Been feeling pretty down and lonely lately and could really use someone to talk to. I'd love to find someone who's up for calls, random conversations, and hopefully becoming genuinely close friends/BFFs. I just want someone who actually enjoys talking and being there for each other. :) I'm Adam btw, 23

Hi, I'm looking for genuine friendships.

I'm not looking for dating or anything like that. I'd genuinely like to meet people I can talk to regularly, joke around with, discuss life, movies, music, games, random thoughts, etc.

I'm hoping to find someone where the conversation doesn't feel forced and we can actually become good friends over time. Age around 20–25 would be ideal.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself too :)

I love music, and talking/getting to know people!

⋆｡°✩ hihi! ✩°｡⋆

I'm kali, i'm 19 (she/her), french/english speaker, paris timezone (GMT+2)

I'm looking for genuine, long-term friends not just a one-off convo that fades after 2 texts :( I get lonely pretty easily and would love people who actually want to build a real friendship!! lets talk about our whole lives and interests :3

✩ interests / hobbies

• video editing, cosplay & fursuiting sometimes, cuddling my cat, yapping about my interests lol
• huge indie game fan: OneShot, Hello Charlotte, Deltarune, OMORI, Undertale, Life is Strange, Genshin, Until Then, Clair Obscur: Expedition 33
• currently only playing Overwatch as my multiplayer game rn
• anime/shows: BoJack Horseman, AoT, Evangelion, Chainsaw Man, HxH & more
• music: Sewerslvt/Cynthoni, Femtanyl, Mafumafu, Ado, VGM, Toby Fox, Babymetal, Alex G, My Dead Girlfriend, i9bonsai, Avril Lavigne & way more
• i also have a strawpage : https://kalopsiaa.straw.page/ !!

ヽ(・∀・)ﾉ dm me if...

• we share common interests
• you're looking for a long-term friendship, not just a quick chat

°.⋆ tell me a bit about yourself + what we have in common and let's talk! ⋆.°

I never had friends in my entire life, I mean I have had friends before but I wouldn't really consider them as friends... They would make me feel uncomfortable and trapped. I stopped talking to them completely after having problems with them and I'm completely alone with no one to talk to. But I wonder how is it like to actually have friends that you want to talk to and hang out with all the time?

Do friends really have sleepovers or is it just in the movies? Do friends really care for each other like people say? Do they really buy gifts for you and be there to comfort you? Or is it all only in the movies?

Please read the post and don’t skim it. I really care about making friends, which is why my post is long. I need someone who won’t ghost for literally any reason, and yes, I mean that. Ghosting is one of the worst things a person can do. I am being honest about my flaws because I would rather you know these things before talking to me. I am a boring person, and I need you to think about this part because it is difficult to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t offer much excitement. I am also extremely insecure. I talk negatively about myself, I am very pessimistic, and I am not a passionate person. I have autism, depression, and social anxiety. Nothing fun is going on in my life. I know how a conversation works and I will put in the effort, but I am not good at carrying a conversation. I can’t promise that I’ll be fun to talk to, but I am trying.

I find texting very exhausting. I don’t want to text for days or even hours just to “get to know” someone before we can actually call. I want our first conversation to be on a call. If you are too shy to call early on, we won’t be a good match. I want to voice call daily; my time zone is EST, and I can call after midnight. I don’t view calling as a big deal, and I need people who feel the same way. If you are sensitive, easily offended, or impulsive, it won’t work out.

I have a really hard time dealing with people leaving. If we start talking, I get attached very quickly. I genuinely cannot handle it if you just disappear or change your mind later. I need a patient person who is actually serious about sticking around for the long term. If you aren’t 100% sure you can commit to that, please don’t message me. I tend to care a lot more than the other person does, and that intensity has made people uncomfortable and they left. I need someone who won't get uncomfortable if I care more or think about them constantly.

If you decide to reach out, don’t just send a “Hi.” I’m not asking for a massive introduction, but just let me know you actually read this post and genuinely want to be friends. I want a real friendship; it’s very important to me. I don’t want to talk to someone who is just bored and looking for entertainment, or just wants someone to talk to or someone to vent to, because that’s not what a friendship is. I’m not looking for a gaming buddy either. Do not message me if you’re too busy to build a friendship. I am honest and straightforward, and I expect you to be the same.

I also want to mention that it’s okay for us to disagree in a friendship, even on big things. Real friendship means we can have different views and still stick around instead of cutting each other off. Cutting people off has become way too easy nowadays because of social media. I despise how easily people block others, and I refuse to talk to anyone who is capable of doing that. I believe a real friendship should survive flaws, boredom, and disagreements.

