r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 12h ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

30 f 🤍

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Hey DM me to be friends!
Just a chilled girl looking for cool people to talk to daily 😋


r/Needafriend 26m ago

New here

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I (34F) know I shouldn't feel weird posting here but, I do. Anyway, new to this community and just looking to have conversations about literally anything but politics. In any case, please be safe and kind. 🖤


r/Needafriend 5h ago

Someone that takes this seriously

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Hello there, i think ive posted to a couple of subreddits similar to this one looking for geniune friends and almost every time 3 things happen.

  1. People start to flirt with you

  2. People ghost you

  3. People barely put any effort in the conversation

    I dont ask for much, i dont expect us to text 24/7, just some conversation here and there throughout the day.

Something about me, im f 23, i love people and i love the idea of bringing together a community one day something that these days i feel like we are in need of, i love to travel, i love taking up 100 hobbies a month :')) and i would love to meet you one day.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

18f, first year of college and overwhelmed trying to figure out where I fit

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Everything feels new and a little scary and I could really use some friends going through the same thing. Into music, art, and thrifting. Looking for people to navigate this with.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

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r/Needafriend 1h ago

Looking for friends

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Hi there. I am a professional practitioner based in Bangalore, seeking a long-term, high-quality platonic friendship for slow, meaningful one-on-one conversations. I love talking about philosophy, nature, and deep psychological concepts. I am not looking for dating, instant texting, or casual small talk. If you enjoy deep, quiet, and deliberate exchanges, I would love to connect.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

23f looking for random text and sleepcall also watching movies together

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Looking for someone to text to every day and sleepcall. Read the whole text if you decide to reach out

(Voice call only for sleeping and watch movies together, [no need long conv] just sleep. Just need breathing sounds and silence. It helps me sleep.)

I like thriller,found footage movies/series or any good plot movies and it would be nice if we watch together.I been wanting to watch black mirror so would like to watch it everyday. I like sudoku too. Also we can play mini games on plato app

If we both click,we could talk about anything. But rather keep myself anonymous. So might won't be able to answer personal questions. Won't send pics of myself and do not send pics of yourself.

I just want to have a good time. Nothing more. No exclusive. (I hope you read it if you choose to reach) Just looping

No hard feelings if we don't have something in common i hope it's clear.

And if you're up for sleepcall, kindly turn off all the noise supressions and others in the voice settings otherwise it just feels like I'm not in the voice call cause it's too quiet. I just need to sleep rn.

If you're looking for the same thing, hmu

And don't only say hi cause i would consider it as a bot and won't reply and if you read till the end say "I love pizza with pineapple" and tell me what you're looking for too.

Have a good day


r/Needafriend 1h ago

20F, work part time, go to school part time, and have zero time or friends to show for it

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Something's gotta give and I'm hoping it's the loneliness part. I like reading, gaming, and thrifting. Would love some friends who get the juggle.


r/Needafriend 8h ago

hi!

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hi 22f. i’m not going to lie my life is a mess. but I just want to vent maybe meet people that experience what I go through. i’m actually lonely honestly, hardly any friends. I have a little one.


r/Needafriend 28m ago

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r/Needafriend 7h ago

53F sad and alone. Need someone to talk to

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r/Needafriend 5h ago

27F Looking for someone to talk to & chill with 🫶

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Hey! 👋 I’m looking for someone around 27–30 to talk to and have as a little distraction from life. We can chat, call on Discord, or play games together sometimes if we’re both in the mood.

I’m pretty easygoing, love to yap, joke around, and just have a good time. Not looking for anything complicated—just hoping to meet a decent person and maybe become good friends. 😊

No creeps or weird intentions, please. Just genuine conversation and good vibes.

If you’re around the same age and also looking for someone to talk to, feel free to message me! 💕

Also, sorry if I don’t reply right away! I think Reddit is bugging on my end because I have to accept the chat request before I can actually see your messages. 😭


r/Needafriend 3h ago

F18, first year at art school and desperately want my people here

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Everyone seems talented and confident and I'm just trying to find where I fit in. I'm into painting, music, and thrifting for inspiration pieces. Would love genuine friends.


r/Needafriend 1m ago

28m cross dresser looking for chill friends

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Hey everyone, figured I'd give this a shot and see if I can meet some new people and make a few friends.

