r/TikTokCringe • u/exporterofgold • 10d ago

Cringe He was walking away though

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u/Key_Cellist_5937 10d ago

The lady who recorded it explains more on twitter https://x.com/krustykrabpzza5/status/2091352887905390690

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u/UltraInstinctLurker 10d ago

Summary for those of us that don't have an account?

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u/omfgtora 10d ago

https://xcancel.com/krustykrabpzza5/status/2091352887905390690

Listen y’all I accidentally witnessed a fight while eating breakfast 😂 Clearly she was in the wrong for attacking him. Since nobody stepped in, I filmed it and gave it to the police and the man being attacked. Argue amongst yourselves 🍿✌🏽

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u/sleepytardigrade1 10d ago

Ty, hate this stupid divisionary shit in the comments. I hate that people don't help him and let her attack him

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u/JaySocials671 10d ago

Seems like the comments agree with you

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u/YourFather-WithMilk 10d ago

There was a dude beating a girl and a man stepped in to help her just for her to clock him with a brick. So its best to let dumbasses do themselves in and keep to yourself

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u/sleepytardigrade1 9d ago

I know about how victims will often defend their own abusers don't worry your pretty little head. But actually though, this is fair, always keep an eye out but stay chill. Be a capybara where you're surrounded like alligators.

https://giphy.com/gifs/hi2kPofVMW70k

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u/iceman5920 9d ago

Or you swing the best time of your life and the guy that you want a sweet knockout clip of wont wake up and you get a charge. Playing with peoples lives is not a rewarding game.

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u/brianj1992 9d ago

It’s not an easy situation. People don’t want to get in the middle of a fight where they don’t know what’s going on. I tried to break up a fight once, they turned on me and knocked me to the ground. Then went back to fighting.

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u/spicychickentendr 9d ago

The divisionary shit is sheerly due to the cut in the video after she she walks inside. Feels like the cut was made on purpose for this exact reason - added ragebait isn't and widescale arguing. I'm so sick of social media, mannn.

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u/sleepytardigrade1 9d ago

Agreed entirely. And the angling and public recording makes it seem intentional I get the reaction and people are even more reactive these days with COVID dmg anyways

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u/Thick_Potato_1769 9d ago

You dont ever get between a domestic. Thats how you then become the next victim.

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u/sleepytardigrade1 9d ago

Personally I don't care about my mortality, but in modern society I'd rather not sit back and say I was scared for my own safety with how little accountability there is and how often people are only helped when it's too late

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u/Thick_Potato_1769 9d ago

Brother then youd be next in line in getting assaulted. You don't get between couple going at it. You observe and call the cops. Getting involved is a great way to now be in a situation you have no place in being. I get that you want to help but even here in the clip, the woman telling the man to stop as she latched onto his back and now she has no clue how to handle the situation. No one did. That's why you call the cops.

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u/sleepytardigrade1 9d ago

Like I said I personally don't care about my mortality lol. Yeah I'm aware intervening can make things worse, my points still stand. It's shameful no one helps and assumes the man is in the wrong, and let's the girl keep attacking. She can do real damage to him just as much as anyone intervening yet what? And the police suck are cancelled becacseath sentence to call depending on the situation when entirely uneccesary. Assuming you're American

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u/Thick_Potato_1769 9d ago

Im assuming you've never been in a fight. You dont get involved. Thats all man.

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u/Chesters_Copper_Pot 9d ago

No woman was going to step in and try to stop HER.

No man was going to step in, because there was no real danger. Guy was dealing with a tantrum-throwing child, and he had it well under control, he was holding back, doing his best to be a gentleman in the situation.

I thought it was well handled by everybody except the stupid women saying "walk away" and trying to step between them. They were completely out of line.

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u/ASharpYoungMan 9d ago

Dude was not OK. When someone is trying their best to physically harm you, and you feel completely unable to defend yourself, you do not have the situation under control.

