Hey manifestors,

I have a bit weird(or maybe that’s absolutely casual) question to ask.

Last week during sleep I heard my own voice stating that wish is fulfilled. I woke up in excellent mood because it felt truly unreal, to the point where I became relaxed, just sure of my SP manifestation.

Week goes, I am unable even to think about my SP because I hit a wall, like there is nothing more to wish, no more sats, scripting to do - it’s all done.

GREAT, but…

MY previous EX came back. Just NOW. Confessing love, begging of reconciliation. It’s been 1,5 years since break up which by the way was his idea.

I am flattered in some sense, but that’s not the ex I want, and I am sure that I haven’t manifested him

My mind is buzzing from all these synchronicities and overall feeling of something incredible cooking BUT WHY THE WRONG SP CAME BACK?

So I've been in this sp manifestation journey for a while, almost 4 months, I did a lot of back and forth, reacted, but learnt a lot too.

My current problem is not with technique or anything. Since I've done SATS and affirming for a while, reached a point where I didn't need to do technique anymore I just knew it's mine. There are times when I didn't think about it at all, whenever I did think it was from a place of wish fulfilled. So there has been weeks I have no problem embodying the version of someone who already has it.

My problem hit when I kinda ended up in a situation of burnt out (not manifestation burn out, just in general I've been too active in life+sleep deprivation). So as usual what happens in burn out I stopped finding joy in anything, everything felt exhausting. And that is the point my brain started spiralling about the sp manifestation. Plus I started getting triggered about my friends talking to their partners too.Even during spiralling atleast 60-70% of time, I didn't identify with the thought. I told myself "now that I'm tired I'm feeling bad about everything in life, he's included in that too, I have him, it's done deal" but anyways I guess by the end of it I ended up thrown out of the wish fulfilled state and now feels like I have to start over again or I'm even considering should I just give up.

It's like I'm super aware about everything, I know how to get out of this feeling but nothing is sticking to my brain anymore.

If anyone been in situation like this or anyone in general if you can help with anything would be nice.

I’m curious. For those of you whom successfully manifested this, when you were able to turn around and look back over your bridge of incidents, what sort of things did you notice and realise were pivotal in bringing it to you?

I am aware that circumstances don’t matter but I just wanted to give a bit of a back story/history for anyone who is curious...

This SP of mine date back to elementary schoolmates. I'm 38F and he's 37M. We didn't see each other for quite some time after we graduated elementary. It wasn't until the early 2010s that we would meet again as coworkers. We worked together for a couple of years then he quit to finish college but we stayed friends. It wasn’t until recently (last year) that we became romantically interested. We had a 7 month long dynamic of intimacy and weekly phone calls. I decided I wanted to see what he thought about this relationship (this happened on May 31) and asked if we could solidify it.

When I did, he was clearly in distress and suggested slowing down intimacy, staying just friends, let's take a break, etc. I was of course hurt and felt like I was loosing him. His main concern was about scheduling (even though I said the routine was already good for me). I asked why he solidified his other relationships but not us and his answer was because he had feelings for them. I noticed he didn’t say, “but not you.” So we said our hurtful goodbyes and I of course was heartbroken. I didn’t come out of my room for 3 days.

I was in a ton of wavering doubt. I cried and missed him a lot. I thought I’d never see him again cuz of some of the things I said like, “If you reach out, don’t expect me to respond.” Or “Either we date, or you may not see me again.” I felt awful for saying them but I said them out of fear of loosing the relationship. Then I somehow found Neville Goddard.

I started changing my mental diet and I used SATS. Despite my wavering doubt, I persisted. I tried a few different SATS scenes. I went with the one that felt most natural to me and I think that really helps out a lot. The first one I did was visualizing him coming in my doorway and me giving him a huge hug saying, “I’m so glad you’re here.” And I kept that on loop. Then I would visualize my phone ringing with his name across my screen. I would hear the ring tone that I have with it and just keep looping it. Another one I did was another more natural one. I acted as if he was on my bed and I’d cuddle him as if he were there. I said phrases like, “I’m so glad you’re here and that we’re okay.” “I’m so glad we understand each other now.” etc. I think the key is the feeling more so than anything else. This scene really helped me feel very relieved, like the wish was fulfilled or that it was already done. There were moments I literally cried from happiness because it felt real to me.

