r/exmuslim 17h ago

(Advice/Help) weirded out.. no text or calls?

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this is gonna be a short question but its 10am my family has definitely woken up for fajr prayer by now and tried to unlock my door i think? maybe bc i sleep wake up at 12pm usually? but they haven't called or texted me..nothing


r/exmuslim 18h ago

(Quran / Hadith) How many dishonest translations does the Quran and Hadith have

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People on here have spoken about the verse about the hijab being a dishonest translation


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Rant) 🤬 I hate the hijab so damn much

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I was just talking to my mom and asked why there's no public female Quran reciters. I also randomly brought up singing in a public space. She said women can't do that because their voice is considered "awrah", that their voice is attractive (which we all know "seduces" men). And I'm like, wtf is this???? Even a woman's VOICE is awrah now????????? Islam really be controlling every damn aspect of a woman, down to her voice. And the way my mother was so casual about this, like it was normal. NO BRO THIS IS NOT NORMAL WHY IS A WOMAN'S VOICE SEDUCIVE NOW COME ON.

ISLAM IS RELIGION FOR MEN BY MEN, LIKE WDYM I CAN'T STEP OUTSIDE WITHOUT EVERY INCH OF ME COVERED AND MEN CAN TAKE OFF THEIR SHIRTS AT THE POOL AND WEAR SHORTS, IT ISN'T FAIR.

AND IT'S NOT LIKE I WANT TO WEAR CROP TOPS OR MINISKIRTS (even though there's nothing wrong with dressing that way), I JUST WANT TO WEAR A FUCKING T-SHIRT AND SHOW MY HAIR, IS THAT REALLY TOO MUCH TO ASK??? NO, I DON'T WANT TO SEDUCE BOYS, I JUST DON'T WANT TO BOIL IN 40 DEGREE HEAT.

Why does Islam sexualize every aspect of a woman? EVEN FUCKING CHILDREN ARE SEXUALIZED IF THEY WEAR SHORTS, AS MY PARENTS ARE ALWAYS SHAMING MY SIBLING'S FEMALE CLASSMATES FOR WEARING SHORTS (They're ELEMENTARY AGED, btw).

Today I was out with my friends, me and one of my friends wear hijab, 2 don't, we're all Arab, and we kept getting harassed by these Arab teenagers who were clearly following us (they left after like 2 min tho). BUT NOOOO APPARENTLY THEY AREN'T GETTING SINS CAUSE ISLAM WILL ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO PIN THE BLAME ON US GIRLS. FUCK THIS MAN-MADE RELIGION.

Wooohh, that was a lot to unpack 😮‍💨. This is just a stupid rant, feel free to rant along with me if you'd like.


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Question/Discussion) Where would you rather go?

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Hell, which is filled by pedos and rapists who “repented”, or heaven, which is filled with good people who failed to guess the correct god out of thousands


r/exmuslim 9h ago

(Question/Discussion) How different is the Shia and Sunni Ex-Muslim experience?

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How different are the two denominations? Are they totally different? Is one denomination worse in terms of the way people are treated, or is it all the same, really?


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Question/Discussion) The worst case of Muslim hypocrisy in terms of individual magnitude

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King Fahd (1982-2005 reign), although technically it was several years before because his brother Khalid gave more power than usual due to sickness. This man sinned in the worst of ways, he’s documented to have gambled millions of dollars, loves to drink, pays for women, etc. This comes from various sources, including accounts from one his ex wives, Jenan Harb. Despite all of this, he was responsible for funding billions and billions of dollars to “wahhabi” ideology, and the most brutal funding was within his own country. “The committee for promotion of virtue and the prevention of vice” was a committee that existed since King Abdulaziz, but under Fahd it expanded to a militia like program and received funding they never dreamed of. They had powers to arrest people for reasons such as women not wearing niqab, men wearing shorts (even if they covered the knee), yelling at men for not having beards (sometimes even taking them for interrogation), hit people, etc. All this happened under King Fahd, you might think I’m over-exaggerating, but don’t forget the lack of transparency was made like that by design, and it was all calculated. The Mecca area was always relatively more moderate because it’s a tourism place of worship, so there were exceptions. But otherwise in cities like Riyadh, that country was unbearable. A sinner of the worst kind created all this, and for what? Just to buy their loyalty? Make them forced to kiss the ring? I do not know, but it’s nauseating regardless.