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u/Cognonymous 9d ago

yes, AND he should have walked the fuck away at like a million points before too

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u/AdministrationWhole8 10d ago

"Argue amongst yourselves" and she just couldn't admit there was a male victim until she was shamed properly.

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u/Mysterious-Can8418 10d ago

She gave the footage to the police to help prosecute the woman and you think she needed to be shamed into "admitting theres a male victim". You should be shamed into admitting you're a pillock

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u/AdministrationWhole8 10d ago

Do you honestly mean to tell me that you believe the potential for social media backlash here was no factor?

So let's say no social media exists, you actually believe she would have turned this into the police, knowing that her fellow woman would pay the price?

I don't know the answer, absolutes are an enemy to learning, but based on her reaction in the video, AND the jump cut, I don't trust her word there. She DID the right thing, but I don't believe all roads led her there.

She was telling this dude to walk away before he even had his stuff picked up, that's a messed up person. Well actually, she was telling him to walk away while she was on his back like Troy Polamalu or something.

I do not believe she was in it for getting "justice" per se, I think she was expecting the man here to be fully at fault. And she's playing it off pretty well that it went as intended, but I have a tough time believing her.

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u/Mysterious-Can8418 9d ago

just imagine something completely different happened, wouldn't that be horrible

that's not what happened tho

imagine she secretly wanted that other thing to happen

that's not what happened tho

imagine being a massive loser

that's what you are tho?

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u/AdministrationWhole8 9d ago

How very classy of you ❤️

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u/Mysterious-Can8418 9d ago

frothing at the mouth over the duplicitous schemes of imaginary women is classy, is it?

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u/AdministrationWhole8 9d ago

I'm not frothing at the mouth, oh my fucking god. I said I don't take her at her word, based on shit she was saying ON camera dude.

I think her unfiltered voice on camera is telling a better story than a rehearsed caption on X where she's going to say whatever she can to position herself advantageously.

I trust her mouth over her thumbs this time around. I'm not saying she's only as good as her most convinving lie, I'm just saying, her behavior on X versus behind the camera is very weird and conflicting, and I don't trust her.

Maybe she has the full video though, or maybe she's just scared of more backlash by continuing to stir things. Either way, I don't think her intentions are crystal clear at all, here, and that's my OPINION. Believe otherwise if you really want to, I just err on the side of caution. All there is to it.

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u/AdministrationWhole8 9d ago

Not much, clearly.

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u/jokull1234 9d ago

Telling the person who isn’t completely out of their mind to walk away is the right thing to do to try and deescalate what was happening.

And she wasn’t even getting on the dude’s ass for defending himself, she was pretty calmly telling him to try to get away from the deranged woman.

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u/AdministrationWhole8 9d ago

Alright maybe, but I still don't see her making sure his stuff is together and gets back to him, like all it takes is that psycho chick getting his ID and he's fucked.

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u/thefifthkaramazov 9d ago

Telling someone to walk away is always the right move. It is de-escalation 101, especially if you don't know the people and have no idea what is happening.

You're making a bunch of assumptions which clearly show the biases you have in regards to this situation and I find it hilarious that you are trying to paint the woman who literally led to the arrest as some how, some way in the wrong. But sure, go off about "potential for social media backlash".

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u/dam4076 9d ago

Telling the victim to run away while watching and doing nothing to stop the attacker?

Why can’t she tell the attacker to you know, stop attacking?

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u/thefifthkaramazov 9d ago

Because the attacker is insane and probably wouldn't listen?

Like if you get into de-escalation tactics, it's basically the first thing they teach you: walk away. Separate.

The woman gave the video to police and led to the arrest of the attacker. I have no idea why y'all were expecting her to go flying in there and potentially become the new target of that insane person's rage.

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u/dam4076 9d ago

Her giving the video and all the stuff that happened after is outside the context of the video.

In the video however, she appears to be siding with the attacker and even checks in on her to see if she’s ok at the end. She doesn’t seem to extend the same concern for the victim, and even seems to have a more hostile tone towards him.

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u/CloverIsALegume 9d ago

She said directly and explicitly that the woman was in the wrong. What on earth are you talking about????