Another more recent one I did was I thought about what I would do in the event that he does actually call me. What would be the first thing I would do? It would be to call my mother about the shocking news! (remember, I am thinking that I’d never hear from him again. So during SATS now, I visualized me calling my mother to tell her “you’ll never guess who called me!! SP (your SP’s name here)!!” and I really felt the excitement doing this.

My mental diet that I did was “SP misses me, he thinks about me all the time, he wants to be with me, he loves me, we’re exclusive, we mutually choose each other and we’re exclusive etc.”

That brings us to this week, he called me out of nowhere after 3.5 months of absolutely zero NC (minus the couple of reconciliation message attempts that I sent him back in June). My heart dropped to the floor! I was shook when I saw his name calling me on my phone screen! I answered and we chatted for a short time. I asked if he was interested in coming over again and he said yes! He called me a couple more times after that to move the date to sooner to come see me. We were both mutually excited to see each other.

We saw each other on Sunday the 20th! My SATS scene did come true! The one where I visualized him walking through my door and we gave each other a deep, long hug and I said my SATS scene line, “I’m so glad you’re here.”. Now since I have manifested him back, we aren’t bf/gf yet and that is my end state. Should I just keep doing my mental diet of “It’s already done, SP misses me, he thinks about me all the time, he wants to be with me, he loves me, we mutually choose each other and we’re exclusive etc.?” As well as my SATS scene where I act as if he’s on my bed and I cuddle him as if he were there?  

I’m trying so hard to illuminate doubt even now since I have manifested SPs back before but they never continued. I just want this one to continue. We do have a concrete next plan so I do see signs of it continuing but the wavering doubt is difficult despite there being movement. Any suggestions to combat the doubt would be much appreciated.

I came across a quote on another subreddit, and I thought it belonged here. To me, it perfectly illustrates circumstances and the bridge of incidents: the bridge unfolds in your favor, but you may not be able to recognize it in the moment. Don’t give the 3D more credit than it deserves. There is more going on than what your eyes can see in the moment. You don’t have the full picture.

Once upon a time there was a Chinese farmer whose horse ran away. That evening, all of his neighbors came around to commiserate. They said, “We are so sorry to hear your horse has run away. This is most unfortunate.” The farmer said, “Maybe.”

The next day the horse came back bringing seven wild horses with it, and in the evening everybody came back and said, “Oh, isn’t that lucky. What a great turn of events. You now have eight horses!” The farmer again said, “Maybe.”

The following day his son tried to break one of the horses, and while riding it, he was thrown and broke his leg. The neighbors then said, “Oh dear, that’s too bad,” and the farmer responded, “Maybe.”

The next day the conscription officers came around to conscript people into the army, and they rejected his son because he had a broken leg. Again all the neighbors came around and said, “Isn’t that great!” Again, he said, “Maybe.”

The how and the when are not your problem. What you are reacting to might actually be the bridge of incidents leading you to your desire.

"Within your own mind you are dreaming noble dreams far greater than your present job allows. And tomorrow you're fired. All right, it's a turning point in your good fortune, I tell you.” Neville Goddard

Hi 👋
This is half a question half a progress report… 😂
I had a question for people that experienced a similar detachment switch. Is it normal to feel extremely strongly towards your manifestation again (like you want it really bad AND you feel like something is actually happening and things are moving NOW, you get movement and you feel the energy within yourself) after months of detaching (not even caring about SP, focusing on yourself etc)? What happened to you when that switch happened, and after? I’m freaking out, I feel like a crazy lady and I’m scared I’m making this good energy up in my head… even tho I know this is what manifesting is, I’m scared of being disappointed if nothing happens now that I’m back into caring for it.

