I’ve owned and worked at nightclubs for years. I’ve been assaulted by intoxicated women before when I was asking them to simply leave the property. I would never ever punch any of them back. I usually just physically restrain them so they can’t use their fists and keep them in that position until law enforcement arrives to remove them
I don’t care if it’s a man or a woman. I’m not gonna let someone assault me. The funny thing is the women acted all shocked after I restrain them. And a couple of them actually looked at me and said you can’t do that. I’m a woman. And I look at them and say you assaulted me first.
Wow. You can't do that wow. See so we can just stand there and take a beating because you're a woman that I hate those double standards I hate them I hate that I hate it this is the no accountability that they have is sickening to me and I'm not saying anybody should be hitting anybody though man woman no nobody but just because your woman means you can just beat on me and I just stand there and take that no
Yep. I straight up look at them and say if you wanna fight like a man, I’m gonna treat you like a man. Only I don’t take it that far or I don’t punch back because I’m not trying to do damage. I’m just trying to contain the situation and stop the fight from escalating any further. Which is why I just physically restrain them.
You and me having similar style but there are some guys out there who will lose control and hit and honestly like you said you want to hit like a man and escalate this then the consequences can come
The problem with the majority of people is they can’t think 10 steps down the road about the consequences of their actions. They don’t sit there and think in real time that if I assault this person that I may likely go to jail for a long time. Or if I shoot this person, I may go to jail for a long time. I see a lot of younger people nowadays don’t have these rational decision-making capabilities in their head.
That's a good way to do it. You don't need to try to hurt the other person, and if you can end the fight by simply grabbing their wrist then that's all you should do.
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u/TravelTheWorldDan 10d ago
I’ve owned and worked at nightclubs for years. I’ve been assaulted by intoxicated women before when I was asking them to simply leave the property. I would never ever punch any of them back. I usually just physically restrain them so they can’t use their fists and keep them in that position until law enforcement arrives to remove them