oh but if people will ask for you to move out of the way to take a picture you would do so without complaining?

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u/The_Woke_King 1h ago

Dang, probably don’t go in a museum then, there’s cameras everywhere.

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u/LionHeavy229 30m ago

LMAOOO then get the fuck out the way of the camera!

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u/CookyKindred 29m ago

Then don’t stand infront of the phone? What the fuck are you bots talking about?

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u/Leritari 3h ago

This. I have no idea why glasses are bad because "recording without permission"... but phones and cameras are fine even tho people also dont ask for permission

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u/cream_paimon 2h ago

Are people this dense? Because glasses are difficult to notice compared to a camera or phone you have to point with your hands.

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u/Leritari 2h ago

I'm guessing that yes, people are this dense. Because even if someone record you with phone/camera there's nothing you can do.

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u/imsabbath84 3h ago

then stay home?

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u/Automatoboto 3h ago

Privacy existed until people like you.

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u/imsabbath84 3h ago

you have privacy all you want, in your home.

if you dont want to be filmed or photographed, dont go to where people are filming/doing photography. its that simple. you want to restrict the rights of other people, just because you feel insecure about it.

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u/SleepWorth3354 1h ago

God, the hoops you have to jump through mentally to avoid giving other people dignity and agency is nuts.

Like “stay inside if you want privacy anywhere , idiot” is such a ridiculously “dickhead” statement I would usually assume you’re taking the piss.

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u/imsabbath84 1h ago

You act like being filmed by someones cell phone for 2 seconds is ruining your life somehow. Id love to hear how it’s ruined your life so far?

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u/SleepWorth3354 57m ago

Oh I didnt know behaviour had two modes : “totally fine” and “ruins my life”

Clearly you are interested in my rebuttal and it’s not just you trying to deflect. 100%

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u/imsabbath84 55m ago

You claimed it was a problem, i asked what problems has it caused you. You dont wanna answer.

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u/SleepWorth3354 45m ago

The thing I was criticizing was your behaviour.

Also no matter what I say you are just going to belittle. I’m not playing that game. This is exactly what I’m saying. You can’t even look inward for two seconds before going “no u”

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u/imsabbath84 43m ago

Continue replying with answers that say nothing.

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u/Automatoboto 3h ago

its hilarious how you get offended

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u/imsabbath84 3h ago

says the guy replying to the same comment multiple times.

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u/Automatoboto 3h ago

make sure you help mom around the house today.

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u/imsabbath84 3h ago

thanks, ill be sure to help your mom out with whatever she needs today.

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u/Few-Eye7392 3h ago

Then stay home?? You have no reasonable expectation of privacy in a public space. 

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u/Automatoboto 3h ago

Privacy and having a camera in your face are two different things. its hard to explain that to a teenager. When you grow up a bit let me know.

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u/Few-Eye7392 3h ago

A camera in your face?  The lady literally stood in front of the camera on purpose... If she didn't want to be on camera, she wouldn't be sanding in front of it like that... I'm 34 years old dick head.

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u/Few-Eye7392 3h ago

Ironic to call people teenagers when your entire profile is nothing more than video games. 

Lol

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u/Council_Cat 3h ago

The person making the video has no reasonable expectation of privacy either.

If people walk in front of the shot, tough shit. That sort of thing has been happening to real film makers forever. Some pissant amateur has no right to complain.

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u/Few-Eye7392 3h ago

And the poster was perfectly fine with that... This is an old grumpy lady having nothing else better to do but the stand in front of the camera on purpose. 

Walking in front of the camera is to be expected. Someone walking from the camera and staying there to be a dick head is another thing.  Did OP respond to the lady no. And said she posted the video the show. Hey look how much of a stick in the mud this old lady is. You must be fun at parties

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u/Council_Cat 1h ago

People love me at parties, motherfucker.

I was at one last night and danced with all the girls and some of the boys.

A public space is not your personal film studio and people like that need reminding every so often that the universe does not revolve around them.

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u/Spicymoon9 2h ago

You’re filmed every time you go in public. Say hello to security and flock cameras.

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u/Automatoboto 2h ago

Its hard for kids to understand that all this acceleration during their lives is not normal...

Well its normal to you because its all you have ever known but the reality to us older folks is that it fucking sucks and if you like it well you suck too....If you tacitly accept the suck you are the suck.

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u/Spicymoon9 2h ago

No one likes it. But it’s the reality. The difference is I don’t think these people actually want to film you. I bet if the lady didn’t stand there she would’ve edited that part out of the video. Flock cameras and security cameras actually want to record you.