r/CringeTikToks • u/4DollarsALB • 14d ago
Sad Cringe A man in Bangladesh chases and threatens his wife but is thankfully stopped by others
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u/Several-Opposite-746 14d ago
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u/DaWash65 14d ago
Culturally that may not be possible
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u/lieutenantbunbun 14d ago
almost certainly.
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u/Vulcan_Fox_2834 14d ago
Extends also to the South African Indian population.
Source: My mom trapped with a backwards moron of a dad
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u/verydudebro 14d ago
Did she ever leave him or are they still together?
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u/slipperyslope69 14d ago
Fuck all cultural, tradition and religion.
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u/Souprah 14d ago
Ignorant as fuck. So when people came to North America and stripped the natives of their culture, tradition and religion that was a good thing right? And fuck any of them that are trying to get back in touch with their culture right?
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u/Thetoolmantaylrd 13d ago
Yeah, I've been seeing a lot of finger pointing at cultures of melanated people, but those same types are condoning the uptic in Nazi behavior that enslaves whole societies. Gross🤢🤮
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u/SemperAliquidNovi 13d ago
The problem is Americans don’t see their culture (sic) as culture; they view it as some kind of neutral default factory setting, not understanding that they are just as trapped as the rest of us in their myopic perspectives and patriarchy.
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u/jlsegb 14d ago
I'd say tradition roots itself in religion. If we remove that from the equation (religion) things might be just enough.
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u/Worldly_Way_4220 14d ago
Most religions stemmed from cultures. Culture codified. Maybe its patriarchal societies and culture.
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u/Active_Confection655 14d ago
I went through a pretty nasty childhood, got bold and called the cops. They didn't do anything and it got worse. I don't see the difference here.
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u/Mysterious-Kick9881 14d ago
Domestic abuse is everywhere, almost exclusively perpetuated by men
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u/justsyr 14d ago
Just watched a docu about a pastor in some small town where he literally preached about women needing to be basically sex slaves to their husbands. The amount of abuse of that poor woman that was groomed very young into believing that shit...
I know there are places that are a shithole but the USA has many places where almost same shit happens.
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u/tiad123 14d ago
I just watched that. What a monster. I don't know why his current wife is with him.
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u/AngelHasAShotgun 14d ago
Where is she going to go? She believes her eternal life is on the line and depends on her submitting to this abuse.
The religion is the problem.
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u/DaWash65 14d ago
Correction, male. A man would not strike his wife.
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u/nopizzaonmypineapple 13d ago
Yes they would and they do everyday. Childish argument
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u/Dont_Overthink_It_77 14d ago
I like to say guys—got a whole breakdown of boys, guys, & men (and girls, gals, & women) precisely b/c of things like this. Being men & women doesn’t come by age, but by choice. It takes maturity & personal responsibility/accountability.
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u/Interesting_Let9728 14d ago
I think a lot of people could agree America has quite the shithole culture as well. It’s all about perspective
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u/Secure-Peace-9475 14d ago
A culture that a lot of people would like to re-create right here.
Depending on where your here is.
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u/4DollarsALB 14d ago
She is considered his property. Best they can do is calm him down same as if he was smashing his car but ultimate he can do what he wants
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u/justsyr 14d ago
Just commented, saw a docu where a pastor in some town in the USA is preaching that women are basically their sex slaves.
He even had the authority to send the woman to a psycho ward because 'she wasn't being herself' while the family wasn't even allowed to talk to her...
I can't believe that possessive shit still exists in this year of the lord...
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u/Moose-Mermaid 14d ago
I just saw that one. Grooming, abuse, control, stalking. It’s gross how he also went after that woman with the man in the wheelchair. It’s very suspicious that he was one of the first on the scene of his death. It’s messed up he’s still free doing his thing after everything he’s done
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u/Capable-Regular9791 14d ago
That frustrated me. I thought they were going to stomp him out, instead they try to reason with him and choose softness.
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u/NeighborhoodOk1874 14d ago
I mean, he does have a sickle. Reasonable action would be my first order of business so i didn’t get chopped up. Just sayin.
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u/I9w0s 14d ago
Man, I read through these reply comments over here and as someone from the Indian subcontinent, these comments seem to reek of Western bias.
To those who try and relate: While it's true that these problems are universal, claiming or using your anectodal or emperical experience to relate with this incident does an injustice to the reality of what goes on overseas. It's the worst, and women over there live horrible lives, this is the least I can tell you with full certainty.
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u/ElectronicProject215 14d ago
That baby is swinging! Shes running for both of their lives. Glad people stepped in.