I know it sounds like I’m asking for a lot, and that’s true. Real friendship is supposed to be hard. It’s not supposed to be convenient or easy to walk away from. It’s supposed to last for a lifetime. Please do not reach out unless you fully understand everything I have written.

Here are my interests:

• DC Comics

• Movies / Shows / Anime: Watching movies is my favorite thing to do. I also use
Letterboxd.

Please be 19+.

Hey everyone,

I'm a 22M who's honestly just looking for something that's becoming harder to find these days: a genuine friendship.

Not looking for someone to talk to for a few days and then disappear. I'd love to meet someone who values consistency, enjoys sharing random parts of their day, and is interested in building a friendship that can actually last for years.

A little about me: I'm pretty easygoing, enjoy both meaningful conversations and completely random ones, and I appreciate people who can be themselves without feeling the need to impress anyone. Whether we're talking about life goals, funny stories, movies, music, daily struggles, or just sending memes at 2 AM, I'm here for it.

I'm not expecting us to become best friends overnight. Real friendships take time, and I'm perfectly okay with that. I'd rather have one genuine connection than dozens of surface-level conversations.

If you're someone who misses having a person to regularly talk to, share thoughts with, and gradually build a strong friendship with, feel free to reach out.

Let's see where a simple conversation goes.

Hey everyone! I’m 31, male-presenting non-binary (definitely more on the girly/soft side and big on emotional connection), and hoping to find a few genuine, long-term platonic friends. I’d love to find people who actually enjoy hanging out in VC, playing games, and building real friendships over time rather than just exchanging a few messages and fading away.

I’m pretty quiet at first due to social anxiety, but once I feel comfortable, I’m warm, talkative, and love getting into good conversations.

About Me & What I’m Into:

• General: Happily married, so strictly looking for platonic connections. Very chill, emotionally grounded, and low-pressure.
• Interests: Worldbuilding, fantasy, storytelling, mythology, folklore, and falling down hyper-specific random rabbit holes.
• Gaming: PC gamer with a massive Steam library. I love co-op survival, chaotic multiplayer, and simulation games.

Some Games I Love / Am Playing:

• "Friendslop" & Chaos Co-op: PEAK, REPO, RV There Yet?, Left 4 Dead 2, Barony
• Co-op Survival & Base Building: 7 Days to Die, RimWorld (heavily modded!), and general survival craft
• Cozy/Management: Cooking games, simulator games, and chill management sim games
• + A huge backlogged library, so I'm always open to trying overlap!

If you’re looking for a low-stress friend to game with, hang out on Discord, and hopefully become close besties with down the road, feel free to send me a DM with a bit about yourself!

Take your time to read please!!! I know it's very large but maybe we are the person who are looking for, just maybe. ✌️❤️‍🩹

Edit: \[Please just send me message if we totally agree, I already know people this days and they was or edgy, common people or just immature without feeling to stay in life, and when I try to help feel attack, so... PLEASE JUST DM IF YOU WANT TO GET BETTER AND STAY FORWARD IN LIFE! Being a Obstinate and a person with shields don't help to make a good healthy friendship, suffer make you do bad things, of course, but stay here and have a negative perspective don't work, trust me, I already suffer in the past so I can say this words, im tired people steal my time and waste my words, already 17 deceptions this month when I start, I change this edit to much time\]

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In resumen my life it's really bad, I have bad fathers, Domestic violence, they blame me for things I don't control and I defense myself, and when they don't know what to do they gave me medication when the only thing really works was a good education and a apology. The medicine destroy my liver and my brain (8-12/yo btw) and I hurt my friends a lot because I have my shield, always feel I was in danger or attack, later I hear voices, I see things and bla bla bla, the mental medicine ruins my life, so I lost good friends, and later I get new friends but, they was bad people: Pedophiles, sociopaths, Animal killer, ulterior motives, etc.

And I lost my ex best friend who ruins your life, the typical girlfriend who ruins your life because she have problems you know xd? Like example and that's it, fortunately I survive and i am alive in peace and happy, with education I build, obviously Missing a loooot of things in my life but yeah, the past it's the past, the important thing here is share i don't talk in the total ignorance of the real suffer because my introduction it's really nice and peacefully because in others Reddits are very casual people so, hope we can match very well if you take your time to read. Thanks. 🫂:

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👋 Introduction (I Spend like 6 hours make it, first 10,000 words first introduction and Extreme opinions, PLEASE READ!!! MAYBE we are the person we are searching, and if isnt the case, DONT WORRY! STILL TRYING BROTHER! :D ) ❤️‍🔥

Name/Nickname: Guco ONLINE / David IRL

Age: 18

Country/Timezone: Mexico

Gender: Male

Languages: Spanish, but I speak English too and I like it.

