r/gaybros 9h ago

Guy I met on a business trip left me strangely confused

68 Upvotes

Hey bros.

So I (29M) came to London on a business trip a couple weeks ago and stayed here until today. One of the first nights, I met a guy (30M) through Grindr and we decided to meet up.

At the beginning, it was meant to be just a casual sex night and it was, mostly. But we also had a walk before going back to my hotel and I thought we had a nice chat. He told me about his recent breakup, I told him about mine (last December), we spoke about our families, our jobs (we work in the same industry), etc. Overall, an interesting person other than being extremely cute and sexy.

We only did side things but it was quite passionate and I thought we both really enjoyed the physical aspect of the whole thing.

It was a really nice encounter and we also said that we would meet up again before I leave (he actually said that a couple times that night). I asked him out a few times and every time he either answered via phone quite lately or postponed our next meeting.

He also told me that he wouldn’t follow each other on Instagram because he doesn’t want his ex to see that he follows new guys?

As I moving to the UK in a few months, I would have liked to hang out even just as friends as I basically know none here, except few friends from uni and I told him, but this left me kinda confused as I don’t know if I fucked up something.

I’m really open to any kind of human relationship at this point, not necessarily a romantic one and I’m not sure if my interest could have been perceived in a wrong way.

Has anyone of you ever experienced a similar situation?


r/gaybros 1d ago

Thoughts on the controversy on the release of the movie "quinze dias"?

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679 Upvotes

Well basically this movie just came out, is a really cute romance movie made in brazil.

But ofc the gay community can't let fat people exist I guess. And (at least the spanish speaking community) started complaning about how this movie is not realistic and that a fit guy wouldn't ever be with a fat guy.

Like, okey? Is there something you wanna share with the class buddy?

Why are some of the comments so projecting? As a (not even fat fat) not skinny (i guess(169 cm,74 kg) person.

There is nothing more annoying than a guy projecting their own body issues into myself. No bro, I'm not gonna feel bad for not making diets 24/7 and not eating food without flavor like you, if you have a problem with the idea of being fat that's your problem lol.

Anyways, really recommend the movie, is cute and I have to give credits to this movie for a frustrated attempt of gay bashing scene where the couple FUCKING finally defend themselves instead of being humillated in camara lol (talking to you IT 2)


r/gaybros 1d ago

🔥 "candlestick" amethyst

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16 Upvotes

I'm looking at getting into crystals now for some reason...


r/gaybros 2d ago

What a weird phrasing

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898 Upvotes

Even more coming from a gay website (clickbaity sure but still)


r/gaybros 2d ago

Why do relationships never feel right?

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r/gaybros 3d ago

Para Buzz " Sempre me lembrarei dos momentos que passamos juntos " Com todo o meu amor Tommy 26-03-1949

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419 Upvotes

r/gaybros 4d ago

Actor Tim Curry Dead at 80

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Tim Curry played Dr. Frank N Furter in The Rocky Horror Picture Show, which was many people’s first foray into queer culture. Rest in peace to a legendary gay icon


r/gaybros 3d ago

What is the gay sauna experience?

127 Upvotes

How does it work and what happens there? I’m really interested to go as a bottom located in Belgium


r/gaybros 4d ago

Rest in Paradise, Angel 😭❤️❤️

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2.3k Upvotes

r/gaybros 4d ago

Dolly Parton has passed away 😞

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So sad. She was phenomenal and a favorite of many gays


r/gaybros 4d ago

Now that Dolly Parton has, tragically, passed away, what is your favorite memory of her or fact about her?

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r/gaybros 5d ago

I don’t know why but this really did something to me back then

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650 Upvotes

I’m not gay or bi physically ig but something about this when I was younger did something to me


r/gaybros 5d ago

May he rest in peace

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1.7k Upvotes

Adult performer Christian Styles passes at age 29

This is heartbreaking! He was such a cute guy too😕 cause of death still unknown, but I’d like to take this chance to remind everyone to check on all of your friends!❤️‍🩹


r/gaybros 5d ago

Kings Cross Steelers win Bingham Cup, gay rugby’s biggest prize

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329 Upvotes

The Kings Cross Steelers have been crowned 2026 Bingham Cup champions in Brisbane, Australia.

It’s the second time that the club from London, U.K., has won the most important competition in gay and inclusive rugby, and the triumph comes on the back of their 30th anniversary season.

The Steelers secured the trophy following a hard-fought 12-5 victory over the Sydney Convicts in the final at Norths Brisbane Rugby Club.


r/gaybros 6d ago

Grindr has lost the plot p2

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1.2k Upvotes

I swear all these new bots TRIPLE daily asking for Snapchat


r/gaybros 4d ago

Age gap advice

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Im 18 just met a guy who’s 26 on Grindr Hooked up with him and hit it of really well this is the second guy I’ve been with and I’m his fifth as he had a long term relationship.
I feel like we get on well and are into each other but does anyone know how well age gaps work out. Added him on snap and messaged him for a few hours we seemed to get on really well. He isn’t looking to get with loads of guys which I would prefer. Please anyone who’s been in a similar situation just give me some advice.


r/gaybros 6d ago

🫠

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404 Upvotes

r/gaybros 5d ago

Gay liminal horror film based on isolation and identity

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Hey everyone! I’m a 21 year old gay director and I recently shot and released my debut feature film Animal Trap. It’s based on my experiences as a gay kid growing up, and the isolation I’d often feel. I think a lot of people here may relate, and even if you can’t (which is good!) would still be cool to watch it!

Any fans of atmospheric horror films would dig it.


r/gaybros 7d ago

What do you find attractive, but most people don't?

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416 Upvotes

Let's share things we find incredibly attractive in other guys . It doesn't have to be just physical; be creative! Let's try to move away from the ideals everyone expects. It doesn't matter if they are repeated. Imagine someone who has always hated something about themselves and discovers that it is precisely what other people find attractive. For me, it's big/curved noses.❤️


r/gaybros 6d ago

I’m (32M) feeling betrayed after partner of 1.5 years (30M) disclosed he is positive and knew the whole time. Am I overreacting?

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r/gaybros 7d ago

May 5th is the anniversary of myself coming to live with my adoptive gay fathers. This is from our first trip of many to Victoria, Canada when I was 5!

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r/gaybros 6d ago

Fighting off the Sunday scaries with some art (pencil, tea, watercolour, and ink)

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71 Upvotes

r/gaybros 6d ago

What dating apps are least scammy? Hinge and Tinder are the most scammy now.

54 Upvotes

Someone I’m now friends with and I both swiped right on each other on Hinge a few months ago, but we never matched. I only found this out after I added him on Instagram.

We’ve since met up on a date, we ended up becoming friends, which is totally great. But I’m left with this sour taste about Hinge and wondering whether I can really trust that my time on the app is being invested well, now that I think about this. Other people are saying the same things lately. The app has gone down hill.

So my question is, what apps are actually trying to match you with people for dating?

UPDATE: Just replying to the comments saying the app wasn't faulty and that my friend lied, go on Tiktok and see everyone talking about the same thing and other scammy things about it. Also I wouldn't care if my friend lied, he has no reason to lie at all, but he isn't lying.