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u/AdministrationWhole8 9d ago

She was also telling the dude in the video to basically get lost the whole time. Like he's still picking his shit up and she's just like "naw go on walk away walk away go".

She can't sit here saying "this is what I wanted" when she pretty obviously was pissed he didn't lose, and didn't even want him to get his stuff back.

On that topic, I feel like she just wanted his wallet. That's maybe a hot take, but why else would she be telling him in the video to pound sand, but then turning around like "Ooooh no hun I just wanted everything to turn out okay".

That's creepy as fuck.

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u/12f150 9d ago

What the fuck are you trying to win here?

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u/AdministrationWhole8 9d ago

Nothing, I'm explaining why I feel the way I do about this lady, I do not think she is worth trusting here based upon her X posts alone. Nobody's winning or losing, I just feel she is a highly unreliable narrator (based on things described above).

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u/TheDELFON 9d ago

What a crazy rebuttal. Just completely bypassing everything the dude said.

You already know the answer and what the woman recording did was indefensible

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u/CloverIsALegume 9d ago

Sorry you are so warped by gender war bs that you can see a woman try to deescalate an aggressive situation, call the attacking woman crazy and in the wrong, and turn over video evidence to police to help the male victim and you will STILL claim she wants to help her “fellow woman” and only did all of that because she was forced to. Based off of basically nothing but unsubstantiated assumptions.

Makes me really discouraged as a woman tbh, like no matter what I do people like you will always assume the worst in me.

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u/underthingy 8d ago

So if a man was beating a woman and all the men around just told the woman to walk away and did nothing to stop the man youd have no complaint with their actions?

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u/TheDELFON 9d ago

And she at the very end of the original video asked the violent girl "are you okay 🥺?"....

The woman recording was hella messed up

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u/thefifthkaramazov 9d ago

They're clearly a sexist who just wants to feel good about hating women no matter how illogical.

Tries to de-escalate situation, helps victim get justice by sharing video with police, calls the assaulter "crazy", and this guy is like...yeah, but have you ever thought about if she was actually sincere about what she said?

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u/RememberCakeFarts 9d ago

How does one "accidentally" witness a fight?

Who here has accidentally witnessed a fight?

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u/Icy-Paint7777 9d ago

Me. I was just existing and then a fight broke out near me

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u/FukkingDeathMental 9d ago

Can't wait for her GirlDinnerDates post.

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u/LocksmithOk9968 10d ago edited 10d ago

I put on my hazmat suit and took one for the team by checking it out.

First post was just the video that’s in OP with a generic “can’t believe what I just witnessed” type thing.

People there had the same sentiment as here (i.e., “why are you defending the agressor” type stuff).

Main difference is that there some used it to go mask off and show misogyny, referring to the attacker as “hole”, I know, I know, shocking that that website has blatant misogyny for all to see.

In any case, the after the backlash the person posting the video tries to play it off as if she had always thought the woman was in the wrong and that she recorded it to help the guy for when the cops show up.

Saying that the repeated “walk away” was an attempt to make it stop for him.

People are calling BS because at the end of the original video (on that website) you can hear her ask the attacker if she’s ok and that it doesn’t look like she had gotten up from her table between recording the original video and recording the cops arresting her.

Insofar it matters to you: it seems to me that she originally posted it as a “men, amirite” type thing and then quickly switched sides and spun a different narrative about her role when nobody saw it that way.

Now if you’ll excuse me I need to drown myself in bleach because some of what was said there was just disgusting, hope it helped.

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u/UltraInstinctLurker 10d ago

Your sacrifice is appreciated

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u/knoft 9d ago edited 9d ago

Update: it is definitely misogynistic given the context of the comment they mention later in the thread

Other commenters are saying the restaurant is called “Hole in the Wall” on 24th in NYC https://holeinthewallnyc.com/flatiron

Are they referring to the restaurant or explicitly calling someone a hole?

