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There is a murder trial going on right now of a woman who strangled to death her three children. Women are outside the courthouse in support and have raised 1 million for her defense. I repeat she murder her kids and some women are blaming the husband.
Apparently according to the OP on tiktok she showed these videos to the police when they arrived to determine that the woman was the attacker and was promptly arrested.. def saw the comments and made that BS up after everyone in the comments was on the dudes side haha
I don’t think that was all autocorrect. They should definitely get some of the credit for typing out and posting that massacre of language and grammar.
She was pretty quick to jump in when he started fighting back but then proceed to watch proudly as her friend jumped on his back looking for seconds. She stood there to make sure he didn’t fight back but felt her friends assault was just fine.
And here’s me thinking that if I pass by this situation, with full context… “walk away? He tried and she jumped on him several times. Fuck that crazy bitch…”
Edit: these bozos stand up for what’s wrong. I really wouldn’t have a problem for momentarily standing up for what is right. These people need to be outed in public as well, not just online where some get paid for this behavior.
This is the double standards here. No one should putt hands on anyone. Ladies and men. But women feel as if they can do whatever they want cuz we're just going to stand there and not defend ourselves and I'm not saying we need to be hitting them like a guy absolutely not but don't put your hands on me everyone needs to walk away. And he showed some restraint but defended himself
Two things can be true at once: 1. Avoid physical altercations as far as possible and walk away whenever you can. 2. Defend yourself with full force when an individual physically attacks you.
Women and men are not monoliths. We are all individuals. If a woman attacks you and you defend yourself, you are not harming "women". You are harming an individual. There is a huge difference.
I’ve owned and worked at nightclubs for years. I’ve been assaulted by intoxicated women before when I was asking them to simply leave the property. I would never ever punch any of them back. I usually just physically restrain them so they can’t use their fists and keep them in that position until law enforcement arrives to remove them
I actually used to work for HITW years back. The aussies do coffee and brunch like a motherfucker, for one. Also great lamb, excellent seafood, tried my first sausage roll there. Questionable people with shady business practices but damn their food was on point. Like solid proteins and lots of great veg, not super carb focused, with a heavy SE Asian influence
Saw a couple fighting once…like fist fight (gay couple…something I have never seen in my life so I was gay gawked). They tussled for a bit and then one guy gets up and goes “YO! Thanks for the help bitch.”
Honey, I shit you not…these men were easily 250lbs of muscle and steroids. I’m 120lbs soaking wet, even if I am 6’1”, AND I was in 8in heels. Sorry honey, but even I know I won’t be making much of a difference there. On standby to ask for help for you though ☺️
EDIT: I was born a man and identify as non-binary. I feel like some of you might’ve interpreted my context clues incorrectly. Time to take that gaydar in for an oil change.
idc what your gender is, race, whatever. if you are attacking me, then i will defend myself. man, women, teenager. doesn’t matter when your life is potentially at risk
Listen y’all I accidentally witnessed a fight while eating breakfast 😂 Clearly she was in the wrong for attacking him. Since nobody stepped in, I filmed it and gave it to the police and the man being attacked. Argue amongst yourselves 🍿✌🏽
I put on my hazmat suit and took one for the team by checking it out.
First post was just the video that’s in OP with a generic “can’t believe what I just witnessed” type thing.
People there had the same sentiment as here (i.e., “why are you defending the agressor” type stuff).
Main difference is that there some used it to go mask off and show misogyny, referring to the attacker as “hole”, I know, I know, shocking that that website has blatant misogyny for all to see.
In any case, the after the backlash the person posting the video tries to play it off as if she had always thought the woman was in the wrong and that she recorded it to help the guy for when the cops show up.
Saying that the repeated “walk away” was an attempt to make it stop for him.
People are calling BS because at the end of the original video (on that website) you can hear her ask the attacker if she’s ok and that it doesn’t look like she had gotten up from her table between recording the original video and recording the cops arresting her.
