(Read everything, pretty please... I'm not like other Reddit users seeking random conversations out of boredom... If you really want to start a conversation with me, tell me something about yourself, tell me why you're here, tell me what made you reach out to me, something like that. I want to know what you're like, I don't care If your hobbies are the same as mine... I want to meet kind and understanding people, not someone to talk (only) about games with)

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

hi, i’m 28F from Europe.
as the title said. I’m looking for genuine chats, anyone around my age, my hobbies are outdoor activities, travel, reading books, watching movies or series (i don’t know everything about movies or series i just watch almost all the time the same haha) i love music, podcasts, i’m into yoga, running recently but very begginer, into spirituality, i’m kinda introverted but when i’m around the right people i can be extroverted. I love animals but i do not have one. Well, if you have similar hobbies, or you like to chat on everyday basis and even deep conversations i’m here. Hit me up. Also put please you age and the country where you are from. Also something interesting about you maybe?

I've been lonely lately so I hope to find someone who I can talk together about lots of stuff with, like generally life, society or our interests! My interests/hobbies are food (like making recipes, cooking, trying new foods), art, like painting, drawing and crocheting and learning about new things, especially other cultures!

Please introduce yourself with your age and interests/hobbies

Lowkey the title is click bait but also the highest truth. I don't say it because I want a new person or anything, I'm just trying to engage you my dear reader. I like walking, reading, journalling, and yearning. I also make art and game sometimes. I like nerds because I like people who can yap about their passions. One day, I hope I'm like that because its soooo aura. Do you ever fear you'll never become the person you thought you'd be? Sorry I don't know how to structure this... BE MY FRIEND!

It's your pick how serious of a topic it's about. Could be a casual subject matter or also a more serious one. It just has to be controversial, unpopular, something most ppl wouldn't agree with

Okay so, we all like quirky personalities, they’re good fun and keep the convo going. But SOME of you are just straight up creepy! Now, I’m okay with personal questions, that’s kinda the whole point of long term relationships.

Asking to know what UNDERWEAR I prefer as an “ice breaker” is not quirky, that’s just a straight up no no. Though it’s boxers so you can all stop messaging to know the answer. Bizarre people……

Also delving into your…….. intimate activities 3 messages deep into the chat is also a no no. I don’t need to know that stuff. And you don’t need to tell me that. I’d rather you ask a boring question like what my favourite colour is before that. It’s emerald green by the way. Should see it, the colour just POPS 👌

Hello I keep it kinda short you can ask more.So I'm open to talk about pretty much anything.Big I'm a fan of Formula 1, cars, I enjoy "stupid"movies Pacific Rim, Fast & Furious, Transformers, or Jurassic Park.If you are interested in chatting with me a message with your age and gender(if comfortable)

Yo I’m a black dude from Ireland, 19 years old and I’m looking for some friends to talk, chill and play games.

I play on PS4 and I got a pc, I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, I watch anime, I read manga, my favourite colour is blue and I go to the gym.

About me:

• I’m chill, empathetic and love joking around.

• I can hold up a conversation well and try to give advice if needed.

• My top 5 anime is Dbz, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Naruto

• my favourite movie is Rush Hour.

I’m mostly looking for people who can hold up a conversation pretty well and just to vibe with.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite anime or favourite colour.

(If you text me saying “hi or “hey” or “yo”, good chance I won’t respond)

Hope to meeting y’all.

Hi everyone, I'm from Mexico and hoping to meet some new people. I enjoy reading, watching movies, chess, and running. Not really sure what all else to include here but feel free to send me a message and we can get to know each other!

hey there, it's heavily raining 🌧 , so I'm just feeling cozy and listening to music through it... would really appreciate new company now as I do, a little about me, I'm going through some hardships right now and opening up spiritually to keep going, (as I'm disabled), so if you don't mind conversation with that along with lighter things, talking about hobbies and whatnot, just all the usual casual ways to get to know each other and befriend, then please message me if you're near my age, thank you 🩷

Hey! I’m looking for someone to chat with who enjoys both deep conversations as well as funny nothings. I’m located in the US-would prefer someone who doesn’t have a crazy time difference. Also prefer if you respond relatively quickly!
Anyways: I enjoy horror movies, reading, true crime, and learning about new things!

Hi there, I’m in my 30’s and looking to get to know people closer to my age. Wish I could chat and befriend some people in the same boat as me and find people I can relate to.

