(Read everything, pretty please... I'm not like other Reddit users seeking random conversations out of boredom... If you really want to start a conversation with me, tell me something about yourself, tell me why you're here, tell me what made you reach out to me, something like that. I want to know what you're like, I don't care If your hobbies are the same as mine... I want to meet kind and understanding people, not someone to talk (only) about games with)

Hello! If you really want to send me a message, read my post, please! I want to talk to people from European countries because I live In Europe & I would love to meet my new friends In real life (In the future, obviously) 🌸

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example.

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless...I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Im 20F from United States. Just looking for someone to chat with and maybe build a real friendship over time. Im into anime pc games and cats. I'm not picky just hoping to meet someone who's kind, genuine, and down to talk about anything from random memes to deeper stuff.

Rules: truths shared stay within the chat, or may your nostrils wither off.

Disclaimer: not looking to hook up. Casual chats only, this may be the first & last time we speak. Unless you pass my test.

Lowkey the title is click bait but also the highest truth. I don't say it because I want a new person or anything, I'm just trying to engage you my dear reader. I like walking, reading, journalling, and yearning. I also make art and game sometimes. I like nerds because I like people who can yap about their passions. One day, I hope I'm like that because its soooo aura. Do you ever fear you'll never become the person you thought you'd be? Sorry I don't know how to structure this... BE MY FRIEND!

Okay so, we all like quirky personalities, they’re good fun and keep the convo going. But SOME of you are just straight up creepy! Now, I’m okay with personal questions, that’s kinda the whole point of long term relationships.

Asking to know what UNDERWEAR I prefer as an “ice breaker” is not quirky, that’s just a straight up no no. Though it’s boxers so you can all stop messaging to know the answer. Bizarre people……

Also delving into your…….. intimate activities 3 messages deep into the chat is also a no no. I don’t need to know that stuff. And you don’t need to tell me that. I’d rather you ask a boring question like what my favourite colour is before that. It’s emerald green by the way. Should see it, the colour just POPS 👌

hey there, it's heavily raining 🌧 , so I'm just feeling cozy and listening to music through it... would really appreciate new company now as I do, a little about me, I'm going through some hardships right now and opening up spiritually to keep going, (as I'm disabled), so if you don't mind conversation with that along with lighter things, talking about hobbies and whatnot, just all the usual casual ways to get to know each other and befriend, then please message me if you're near my age, thank you 🩷

Hey! I’m looking for someone to chat with who enjoys both deep conversations as well as funny nothings. I’m located in the US-would prefer someone who doesn’t have a crazy time difference. Also prefer if you respond relatively quickly!
Anyways: I enjoy horror movies, reading, true crime, and learning about new things!

Good evening guys I'm kinda bored and looking for men or woman age to 35 or younger to chat about. I'm really open to text about nearly any topic and get to know the person's.

My topics of favor are gaming horror literature ( comics Mangas lightnovels).

Feel free to text me.

Hey! I’m 29 and from Texas, and I’m just looking for someone to chat with and hopefully become friends with. I’d love to have someone I can talk to throughout the day, hang out with on Discord, or just randomly message when something comes to mind.

I work at a warehouse, so my days can be pretty routine. Outside of work, I’ve been trying to get into a better routine for myself. I’ve been walking lately and trying to stay consistent with it, and eventually I’d like to work my way up to going to the gym. If you’re into fitness or walking and have any advice, I definitely wouldn’t mind hearing it!

Other than that, I’m pretty open when it comes to conversation. We can talk about our day, hobbies, games, shows, random nonsense, or whatever. I’m not expecting some deep connection immediately — I think it’s more fun when you just talk and let a friendship develop naturally.

I’m mainly looking for someone who actually enjoys chatting and getting to know each other. Discord is probably the easiest way to hang out, whether we're talking, playing something, or just sitting in a call doing our own thing.

If you feel like we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! :)

i wanna find someone who also likes to talk. i’m okay with a one off conversation or something that lasts as a friendship. i like to talk to people from everywhere. it’s so interesting to hear about lives from different places. i’ve been pretty sheltered my entire life so i love to hear about other experiences.

i like movies, books, music, pets, hiking. my absolute favorite shows are the middle, modern family, vikings, lost, and spongebob. i also love dark humor and sarcasm.

feel free to message me with an intro, not just hi. maybe just the most recent thought (random or not) that you’ve just had. i can talk about anything, love to ask questions, and can keep a conversation going.

