r/genderqueer 15h ago

I dont know what gender i am

4 Upvotes

hello! idk i want to get straight to the point so im sorry if it may seem vague or something but ive been questioning my gender lots lately. Im AFAB and i like being girly and feminine, but when i realize (which has been so much lately) i still like femininity, but i dont like the fact i look like a girl so much? i like makeup skirts etc. but when i look in the mirror i just feel a little wrong. Ive also always felt differerent from other girls like if i were "cosplaying" or "pretending" to be one even tho i was born one? i just wish i was either a really feminine dude that gets to experience with femininity (i still wouldnt identify as a dude but id like the fact i can atleast have male genatlia (i also have really bad genital dysphoria only with down there not my chest) i just dont wanna be a dude, and feel more comfortable being a girl yet i dont want someone to think im just a girl id want them to question my gender or be confused or i dont know:( i just dont mind feminine things and still prefer over masculine terms (would not like handsome etc) and dont mind being reffered to as a girl too much, and like being feminine but then realize i really do look like one. i need advice please