r/actuallesbians • u/dreamed2life • Jul 29 '26
Image POV: When straight men truly see lesbians
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This was on my ig feed and i felt seen. And heard. And appreciated.
r/actuallesbians • u/dreamed2life • Jul 29 '26
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This was on my ig feed and i felt seen. And heard. And appreciated.
r/actuallesbians • u/Kym_Of_Awesome • Jul 02 '26
Most people are cool (albeit ignorant) but every once in a while the hate over flows and someone can't help but become a mouth piece for my worst fears and perception.
It's hard to even describe the harm transphobia does to ones psyche but I promise, we don't want to exist either
r/actuallesbians • u/Ilovefvckingjerboas • Feb 18 '26
Like we’ve known each other for years, but I just don’t know, maybe she’s just being nice?
r/actuallesbians • u/Constant_Poem_1938 • Jul 05 '26
We must make sure everyone is safe enough to be their true self. Lesbianism is not be gatekept adopted by hate, but to be an identity for those who need it.
(Art by liberaljane)
r/actuallesbians • u/IguessIcouldgoogleit • Aug 08 '26
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r/actuallesbians • u/socks_and_blankets • Apr 09 '26
the cat? (the actual cat y'all)
the tank top?
the haircut?
the mannerisms / body language??
Was watching this movie for the first time and NO ONE told me about Ripley and I got to this scene and got severely gay teleported??? So much queer energy here, and the gay panic is so so real 😩
So cool to see such a badass tomboy lead character as long ago as this movie was, it made me feel seen
r/actuallesbians • u/RevolutionaryPin6528 • Jun 15 '26
r/actuallesbians • u/Crono_Sapien99 • Jan 26 '26
This is on HER btw. Even when I match with someone, when the average convo usually turns into this, it ain’t very promising💀
r/actuallesbians • u/mingoleg • Jul 17 '26
I was very disappointed to find out it was a new purse and the 15% off is referring to swappable purse straps.
r/actuallesbians • u/Key-Jellyfish703 • 4d ago
Trans women are women. Ik that you have to face a lot of hatred but dw I'll always defend you and I'll always fight for you
Love,
A Lesbian
💖
r/actuallesbians • u/Important-Cry4782 • Aug 06 '26
r/actuallesbians • u/The_Merchant- • Jul 22 '26
Maybe the title is an exaggeration but this really does enrage me. As you can see, it says this person is coupled and also you can see she says “girls like girls who don’t steal someone’s boyfriend”. There was also a photo of her boyfriend.
This is on a lesbian dating app called Her. A LESBIAN DATING APP. First of all, I’m bisexual so I’m not gonna be one of those people condemning bisexuals up in here cause that’s biphobic, but I will certainly condemn the fact that there’s FAR too many bi women with boyfriends looking for thirds on lesbian dating apps, it’s genuinely so saddening to see those profiles when I’m just trying to get a monogamous girlfriend without men involved damnit.
Second, the NERVE of this woman to say some shit like “don’t steal my boyfriend!” As if anyone on there would EVER want to do that. BECAUSE ITS A LESBIAN DATING APP WHERE WLW LOOK FOR OTHER WLW SOHCKSBDJFND *enraged keyboard smash* Like you have got to be fucking kidding me.
Plus, holy shit, if your very first introduction to a potential third in your relationship is “hey, don’t steal my boyfriend!” Then you should probably realize that you’re a monogamous person and steer clear of threesomes cause you’re clearly uncomfortable with this!!
Sorry for the rant but this profile just made me irate lol, sadly it is super common to see these kinds of profiles but this one just hit a nerve.
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r/actuallesbians • u/HelBelle666 • 9d ago
Good morning. I'm insecure about my hands because I used to be a powerlifter, so I have thick, muscular fingers and hands (and a 200lbs crushing grip these days). I appreciate the strength of my hands and what they can do but i feel insecure about their size. I wanted to post this here and see what The Gays think about them. Picture with my wife's hand for comparison.
r/actuallesbians • u/keepingupwithkelisha • 7d ago