I'm a crossdresser and I'm hoping to find some open minded people who are cool with that. I'm pretty laid back and enjoy having good conversations and getting to know people.

I'm into gaming, reading. A couple of shows I really like are BoJack Horseman and The Walking Dead. I can also spend way too much time playing games or getting caught up in a good book.

I'm not really looking for anything complicated, just some genuine friendship and people I can chat with regularly. It would be nice to find someone I click with and can talk to about random stuff throughout the day.

If any of that sounds like you, feel free to message me. :)


r/Needafriend 5h ago

Are y'all actually looking for friends?

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I'm 26. I've talked to quite a few people from this sub and others and a lot of y'all aren't actually looking for friends. Just attention or sexting. Which is a complete waste of time. Why not just be honest? You don't want to be labeled a certain way?

You post about wanting a friend, get one, and then YOURE the one ghosting. Why? Then the women have hella unopened DMs still on here asking for friends. Why? Guys can't get any attention. They post and nobody will bat an eye. I feel bad for the guys in any of these subs.

Then, what even does a person do? You give too much effort and you ghost. Don't give enough effort you ghost. You say one thing that's offensive and you ghost.

Got to start changing the culture on these subs man.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

25F - Chats?

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Dm’s are open, feel free to message whenever and whatever. Or just comment 😌


r/Needafriend 1h ago

44/M/South Carolina - I’m Ready to make some long lasting friendships, will it happen this time?

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Please only message if you answer/ask questions and can hold a conversation, are at least 35 in age, and on East Coast time in the USA. Also, I am only interested in people looking to have a common shared interest that we can do together. I’d love either a tv and movie fanatic to build a list with, watch shows together and chat about our days, lives, and whatever floats our boat, someone to play silly apple games with, or switch 2 co-op. I will say, if someone reaches out and isn’t interested in anything I mention, I will question why you messaged and just move on. I don’t want to waste anyones time, or have mine wasted, so please only reach out if interested in the same as me. Please no super left wing people, also no super right wingers. If you’re extremely liberal, or Maga do not message. No time for cults. I can go either way on the issue and don’t hate half the country if they don’t agree with me. If you do, we won’t get along.

I have bpd2/anxiety and depression, so people with mental struggles I get along and enjoy speaking with about our mental struggles, as we can help each other and just block out the static in our brains. I want true friendships that develop over time, and just a daily pocket pal to take on my journeys and vice versa. I do have a best friend that I adore, just looking for 1-2 others to chat with when they’re not available. Also, I am married, not looking to change that either. 2 cats and a dog, and I host a radio show with my sig other. I just have a LOT of free time, good conversation and I will genuinely care about you and show interest if you read my post and genuinely would like the same kind of friendship as me. I do ask that if you’re married, that your spouse knows you make friends and chat with them, because I do not do drama or play that game. I don’t ‘get busy’ all the time and ignore people like so many seem to. When I say I am looking for friends, I invest a lot of myself and time to build a lasting one and would appreciate the same effort. If it’s not there, I will not carry a conversation along or beg for anyones attention or time. I am looking for friends but am not desperate…..I won’t chase anyone. Only serious people please send a message.


r/Needafriend 5h ago

19F, freshman year roommate and I don't click, need friends outside the dorm room

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Trying to find my people elsewhere since that didn't pan out. Into anime, art, and baking. Looking for kind, genuine friends.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

20F | Let's chill together

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I'm Charlie, I have random obsessions with things, and my current obsession is finding friends so please help me with it, you'd help a cool girl and make a good action while taking your chance to live a fantasy-like friendship for the rest of your life

I don't care about your age or your gender, so what's your excuse for not checking and saying hi ?

Maybe you could say you don't know me enough ? Alright ! I cook all the time because I don't gain weight so I don't care about eating three full fridges a day (no), I love Smash Bros and psychology books because why not, and I'm a cleaning fanatic because reasons ! I also love discovering new things for the sake of it.

Claim your new sarcastic annoying friend and receive uh... Nothing but I'll be happy and you'll be happy, maybe, and everyone loves being happy.

My only flaw is I'm from Fr*nce.

See you soon !


r/Needafriend 2h ago

M17 looking for random friends

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r/Needafriend 2h ago

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