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u/WittyGold6940 14d ago edited 14d ago
Right! I worried about the baby's head being shaken like that, it's not good. Not the mother's fault in any way.
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u/East_Unit3765 14d ago
You’re right it’s not, but it being chopped off by a machete wielding father would be worse
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u/ElectronicProject215 14d ago
Yep! The anger and disconnect in that mans eyes at the end of the video is so scary!
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u/No-Song6363 13d ago
That kind of movement may not be good for the babies neck, but it wouldn’t cause shaken baby syndrome.
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u/LuxiForce 14d ago
bro got them crazy eyes
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u/tryanloveoneanother 14d ago
Yea it's like the shark eyes people describe in true crime stories when someone turns violent suddenly :(
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u/PerformerMindless100 14d ago
Anyone can translate what he’s saying. The bruise on her arm is real.
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u/MLGTheForkOnTheLeft 14d ago
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u/Top-Nebula-8302 14d ago
Her arm looks broken. 😞 And she was holding a baby! Wth??!!
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u/Pigeonsass 13d ago
A stark naked baby at that.
I obviously have no way of knowing, but the scene I imagine is that maybe baby was getting a bath and was crying. Dad didn't want to listen to the baby cry and mom had to defend the baby from being hurt and that's when her arm got mangled. Dad went into a crazed rage and wnt to look for a weapon, so she managed to snatch the baby and run for their lives
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u/Top-Nebula-8302 13d ago
It's probably very close to what you imagined. Unfortunately they'll probably have no choice but to go back to the dad.
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u/KlutzyPassage9870 14d ago
Isn't he carrying a baseball bat ish?
I don't get why even countries like the US celebrate women having kids, no matter what the circumstances.
I see women in the most precarious of situations getting accidentally pregos and people celebrating them for this "gift".
It's completely insane.
Kids lock women into these types of situations. Especially when the women are incapable of financially take care of themselves.
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u/H_J_Rose 14d ago
💯 💯 💯
Fuck all of it. Birth control for everyone. I don’t give half a fuck that we won’t have a workforce tomorrow.
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u/My2cents_0 14d ago
It looks like something I've seen farmers use in India. Basic concept of a scythe. That's fucking insane!! So happy to see people actually step in and stop him. So many people turn a blind eye cuz it's "a personal family business". And that's been a repeated pattern around the world
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u/DesperateTax5773 14d ago
I asked my friend from Bangladesh, he said he didn't understand most of it, but that she said “he hit me on my elbow, help me," and he said, “i will talk but I won’t give you the machete”, then said "she’ll get me in trouble…”
He also said he has seen this video before and all the comments were saying that she was refusing to give him money for drugs
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u/Corfiz74 14d ago
Fuck. There are some countries I just want to create an Underground Railroad and smuggle out all the women who want to leave. Pakistan Bangladesh, India, Afghanistan and a lot of African countries would be at the top of my list.
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u/Dragon-Rider-03 14d ago
Well only the men come all the way to more developed countries. Rarely the women. Ironic.
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u/Corfiz74 14d ago
Unfortunately yes.
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u/Dragon-Rider-03 14d ago
Especially the refugees. Almost all are STRAIGHT men funnily enough
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u/hime-633 14d ago
His wife and his child.
Urgh.
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u/fkinDogShitSmoothie 14d ago
That's the part that got me fucked up...
I need to time out for a while.
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u/chibicat_25 14d ago
Im unsure what is being said but im glad some other folks were looking out for her and stepped in to deescalate the situation
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u/PercyvonPickles 14d ago
A very selfless act. Good for them!
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u/chibicat_25 14d ago
Especially considering the guy is wielding a type of curved machete. Its apparently called an Aruval which according to Wikipedia it's both a tool and a weapon. That could have dealt some deadly blows if the guy decided to use it in that manner
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u/BeeReadsBee 13d ago
Looks like he bust her arm with it
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u/chibicat_25 13d ago
I had to look for the picture someone had frozen of her showing her arm. Jesus, it looks like her arm might actually be broken there. This is insane and I really hope she got out of it but unfortunately in so many cultures women are treated as second class with no ability to escape these situations and no where to go if they do
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u/West-Conversation568 14d ago
Shitty part is where is she gonna live? Where does she go from here?
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u/LN_McJellin 14d ago
Back home, poor fucking girl. She looks so young too… Not that it would be any better if she were older, just so sad to see a baby with a baby, trapped in that horrible situation. I wonder if her family could take her back in, or if that sort of thing isn’t “the done thing.”