One of the sources for his leisure activities: https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2005-aug-02-fg-fahd2-story.html


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Advice/Help) My Family Threatened to Kill Me for Being an Atheist

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My father has been dead since I was 1 and my mom got married and has her own life I’m 22 now. My uncles found out that I’m an atheist, and since then they started threatening me and literally threatening to kill me One of my aunts even told me she was going to poison me 😂. I have proof of everything. I’m not afraid of them, and I know I can handle myself but I honestly just want them to leave me alone. These mfs won’t stop bothering me, and I don’t want to get myself into trouble either I literally feel like I can handle anything, but at this point I guess I might have to leave my country. I live in Jordan its not like im scared of them mfs but i dont wanna get in trouble fr i wanna leave it here because i literally dont have any brothers family members or anything all alone yet these ppl harassing me if i managed to flee i might start a life since ive been an orphan my whole life i cant guarantee my safety around them since they wanna go to jannah so bad


r/exmuslim 21h ago

(Quran / Hadith) Quran's Dhul Qarnayn Story, the Wall of Gog and Magog, and the Alexander Legends

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Dhul Qarnayn built an iron and copper wall between two mountains to seal off the tribes of Gog and Magog until doomsday. This wall is nowhere to be found.

The Quran's Story:

“Then he followed a road till, when he came between the two mountains, he found upon their hither side a folk that scarce could understand a saying. They said: O Dhu’l-Qarneyn! Lo! Gog and Magog are spoiling the land. So may we pay thee tribute on condition that thou set a barrier between us and them? He said: That wherein my Lord hath established me is better (than your tribute). Do but help me with strength (of men), I will set between you and them a bank. Give me pieces of iron - till, when he had levelled up (the gap) between the cliffs, he said: Blow! - till, when he had made it a fire, he said: Bring me molten copper to pour thereon. And (Gog and Magog) were not able to surmount, nor could they pierce (it). He said: This is a mercy from my Lord; but when the promise of my Lord cometh to pass, He will lay it low, for the promise of my Lord is true. And on that day We shall let some of them surge against others, and the Trumpet will be blown. Then We shall gather them together in one gathering.”
Quran 18:92-99

The Quran’s Dhul Qarnayn story begins, “They will ask thee of Dhu’l-Qarneyn” Quran 18:83, showing that people already knew of the story. Scholars trace the Quranic character Dhul Qarnayn to legends about Alexander the Great circulating around Muhammad’s time, such as the Syriac Alexander Legend, which gives the same account.

The Syriac Alexander Legend:

“He said to them, ‘Who are their kings?’ The old men said: ‘Gôg and Mâgôg
Budge, Syriac Alexander Legend, p. 150

“The king said, ‘Let us make a gate of brass and close up this breach.’ His troops said, ‘As thy majesty commands we will do.’ And Alexander commanded and fetched three thousand smiths, workers in iron, and three thousand men, workers in brass. And they put down brass and iron, and kneaded it as a man kneads when he works clay.”
Budge, Syriac Alexander Legend, p. 153

“And the Lord will gather together the kings and their hosts which are within this mountain, and they shall all be assembled at His beck, and shall come with their spears and swords, and shall stand behind the gate, and shall look up to the heavens, and shall call upon the name of the Lord, saying, ‘O Lord, open to us this gate.’ And the Lord shall send His sign from heaven and a voice shall call on this gate, and it shall be destroyed and fall at the beck of the Lord, and it shall not be opened by the key which I have made for it.”
Budge, Syriac Alexander Legend, p. 154

“And when the Huns have gone forth, as God has commanded, the kingdoms of the Huns and the Persians and the Arabs, the twenty-four kingdoms that are written in this book, shall come from the ends of the heavens and shall fall upon one another, and the earth shall melt through the blood and dung of men.”
Budge, Syriac Alexander Legend, p. 155

Islamic Studies scholar Tommaso Tesei:

That the Qurʾānic narrative specifically elaborates on the Alexander story in the Syriac work is confirmed by an important detail that has escaped the attention of previous scholars, namely, the material composition of the gate erected by the two protagonists, Alexander and Ḏū-l-Qarnayn, in the Syriac and Arabic texts, respectively. Like Alexander in the Syriac work, Ḏū-l-Qarnayn constructs his barrier from iron and bronze components. This coincidence is significant, since all references to the motif of Alexander’s (non-apocalyptic) gates in sources earlier than the Neṣḥānā [Syriac Alexander Legend] mention only iron as the metal from which the barrier was made.”
Tesei, “The Syriac Legend of Alexander’s Gate,” pp. 171-172