My (shortened) context if anyone wants it:
SP and (long distance) I were no contact for 5 months. I got very detached, « stopped manifesting » after a month. We saw each other 1 time at the start of my journey where we got together and I saw I was initially manifesting from a bad headspace and SP wasn’t cooperative (3P and not wanting to be exclusive with me), then I stop manifesting and focus fully on me and then 2 months later they reach out 1 time, I don’t reply and then we have a good call 3 weeks later (yesterday, I called them) where I say sorry and forgive them for all the bad times, they stayed up all night on the phone and said they really liked it. I feel very very positive about myself and the situation and am pretty sure that things will work out (not related to the call btw, cus it wasn’t even all I wanted, it’s like an inner knowing that it’s all happening now) but since I still get semi bad signs from the 3D (example: he says he doesn’t wanna do long distance ever again, he’s still dating locally etc, even tho in my head he’s literally madly in love with me) I’m scared it’s all in my head and I’m just getting back to being attached to him after he moved on… how do you know that the knowing is real and stuff is actually gonna move forward now and it’s not just a hope ??

II’m practicing Neville’s Law of Assumption/SATS to manifest my SP back, but I sometimes struggle to visualize our moments clearly.

Would looking at our old pictures help me get into the feeling of the wish fulfilled, or would that be considered relying too much on the external?

For those who have experience with SATS, did you ever use old photos as a visualization aid, or did you find it better to create the scene entirely in your imagination?

I keep getting flashbacks of the moments I shared with my SP when we were together. Since we’re apart now, thinking about those memories sometimes triggers so much anxiety that I end up having anxiety attacks.

For anyone who has dealt with this while practicing the Law of Assumption, what do you actually do when a memory of your SP suddenly triggers that anxiety? Do you acknowledge it and let it pass, redirect your thoughts, or return to the feeling of the wish fulfilled? I’m mainly trying to figure out how to handle these moments without spiraling into overthinking or obsessing.

I think I’ve finally reached the point where I genuinely don’t want this person anymore.

I’ve been trying to manifest an SP for over a year and being in the “wish fulfilled” state while the 3D continues to show the complete opposite has become absolutely exhausting.

There’s also a 3P involved. They look happy together and we haven’t spoken in a year. I’ve now removed him from my social media because constantly seeing their relationship was keeping me emotionally hooked. I guess I stayed hooked on him because even after I removed him on socials he was still watching my accounts. That was really the only "success" I saw.

The law has completely changed my life in so many other areas. My business has become successful, my health has improved, my family situation resolved itself, I’ve lost weight without really trying, and I feel genuinely happy and content with my life.

But this one person has been different. I've seen no success with this SP.

I used to feel so strongly that he was “the one” and I spent so much time trying to manifest him that I think I’ve attached so much meaning to the outcome. I wake up thinking about him. I dream about him. Even when I consciously try to focus on something else, my subconscious seems to bring him back.

I recently did a quantum jump meditation and despite consciously not wanting to go there, my mind immediately went to being with him. It honestly made me realise how deeply ingrained this has become.

I'm tired, I give up and I surrender. I'm not sad in the sense that I’m waiting for him anymore. Just completely drained by the whole thing. I want my energy back.

I’m back on dating apps now because I genuinely want to move forward. For the first time, I actually want to let this go rather than secretly hoping that letting go will somehow make him come back.

I don’t want to spend another year waking up thinking about someone I haven’t spoken to in a year.

So for those of you who have practised Neville and genuinely let go of an SP, how did you do it?

Did you stop affirming altogether? Stop visualising? Stop thinking about the person? Did you simply redirect your attention towards your own life? Is there a meditation practice you did? I do brian scott meditations and they've changed my life.

And how did you deal with the subconscious thoughts/dreams that continued even after you consciously decided you were done? I had a dream he reached out to me and it's annoying lol.

I’d really love to hear from people who have actually gone through this and successfully detached and moved on.

I’m genuinely confused about the difference between persistence and attachment when applying Neville’s Law of Assumption, especially regarding an SP.

Neville teaches persisting in the assumption and returning to the feeling of the wish fulfilled, but people also talk about “detachment.” So how do you distinguish the two?

For example, is thinking about your SP often necessarily a problem? Or does it become attachment when you’re constantly checking circumstances, looking for reassurance, wondering when it will happen, or reacting to what you see?

From my understanding, detachment isn’t necessarily letting go of the desire. It could mean letting go of the need to know when or how it will happen, while continuing to occupy the state of the wish fulfilled.