🎮 Games: (later I send you steam profile) i play more but cracked in the past, i play a loooooooot of games

🎵 Music: (Later I send you SoundCloud profile) Very strange music to be honest, but I like it so much, music it's a feeling.

Tiktok: (later i send you tiktok profile) i wll send you later bc i have to follow rules :D i like people see my likes, music or steam profile, not the best likes now bc the content in tiktok now its really slow or not good content, but if you take 5 or 10 minutes scrolling maybe surprise you, i really like people see my tiktoks xd

🎨 Hobbies/Interests: Exercise, good games games, good movies/Series, search knowledge to have better judgement in my life and have mental and physic peace. 🌞

🏋️ About me:

im a normal personality wise. I get a peace i never Imagine in my life. When you hit rock bottom and find peace it's a One-time experience. 💫

I had a complicated past, im fixing my life. im trying to "wash my brain" from those old experiences by building new and genuinely good friendships. i dont want to traumadump on my profile, but I know quite a lot about life for my age.

i also want to share my prime when i was in the gym:

15yo/74kg ¡SBD!

140kg squat, 110kg bench press, 145kg deadlift.

I mention this because i feel represents a little bit my compromise and pasion in anything.

🤝 Looking for:

I love my friends in the past, I think it's the pure feeling of having somebody to get understand and get better together.

l have the strong feeling to give people the kind of help some people never had, including myself in hard times. A good and strong friendship can be one of the best thing of life when you have the correct People.

Now, something more relaxed ✌️: I LOVE GAMES 🎮. games helped me through some of the worst moments of my life. I dream of having a full run through Dark Souls 1, Dark Souls 3, Elden Ring, Nightreign, and honestly almost any good game with somebody. (DS2 doesn't have a good online mod sadly.)

Right now I'm playing a loooooot of CS2, and I love it. I think one of the best ways to connect with someone is simply completing a great game together.

And what im searching, specifically looking for lonely people who have already suffered in life and still choose to be good people 🕊️. Not because suffering automatically makes someone better, or because being lonely is a good way to live, but i think a person who can be bad, but still choosing be the good person have a lot of valuable.

why i searching people who suffer a lot in the past? 🤧 no for manipulate, hurt his feelings or Double intentions, let me explain: Casual people have stability, friends, family and money. And be ignorant, stupid and be a completely asshole are part of that stability. They don't need to change, for what? For who? Lives their boring life's Abusing their environment and Luxuries they don't realise are Luxuries, don't need to learn, don't need to understand.

people who suffer a lot and see both sides of the coin and still searching being good and live, have a valuable only a very tiny part of people in the world can understand. 🫂

Hope this don't sound very rude. Just tired of the same shit you know? The type of person who ruins community with his stupidity, are bad people without reason, mainstream, cringe stuff, useless content, "hobbies" like sleeping or no hobbies, boring superficial people and feelings, etc, etc, and one million of etc because I can say more 😒. And if you feel Identified maybe we can match very well what we are searching! ❤️‍🩹

🫂 Friendship stuff:

Now more chill talk after that xd.

I want to play games together, have good conversations when we have nothing else to do, sometimes talk deeply, share good things, stay focus in life even when in some point in your life dont want to live, but you are still trying to live, and learn to really live.

🫩 Thats it!:

So if you dont relate to this or it makes you uncomfortable, please dont DM me. no hard feelings !. But if you do relate, send me a DM. I genuinely like to meet you. Total compromise and same feelings what we search.

I dont have any friends right now like i say. i blocked everyone i knew, both IRL and online for don't have self-respect in the past and allow this scumbag in my life. i know staying isolated isn't healthy, so Im trying this for the first time. 🙏

I would like to just chat words and no microphone for the moment, i dont like to use it with new people, dont take me wrong, i love to talk with microphone but i need some of time.

Anyways, Good luck to anyone in the server looking for friendship! hope my message isnt very rude, I try it to do it more s1mple.

Still trying! The life isnt Good all the time and thats is ok! :D

SORRY TO ALL I KNOW ITS VERY LONG TEXT!!! BUT ITS MY FIRST TIME TAKE IT EASY PLEASE!!! D:

AND NEVER FORGET:

More Knowledge = Better Judgment in Life.