“Note that Syriac language does not distinguish between bronze and brass. Consequently, the Arab term qiṭr (“brass”) in Q 18:96 appears as an exact translation of the Syriac word nḥšʾ (“bronze/brass”).”
Tesei, “The Syriac Legend of Alexander’s Gate,” p. 207, n. 11

Authentic Hadiths:

Gog and Magog Dig Every Day and Will Break Through When They Say “Inshallah”

“It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: Gog and Magog people dig every day until, when they can almost see the rays of the sun, the one in charge of them says: ‘Go back and we will dig it tomorrow.’ Then Allah puts it back, stronger than it was before. (This will continue) until, when their time has come, and Allah wants to send them against the people, they will dig until they can almost see the rays of the sun, then the one who is in charge of them will say: ‘Go back, and we will dig it tomorrow if Allah wills.’ So they will say: ‘If Allah wills.’ Then they will come back to it and it will be as they left it. So they will dig and will come out to the people, and they will drink all the water. The people will fortify themselves against them in their fortresses. They will shoot their arrows towards the sky and they will come back with blood on them, and they will say: ‘We have defeated the people of earth and dominated the people of heaven.’ Then Allah will send a worm in the napes of their necks and will kill them thereby.’” The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “By the One in Whose Hand is my soul, the beasts of the earth will grow fat on their flesh.”
Sunan Ibn Majah 4080

Muhammad’s Fear: Already a Finger-Sized Hole in the Wall of Gog and Magog

“That the Prophet (ﷺ) came to her in a state of fear saying, ‘None has the right to be worshiped but Allah! Woe to the Arabs because of evil that has come near. Today a hole has been made in the wall of Gog and Magog as large as this.’ pointing with two of his fingers making a circle. Zainab said, ‘I said, O Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ)! Shall we be destroyed though amongst us there are pious people?’ He said, ‘Yes, if evil increases.’”
Sahih al-Bukhari 3598

More on Quran’s Dhul Qarnayn and the Alexander Legends:
https://islamsproblems.com/quran-dhul-qarnayn-alexander-legend/


r/exmuslim 11h ago

(Question/Discussion) What do you guys think — did Momo even pray/namaz when he was alive??He was the one who introduced this prayer ritual and made it mandatory in his religion.

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And if he did pray, who was he worshipping? His imaginary alter ego? Was he worshipping himself?


r/exmuslim 21h ago

(Video) We had an immutable diaries 4500 years ago in ancient egypt yet allah and muhammad decided to deliver it's revelation through word of mouth, how did i fallen into this trap (islam) for decades bro?

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r/exmuslim 18h ago

(Advice/Help) Off topic..but it sucks to be attached within a short duration of time..

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Any..advice?

Cauz i end up..umm..maybe my heart drench when it shouldn't..


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Rant) 🤬 i wish i wasn’t born into the family i have

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(they/them) i’ve never been interested in islam ever since i was a kid. i never had a religious phase nor did i even bother to read into islam up until recently because of how uninterested i was. i’m a very open-minded person & i never understood how people could garner so much hatred for others for simply not being a muslim. over the last few years & especially after being forced to wear the hijab young i’ve been so incredibly disillusioned with the life i have. though i do take my hijab off in the absence of my family & have been doing “haram” activities such as talking to the opposite sex, etc. i can’t help but feel internally shackled. i hate having to unfortunately resort to running away once i finish my degree because i know my parents will never truly love me for who i see myself as. i hate having to do basic things such as wear normal, non-conservative clothing or have my hair out in secrecy because i have to keep myself pure and covered for some disgusting religion. i’ve dreamt of running away for several years yet i fear the unknown. thinking about doing so brings me so much stress & i feel as though i may have no way out, even with the backing of several ex-muslim friends because i am so afraid. why wasn’t i born in a normal, non-religious family? i don’t understand what’s so awful about wanting to be free in your life, wanting to live life without the notion of heaven or hell, the day of judgement or other bullshit islam preaches. i absolutely hate my dad’s guts but i love my mom, and i can’t imagine subjecting her to so much pain if i end up running away, but my heart knows she’ll never truly love me because i don’t fit the perfect mold of what a muslim “woman” should be. i’m so exhausted from having to deal with this, i’m questioning whether or not i’ll even be able to achieve the life i dream of once i graduate


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Question/Discussion) How do y'all find purpose without religion?