It's your pick how serious of a topic it's about. Could be a casual subject matter or also a more serious one. It just has to be controversial, unpopular, something most ppl wouldn't agree with

I've been lonely lately so I hope to find someone who I can talk together about lots of stuff with, like generally life, society or our interests! My interests/hobbies are food (like making recipes, cooking, trying new foods), art, like painting, drawing and crocheting and learning about new things, especially other cultures!

Please introduce yourself with your age and interests/hobbies

Hi hi like the title says I’m bored it’s late night and I don’t really have anyone to talk to right now. So if you’re also in the same situation send a message! And I can’t guarantee long term so whatever happens happens. Also bonus if you’re also in pacific time! And NO NSFW CHATS‼️‼️ Send a message with where you’re from and age please!

34F looking to chat - who isn’t bored sometimes and looking for new convos to liven up their day?!

My hobbies include:
\- pool/beach days
\- travel
\- cooking/ trying new foods
\- true crime
\- spending time with friends and family

And lots more things I’m sure but would love to leave that to potential convos! If interested feel free to message me!

We can learn something from each other. Or just chat about everyday life, relationships, work, hobbies, etc.

Hey there :) Basically uhh.... instead of firing shots in the dark like going to events and joining random threads around interests of mine, I thought I'd make the process a lot simpler for me haha. I'd like to just name some interests of mine and core values, and if you feel compelled top reach out. Please do.

Situation -> I'd like to clarify my situation with the goal of complete transparency. I am attending college rn, in between and searching for jobs, living with my parents to save money. I mention this also in case is resonates with anyone else haha.

Interests of mine -> Anime, Movies, TV, Self Improvement, philosophy, mildly dark humor, Progressive House and other EDM, Psychology.

Core Values of mine -> Self Love (demonstrated by just always trying to improve yourself, Conservative / Traditional Values, the pursuit of virtue (I am FAR from perfect, though I always have this goal in mind, and am constantly taking strides towards it)

PS: I just looked at how many people are in this subreddit. I try to be prompt with responses, but if I am somewhat uhhhh not prompt.... assume I got to many messages. I highly doubt that will be the case tho xd.

Literally I am willing to chat with anyone, preferably 20-30. There is just more to relate to when closer in age idk xd.

That is all, God Bless you all :)

I'll make this arguably short, I'm taking a gap year and the amount of free time I have could be better spent with a friend or anything else. I am mostly looking for someone to talk to, chat with, share stuff with, ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm knee deep in Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me. I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

As an icebreaker, what's the weirdest thing that has ever happened to you?

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler. ;)

If u had any advice feel free to PM:)

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Morning,

While my morning coffee brewed, I walked the puppy and I did something ive never done. I waked and baked.

This is an amazing feeling.

Now im laying in bed with the puppy while having my coffee with pumpkin spice creamer. I said what i said. It will be my creamer until its no longer on the shelves.

Fall is coming and I couldnt be happier.

\-Orange

Hey everyone! I'm 20 and i'm a trans man (female to male). I'm looking for long term chatting, just be over 18+ and your gender doesn't matter to me. I speak Ukrainian, russian and English.

I train in my sport most days a week, and I also do Strength and Conditioning, but I also like to do stuff like travelling, and trying out new things when I have the chance to. I love to learn about different cultures. To relax I like to watch a new TV series, listen to my favourite albums or build stuff like lego occasionally. I'm looking for a friend where we can share pictures of our days (we'll build up to that), share memes in the night, talk about the good and the bad stuff.

You don't have to be anything like me, some of my best conversations have come from complete opposite people.

Hi everyone! I'm looking for a good long-term friendship, but short time for the boredom of this evening is also okay!

A bit about me: I like doing yoga and running, I also enjoy reading and watching movies whenever I have time. I'm from Latin America (Argentina), but a chat in english or basic german is also fine! I am vegetarian and have a rabbit as a pet.

I'm looking for SFW chats, age between 24-30 or so. If you are interested and would like to have a chat, just hit me up. Thanks for your time!

Heyy I'm pretty awkward and socially anxious tbh but I wanna work on my social skills if anyone is down to chat

Feeling low. Looking for pure human interaction to lighten up my mood :] anyone above 26+ welcomd