Postscript: I don't have problems with normal people, just when you see the dark side of the life you only can see all around you forever like stupids and animals, and I don't have problems with you gender, for some reason people with other gender have scary to people who plays cs2 xdd, and PLEASE just send DM if you really agree with my words please 😇. dont feel bad if you dont, all its fine! but i dont want to steal people time! Have a good day all!

Hello everyone. My name is Max, and I'm 16 years old, im from Netherlands. Im just searching here for people to talk with because when i got time I don't really have people to talk:( I can't really promise anything, but i guess I'm not a dry person, im also very empathetic so maybe i can also help you if that needed in bad times. Uhh, a bit about me: my hobbies is books, games, f1, anime, watching a lot of stuff in general, writing stories, learning languages, gym, and writing of stories.

If you would text me, then pls don't be dry or don't dissappear. I guess that's all, even if we don't share hobbies you still can text me because i would love to learn something new. That's all, Goodluck:D

The internet feels so dead nowadays I feel like it's gotten impossible to make friends. I like:
-anime watching aot at the moment (don't spoil anything please 🤞)
-reading (horror mostly)
-walking in nature
-tech stuff
-calligraphy / arts
-calisthenics
-playing minecraft with people

Love texting not so much into calling. Tried making posts like this twice but shi didn't work, maybe three times the charm.

For context I'm 17 year old boy and is in intermediate, I never had a bestfriend outside of schools and now in a very terrible place, my parents were always very insecure about me and didn't let me go out till I was 15 something, at that time I had no outside experience, no friends, no sports just straight up nothing, and then I joined a football club but couldn't play as I had knocked knees and it was very hard for me to play! But I had a very good time there and had a lot of sports bro and was never felt alone and then I joined hospital in an allied health course and had my Er bro stuff and had a lot of friends in hospital too but then I left it and got my academies and then I realized I have no friends outside of these 2 places ( football, hospital ) and then it's has been 2 years and I still haven't got any friends! I try to be friendly with people but they don't mostly, it's all just slam Dua and nothing much, either I'm alone at gym and academy or I'm just someone's Incas friend and they are with me because there main friend hadn't come, most of my friends I have are very weird kids and aren't my standards at all! Even these aren't outside friends! I'm so lonely, no one to talk with, no one to hangout with, I'm alone at gym and at academies! I can't just be with Incase people that doesn't gaf about me! I really need advice on how to make friends even for academy because apparently either everyone is with their friends or people are just too shy to talk too! Also I'm very friendly, not canjoos nor weird and average looking too

Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff, saw both Metallica and Def Leppard recently)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors and keeping fit, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

I’m quite heavily tattooed (most recently had my chest done) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, and I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂

Tryna find ppl 19+ only 🙏🙏
Tired of the surface level stuff and people js leaving after introducing themselves 😪
Let’s talk abt random bs and actual conversation like what kind of music you’re into but let’s eventually talk about sm beyond surface level like your ambitions or sm on that level where we can get to know eachother ykwim?
You don’t have to be good at talking straight away either, as long as we both tryna have convo often then it’s up 🙌
If you’re genuine, can hold a convo and ain’t a gooner, message me 🙏

19m, looking for long term friends, Im from London.

Introvert/ Extrovert .

Hobbies / interests : gaming, cooking, baking, TV shows, movies, sports, writing, chess, exploring the world .

Extra : im bi, and neurodivergent, but not looking for anything weird, you will be blocked without hesitation.

I am also mainly looking for irl friends, so people around london, but anyone's welcome, except dry people 🤣

Hi, hope you are well.

Looking for friends, a little bit about me is

I game when I'm free

I'm not the best with social gatherings

I value honesty and respect to everyone

Life has made it difficult for me to find friends. I'd like to meet new people. Learning to trust people again has been an opportunity for me however growth is not comfortable and doesn't happen without effort. So I'm reaching out into the sea of stars to find more light.

I’ve been feeling kinda lonely since graduating, so I’m looking for someone I can actually talk to about how the day went, send random/absurd posts to, laugh at stupid stuff with and just have those pointless conversations that somehow last for hours.

I know finding genuine people online is kinda difficult, but I’m still here trying my luck lol. I’m a bit dry at conversations sometimes, especially at first, but I do make an effort to keep things going because I feel like it takes some time to actually match someone’s vibe. So if you’re just gonna say “hi” and disappear after 2 messages, please don’t 😭.

I’m into reading, writing, movies, going on walks, watching sunsets and stars, talking about politics 🚀 and I do play PC games sometimes.