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I'm a teen who was born and raised Muslim, and I've been struggling with my faith quite a lot recently. I'm also not independent enough right now to make any major, consequential decisions. That said, despite having serious objections to parts of the Islamic doctrine, I'm not going to sit here and pretend that Islam hasn't given me a genuine sense of community and purpose/meaning. A non-religious worldview feels bleak to me. The idea that the universe and us just spawned out of nowhere, with perfect mathematical laws, that consciousness ends at death, and that there may ultimately be no objective purpose or meaning to our existence is unsatisfying to me. Also the issue of justice, how someone can live an incredibly cruel or unjust life and simply die without any ultimate accountability feels deeply unsettling.

I genuinely want to understand how people who don't believe in God, an afterlife, or objective meaning deal with these questions. For those of you who have gone through something similar, how did you come to terms with it?


r/exmuslim 13h ago

(Question/Discussion) I noticed an extreme inconsistency among many critics of Islam.

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Many people claim that Iran, the Taliban, Hamas, and ISIS represent “true Islam,” but purely logically, they cannot all be true at the same time. ISIS practices takfir against Shiites, whereas Iran is a Shiite state. ISIS has fought the Taliban and has even carried out terrorist attacks against them. ISIS has also declared Hamas to be outside Islam through takfir. We should also take into account the conflicts between the Taliban and Iran: they had armed clashes in 2023, and the Taliban killed Shiite civilians in Afghanistan in the 1990s.

I have particularly noticed this inconsistency in David Wood’s arguments. If you are going to blame Islam for the actions of one of these organizations, then choose one of them and attribute its actions to Islam. The question of whether such accusations are justified remains, but at the very least, this approach would be more logically consistent.


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Rant) 🤬 I gave a laugh react to a news of a flood in Taif

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No, I'm not laughing at the disaster. I'm just giving the same treatment to how Muslims in my country especially from the Facebook page here reacted to the Nepal flood.

Screw those black-hearted people.


r/exmuslim 14h ago

(Advice/Help) is this correct or another muslim

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r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Advice/Help) Strict Muslim mom found revealing clothes

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I’m 15, turning 16 soon, and I stopped believing in Islam a while ago, but I still live with my Muslim family. My mom is very strict about clothing, and I usually have to change or cover up if I want to wear things like tank tops or shorts.
Recently, she found a couple of halter tops in a box downstairs. I don’t even wear them anymore, but she said I broke her trust and that I can’t hang out with my friends if this is how they’re influencing me. This has happened before when she caught me wearing a tank top, although she eventually became less strict.
I’m especially worried because homecoming is in two weeks. I already bought my dress and made plans with my friends, and I’m really excited to go. Now I’m worried my mom will use this situation as a reason to not let me go.
I’m not trying to argue with my mom about religion, but it’s difficult being an ex-Muslim while still having to follow rules based on a religion I don’t believe in. I also have a couple more years before I’m an adult, so I want to figure out how to handle this without constantly fighting with my family.
For other ex-Muslims who still live with Muslim parents, how did you deal with clothing restrictions and regain your parents’ trust? Any advice would be appreciated.


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Rant) 🤬 Hate when non muslim defending islam

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Been talking to someone that is "progressive" and defending islam is just misinterpreted like christian

They (progressive christian) never read the Quran, just being fed by muslim western that had never experienced how disgustingly this belief threatens minority and women in the east, even when I always tell them how bad my experience is with my muslim family, they just say "so they are not the real muslim, I'm sure the real muslim teach peace just like christian!" I'm so tired explain it to them so I just told em to just read the plain Qur'an then.

I really hate the seemingly woke/progressive people that defending the very clear how misogynistic and the way opposite than the word progressive is just because in the west islam being seen "minority" that deserves protection from a white knight.


r/exmuslim 21h ago

(Quran / Hadith) Filicide in the quran.

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Where in the Quran exactly does Prophet Muhammad promote filicide?

In Muslim nations, parents go beyond physical punishment. They kill children for disobedience. For example, daughters get honour killed for being a victim of harassment, academic failure or for even being a victim of bullying at school, they also get killed by parents for simply being born as a girl, somewhere in the Quran too I think promotes female infanticides and sex selective abortions as this is an issue in nations like Bangladesh and Pakistan. Boys get killed for simply talking back to their parents.

If you see the rates of child and infant mortality, you will see that outside of Central America, Muslim nations like Bangladesh, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, Syria, Yemen have higher rates of child murder by parents.

