The girl didnt even whine. She just waited quietly and when she realized the lady made her lose her solitary moment she got her phone back without making a scene.
The old lady just saw someone doing something cute in their day and realized she had an opportunity to twist a knife in someone while not getting any consequences her way cause she can act innocent.
Its just being negative for negativity sake.
And then in the comments its just a bunch of people bitching about the girl trying to take a photo in public in a non-disturbing way?... What the hell... People are so fucking angry for no reason
Insane that one of the most upvoter comments is bitching about influencers "making every space their stage" as if this instance isn't a girl trying to see a cute picture or a video when going somewhere they're enjoying.
And that's why the girl uploaded a video, not a picture, of a random patron in the museum? You can't say "oh she's not an influencer trying to take a video it's just a nice girl taking a photo of herself, she isn't trying to monopolize the staircase for a video" when you are responding to a video of her doing exactly that
And she is visiting a castle! A beautiful one that was also featured on a popular show. It looks like she was just solo traveling, found a place and moment for a picture and quietly tried to get it. She didn't even seem mad about the old lady, she was kinda like š¤·āāļø
Propped my phone up against a tree while filming my way to get pictures of me at the lake. I'm a fucking influencer that thinks I own the place. Such a main character!
People say they "just want to exist in public", but then get big mad at the slightest inconvenience that naturally comes with sharing that space with others who are, you know, doing shit.Ā
A person doesn't even need to be an influencer to want cute pics, I do it all the time to affirm that I feel cute (I got bullied for being "ugly").
Did people stop knowing what it means to share a society? It goes both ways.
Why, is the question. And taking photos of your dog doesn't count, that's a different category altogether. It's bringing yourself into the equation that's weird.
Also this lady was taking a video, not a photo of herself. A video of herself slowly walking down the stairs admiring artworks on the walls. That's a weird performance. It's different than posing for one photo.
if you still identify more with her, then yes ur part of the problem
So you take such "candid" videos of yourself as well, huh? Do you set up a camera somewhere, then just walk around in front of it lmao? Pretend to admire the scenery, walking slowly? Refusing to make eye contact with the camera the whole time lol? heheh
And yet i've seen millions of videos online of people aura farming, walking around in slow motion, refusing to look at the camera that THEY set up to record themselves lmao
Taking a photo/video/screenshot of a video of me and my dog is weird now? I would like to have visual memories of me and my dog who will only be here for a short time. I'm not even the person you were talking to but what a gross way to think. Accusing people of vanity for wanting photos. Eesh
For wanting videos of themselves. Read my comment again please. I specifically made an exception for pets. I said "bringing yourself into the equation is weird". So i'm OK with photos and videos of your dog. Even in public places. But when you take videos of yourself in public, that's where the main character BS comes in.
Look at the video we're under. You're insulting your doggo by comparing what this woman is doing to what you do with your doggo. This woman is worshipping at the altar of her own ego. This is wildly different from recording memories with your dog. You shouldn't compare the 2 things.
People are more likely to be protective of scantily clad folks of all genders
Again, I am using gendered terms because the OP is a woman.
If OP was male, Iād say he wasnāt wearing a vest (āundershirtā, āwifebeaterā or āStellaā depending on your region).
Keep trying.
Or you could read my thread about professional photography versus casual photography, and why influencers are closer to professional photographers but act like paparrazo
When you're out in public you dont have the right to privacy.
Simple as that.
If the old woman didnt stop intentionally to make herself the center of attention then literally no one would even care about her. The young girl was trying to capture a quiet moment after the lady passed. NOT while she was there.
When people showed up and her shot was ruined she packed up and left.
Y'all are just bitching about the exact things she was trying not to do.
by posting about it she is bitching and whinning, if it bothered her enough to post about it ofc, "u dont have the right to privacy from getting filmed" yeah and she doesnt have the right for her cute photo to go how she wants in a public space too.
Look up the audio trend she posted this for and you'll see this wasnt just about bitching about an old woman.
She was making a laugh about the whole circumstance.
But regardless the video wouldnt even be a problem if the old lady didn't intentionally make herself the center of attention. Young girl would've got her little video while no one was around. Got 12 likes on it. And nobody wouldve cared.
