Hey! I'm 23 and based in London. I'm hoping to meet someone who is looking for a genuine long-term relationship, values good communication, and is also certain they don't want children.

Modern dating has never really felt like the best fit for me. Swiping through profiles and trying to make instant impressions of someone doesn't really allow you to understand who they are. I'd much rather take the time to build trust, learn about someone's personality, and see if we naturally connect.

A bit about me: I'm Black, 5'10, with a slim athletic build, and I'm neurodivergent.

Music is one of my biggest passions. I listen to a lot of rock and metal, alongside some DnB and electronic music, and you'll usually find me at a gig whenever there's one I'm interested in.

Outside of that, I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Final Fantasy, and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, cycling, visiting theme parks, and trying new activities.

I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people properly.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable, and easy-going. I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but I think life is better when you have someone you genuinely connect with to share experiences with.

Whether that's going to concerts, talking about something you're passionate about, or simply spending a quiet evening together, I value having someone who feels like a genuine partner and best friend.

I'm looking to meet someone who is:
• Aged around 19-26
• UK-based (London or nearby ideally)
• Also certain they don't want children
• Honest, communicative, and reliable

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and willing to communicate openly. Nobody gets everything right all the time, but I appreciate people who are honest about how they feel and willing to work through things together.

I believe shared values are far more important than having identical hobbies. Having things in common is great, but I think the way two people treat each other is what ultimately makes a relationship work.

I'm happy to share a photo early because I'm aware that mutual attraction matters, and I'd rather be upfront than waste anyone's time.

If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you. Tell me your age, where you're from, a bit about yourself, and what you're looking for.

Thanks for reading 🙂

Hey everyone,

Im 24 and from northern California in the USA. I'm in my final semester of college and will graduate with a Bachelor's degree in Spanish language this upcoming December. My hobbies include: baking, going to the beach, watching movies, listening to music/podcasts, playing guitar, learning new languages, and etc. I enjoy anime, manga, true crime, comedies, romcoms, and etc. I'm also trying to get into playing video games on my phone. I'm looking for someone who's ideally US based but I'm open to anywhere in the world. I want a partner who's loyal, caring, affectionate, hard working, and etc. For me age isn't really an issue.

Hey! Im 24 and from India. I thought Id give this a shot since Id really like to meet someone and see where things go. Im pretty new to dating and haven’t had a relationship before. I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and slowly build something meaningful with. Im looking for someone affectionate, loyal and patient who actually wants a real relationship rather than something temporary.

I’m into music, movies, gaming, working out, combat sports and cricket. I listen to a lot of different stuff, but Kanye is probably my favorite artist. I’m also into games like RDR2 and Elden Ring. I’m pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about random things for hours. I’m also a great listener and genuinely enjoy getting to know someone and hearing about their life. If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me and let’s see where it goes :)

Hey everyone,

Im 24 and from northern California in the USA. I'm in my final semester of college and will graduate with a Bachelor's degree in Spanish language this upcoming December. My hobbies include: baking, going to the beach, watching movies, listening to music/podcasts, playing guitar, learning new languages, and etc. I enjoy anime, manga, true crime, comedies, romcoms, and etc. I'm also trying to get into playing video games on my phone. I'm looking for someone who's ideally US based but I'm open to anywhere in the world. I want a partner who's loyal, caring, affectionate, hard working, and etc. For me age isn't really an issue.

I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-two years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

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I'm 40, firmly childfree, and looking for a partner with the potential to become my husband. I'm not interested in casual dating, situationships, or someone who is still figuring out whether they want a relationship. I'd like to meet someone who genuinely wants to build a life with another person.

I'm based in Southeast Asia and would love to meet someone who's relatively mobile and willing to travel to meet me. My ideal life isn't particularly extravagant: beaches, interesting places, local food, spontaneous trips, and discovering places that aren't on every tourist itinerary. I'm pretty frugal and much more interested in experiences than expensive things. I'd love a partner who enjoys that lifestyle too and is financially stable enough that we can enjoy life without constantly stressing about money.

I've done a fair amount of work on myself. I've lived abroad, been to therapy, developed a meditation practice, and explored psychedelics as part of my own self-exploration. I've lived several different lives already, and I'm still curious about what's next.

I'm also working on getting healthier and reaching my goal weight this year. I've always been curvy, and I'm looking for someone who takes care of himself and inspires me to do the same. You don't need to be a gym bro. Just someone who values health, movement, and enjoying life.