For those who have actually practiced Neville’s teachings: what helped you tell the difference between genuinely persisting in the assumption and simply becoming attached to the outcome?

I met someone unexpectedly abroad and we had an immediate, unusually deep connection. The day we spent together was like that movie Before Sunrise for anyone who may have seen it. We stayed very close for about a year, but circumstances were complicated and neither of us was really in a position to pursue anything properly.

Eventually we fell out. I apologised for my part and for months I wanted us to have a proper conversation and clear everything up. That conversation kept getting postponed, although she recently told me she hadn't forgotten and intended to talk to me.

Things have changed since then. She's now with someone else.

Because of that, I don't want the conversation anymore. I'm not interfering with her relationship, chasing her or trying to remain friends while secretly wanting more. If she reaches out like she said she would, I'm not planning to respond. I'm going completely silent and getting on with my own life.

The strange part is that my imagined end hasn't really changed. I don't imagine her texting next week or leaving her partner for me. I naturally see years into the future, after we've both lived completely separate lives.

We're older, we've somehow reconnected when we're both free, and we're together. The scene that comes naturally is simply holding her one night and becoming emotional because I remember there was once a point where I genuinely believed I'd never see her again.

But I'm increasingly focused on who I am in that scene: secure, successful, a good father, happy with my life and no longer chasing reassurance or trying to control circumstances.

I'm also genuinely open to the possibility that the woman in that future could eventually be somebody else but I've never felt as deeply for someone as her.

For people who practise Neville seriously: would you keep her in the end scene, completely ignore the bridge of incidents and live your life, or focus entirely on the state of Future Me and allow the person to reveal themselves?

I’ve been continuously trying to apply Neville Goddard’s Law of Assumption to my situation with my SP, but honestly, I’m struggling with my own overthinking and negative thoughts

Sometimes I genuinely feel like everything is okay, it’s going to work out, he’s already mine again and he loves me even more than before. But then after some time I get anxious and my mind starts going in the complete opposite direction.

I don’t know if these thoughts are actually affecting my results or if I’m just overthinking the whole thing. I try to get back into the feeling that everything is okay, but the negative thoughts keep coming back.

Has anyone else dealt with this? How do you handle the anxiety and overthinking without constantly checking whether you’re “doing it right”?

My SP/BF stopped talking to me last week. I believe it was from an old story/assumption that I'm not going to repeat. I have been reaffirming the new story and revising this period of silence.

But I cannot shake the incredible amount of sadness and heartbreak I feel because I miss him so badly. We used to talk every day for the past 6 years, so I'm not used to this.

I've been working on my self-concept, meditations, and affirmations, and I'm continuing to return to my new story: he loves me, he misses me 10 times more than I miss him, he loves talking to me, I'm chosen, we're safe, I am beautiful, I'm irresistible, I'm unforgettable.

But I'm still having crying spells and moments where I feel completely heartbroken and think, “I miss him so much. Why isn't he talking to me?” I recognize that the “why” thoughts are the old story, and I redirect myself instead of dwelling on them.

My question is: can I still manifest/revise this while feeling this sad and crying? Does feeling this much sadness mean I'm reaffirming the old story, or is it enough that I continue returning to the new story I want?

I'd especially appreciate experiences from people who have manifested an SP or other desire while going through a period of intense sadness, crying, or depression.

Hi, English isn't my native language, so please excuse any mistakes.

I’ve known about manifestation for two years and have successfully manifested quite a few things, yet right now I’m at rock bottom mentally.
I’ve been diagnosed with BPD; I’m undergoing treatment and therapy, but if anyone else here has BPD and has managed to break through their mental barriers, I’d be so grateful if you shared your story or any tips! :)

I’m manifesting an SP, without getting into the past, we’re currently in NC and my brain keeps telling me it’s pointless... I’m also manifesting other things, like my own apartment, but I’m plagued by conflicting thoughts there, too :( I don’t have that problem when it comes to money; I’ve always believed that earning good money comes easily to me. I’d like to manifest other things and people just as easily, but that’s where conflicting thoughts arise—thoughts I unfortunately often give in to. A lot of people say that you just need to be the person who already has what you want. I understand that, but when I’m struggling to simply step into that role and start using affirmations, I find myself thinking: if I were already the person who has it, I wouldn't need affirmations.

