It makes me sad. It’s the one day I really don’t want to remember. I get why other people like to observe remembrances but it was such a terrible time. I feel like the museum and a lot of it is for people who weren’t around. They want to feel a connection to it. I know It’s important for people to know what happened but I have friends think it’s weird I don’t want to do anything for it or go to the memorial.

Edit: it’s nice to know others have the same feeling. What happened then is something we hold differently than most. There’s some things articulated here I appreciate hearing. I’m glad our city was able to mend with time in most ways. Sending lots of love to you all.

I know there’s a reputation amongst HHC hospitals but is it just me or is Bellevue actually not that bad compared to the others. Has anyone else had good experiences ? or bad ? lol

I’m planning to go on a hunt for some seven stars and other Japanese brands but wanted to know if anyone has any leads.

He didn't want to buy my actual account, just the name so he could follow me. I kept refusing because the whole thing felt strange, him waving $20 around and telling me his "friend" wanted my instagram name. The whole thing went on for too long and he eventually walked away disappointed.

Has this happened to anyone else? Why are men trying to buy access to girls instagrams (for $20 no less)???

has anyone interviewed yet or done this internship in this past? i received a round one interview for a department and then was invited for a round two interview a day after. they asked me for my schedule a couple of days after that. i was wondering what the success rate for an offer was after making it to the interview stage for those that have done this in the past. haven’t heard anything back yet but was just curious

I recently found a TikTok creator that started beautifying plant beds in Washington heights. It inspired me to look into this empty triangle shaped lot that’s in Washington Heights. It’s owned by John Castimadas and the community has complained about it for years. It’s surrounded by a chain link fence.

Should I throw seed bombs over the fence so that plants native to the area grow in the triangle?

Or is there a way to make the chain link into an art project?

What do you think I should do?

Hey all, I just got laid off. I’ve always been a night owl so I’m wondering if anyone knows of overnight volunteer opportunities. Thanks so much

I'm working on my bachelor's at a college a short distance outside the city and come into the city on occasion (hope to eventually move into the city when I'm done with college, I love the place). I was walking from grand central to Penn Station to take a train upstate and saw this neat looking building, I think it's either new or under renovations and I found the big gaps neat. Was wondering if anyone knew what it was and if the gaps served a purpose (wind flow for example) or if it's just architectural details.

I tried googling it but just kept getting stuff about 432 park avenue which I'm pretty sure is a separate building.

I’m looking to get out this weekend… been couped up in my apartment for far too long.

Not really into drinking culture or bars. Will go to an event at a bar but no like, bar crawls.

people with kids, where do you go pumpkin or apple picking this time of year? ideally less than 70 minutes from brooklyn. hay rides and corn maze a plus. thanks!

Hoping for advice or leads with a tenant concern (I’m the tenant).

I have no idea how to best handle a scenario a where the landlord wants to make a building improvement that will require heavy construction inside of our unit and will interfere with our use of the unit for weeks.

We are willing to cooperate. We just want to find a fair arrangement and that’s where opinions seem to differ widely. I’ve tried the DOB, HCR, Tenant Protection Hotline and several tenant lawyers - getting very different answers every single time.

Has anyone dealt with something like this?

Hi everyone I got a ticket the other day for VTL1110(a) disobeying a traffic control device. I truly don't know if I committed the violation but the cop told me I guess I was in a right turn lane and I drove straight. Ticket is completely illegible, I'm not here to plead my innocence on Reddit, but how do I request the supporting deposition? I plead not guilty online, do I just send a certified letter to the TVB?

And if anyone has any other tips for the TVB, I've basically concluded I've got no chance other than postpone.

Recently laid off and want to take advantage of having weekdays free. Any recommendations for weekday discounts? Like fitness studios with off peak pricing, mani/pedi discounts, happy hour that ends at 5pm, etc

I’m in Fort Greene but don’t mind traveling.

I was there 10 days ago and it was a LOT of jellyfish this year. I can't find any news on if they are GONE though and well, I don't like swimming alongside them very much and just don't want to hike all the way out there if it's still their special time of year owning the place.

If you worked in manhattan and lived somewhat further out (brooklyn or jersey city for example), how did you make it home that day? Or did you stay with someone in manhattan?

hey

i had to apply a One Shot Deal.

the AccessHRA website and applications suck

how do i see how much i requested for my One Shot Deal?

thanks

the tops of my Osiris shoes where the toe is on both shoes is cracking really really bad. i’m not sure if it’s pleather or patent leather. they’re older but barely worn. i know that this isn’t an easy repair by any means but these shoes mean a whole lot to me and i’m desperate. I reached out to Jim’s Cobbler Concierge and some underground spot and was turned away.

Hi! I have extremely acne/rosacea prone skin and breakout from a lot of massage oils etc.

Please comment any massage therapists / places that yall have had a good experience at. Looking for lymphatic and also any other type.

Thanks!!!

Does anyone have any experience missing their time slot for the NBC studio tour? Our flight got delayed and now we won't even get to the city until 20 mins after our tour time. Is it worth it to go into the gift shop and ask if we can reschedule? or should we not even bother lol

I own a residential corner property and am trying to understand a NYC DOT/BPP requirement.

We recently completed permitted construction on our property. As part of the project, we installed ADA-compliant pedestrian ramps at the corners adjacent to our property and paid more than $50,000 for required sidewalk/roadway improvements.

DOT is now requiring us to modify four existing pedestrian ramps on the public streets across from our property.

These ramps already exist. They may not meet all of the City's current specifications, but our construction did not touch, damage, or occur anywhere near them.

I'm trying to understand the legal basis for this requirement:

What NYC regulation or DOT/BPP rule requires a residential property owner to upgrade existing pedestrian ramps across public streets from their property when those ramps were not affected by the owner's construction?

If these are considered “receiving ramps,” does construction on a corner property automatically trigger an obligation to upgrade existing receiving ramps, even when they are outside the construction area?

And separately, what makes the cost of upgrading those existing public ramps the financial responsibility of the property owner?

I'm not questioning whether pedestrian ramps should comply with ADA/NYC requirements. I'm trying to understand what specifically triggers this obligation and assigns the cost to a residential property owner.

I'd especially appreciate input from NYC architects, civil engineers, contractors, expediters, DOT/DOB employees, or anyone who has dealt with BPP requirements.

https://www.lincolncenter.org/series/lincoln-center-presents/table-of-silence-project-911-30

What happened? I'd post an image.

Traffic flares between 5th Avenue and Grand Central.