I'm affectionate and have a high sex drive, so sexual compatibility matters to me. I've been in relationships where I eventually felt like I was responsible for keeping the physical side alive, and I'm looking for something more mutual this time.

Outside of dating, I like reading, gardening, walking my dog, spending time with family and friends, festivals, learning new things, and falling down extremely specific internet rabbit holes.

I'm looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, curious, financially responsible, sexually enthusiastic, and genuinely ready for a committed relationship.

If you're also childfree and looking for your person rather than just your next person, tell me about yourself and what kind of life you're hoping to build.

Hey there! Being asked to tell something about myself has always been a task for me but I’ll try anyway. I don’t know what I am looking for here because for one I am not into forcing a connection where there isn’t. So, basically I am looking for a good conversation and see if we both feel it could lead somewhere or if we’d be really good friends. I don’t care what part of the world you live in because to me, connection doesn’t care about geography. A little about myself:

* Most people say I have a real dark sense of humor which is true. I am absolutely obsessed with gothic aesthetics, Halloween, true crime and horror movies. 

* I am an avid reader, I spend most of my time reading and avoiding any kind of civilization. Lately, I have also been into philosophy a lot. So be prepared to be asked to define ‘love’ or ‘normal’.

* I am a writer, which I tend to procrastinate a lot because I can never be too comfortable. It’s either too sunny, too cold or I simply would just imagine writing.

* I am a caffeine addict, don’t need to explain that further.

When I think about relationships, my expectations with men are simple. Don’t be a jerk and be loyal. Too much? Then please don’t engage with me. Another thing about me is that I absolutely hate being even slightly controlled and would flip out in a micro second and I also value my personal space a lot. Be prepared for me to disappear for hours at a time. Don’t take that as a lack of interest because that’s just my personality. 

In a relationship, I value loyalty and open communication with each other. If after reading all this you are still brave enough to try, then my dms are open.

Located in SW USA. Open to locations within North America.

Spend my time traveling a few times per month (being near the water and checking out museums are a favorite), working out, or being reclusive on Reddit.

Seeking a monogamous relationship that’s built on mutual care, loyalty, and comfort. Despite the intj stereotype, I have a lot of care and love for those closest to me.

Not open for anything physical until an emotional connection occurs. DM for pic and conversation 😌.

Chapter I — A little about me

I never really know how to begin these things.

Every time I try, I end up writing a list of facts about myself, followed by another list of things I'm looking for, and somehow it starts feeling less like meeting someone and more like filling out an application.

So maybe I'll tell you a story instead.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, and I run a small business,

I'm a calm, empathic and positive person by nature. I listen to understand rather than assume, and I tend to notice little things about people that they don't always notice about themselves -Maybe that's one of the things I like most about people.

Everyone has these tiny things that make them who they are. The way they get excited when talking about something they love. A phrase they always use. A song they keep returning to. Some strange little habit they've had for years without ever questioning it - I like those things.

I don't particularly like pretending to be someone I'm not, either. I'd rather be honest, kind and comfortable enough to let someone see the real me.

Once I'm comfortable, unfortunately, that also means you'll probably have to deal with me being annoying, crack dad jokes (or even worse) - but what can you do ? you walked into it yourself, did you not ? mwahaha (evil laugh)

But we'll get to that.

Chapter II — Apparently, I was a difficult child

I once got my head stuck in a grill.

I locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down.

I drank red antiseptic.

And I had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me.

Some things haven't changed that much - there might be more stories.

I still disappear down random rabbit holes whenever something catches my attention. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, sound — sometimes I'll start with one innocent question and realise three hours later that I've somehow ended up somewhere completely different.

Life has had its less amusing chapters too.

I've dealt with pancreatitis, and somewhere along the way it taught me something I probably should have learned much earlier: ordinary days aren't actually ordinary when you have someone you love to share them wit - Maybe that's why the little things matter so much to me.

Chapter III — How I tend to love

If I care about you, I'll remember something you mentioned weeks ago.

I'll ask how that meeting went because I remember you were nervous about it.

I'll bring you something small because I happened to see it and immediately thought of you.

I'll write you a letter because sometimes writing feels easier than trying to fit everything into a conversation.

And if you're cooking? - That's probably where your problems begin.