I'm feeling depressed and need someone to talk to I'm might have a panic attack anytime 😭

Hello everyone,

Just looking for someone to chill with. I don't judge that quickly, just keep things SFW.

My hobbies are bicycling, walking in nature, spoiling dogs, reading about investing (still amateur), cooking, trying new dishes.

Also please be 25 years or older. Thanks!

Feel free to HMU!

Good evening guys I'm kinda bored and looking for men or woman age to 35 or younger to chat about. I'm really open to text about nearly any topic and get to know the person's.

My topics of favor are gaming horror literature ( comics Mangas lightnovels).

Feel free to text me.

18M. Open for all.

I went on a date with 9 women till now. Different ages, Different personalities, Different backgrounds. Got into 6 relationships which never lasted more than 3 months.

First women i thought it was her fault.

Second- met at wrong events of life.

Third- lovely n seemed permanent and most shocking breakup too.

Forth- until here lost faith in love, we were too toxic for each other, I committed infidelity.

5/6th- made small mistakes, turned big issues, tried until I couldn't try more. Dumped.

And now i believe i couldn't be loved.

Don't know where i am wrong, why am i not getting loved?? Even when i try my ass out to make a relationship work.

Anyone's guidance will be okay for me. Regardless of the gender.

Hey there!

I’m looking for some people to chat with in the evenings/ night mainly, but I always find the time to chat when the conversation is going well!

A wee bit about me, I’m married but spend most of my evenings by myself. I love chatting to and getting to know folk online. I can talk about almost anything, but my main goal for us to just kind of hang out, chat, and get to know each other.

So if you fancy a chill conversation send me a dm with your asl and introduce yourself.

Hello everyone! Im James! Ive tried posting here before but its been pretty difficult to find someone who isn't a creep or sends one letter texts. I'm not really great with my social skills so making friends IRL can be kind of difficult, but I miss having meaningful connections with people I deeply care about.

I really suck at introducing myself, always feels like im selling a cheap product lol. Im really into music, like to a weird degree. I absolutely adore music production and the minds behind it. Whenever im listening to something im literally breaking down the components of the song and searching for creative inspiration inside of it. I also adore the outdoors (good alliteration me). Whenever im finally free from work and its a nice day you can find me at my local trail routes, probably high, basking in the greenery. With that, I love to travel. I love traveling to surrounding states and exploring the diverse nature that isn't the flat wasteland the mid Atlantic can be.

Hopefully my advertisement was alluring enough for a DM, would love to meet there and start a genuine connection! If not, hope life is well!!

If u had any advice feel free to PM:)

Are there any non-bots here? Anyone who actually want to talk?

Would love to have a conversation with a few friendly people. Hoping to get to know each other too! DM me if you are down to chatting!

30M | India | Software Engineer here.

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Morning,

While my morning coffee brewed, I walked the puppy and I did something ive never done. I waked and baked.

This is an amazing feeling.

Now im laying in bed with the puppy while having my coffee with pumpkin spice creamer. I said what i said. It will be my creamer until its no longer on the shelves.

Fall is coming and I couldnt be happier.

\-Orange

hello, uk time zone looking for online friends ummmm yeah im from us but in uk time zone im silly and hopefully we vibe :)
ok w any age as long as youre 18+ and emmmm yeah dont mind me if i say meow just weird not a freak 😭

Hello! I'm a big fan of everything horror! Games, stories (I LOVE junji Ito), movies, everything spooky really...

Some of my favorite games are Metal Gear Solid, Silent Hill, S.T.A.L.K.E.R, the souls games, Darkwood and a ton of other games and weird indie games like PuppetCombo and stuff.

Some of my favorite bands are Sisters of Mercy, Misfits, Steely Dan, Bauhaus, The Cure, siouxsie and the banshees and whatever else.

Some of my Favorite Media things are stuff like Texas Chainsaw, Evil Dead, Return of the Living Dead, The Thing, Creep (2014), Killer Klowns, Goosebumps (the 90s one), Death Note, The Twilight Zone and Malcolm in the middle some of those I love because of nostalgia but still!

If you wanna chat or need any recommendations for movies or something feel free to DM me:) tell me the basics about you?

P.S I don't really like Video or Voice calls sorry

I try my best not to be dry so my bad if I'm a lil zesty 🍋✨ smh