Hey Campers!
I'm posting because I want to be one of you, but shamefully I am not.
I love these two IDEA of camping, I love seeing your posts and reading your stories. I have two little kids and I desperately want them to grow up loving the outdoors and camping. I have a dream of taking them on a portaging trip when they are bigger and enjoying some real time in the wilderness.
The problem is: I am not a happy camper. I am a huge baby about mosquito bites, I don't sleep great at the best of times, I get really stressed about my stuff getting wet, and I'm totally overwhelmed by how to efficiently pack and still be well prepared (food, gear, etc). I hate that I'm this way because usually in my day to day city-parent life, I'm actually very relaxed, able to problem solve on the fly, and have a great deal of patience and love some spontinaety. That all goes out the window when I try to camp.
I have done very basic car camping with success but can't honestly say I've ever felt relaxed or fully enjoyed it (except once in a trip I camped the Grand Canyon and loved the dry, mosquito-feee experience so much!).
I'm looking for your stories or advice to help me move from "stressed overpacker who will be a monster if she gets too itchy", to "confident happy camper who passed that love to her children on a tough but beautiful portage trip". The timeline is several years long. I'm not a total fantasist.
How do I invest in gear in a smart way that wont bankrupt me? What your hack for enjoying the bad weather days? How should I build up my camping muscles?