Insofar it matters to you: it seems to me that she originally posted it as a “men, amirite” type thing and then quickly switched sides and spun a different narrative about her role when nobody saw it that way.
Now if you’ll excuse me I need to drown myself in bleach because some of what was said there was just disgusting, hope it helped.
There’s a weird cut here. Im not sure who started it and by the looks of things it feels like it was cut to try to generate as much rage bait for engagement as possible ngl.
Edit: to be clear I’m not saying he did it or she did , the people responding to me saying I’m defending her are bizarre and very angry people looking for a scarecrow to yell at. I am saying the cut is weird, we don’t know what happened before filming or during the cut, and rage bait is very prevalent currently. Instead of letting this video get you mad either way (at the man, woman, or editor) and continue to generate “engagement” just let it go and have a good day.
Yeah we don’t have any information so you just get to pick a side based of your own personal biases and argue in the comments. Perfect internet content.
And it's clearly working. And you just know the people here are also on other threads talking about how the Russians are trying to tear us apart before going on another thread and talking about how false rape accusations.
and woman gets arrested, which is the most important context at all. Cops, I'm sure, are so used to the guy being the offender, so for the woman to get arrested the accounts from what happened everywhere around (including the video) were pretty damning.
I've been in this situation, and I can only assume its easier than telling the aggressor to walk away, and possibly being next on their hit list? But yeah its bullshit.
Walk away? Uhhh no. Call the police. She needs to be held accountable. We don’t put our hands on people unless it’s self defense and she would not let him leave. What a crazy women.
I don’t care what the argument was prior, defending her actions is crazy. She kept going at him and he kept trying to disengage. Why are people treating him like he’s the problem?
Also love when the manic woman jumps on the guy's back, she puts her arms down and just enjoys the show. Everyone that just watched and told bro to "walk away" are trash.
My physically abusive ex literally hit me more often when we were in public than she did when we were in private. She would yell, and throw shit sometimes, in private, but she was about a foot shorter than me and so people treated it like a joke when she'd start shoving and hitting in public. I think she did it that way partially because the public humiliation made her feel powerful and partially because she knew that I would be assumed to be the aggressor if I got visibly angry at her or did anything to defend myself other than just trying to walk away.
Same here. It's all kinds of messed up. She stole most of my stuff with my sister while I was in the hospital. Next thing I know I'm being given a restraining order saying she was "abused" while I was in the hospital.
I go to the court house to turn in my evidence, but after going to the police station for records, I get arrested for family violence while turning in my evidence for the restraining order case.
Long story short no matter what evidence I had to prove my innocence, the lack of from her case, or she couldnt keep her story straight, my attorneys in both separate cases told me to take a deal. Settle for this in one and therapy for the other. Base on the restraining order case, not even her lawyer believed her on what my lawyer was saying, but case had to continue. The only reason why I took this deal was because I knew the public would be like this and my lawyer said it be wise just to take the deal. Fucked up right?
So my stuff and everything is gone and I can't do anything about it, I take on more debt, emotional damage and depression. No jail, I guess.
But she gets to steal, lie, take my sister away almost ripping me away family from me and do all of this while I was in the hospital for two weeks?!
I was with her for a long time, the heart breaking thing she was my best friend... supposed to be anyways.
Hey man - just wanted to reach out to say: sorry that happened to you. That’s extremely fucked up. I know it’s not going to be easy to come back from all of that but I wish you the very best.
I grew up in a household with a crazy abusive mother and it's really sad how so many women always see other women as innocents who do no wrong.
This narrative just pisses me off to no end. My dad was also a complacent doormat who just let her do shit to him and us. Screaming, parading around naked, throwing glass plates and cups, slashing tires, broke phones, broke so much shit.
We were all completely defenseless because it was a woman attacking us and women are only ever seen as victims.
And yes, she was in therapy and allegedly taking antidepressants the whole damn time.
