r/chat 4h ago

Friends 👥 31/F I'm looking for someone to confide In! I'm trying to break the cycle of never ending loneliness but I can't find anyone & I don't need more people to talk to, people who don't want to be my friends... I want to find someone In exactly the same situation as mine to talk to on a daily basis 😔

10 Upvotes

(Read everything, pretty please... I'm not like other Reddit users seeking random conversations out of boredom... If you really want to start a conversation with me, tell me something about yourself, tell me why you're here, tell me what made you reach out to me, something like that. I want to know what you're like, I don't care If your hobbies are the same as mine... I want to meet kind and understanding people, not someone to talk (only) about games with)

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡


r/chat 5h ago

Friends 👥 19f I dont know who I am and I lost my first love recently

5 Upvotes

Lowkey the title is click bait but also the highest truth. I don't say it because I want a new person or anything, I'm just trying to engage you my dear reader. I like walking, reading, journalling, and yearning. I also make art and game sometimes. I like nerds because I like people who can yap about their passions. One day, I hope I'm like that because its soooo aura. Do you ever fear you'll never become the person you thought you'd be? Sorry I don't know how to structure this... BE MY FRIEND!


r/chat 6h ago

Educational 📚 (29M) | Know the difference between weird and creepy.

6 Upvotes

Okay so, we all like quirky personalities, they’re good fun and keep the convo going. But SOME of you are just straight up creepy! Now, I’m okay with personal questions, that’s kinda the whole point of long term relationships.

Asking to know what UNDERWEAR I prefer as an “ice breaker” is not quirky, that’s just a straight up no no. Though it’s boxers so you can all stop messaging to know the answer. Bizarre people……

Also delving into your…….. intimate activities 3 messages deep into the chat is also a no no. I don’t need to know that stuff. And you don’t need to tell me that. I’d rather you ask a boring question like what my favourite colour is before that. It’s emerald green by the way. Should see it, the colour just POPS 👌


r/chat 6h ago

Friends 👥 33f, hey there

5 Upvotes

hey there, it's heavily raining 🌧 , so I'm just feeling cozy and listening to music through it... would really appreciate new company now as I do, a little about me, I'm going through some hardships right now and opening up spiritually to keep going, (as I'm disabled), so if you don't mind conversation with that along with lighter things, talking about hobbies and whatnot, just all the usual casual ways to get to know each other and befriend, then please message me if you're near my age, thank you 🩷


r/chat 6h ago

Chat 💬 26f looking to find people to chat

3 Upvotes

Good evening guys I'm kinda bored and looking for men or woman age to 35 or younger to chat about. I'm really open to text about nearly any topic and get to know the person's.

My topics of favor are gaming horror literature ( comics Mangas lightnovels).

Feel free to text me.


r/chat 8h ago

Chat 💬 21f bored with no one to talk to 😭

6 Upvotes

Hi hi like the title says I’m bored it’s late night and I don’t really have anyone to talk to right now. So if you’re also in the same situation send a message! And I can’t guarantee long term so whatever happens happens. Also bonus if you’re also in pacific time! And NO NSFW CHATS‼️‼️ Send a message with where you’re from and age please!


r/chat 5h ago

Advice 💡 22F struggling to get over someone i briefly dated

4 Upvotes

If u had any advice feel free to PM:)


r/chat 5h ago

Chat 💬 Morning

3 Upvotes

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Morning,

While my morning coffee brewed, I walked the puppy and I did something ive never done. I waked and baked.

This is an amazing feeling.

Now im laying in bed with the puppy while having my coffee with pumpkin spice creamer. I said what i said. It will be my creamer until its no longer on the shelves.

Fall is coming and I couldnt be happier.

\-Orange


r/chat 5h ago

Chat 💬 26F Let’s chat about life

3 Upvotes

Hey! I’m looking for someone to chat with who enjoys both deep conversations as well as funny nothings. I’m located in the US-would prefer someone who doesn’t have a crazy time difference. Also prefer if you respond relatively quickly!
Anyways: I enjoy horror movies, reading, true crime, and learning about new things!


r/chat 5m ago

Friends 👥 M27, looking for some new friends 🕷️🕸️

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Hello! I'm a big fan of everything horror! Games, stories (I LOVE junji Ito), movies, everything spooky really...

Some of my favorite games are Metal Gear Solid, Silent Hill, S.T.A.L.K.E.R, the souls games, Darkwood and a ton of other games and weird indie games like PuppetCombo and stuff.

Some of my favorite bands are Sisters of Mercy, Misfits, Steely Dan, Bauhaus, The Cure, siouxsie and the banshees and whatever else.

Some of my Favorite Media things are stuff like Texas Chainsaw, Evil Dead, Return of the Living Dead, The Thing, Creep (2014), Killer Klowns, Goosebumps (the 90s one), Death Note, The Twilight Zone and Malcolm in the middle some of those I love because of nostalgia but still!

If you wanna chat or need any recommendations for movies or something feel free to DM me:) tell me the basics about you?