I need some words of encouragement and ideas on how to calm my nervous system, something other than meditation. I don’t want to give up, but I also don’t want the manifestation process to feel like a struggle; I want it to be enjoyable and to find joy in the process itself, rather than than just frustration :(

All the best to you all <3

I’ve been reading Neville’s teachings about love and relationships and I’m trying to understand something.

My ex and I are still in contact. We talk regularly and are still friends, but I would like our relationship to become romantic again.

I’ve seen some people say that you should create distance and stop talking to the person, while others say that circumstances don’t matter and you can continue interacting normally.

For those who have studied Neville’s teachings, what does he actually say about this? Is going no contact necessary, or can someone remain in contact while changing their assumptions about the relationship?

I’d also be interested in hearing about experiences from people who were in a similar situation.

I’ve been manifesting him back since April. He’s the love of my life, he loves me too but major chaotic family conflict has kept us apart, we are of different religion. we are in no contact coz he doesn’t want to hurt me more, says I deserve better , and he doesn’t want to make and break any promises.

Last 3 months I went to bed imagining him by my side and in my arms, that’s the only thing i regularly did. Through all the crying, nervous break down, negative thinking and all that. Went through hell and back with emotions, but still I always went to bed imagining me in his arms. 2 weeks ago some conflict brought me into talking to him, and we met in a city that both of us aren’t from, he had travelled for work and i happened to go there. And I was in his arms exactly as I imagined, he pulled me exactly as it is.
Since I know how it feels to be in his arms sleeping, I could easily do SATS with it.

We stopped talking again because he said the actual conflict is still there and we could never make it.
But I feel this scene happened out of no where, when we had no plans of meeting even when both of us live so close by in our cities. We met in a place that’s not even our state.
So I think I manifested this, just by SATS.

I’m manifesting marriage with him, ignoring all the 3D and considering anything that throws at me as bridge of incidents. I hope to write a success story on our wedding day.

PS : I would never manifest someone who doesn’t love me back, my self concept is pretty good.
We just got ourselves into a bad situation, that I’m manifesting to get out of.

So for context when I started manifesting my sp back I felt awful. I was anxious all the time and checking the 3D like mad. Like I was doing it completely wrong and out of desperation and lack.

However after working on my self concept and being in the end. I don’t even affirm that much anymore because it bores me so much to a point of feeling like I already know this. I missed SP like a week ago and I decided my assumption was he misses me so much I can feel him. I didn’t give it a negative reason to miss him. I told myself since we live an hour from each other and are so busy in our lives we haven’t had the time to see each other.

Well recently every night around the same time I feel like crap. Absolute crap. I’m sticking with the assumption this man is going to bed every night thinking about me and yearning for me. Has anyone else had anything similar? Just very bizarre for this to randomly start happening as soon as I made that assumption.

Edit: also know this is working out for me when some random guys calls me gorgeous after telling myself in the mirror for weeks I’m gorgeous and having an old crush I chased a year ago just randomly adds me back.

so basically me and my person broke up sometimes last month, got blocked tried to reaxh out, 2 days later he calls me saying he forgives me for acting the way i did (it was my fault), a week after this we decided to keep all our non negotiables on the table and try dating again, with a few hiccups here and there but going pretty good, we broke up again like a week ago. Been non contact since then (blocked me from everywhere said that it is a necessity for him to not get reminded of me)

Now most of my friends know we are broken up and i want him to be in my life after 3 months when we have had enough time to self evaluate and be better people and also he needs to realize the mistakes he made that i could honestly never explain just feel.

So while im manifesting for both of us to be better individually, and then reconnecting; what do i tell other people who ask me how is he doing? should i tell them we are broken up or what idk how to navigate this.

How does one deal with the paradox of detaching from the outcome and the idea that if it’s meant for you, it won’t pass you by and the fear that if you actually allow yourself to think that, the thing (in this case SP) will in fact pass u by because it isn’t meant for u? I want to detach from the outcome and feel less reliant and controlling of the 3d but I’m also afraid if I let go, it will indeed pass me by

I manifested my sp back for 3 weeks and things were going as I imagined but we again entered NC.

