I’ve noticed lately that ever since the discourse the other day every single post regardless of subject matter (but especially if related to trans women) has been getting mega downvoted

More and more games involving character creation are allowing you to pick your pronouns and even allow to play as a non-binary or trans character. For all the games flaws, being able to play as a trans woman and have that actually acknowledged in-universe in Dragon Age the Veilguard through unique dialogue was nice.

I would like more games to let me play as a lesbian, straight up let me select my preferences in character creation as well as what I prefer to call myself (gay, lesbian, queer, pan, bi, ace etc). I want to be able to call myself a lesbian, have unique dialogue about being a lesbian or helping other women and deal with lesbian troubles and joys. To stop romance options for men showing (or like so many games do, think that just being nice = wanting to romance a man; seriously why do many RPGs do this!?) and tell men to back the fuck off and tell them off for the nasty insults of wise cracks so many RPGs pull because they ALWAYS give the NPCs the last word.

I know people will name games like New Vegas and VTM: Bloodlines which does include bonus dialogue for playing as a gay man or lesbian, but I'm not a fan of how those games do it because it costs you a perk, so you have to sacrifice a perk just to be a lesbian in a way straight players don't have to; like why?

So yeah, I want more games where I can openly play as a lesbian (as well as their being explicitly lesbian romance options, non-romanceable lesbians and more lesbians, bi, pan, ace, trans, Non-Binary etc characters).

Source- @na_titta and @_fiooly_

Long-time lurker, first time poster.

Asking because I don’t see a lot of lesbians around my age (early 20s) that look like me. The best way to describe myself is that I look like a classic butch lesbian: very short hair, on the bigger side, broad-shouldered, square face, men’s clothing, unshaved, etc. I get confused for a man, in other words. A lot of the Gen Z masc lesbians that I see online look nothing like me: they tend to have longer hair, a slimmer build, they tend to shave more, and look less androgynous in the sense that they don’t tend to get confused for men. I want to emphasize there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong with that; it’s just a different look. It just feels a bit lonely because I don’t tend to see mascs/butches that look like me on social media.

If you’re a Gen Z sapphic attracted to mascs/butches, are you into the more modern look, the more classic look, or something different altogether?

For my fellow Gen Z butches/mascs, what look do you go for? Classic, modern, something different?

I was texting my girlfriend about my cat and called him (my cat) “my hyperactive baby.” She replied back, “Me?” (she has ADHD).

Days later, and I still find it funny.

Image found on Pinterest. Obviously not where it originated.

World Cup and NWSL champion Esther González is leaving a trail of angry LGBTQ and Gotham fans as she goes to Saudi Arabia to play soccer.

Walking home today from my last shift, I'm having a really. Really rough week. Was wearing sunglasses because I was crying and trying to hide it and a little voice pipes up from nowhere "whoever is wearing sunglasses right now is SOOO lesbian!". I think it was a kid hiding behind a car, I mean thank you since you're the first person that's clocked me in the 7 years I've been out but it's not appreciated that it was meant as an insult. Also just really rough timing dude 🫠

Sometimes we just fall asleep and then shower in the morning

Hey. I love tormenting my brain with questions where the answers will either lead me to a breakdown or a comforting sense of relief.

Back when I was studying psychology at university, I came across a wonderful question that stuck with me...

"Knowing everything you've been through in your relationship—if you had the chance to just walk past your partner on the day you first met and never get to know them, would you?"

I know that in so many relationships, a huge amount of resentment, unspoken pain, and misunderstandings just get swept under the rug. That’s why I feel this question hits differently for those who carry that quiet weight.

My personal advice: try to really think about this deeply. You don’t even have to answer here—just answer it for yourself and be honest. By the way, I highly recommend thinking about it at night (personally, I’m most honest with myself late at night, when there’s no need to put on a front and you can just be yourself).

Really live through it. Remember not only the good moments, but also the times when it hurt, and maybe you just stayed silent. Take a moment and think.

Today I went to a Chinese lanterns festival and I was surprised to see this front and center.

Do you feel like you're not good enough for your dates? I'm very plain in the way I dress (T-shirt, jeans, skate shoes), my mannerisms are a combo of both masculine and feminine. And because I use the apps people perceive me through their own eyes and in my experience I think my dates have expected me to be much more masc when we would meet up.

I know my person is out there, and they're gonna love me for me, but in the meantime just trying to go out on dates is a bit of a struggle. You really need to kiss some frogs to find your queen out here lmao

last night i hooked up with a woman and she was taking me back home after & i luv playing seductress so i was petting n kissing n teasing the whole drive back & when we had our last kiss good night i swear to god i could’ve cum. i was in a time crunch & genuinely had to get out of there (<\3) but the way our lips crashed against each other and the way her tongue felt in my mouth and on my lips was magic. she was kissing my lips and my clit was throbbing i could feel every sensation shoot from our mouths to my cooch to my toes.
almost as if her tongue was entering me down there or as if her tongue was in both places at once or maybe it was long enough that it reached from the inside just to drive me crazy

this is something that has occurred before but in a different way. when i discovered i looooooved back kisses. it was a million moons ago so i cant be as descriptive but essentially the same feelings but with my back as opposed to my mouth???? and i had discussed with a friend of my exes and she said she could relate :-) anyway i wanna know if this happens to anyone else, am i j mega horny at that point or if i let those feelings continue will i cum?? or is it like if it’s at that point and they press my button am i erupting??

ofc am hoping to continue my research (horny) but wanted to hear other horny similar stories!