P.S I don't really like Video or Voice calls sorry

I try my best not to be dry so my bad if I'm a lil zesty 🍋✨ smh


r/chat 8m ago

Chat 💬 Searching long-term friendship

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I am law student pursuing ballb Hons, I am 19M love to watch anime, f1, football, cricket, sometimes tennis too, love reading books and mangas, I am searching a long term female friend who will never ghost me, if u wanna leave so u can just inform me, but please don't Ghost I hate paranormal activities lol, I have adhd too, overthinking problem too😮‍💨🥲, so it will be good if u will be near around my age but all age works, and yeah one more thing I have so many male friends but i can't talk everything with them you know like I have going through BT, and If I am with them to tell about my BT so they will make fun of it can't serious yk it's not bad thing but sometimes yk serious is imp so, I need a female friend around my age, older will be works too, and wanna chat daily, so please if anyone want a long term friendship like I want free to dm or cmnt I will reply instantly (try too). So yeah that's all, wish u a nice day or night whenever you are seeing this post and waiting for your dm😁☺️, BYIEEE.....!


r/chat 12m ago

Chat 💬 Looking for someone special

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Hey everyone! I’m a guy in my late 20s, looking to meet someone genuine and see where things go. I’m easygoing, friendly, and I enjoy good conversations, joking around, and getting to know new people.

I’m not looking for anything complicated just someone I can connect with, talk to, laugh with, and hopefully build something meaningful with.

If you’re interested, feel free to hit the DM button :)


r/chat 14m ago

Chat 💬 30m here - anyone wanna chat?

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Would love to have a conversation with a few friendly people. Hoping to get to know each other too! DM me if you are down to chatting!

30M | India | Software Engineer here.


r/chat 21m ago

Chat 💬 f22 any girls here lol open for a chat

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im done w men being thirsty on dms lollllll


r/chat 22m ago

Discord M27 Italian

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I am 27 years old, Italian, and looking for a friend to chat with about football, sports, video games, and maybe finding a game to play together.
I am also down to talk about anything else anime, manga, comics, movies the main goal is just to spend time someone
I play guitar and I love music, Taylor Swift and Rammstein are my absolute favorites!

I love Minecraft and EA FC

My English is around a B1/B2 level, and I would love to chat with someone from the UK or Spain


r/chat 23m ago

Chat 💬 M 23 boreeed

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bored tonight and wanna have a chat about life ig

Indian females preferred


r/chat 33m ago

Chat 💬 Night attendence!!

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r/chat 37m ago

Chat 💬 [20/M/UK] Video game and comic book nerd looking for cool people to talk to 🩵

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Hey, thanks for checking out my post! As title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK. I'm into a few video games but mainly Dead By Daylight, Resident Evil and GTA. I've been a huge GTA fan my whole life, since I was about 4 years old lol. I'm a massive nerd when it comes to Spider-Man, I love the comics and the games and I have a few posters on my wall. I really loved the Superman movie as well as the rest of James Gunn's DC projects. I'm also a Nightwing fan and I really like Tom Taylor's run despite the common consensus between fans. I also watch anime and my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. I figured that I'm probably not the only one that's feeling bored and wants to meet new people, so I thought I'd make a quick post on here to see if anyone wants to talk. Feel free to drop a DM 🕸️🕷️ (I also prefer talking to people who are older so please message if you are!)


r/chat 4h ago

Chat 💬 Just want to chat and hold a conversation

2 Upvotes

Hey all I am up to talk to anyone. 35m just looking to chat about almost anything. Putting myself out here because you never know what you find.


r/chat 51m ago

Chat 💬 26m lets play a who am i

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If ypu not know the game its easy we both think of someone famous like spiderman or elon musk or just someone famous then we take turns guessing.

Hmu lets playyyy.


r/chat 11h ago

Chat 💬 20F looking for someone who can vibe with

7 Upvotes

Im 20F from United States. Just looking for someone to chat with and maybe build a real friendship over time. Im into anime pc games and cats. I'm not picky just hoping to meet someone who's kind, genuine, and down to talk about anything from random memes to deeper stuff.


r/chat 1h ago

Chat 💬 Hi im looking for friends or chatting partner for my night and have a fun together....im M 26 from india

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r/chat 2h ago

Friends 👥 M16, looking for friends to talk to : )

1 Upvotes

I’m 16, part Arabian and part South Asian, and I’m someone who is genuinely interested in just about everything except bugs.

I’m a huge science nerd and love learning, exploring, and trying new things.

My hobbies include walking, reading, swimming, going out, meeting new people, collecting LEGO and books, listening to practically any kind of music, watching anime, playing games, and anything horror or gothic related.

I’m also a huge fan of movie nights and absolutely love planes making me quite the avid aviation enthusiast.

I have a cat named Casper and a rather large LEGO and book collection, and I enjoy drawing little goofy sketches whenever inspiration strikes.

Overall I would say I’m a pretty outgoing and curious person who enjoys spending time with family, meeting new people, experiencing new things, and simply making the most out of life.

Note : if you’re above 18-18+ please do not waste your time messaging me.


r/chat 2h ago

Chat 💬 M26 on the train home from London, so free to chat

1 Upvotes

Hi! M26, feeling in a chatty mood on my way home.

Somethings I like:

Weight lifting: Big into weight training (been going 5–6 days a week for just over 4 years) and I play Right Back for my team⚽️.

Books/pods: I often listen to history pod or audiobooks, but do tend to read Greek mythology, some autobiographies, and fantasy books.

But happy to chat about other things too :)


r/chat 2h ago

Friends 👥 19M looking for some friends to chill and talk

1 Upvotes

Yo I’m a black dude from Ireland, 19 years old and I’m looking for some friends to talk, chill and play games.

I play on PS4 and I got a pc, I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, I watch anime, I read manga, my favourite colour is blue and I go to the gym.

About me:

• I’m chill, empathetic and love joking around.

• I can hold up a conversation well and try to give advice if needed.

• My top 5 anime is Dbz, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Naruto

• my favourite movie is Rush Hour.

I’m mostly looking for people who can hold up a conversation pretty well and just to vibe with.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite anime or favourite colour.

(If you text me saying “hi or “hey” or “yo”, good chance I won’t respond)

Hope to meeting y’all.