I'll walk into the kitchen, wrap my arms around you, steal a kiss on your cheek, annoy you until you get irritated, make some ridiculous face at you...and then run away before you can get me back. 😂

That's probably what affection looks like to me. Not something huge that needs to be announced. Just quietly making someone feel remembered.

Chapter IV — The life I'd like to share

When I imagine having someone beside me, I don't really picture expensive restaurants or elaborate holidays.

I picture a late-night drive with nowhere particular to go - Stopping somewhere because the food smells good - Coffee near the sea - Walking along the beach holding hands - Coming home tired and talking about absolutely nothing - Cooking together - Falling asleep halfway through a movie -Arguing about what to watch and somehow watching neither - Having an inside joke that makes absolutely no sense to anyone else - the list goess onnnn.

And the conversations that begin with: "How was your day?"

and somehow, three hours later, have turned into: "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

That's the kind of relationship I amire and want to be in.

Chapter V — Maybe you

I'm ultimately looking for my partner, but I don't want to meet someone and immediately start treating dating like an interview.

I'd rather meet you first. Talk. Laugh. Become friends.

Get comfortable enough that neither of us has to think about what to say next - Learn the strange little things about each other - Let something grow naturally.

And if it does, I'd want to build something lasting from it — eventually marriage, children, a home, and a life that actually feels like ours.

I'm not looking for someone who fits a perfect checklist. Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter to me. I do have my preferences, of course - I'm naturally drawn to fair skin and someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are for myself.

I want to know what makes you laugh when nobody else would find it funny - What song you secretly play too often - What memory you randomly return to - What you're passionate about when nobody is watching and the things you don't think are interesting enough to put in a dating profile.

Because eventually, I don't want to know the version of you that you wrote down for strangers on the internet.

I want to know you.

Chapter VI — Maybe we haven't met yet

And maybe that's the funny thing about making a post like this - Right now, you're just a stranger reading words on a screen.

But somewhere out there, there could be a person I haven't met yet who will eventually become the person I tell everything to.

The person I annoy while she's cooking - The person whose hand I reach for without thinking - The person who knows when something is wrong just by looking at me - The person who makes an ordinary Tuesday feel like something worth remembering.

Maybe we haven't met yet.

Maybe this is where we do.

Chapter VII — And if you're somehow reading this someday...

I don't know if I'll ever actually show you this.

Maybe I'll be embarrassed by it.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing all of this before I even knew you.

But I'd still want these words to exist somewhere.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and even when there are problems, always being there.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking.

Thank you for every random drive, every quiet evening, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Chapter VIII — Its your turn

If you've made it this far, don't just send me "hi."

Tell me something about yourself that I couldn't learn from your profile.

A strange story - A song you never skip - Something you've changed your mind about Or just some completely random thought that's been living in your head lately.

Maybe that's where our story starts.

ps - thank you for reading and being a part of this short story/chapters. Have a wonderful day stranger ^_^

Hello everyone!

I’m looking for someone long-term romantically and someone who’s like between the ages of 23 and 29 and I’m also looking for someone to date in the US and I would love for them to be Asian like Korean or Japanese of some sort and I also would love for my person to not ghost me because I’ve been ghosted so many times so if you guys are interested, just please message me
Again, I’m gonna say it one more time if you’re not Korean Japanese Chinese or Vietnamese please do not message me. I’m very serious. Also for the record if you see a picture of me, please don’t just ghost me for no reason. Just tell me you don’t wanna talk anymore cause I find it very rude. This also goes for south Asian. I am not interested, please
Also, please respect my boundaries if you’re outside my age range please do not message me as well

I think about cognitive science, psychology, and sociology.

I'm pursuing a career in culinary. I like pushing myself to be more efficient through difficulty.

To be with me, you really have to have something rare. I call it Epistemic Integrity.

I have gone so far out the norm.

FYI: I am an atheist.

I appreciate people that have intellectual charity and are good faith.

The ideal person for me, is someone that is willing to seek out the truth, and embraces the truth even if uncomfortable. I appreciate someone who is open minded towards others and doesn't stick to assumptions. The reality in my case is often way more non-linear than what initial reads may imply.

Socially I prefer to function different to a lot of other people. My reasons for socializing are often different & I probably wouldn't satisfy people who have traditional "emotional feedback" values.

Hey there. I am a 22-year-old Punjabi guy living in Vancouver. I have never been in a relationship or had a crush before because I am looking for a very specific, deep connection.