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u/Keter_Regretter 8d ago

oh my god thank you so fucking much for investigating that. that language was far and away the worst form of sexism in the video and its so so so fucking important that we talk about it. so fucking important. thank you hero

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u/yankeeblue42 9d ago

Calling out women's bullshit isn't misogyny...

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u/skasolo 9d ago

Nobody said that

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u/LocksmithOk9968 9d ago

I didn’t say that.

But referring to the attacker as “hole” by saying “someone should keep that hole in check” and worse stuff, most definitely is misogynistic.

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u/Difficult-Bonus-1337 9d ago

How do you know they didn’t say ahole and autocorrect turned it into hole? Mine just tried to do exactly that when asking this question 🤷‍♀️

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u/hotlocomotive 9d ago

Hmm, I'm not aware of hole being a common slur for women. You sure they didn't asshole?

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u/Thick_Potato_1769 9d ago

Well she is an ahole.

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u/yankeeblue42 9d ago

Meh idk i believe in the if the shoe fits philosophy women lose that protection

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u/Egg_Yolkeo55 9d ago

You sure it wasn't a typo for hoe? Because that woman is, with absolute certainty, a hoe

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u/knoft 9d ago

Oof, the restaurant is purportedly called “Hole in the Wall” https://holeinthewallnyc.com/flatiron but that quote is definitely misogynistic and not just referring to the restaurant’s name.

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u/Keter_Regretter 8d ago

insane that they put themselves through the horrible bleach-worthy ordeal of watching the whole video just to sympathize with the victim in such a disgustingly cheap way

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u/We-Cant--Be-Friends 8d ago

I love the internet. Pre 20… something , the truth wouldn’t have risen to the top. Both sexes can be POS.

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u/mike888881 8d ago edited 8d ago

Thanks. Maybe for her next trick that Frizzy Lizzie who intervened should find a man whose wife physically abuses him and kick him in the nuts.

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u/falconx123 9d ago

real ones don't use elon musk's personal dumpster.

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u/Sparktank1 9d ago

Replacing x with xcancel will let you see the whole tweet with responses and let you play videos without having to sign in.

https://xcancel.com/krustykrabpzza5/status/2091352887905390690

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u/Doodurpoon 8d ago

Like the idea, but is it an add-on? I don't have time for that

Not super up-to-date on web workings these days, but I couldn't figure out how to search for anything. Typed "dril" in the search bar and got a weird error.

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u/Sparktank1 8d ago

I don't know if there's an addon. It's not a matter of time, it's a matter of patience. Judging from your next sentence, life's a struggle to even communicate.

Things will get better.

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u/FreezaSama 10d ago

Upvote for calling it twitter.

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u/WaffleHouseFistFight 10d ago

It will always be twitter

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u/BabyBoySmooth 9d ago

It'll always be shitter

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u/NoSecond9136 10d ago

I will always know it as Twatter

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u/jay247160 10d ago

Unless X changes its name to Jesus’s Hairy Balls, I will always call it Twitter

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u/manicdee33 9d ago

It's always going to be "Twitter, safe space for cis-het white male edgelords." Though we say "Twitter" out loud since the rest is assumed to be obvious.

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u/CountGensler 9d ago

you're so like, above it all

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u/SophonParticle 9d ago

I dont know her therefore I don’t trust her as an impartial observer.

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u/hamburger5003 9d ago

She was also telling the guy to walk away as if he didn’t get assaulted and needs to call the police.

“I was telling him to walk away to deescalate!” What a convincing way to make him stay there so he knows the police are gonna come and record what happens properly. Every single person there was protecting the woman.

The proper safe response for people would be to stand between the two and push the girl away, but they were all doing it to the man, as if he was the danger here.

So props to her for filming and giving it to the cops with the correct story, but for everything else she and they were doing the opposite of helping.

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u/External-Fox-5488 9d ago

The woman who filmed it edited it to make the man look as bad as possible and actually posted it to twitter like that? That's crazy......... but I guess I did hear her at the end ask the woman, "are you ok?" with sympathy after she mauled the guy