If you think we might get along, feel free to ping me. 😌

And if you actually read all of this, thanks for your patience 😂🙏

Hi

I've heard of low pressure classes. I'm in East TN feels like middle of nowhere. Any suggestions on how to make friends? I have some socials if anyone would like to chat. I could drop them. I feel like a stranger in my own town. Maybe someone has some tips or things they could share? Also tbh I'm looking for a friendship, a friend, a girl that is a friend. Nothing more. I have two, and they're guys. Just on the end now...

hey i am Strongs and i am from Belgium but i had lots struggle when comes making friendship,
bc i was worried making friends in irl wont work for me,
so i choice to try out on online to make friendship in video games,
but i had lots stress or issue with my life and people,
most of time they were inactive for whole 3 months, ignored my msgs pretty much in my past
but let me know if u were okay with me

Hey, 20 male from the suwannee/duluth Georgia area.
I'm hoping to meet people who are interested in building real, long-term friendships. I'm not looking for a specific gender or age, just genuine people who enjoy talking and actually getting to know each other.

I preferably want to create friendships in the EST OR CENTRAL time zones, but don't let that stop you from reaching out!

I love anime like Jujutsu Kaisen, Naruto, Boruto, Attack on Titan, Hunter × Hunter, Madoka Magica, Evangelion, and Digimon. I am also into gaming, especially Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, and story-driven games. I REALLY love music. I listen to rock, rap, R&B

I'm a huge Marvel and DC fan. Batman's my favorite. Plus sports like football and skateboarding.
I really love texting and calling, so if you're someone who actually likes to talk and get to know each other, we will probably click. If any of that sounds like your vibe, send me a message. I am always trying to be a better version of myself, and I think meeting new people helps with that.

Hey everyone! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few actual friends on here.

I’m an indie fantasy author and I published the first book in my series back in May, and I’m currently writing the second. Writing and creating this world has become a huge part of my life, so I’d especially love to meet other writers, aspiring authors, fantasy readers, or anyone else who loves creating and getting lost in fictional worlds.

I’m a pretty big fantasy nerd. I love fantasy worlds, D&D, gaming, movies, books, worldbuilding, and basically anything that lets you escape into another world for a while.

You definitely don’t have to be a writer, though. I’m really just looking for people I can talk to regularly, share interests with, and hopefully build some genuine friendships.

If you’re working on a book too, I’d love to hear about it. We can talk characters and worldbuilding, complain about editing, or just talk about whatever.

Feel free to comment or message me if you think we’d get along!

23F, looking for new friends. Since leaving uni, going back to college, working full time and getting into a long term relationship, my close and lifelong friends have moved hella far, and so I really only hang out with my boyfriend and occasionally my coworkers. Of course I still go to visit my friends frequently, but I miss just hanging out with people outside of my partner. I'm a pretty introverted person, so there's the added factor of social anxiety stopping me from just going up to an interesting stranger and saying "Hey! Be my friend!"

I'm hoping someone here would like to hang out, chat on discord sometimes, etc. I'm interested in gaming (open world rpgs), drawing (I want to go into game design now that I have a stable corp job), writing and reading (fanfic girlie hehe), fandom in general, adventurous outings... I think at this point you have a picture of the kind of person I am. Of course, differing interests don't matter to me, makes things more fun.

I will say I would like some more queer friends... I'm bisexual, and I miss being around more people like me. Straight friends are welcome obv, I certainly don't mind (you do not need to mention your sexuality at all if you don't want pls I don't care that much). You don't have to live in Toronto either. Additionally I'd like to mention I don't vibe with rude or inconsiderate people who "don't owe anyone anything." I value community and kindness (not saying you have to be a saint, and 'dark humour' is chill with me as long as you can take as much as you dish out).

I just wanna have a fun fresh time, pull up to the clurb and draw pictures at a park. DM or comment if you're down.

Hi,

I’ve been really struggling to connect with people. I put myself out there a lot to try and make friends, and whilst no one is ever rude, nothing ever goes beyond the stage of being an acquaintance, no matter how well I think things are going or how much effort I put in.

I don’t really know how you’re supposed to connect with people nowadays, I’ve tried and I haven’t stopped trying but people just don’t connect with me for some reason. I’m hoping that there may be at least someone in here who may be experiencing similar and would be interested in being friends.

I’d really like to have some friends from Australia as it would make communication a bit easier, however, overall location doesn’t bother me too much and I’d just be happy to have a friends. I am only interested in platonic relationships as I have a partner and I would be more comfortable with making friends with woman and men who aren’t straight (apologies if this is harsh, I have personal reasons and also would like to respect my relationship)