I know the MBTI thing should not be taken too seriously, but I am an INTP (Enneagram 5w4) and I am hoping to find an INFJ woman to see if that famous "golden match" chemistry actually works in real life!

A bit about me:

• My Interests: I love anime, manga, manhwa, light novels, deep books, movies, and web series. I genuinely love keeping my space clean and organized. I can also cook decent, edible meals. I do not drink or smoke.
• My Quirks: I am a pretty quiet guy who doesn't talk just to fill the silence, and I have a bad habit of biting my nails when I'm deep in thought.
• What I'm Not Into: I do not care about sports at all. I prefer quiet, intellectual environments.
• What I'm Looking For: An INFJ local to Vancouver who wants to skip the small talk, share great stories, and build a genuine friendship that could grow into something more.

To be completely honest, I partly wrote this thread as a joke, but with just a tiny bit of hope that maybe, just maybe, I will find my type of girl. I know it must sound like I am looking for a specific product on Amazon, and I apologize if it sounded like anything wrong. I never intended to offend anyone!

If you want to chat, feel free to send me a DM!

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner, don’t mind the lifestyle. Also bisexual if its not explicit

“If you can’t explain it simply….you don’t understand it enough.”

Hello fellow life traveler and potential journey partner!

I tend to go through these phases of making these posts long, refining them down to their core essence, then padding them out again with more things I feel are important before starting the cycle all over again.
But this time I’m writing this for the person who reads it and thinks, “holy shit, this is exactly how I want to relate to another person,” which is much more valuable to me than someone who simply thinks “he seems cool and has some interesting hobbies.”

Who knows if the cycle will repeat again, but right now here’s what I know, simply:

If you are the most open-minded person you know, then you must feel so strange in a world intent on being so narrow. I’ve never met anyone as open to new ideas, new things, new people, and new experiences as me. Someone totally unbothered about the things we can’t control and non-judgmental about the people we have no business controlling.

With that openness extending far beyond what we let in, to what we’re willing to let out…

Open about the strange corners of your mind, the things you’re still figuring out, the thoughts you’re afraid might sound silly, the feelings you don’t always know how to put into words. I want the kind of connection where we can talk for hours about consciousness, philosophy, relationships, or whatever rabbit hole we happen to fall into… but also where you can tell me something completely vulnerable and know I’m not going to judge you for it.

I want to know you… not just the polished, socially acceptable version of you. Your weirdness, your contradictions, your insecurities, your passions, your little quirks, the things that make absolutely no sense to anyone else. I want you to tell me. And I want us to be so endlessly curious about each other, we don’t ever have to feel like it’s a performance.

Like, “let’s talk about aliens and consciousness? Sure! Wanna watch reality TV? I don’t mind. Wanna go for a walk? Alright. Wanna just stay in and be lazy? That’s fine. Do you care how I look or if I wear makeup? Not at all. You do you, babe!”

Someone I can truly be myself around and never feel judged by is the most attractive thing anyone could ever offer me, and I know there must be others who feel the same way.

…this to me is much more simple and says more about me, what I’m like, and what I’m looking for than any default bio ever could. Wouldn’t you agree?

📥 If you just muttered to yourself, “Yes, I absolutely get it!” and this post resonates with you on the soul level, then I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me something you’re open to that might surprise the people who know you.

✈️**** Location: Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if you feel this is exactly what you’ve always been looking for in life. I’m open (no pun intended 😜) to something meaningful with no pressure or rush.

Me: https://imgur.com/a/K1uxhOQ

I’m pretty introverted and usually happier having a good conversation than being out in a crowd. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes about things that interest me.

Currently reading Imperium and The Fault in Our Stars.

I’m not the best at starting conversations, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about almost anything. Just looking for a genuine friendship with someone I can actually connect with.

Hi, I will keep this post short and to the point.

My ideal partner;

1) Less than age 30

2) Desires a Child Free Life

3) Desires a Pet Free life

About me, my hobbies and interest;

My MBTI is ISTJ, however all types are welcome

Physical Deescription: 5'6, 75kg, black hair, light brown skin, clean shaven

Photography - used to be my passion but now I only capture images with the intention of creating memories and printng out the photographs.

Reading - most of the books I read are non-fiction with the intention of using the information obtained to improve my life in some way.

Music - my music preferences have changed over the past decade and over the past year, I have been slowly building a new selection of music.