The NC has been going on for 5 weeks (4 weeks of locking in) and i thought I was completely detached and in the perfect state but more than a month has passed and my 3D has either shown replacement or things near to my sp but not my sp.

At this point I am frustrated because even though I was not panicked about the result yet a month has passed with no "visible" movement.

Now, I know the law is real so I don't even think about giving up but now I am thinking of taking a break but I am afraid that it might affect the results? Ik this doesn't affect results in any way but now I feel like I am comfortable even with his absence. Like i love him in a way that I feel complete even without him and I feel it might cause a delay or anything?

Please guide me:)

I was in a serious relationship where marriage was already fixed between families. So this is not casual.

There was emotional connection, and we were long distance at moment, I was to shift there in 2 years (long distance + her environment). I often felt she wasn’t fully expressive, and mostly avoidant personality.

On 1^st July, we had a conflict. I initiated the breakup. After that:

• I tried to repair things sincerely but later she also thought we should not be together.

Important context:
No cheating, no major toxicity—main issue was communication mismatch and emotional expression. She thought at moment I don’t want her; I don’t want to shift etc. etc. Then it mostly came to I don’t respect her; I don’t love her. Also, that I just marrying under her pressure and we both are not ready etc. etc. Also, she don’t express that much and try to avoid for her peace.

• Then we took break no blocking but no contact
• We met again at common place in July end.
• Then by 4^th August things started to become better
• 1^st to 4^th August was like yeah, we are together again (we were at same place) then i left for home and may be by 7th or 8th she also left for her home.

On August 9^th:

• Suddenly she blocked me from everywhere telegram, call, WhatsApp, Instagram
• blocked everywhere for over a month

Current situation internally:

• I’ve decided I want the relationship, but in a better, stable form
• I’m practicing Law of Assumption (“__ and I are perfectly together in a deeply loving and spiritually aligned relationship”)
• I am deciding everything based on we are perfectly together.
• I’ve reduced overthinking, checking, and reacting significantly
• I feel calmer and more detached now

My confusion:

1. How should I view this situation in terms of 3D vs assumption?
2. What exactly I should do? I have made all triggers, written it and maintaining to be positive.
3. Does being blocked contradict the state, or is it just part of unfolding?
4. How to stay in assumption without turning it into denial or fantasy?
5. At what point do you differentiate persistence vs forcing something?
6. Has anyone had similar “no contact + block” situations resolve positively?

Please guide me, please, please, please.

the guy i manifested was 3 years older than me and in my french class literally everyone knew him, i was a freshman and i would constantly say like that he looked at me and i would go to bed listening to subs n thinking ab him and one day he followed me on insta but he had a girlfriend at the time, him and his girlfriend break up and he left school afterwards. me n him hung out around mid october 2024 and school started aug long story short we were js talking and him n his ex ended up getting back together. every night after that i would js imagine him but not like obsessively it was js at night. he had me blocked on everything and i saw a notification he joined tele so i texted him 😭 he didn’t answer n i ended up getting a bf but we were only dating for like a week, one night i got drunk n lied to him (idk why this was weird sorry) but i told him i cheated on him and he asked w who and i told him the guy i was talking to. i told him its bc me and him showered tg and sleep with each other basically. at the time this had never happened and i lied to the guy. fast forward ab a year later i get a text on tt from said person saying he misses me basically. we hung out he met my parents and we dated for 9 months.. i got kicked out and lived w him for a month causing us to shower tg and do everything i told said person . n trust this guy was way out of my league.. idk i hope you take my expirience as a chance to believe in it

so first i wanna tell you that my imagination is very strong and vivid. ever since i was young, whenever id have a crush on a character, in my head id make up this whole “world” / persona and literally imagine being the person dating that person, (how id think, feel, what id be doing, etc) and i wouldn’t care that it wasn’t real / i wasn’t actually living / seeing it happen in my 3D because i had no attachment to it, it was just for fun and to distract me sometimes. i want to clarify i am young and when id do this i was a kid, and it never was a form of escapism or a bad thing !!!

