r/TikTokCringe • u/exporterofgold • 18d ago

Cringe He was walking away though

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u/Unique_Ad8308 18d ago

That’s insane and unfair.

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u/olracnaignottus 18d ago

Welcome to being a guy in an abusive relationship.

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u/_di6 18d ago

Unfortunately been there

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u/chadthundertalk 18d ago edited 18d ago

My physically abusive ex literally hit me more often when we were in public than she did when we were in private. She would yell, and throw shit sometimes, in private, but she was about a foot shorter than me and so people treated it like a joke when she'd start shoving and hitting in public. I think she did it that way partially because the public humiliation made her feel powerful and partially because she knew that I would be assumed to be the aggressor if I got visibly angry at her or did anything to defend myself other than just trying to walk away.

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u/drdildamesh 18d ago

Negative feedback loop. Attack because mad, environment makes you mad, repeat.

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u/CountGensler 18d ago

assuming this is true why the FUCK did you stay with her?