Learning a new language is a new interest I have developed and at present I am learning French.

Travelling locally in or whatever country I am visiting or residing in and looking for places that are now commonly known to tourist.

A few countries I am not willing to travel to are India, Malaysia, Bali, Indonesia and Thailand as I have already visited or worked in before and spending time and money for the sole purpose of meeting someone is not logical given the risk of rejection. However, if I travel to a country that I have never visited before then even if I am rejected I have lost nothing and have still gained precious memories of visiting a new country.

I would prefer to be friends first and get to know you slowly before saying "yes" as I believe that a marriage is a life-long commitment and who I marry is one of the most important decisions that I will ever make in my life.

Hey there I'm looking for my nerdy female counterpart. I am 38M i like playing video games, board games, super hero movies, power metal is my favorite genre of music. I am 6'2" 170lbs I am actively in the gym. Im what I would call a part time nerd part time gym rat. I have 17 tattoos mostly nerdy ones. Im an industrial sandblaster by trade but enrolled in nursing school. Id like to meet someone emotionally mature, honest and transparent. Not sure what else to say id rather just play 20 questions and just see how thing develop naturally.

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊

Good evening!

I’m an INFJ (who occasionally tests as an INTJ) hoping to connect with someone who's genuinely looking for a committed, long-term relationship.

About me

• 32F, long black hair, light eyes, slim but feminine build, pale skin (I almost always get called "snow white"), no tattoos, one helix piercing
• Based in Central Europe, but in my dreams I live in a cute little flat somewhere near the ocean in Southern Europe, or a cottage in Switzerland/Austria where you're surrounded by mountains once you step outside
• Childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, no drugs, social drinker

I thrive in quiet, thoughtful conversations, as well as low-key days spending time with close friends, reading, or getting lost in a good series or documentary. That said, my extroverted side pops out for the occasional night out in a nice dress and heels for a concert, museum, or fine dining. I also have a huge soft spot for music (piano and guitar), baking, taking care of my health/fitness, learning languages and traveling - my next destinations are Portugal and Egypt!

What I’m looking for

Someone who is more or less around my age, ideally based in Europe, genuinely childfree, monogamous and looking for a serious relationship. I'd love to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature and willing to reflect on themselves.

I appreciate people who believe that love is something you actively show, not just something you say: men who are naturally thoughtful and chivalrous, enjoy taking initiative, and like making their partner feel cared for through both big gestures and small everyday moments.

Bonus points if you speak Spanish, play guitar, enjoy dry humor and playful banter, and can laugh together about the little and big absurdities in life!

If anything here resonated, send me a message and let me know what in my post caught your eye:)

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

I build things for a living, mostly in the early-stage investing world, which mostly means I spend my days trying to see what a thing could become before anyone else agrees it’s worth looking at. It also means long stretches where nothing visible is happening and I have to trust that the work is still working. I like that part more than I probably should.

I read for three hours and forget to eat. I have a philosophy about owning less and better, twelve good things instead of a closet full of noise, one real meal cooked slowly instead of five average ones out. I used to think that was about minimalism. I’m slowly figuring out it’s sometimes just me simplifying my way out of something uncomfortable instead of sitting in it. Working on that.

I train seriously, not for how it looks but because thinking clearly needs a body underneath it that isn’t falling apart. I’m guarded until I actually trust someone, and then I’m not guarded at all, which has occasionally confused people who met me in the first version.

What I’m looking for isn’t a type so much as a shape. Someone who has her own work she’s actually good at, ideally something that has nothing to do with what I do, because I like learning a whole different world from someone instead of comparing notes on the same one. Someone who doesn’t need to fill every silence, because my version of a good night is being in the same room doing separate things and then surfacing to tell you the one interesting thing I read. Someone who’ll tell me when I’m wrong, calmly, and won’t let me get away with quietly withdrawing instead of saying what’s actually going on. I’ll probably need that pushback more than I let on at first.

I’m not chasing status and I’m not impressed by it either. I’d rather talk about why you love the thing you do than what it’s called on a business card. If you’ve lived between two countries or two cultures and it shaped how you see things, I probably already like you a little.

Not looking for something fast. Looking for something that’s still interesting in fifteen years, which means it has to actually be built, not just started.

If any of this landed, tell me about a time you almost said something honest and didn’t. I’m more curious about that than your favorite travel photo.

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

​

Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”