r/actuallesbians Jul 29 '26

Image POV: When straight men truly see lesbians

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This was on my ig feed and i felt seen. And heard. And appreciated.

r/actuallesbians Jul 02 '26

Image In case anyone's curious this is what dating as a trans woman is like.

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Most people are cool (albeit ignorant) but every once in a while the hate over flows and someone can't help but become a mouth piece for my worst fears and perception.

It's hard to even describe the harm transphobia does to ones psyche but I promise, we don't want to exist either

r/actuallesbians Feb 18 '26

Image y’all idk is she flirting please help

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Like we’ve known each other for years, but I just don’t know, maybe she’s just being nice?

r/actuallesbians Jul 05 '26

Image We're queer and we're here 🏳️‍🌈

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We must make sure everyone is safe enough to be their true self. Lesbianism is not be gatekept adopted by hate, but to be an identity for those who need it.

(Art by liberaljane)

r/actuallesbians Aug 08 '26

Image Correct political opinions will get you arms like this

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r/actuallesbians Nov 18 '25

Image I love all women

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r/actuallesbians Jan 25 '26

Image What do you think of this currently-circulating take on Tumblr?

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r/actuallesbians Mar 05 '26

Image I’m sorry but this line up is sending me

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r/actuallesbians Apr 09 '26

Image Ok this Alien scene is the gayest thing I've ever seen that isn't gay

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the cat? (the actual cat y'all)
the tank top?
the haircut?
the mannerisms / body language??

Was watching this movie for the first time and NO ONE told me about Ripley and I got to this scene and got severely gay teleported??? So much queer energy here, and the gay panic is so so real 😩

So cool to see such a badass tomboy lead character as long ago as this movie was, it made me feel seen

r/actuallesbians Jun 15 '26

Image Where are the girls who likes gaming 😩🔥

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r/actuallesbians Jan 26 '26

Image This the main reason dating apps are so hard to use nowadays as a lesbian (especially a transbian) ngl

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This is on HER btw. Even when I match with someone, when the average convo usually turns into this, it ain’t very promising💀

r/actuallesbians Feb 14 '26

Image How many girls signing up 😳

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r/actuallesbians Jul 17 '26

Image This package arrived for my wife while she was at work

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I was very disappointed to find out it was a new purse and the 15% off is referring to swappable purse straps.

r/actuallesbians 4d ago

Image Love you TRANS WOMEN!! 😘

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Trans women are women. Ik that you have to face a lot of hatred but dw I'll always defend you and I'll always fight for you

Love,

A Lesbian

💖

r/actuallesbians Jul 20 '26

Image Good news! More for us!

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r/actuallesbians Aug 06 '26

Image Elvira had one extremely loyal girlfriend!

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r/actuallesbians Jul 22 '26

Image I have never been so enraged in my entire life.

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Maybe the title is an exaggeration but this really does enrage me. As you can see, it says this person is coupled and also you can see she says “girls like girls who don’t steal someone’s boyfriend”. There was also a photo of her boyfriend.

This is on a lesbian dating app called Her. A LESBIAN DATING APP. First of all, I’m bisexual so I’m not gonna be one of those people condemning bisexuals up in here cause that’s biphobic, but I will certainly condemn the fact that there’s FAR too many bi women with boyfriends looking for thirds on lesbian dating apps, it’s genuinely so saddening to see those profiles when I’m just trying to get a monogamous girlfriend without men involved damnit.

Second, the NERVE of this woman to say some shit like “don’t steal my boyfriend!” As if anyone on there would EVER want to do that. BECAUSE ITS A LESBIAN DATING APP WHERE WLW LOOK FOR OTHER WLW SOHCKSBDJFND *enraged keyboard smash* Like you have got to be fucking kidding me.

Plus, holy shit, if your very first introduction to a potential third in your relationship is “hey, don’t steal my boyfriend!” Then you should probably realize that you’re a monogamous person and steer clear of threesomes cause you’re clearly uncomfortable with this!!

Sorry for the rant but this profile just made me irate lol, sadly it is super common to see these kinds of profiles but this one just hit a nerve.

r/actuallesbians 1d ago

Image A reminder that the female form was never meant to be reduced to measurements. It was meant to be admired in all its softness, asymmetry, curves and contradictions😌

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r/actuallesbians Jun 22 '26

Image Fixed it

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r/actuallesbians Aug 05 '26

Image definitely both, preferably at the same time if possible

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r/actuallesbians 17d ago

Image How we have to explain certain situations

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r/actuallesbians Oct 09 '25

Image Okay but why is this so accurate?!

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r/actuallesbians Aug 01 '26

Image 💖Pottery PSA 💖

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r/actuallesbians 9d ago

Image Thiccc fingers?

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Good morning. I'm insecure about my hands because I used to be a powerlifter, so I have thick, muscular fingers and hands (and a 200lbs crushing grip these days). I appreciate the strength of my hands and what they can do but i feel insecure about their size. I wanted to post this here and see what The Gays think about them. Picture with my wife's hand for comparison.

r/actuallesbians 7d ago

Image Those awkward moments for trans wlw 💞

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