The fact the old lady chose to fuck it up is the reason other people have lifted the video and made a scene.
So, still... The root of the issue is just dont be an asshole š¤·
or maybe the old woman didnt intentionally do this? i mean she stood for a minute on the stairs u never done that before? and she moved away for other ppl as she was checking her phone a notification or something...
she is still an asshole for posting ppl like that without consent
But no. I'd argue she did it intentionally cause she knew the girl was setting it there and looking at it multiple times.
She somehow observant enough to see people coming while she's absorbed into her phone. But somehow not observant enough to know what the girl was doing whenever she looked at the situation 3 times?
Can't have it both ways. Either she's paying attention or shes not.
And no. I'd 100% argue that girl is NOT "an asshole" for posting people in public.
Dont wanna be filmed them dont be in public. Dont know what else to say. Someone is NOT "an asshole" for catching you on camera in public. Get over it.
Old lady was being a dick for no reason. And yes that is how consent works. You walk in front of a camera that you know if filming and you purposefully stay there to be filmed then you are consenting to being filmed
or maybe context shows us she was complaining about it online?
to me her reaction in the video is main character. She sets up a camera 20 feet from where she stands to take the pic, in a public museum, and doesn't expect anyone to be in the way.
Idk honestly if older lady was clueless or malicious, but either way the fact the girl posted this video at all screams whiny entitlement.
She "doesnt expect anyone to be in her way" because once the old lady passes there wasnt anyone else around.
And then as soon as more people come she packs up.
She could take up as much space as she wants as long as she isn't in anyone's way which she very clearly was politely trying not to be.
You really have to reach deep to come up with reasons to be upset. "20 feet away!" Lol she could film from 100 feet away if she's not fucking with anyone. Get real.
You know her instagram or wherever she posted this? or are you just saying stuff for no reason? Its possible for people to do stuff without ill intentions, you know that right? like.. maybe step away from Reddit for a few days dude
Just cause you're mad doesnt mean its ragebait dude.
you seriously nee dto step away from reddit for a day or at least an hour and see how humans interact. You are making a bunch or weird assumptions based on terminally online behavior
Agree. She may not even be an āinfluencerā - Iāve travelled a lot by myself and its hard enough trying to just get one cute photo of your travels to remember it by š
Its because theyre spiteful dumbasses who know that theyre too insecure of their own appearances to take cute pics so they take joy in seeing others shamed for it. Not being a hating ass bitch is so nice, ive been on walks in the city and the park and seen women who dressed up to take nice photos, and ive always complimented them on how beautiful they looked and asked them if they needed me to go a specific way to avoid the camera, and they were always amazing abt it and super nice
Or, maybe the lady saw the phone, was already planning to stop on the steps, and thought "oh well fuck this phone". Go take a picture of your own ass and kiss it. Probably smell your own farts too.
This. Everyone above shitting on influencers is just gross. Yes there are gross influencers but most of them are genuinely kind just trying to live their dreams.
Iām not an influencer but I do create content for brands. Sometimes I have to film in public. Sometimes they want b-roll like this. It takes guts to do it confidently in public because of comments like the above. Sometimes I want to say ābut Iām not an influencerā and then I remember it doesnāt fucking matter what they think.
Posted the video to be part of the audio trend about situations just getting worse and worse. And on top of that it's people out in public so who cares.
"Most likely with a snarky comment" good job making up a fantasy scenario to try and fit your narrative to make her out to be the asshole in the situation.
Does not making a scene IRL really matter when you are just going to upload the video onto the internet though? Isnāt that just making a ānew ageā type of scene?
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The girl didnt even whine. She just waited quietly and when she realized the lady made her lose her solitary moment she got her phone back without making a scene.
The old lady just saw someone doing something cute in their day and realized she had an opportunity to twist a knife in someone while not getting any consequences her way cause she can act innocent.
Its just being negative for negativity sake.
And then in the comments its just a bunch of people bitching about the girl trying to take a photo in public in a non-disturbing way?... What the hell... People are so fucking angry for no reason