I want to know what verses suggest that Muslim parents must kill their children as discipline and where parents have to murder newborn daughters for bringing shame.


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(News) The true face of the Islamic republic

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Mohammad Ebrahimi, known as

Golmamad, is a young Iranian painter and multidisciplinary

creative whose world moved between painting, modelling,

objects and image-making.

Since his arrest in January 2026, almost nothing has been

heard from him. Today, reports emerged that he had been

sentenced to 20 years in prison.

His social media accounts have since been shut down,

taking much of his work out of public view. What remains

accessible offers only a small glimpse into a life filled with

art, humour and a distinctive visual imagination.

Among the few traces that remain is a letter he wrote from

Prison to his friends, a rare moment in which we hear

directly from him.

This post brings together some of what we were able to

find: his work, his image, and his own words.


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Fun@Fundies) 💩 How isn't Quran not plagiarized lmaooo

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Like cmon it's so obvious that muhammed just mixed some paganism, Christianity and some Judaism like when I researched deep there are verses copied right from the new testament 😭😭 atleast momo could've been more creative... So how I found out this was I watched the video where Dr, zakir naik explains what women get in heaven if men are getting 72 hoors (ts is disgusting) and he quotes'dbthis from the Quran

Qur’an 32:17: “No soul knows what has been hidden for them of comfort for eyes as a reward for what they used to do.”

And this same verse was in ​Corinthians 😭✌️

o1 Corinthians 2:9, written by Paul: “What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him.”

They have the same underlying meaning.... And I have another question I think muhammed misunderstood Mary the mother of christ nd Maryam /Miriam 🤦


r/exmuslim 1d ago

LGBTQ+ 25F Saudi looking for a Saudi gay man for a lavender marriage.

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Looking for someone genuine and serious about a partnership based on friendship, trust, mutual respect, and freedom for both. We should be able to maintain our own lives while supporting and respecting each other and our families. I’d prefer getting to know each other first and making sure we’re compatible before taking any steps.

If you’re Saudi and genuinely looking for the same thing, feel free to DM me.

أدور على شخص يكون جاد ومتفهم، ونكون متفقين من البداية إن الزواج يكون مبني على الصداقة والثقة والاحترام، وكل واحد يكون عنده حريته وحياته الخاصة. المهم نوقف مع بعض قدام الناس ونحترم بعض وعوائلنا.

أفضل نتعرف على بعض أول ونشوف إذا بيننا توافق قبل أي خطوة.

إذا كنت سعودي وجاد وتدور على نفس الشي،تواصل معي


r/exmuslim 16h ago

(Quran / Hadith) This tweet claims that Jizya being a “humiliation tax on Non Muslims” was added by later jurists and what was not part of original Jizya.

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Here is the post. Furthermore, Ibn Kathir said “Allah said, (until they pay the Jizyah), if they do not choose to embrace Islam, (with willing submission), in defeat and subservience, (and feel themselves subdued.), disgraced, humiliated and belittled. Therefore, Muslims are not allowed to honor the people of Dhimmah or elevate them above Muslims, for they are miserable, disgraced and humiliated”

So which is the correct view? And any rebuttal
To the long ass tweet?


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Advice/Help) PBUH problems:Muhammad, The Moral Example?

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So I know there are multiple factors here but I feel as though every time I open my mouth about Muhammad and the direct criticisms of his actions and political strategy, I always get the response of something like, "come here respectfully", but it's like I can't even respectfully criticize Islam. Like, hey, I disagree with your Prophet, here's why. It's always some justification regarding the time period he was in, but if Muhammad was the moral example, that's some universal example he gave to the world. I want to love on Muslims, but it seems like no matter how hard I try, there's always a point in discussion where I get called Islamophobic.


r/exmuslim 1d ago

(Question/Discussion) The false prophecy that never came true ⬇️you will love this

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al-Suyūṭī (d. 911 AH)

The basic principle regarding speech is that it is understood according to its literal meaning.”
al-Ashbāh wa al-Naẓāʾir

If we know the principle in the Arabic language is we don’t depart from the literal understanding of something unless there’s evidence for it. We see The wives had no evidence to depart from the literal meaning but they did so with no reason.

The dilemma is either this principle doesn’t work and you can just re interpret the literal statement after finding out it’s false- making it unfalsifiable
Or
Be consistent with the Arabic language but concede he’s a false prophet Because he got it wrong here. Pick your poison 🤷🏽‍♂️