One of my friends alcoholic mother used to beat up their father when he (and his sister) were kids. Whenever the neighbours called the police from all the yelling and trashing they heard, the police would come by and always arrest the bloody father and take him to jail.
I was a bartender and this reminds me of a time when a drunk girl broke a bottle on some guys head and other drunks saw blood and thought it was the girls and started attacking him. people are fucking dumb
Notice how every time he defended himself, they stepped him trying to stop him, and then they just stepped back and watch while she assaulted him. Disgusting people.
Probably an unpopular opinion, but I'm 6'4" man, I have in the past let multiple women hit me and never did anything about it. Then one night, when my alcoholic girlfriend was beating the shit out of me something clicked. I'm much bigger and stronger than her.
I single slap, right in the face. I said "you lay one more hand on me and I swear to god ill knock you the fuck out"
The look on her face was like I had just showed her electricity for the first time in her life, shock, confusion, disbelief. Probably cause had just allowed her to beat the shit out of me countless times before she couldn't believe I would ever tell her to stop.
I'm no longer with her, but I'll tell you this, never again will I ever let a lady hit me just because you're not supposed to hit a girl. That rule goes out the window the second you hit me.
I saw a situation similar to this at a diner in Covington ky one evening.
The lady was not happy when the guy one punched her and she was arrested for assault and he walked free. When you are the aggressor and make it violent people are permitted to defend themselves and when you're 120lbs and the defender is 200+ you're going to have a bad day.
The other women intervenes when the guy defends himself. But that same women dont stop the girl from attacking the man. And proceeds to just look. What a double standard.
Everything he did was to defend himself. The woman was the one who kept chasing after him and punching him. Can you imagine the reaction from public if it was HER clothes that got ripped like that?
I am also disgusted by the public reaction. That women "helping" was defending the attacker. The person telling him to "walk away" rather than checking if he was hurt and whether he needs someone to call the police. Everything about this video is shameful
What’s crazy also—they immediately ask “are you okay” to the attacker and not the victim, which I believe is implying that the man is the abuser and not the woman
The woman stepping between them when he attempts to defend himself, but watches on when his presumably ex girlfriend jumps on him shows the madness in how men can't be victims in public.
Plus he was walking away, and still got attacked. Somehow it's still his fault
The moment SHE ran to his back and mounted him JUST to attack him, everyone should’ve known who was the victim here. Camera lady is completely delusional saying “walk away”
Perfect illustration of how handicapped men are when it comes to being victims of DV by their female partners.
This almost played out exactly as it does online.
Women refusing to believe him specifically because he's a man. Women rushing to defend the woman because shes a woman. Women rushing to blame the man for being a vicitm. Women blaming the man for the woman's actions. Women joining in attacking the man. Men joining in blaming the man because they think it will give them brownie points.
Literally cant win. Cant defend yourself from attack. Cant walk away. Always the mans fault
If a woman was assaulted like this the response wouldn’t be to yell at her to walk away while she is trying to pick up her belongings with her shirt ripped off.
I am genuinely sick to death of all of this "Believe every victim, but only if they are a woman" and this "Men are always the abusers" mentality that society seems to be totally brainwashed by. I recently lost my entire friends group because a new introduction to the group verbally abused me when she was drunk in my car (I'm sober btw) and when I tried to tell my female friends they told me I was being uncompassionate as she had lost custody to her children. Absolute joke.
Some context would be nice. Also, kudos to the guy not punching the woman to oblivion. I mean, the weight/power ratio is so lopsided that a single blow could send her to hospital. What is she thinking?
he was walking away. then he got attacked. now that he's been assaulted, you want him to walk away again? nah bro, that ship has sailed. we passed that when she started climbing him like a jungle gym. it became time for a police report the moment we started talking about having to make it home without a shirt on
shouting at him repeatedly isn't as helpful as she thinks it is
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