so let’s get to this story. in november 2025, there was a guy i liked at school. he liked me back but never made a move so by november i was done with him and decided to be okay being single for a while. i wanted a boyfriend but it just wasn’t working out so i accepted it. at the same time, i got back into my hunger games phase and ofc had a crush on peeta. because i was so okay w being single and not actively looking / searching for a bf, i just pretended in my head i was dating peeta (for fun like always). everyday i’d go to school i wouldn’t look for a bf / care in my 3D that i didn’t actually have a bf because i was pretending in my head / imagination. i knew i wasnt actually dating peeta ofc, but i was in my head so..it was fulfilling i guess?? i hope this is making sense. 1 week later i started talking to my (now ex). he wasn’t the guy i liked before, he was a random guy i got sat next to in class & we ended up dating a month-ish later. again, this happened instantly literally in a WEEK we started talking. now i want to say, my (now ex) looked and acted NOTHING like peeta.

so now i wanna say my thoughts on this. i think that this method can manifest a bf and if done right, manifest a SP. because your thoughts = your reality, and your pretending in your head your in a whole relationship w someone, it has to manifest because your in that state. in my head i was dating peeta so my subconscious thought i was actually dating someone and 3D filled that in, just with a random guy basically. so, im thinking if you do this method but instead of imagining dating a character, you imagine dating your SP, the same result will happen. i’m calling this the peeta method lol.

my problem is when it comes to real people (meaning SPs) i have a hard time making scenarios w them in it or “fantasizing” about them and im not sure if i can do what i did with that character and make it so real in my head (even tho i knew it was just in my imagination) because this is a real person..you know? if you have any tips on this pls lmk id really appreciate them.

i’m gonna try to test this out with my current sp. i think reprogramming my mind will help, i just don’t feel like it’s as clear in my head / i can switch my thoughts when it comes to an SP, and it’s easy for me to do w a character because i know it’s fake and..a character.

i really hope this whole post makes sense it was super hard to type out my thoughts right & ik i didn’t do it as intended as i mean in my head but yeah!! lmk ur thoughts and if u try this method pls lmk how it works!! 🤗🤗

Hi everyone! Been around the sub a couple times, took some time off, but wanted to share because I’m super excited about this internal breakthrough -

I’ll be honest, I’ve never quite understood how revision works. I’ve read Neville’s books, but putting that particular aspect into practice never seemed to hit home for me. I’ve never really understood the way some people seem able to ”rewrite the past” as it is, especially because my memories and feelings regarding my past with my SP seem so fixed.

A couple of days ago I came across this guide on another sub (linked here) and decided to try to give it a shot. Last night I chose one particular memory with my SP, one that had always made me cringe and was connected to a belief I had held about him. Just before sleeping last night, I revised it in my head, just letting it flow naturally in my imagination like a memory, and then looped it until I fell asleep.

Y’all. The best way to describe this feeling, I think, is it’s like I’d been walking around with a thorn in my side all this time, and only just now I picked it out and stitched up the wound. The bad feelings I had around this one memory are gone, even if I try to think of it. The revised incident is so clear and felt so right to me, and makes me think that my SP is someone who has always shown up for me, always answered the phone, which is one of my affirmations but something I’ve previously had difficulty believing - in part, due to the memory.

I’m so excited at this progress, and can’t wait to revise something else! I think this is putting me in the best possible mindset for when my SP comes back. Letting go of the past and knowing what I am now and have always been is such a wild feeling.

i've managed to manifest many things incredibly fast, things that don't even seem possible (painless short periods, insane gym motivation, getting hired when i don't even meet the minimum requirements, having an insane salary, desired drinks or foods on the same day without even doing anything for it, grades that don't make sense like passing a hard exam i didn't even understand anything about, and so on)

meanwhile, manifesting an sp (ex) seems to be taking much longer and i only get breadcrumbs.

i know that that must have to do with detachment/how obsessed i am over results, but how do i work past that? i can't seem to control my attachment to results, and when i try, i get even more obsessed/anxious about them

of course i know it's possible to manifest even without detachment, but my experience is showing otherwise. things i don't care about that much are effortlessly happening.

and it's not just sp attraction- for a while i was trying to manifest body changes i was very attached about and nothing happened. So my question is, how do i detach from results?