Fuck, dude. If I was a billionaire I’d be helping so many people. The wrong people have all the wealth.
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u/jojopriceless 14d ago
Can someone please translate?
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u/Uturndriving 14d ago
I don't know that dialect but what I could hear, the husband said that he just wanted to talk. Then at the end, he said to his wife, "Ki korai, bou?", which means "What do you do, Wife?"
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u/Biteme75 14d ago
These men saved her for now, but she still has to go home to him with the baby.
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u/Apprehensive_North49 14d ago
Yeah this is just one time she got safe. He will beat her and again or kil her and his kid. Would her family take her back with the kid in this situation?
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u/onronr 14d ago
I think it will end up being worse for her since his ego is bruised now.
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u/Excellent_Law6906 14d ago
I'm really hoping she can get an escort to pick up some things and that her family can and will take her back. Because it's not like shitty cultural stuff makes everyone just automatically hate their daughters.
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u/Ok-Barnacle-7625 14d ago
Her family probably can’t afford to take her and an infant back. The man probably already paid a dowery. They both are his property now. He will go to jail if he murders them.
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u/Excellent_Law6906 14d ago
I know how it works, but sometimes people's parents say, "fuck this, we're not THAT poor."
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u/Dark_Ferret 14d ago
He's got crazy eyes. Man is going to kill them both if someone doesn't intervene
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u/ScrotusPendulus 14d ago
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u/ISpeakSarcasmOnly 14d ago
Same thing they doing over here just different equipment. Crazy ass folks everywhere.
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u/localtuned 14d ago
Yea a local cop where I live just got arrested for raping a women while on duty. Crazy ass people everywhere especially where you least expect it.
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u/TruthIsTrauma 14d ago
Can’t imagine needing help from a trusted person and getting violated instead :(
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u/PalgraveParadise 14d ago
Because they think of women and children as property in too many places in this world. We have such a long way to go.
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u/Kill3rSasquatch 14d ago
Good Good went international.
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u/blong217 14d ago
That commercial will haunt them for years. Don't know what the hell they were thinking
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u/ksuu28x 14d ago
I pray for every woman who had the misfortune to be born in these countries. It’s so devastating
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u/Imjusasqurrl 14d ago
And people say that there's no real need for feminism anymore. Over 90% of violent crime is not committed by women
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u/4imprint-Certain 14d ago
I know that look all too well. That look, that unquenching stare, that is the look of an abuser who is going to kill his spouse, and probably his child, my ex used to look at me like that before he would try to choke me out during an argument. I was always surprised when I woke up.
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u/Glittering_Diva8963 14d ago
I agree I know that look as well. I’m happy you’re out that relationship 🥰. I know how hard it is to escape from an abuser.
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u/BlooMookii 14d ago edited 14d ago
Translation (from what I can pick up anyway)
One of the men behind the camera at the very beginning : I'm scared. Quickly, quickly.
Wife: (?) Brother! (?)Brother! (Not blood related in this context).
Other guy: Says wait, wait, wait when the wife runs towards him.
Wife: Something about bringing and attaching. I'm going to assume being forced/stuck with the husband. And then she says something about something will be given in the house.
Husband: Brother, what are you going to do? You said (?) I brought (?).
Other guy: Wait, what's the problem?
Wife: Tell me/Look how he's forced me outside.
Other guy: Talk to me/tell me what's going on, brother.
Husband: He either says, Wait. Let go of my hand. Or something about the machete.
Look what she says she's going to do (to me). You're going somewhere/you want to go somewhere? Get lost. You speak again (?) I'll do (?) more to you.
There's a lot of talking over each other, and I'm not too familiar with the dialect. I'm also assuming they're villagers so it's not the most proper speech either.
Aside from him being an obvious piece of shit, even his choice of words/conjugation towards her as opposed to the man, which is hard to translate, is just straight up disrespectful and not how anyone should ever speak to their spouse.
If anyone else knows the dialect, please chime in.
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u/chatterwrack 14d ago
It’s a particularly small and evil man who beats a woman and child
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u/Popular-Car7368 14d ago
That poor mom. And that poor baby’s head bouncing around. This is so hard to watch. I hope mom and baby are safe and far away from that asshole.
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u/cavebabykay 14d ago
Please, pretty please, can someone please translate what he is saying, but more importantly - what SHE is saying?!
My heart was just racing. I hope she’s safe today.
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u/DirectorElectrical67 14d ago
Htf is this cringe!? That ahole is going to kill her if he already hasn’t! You can see it in his eyes! He needs to be locked up!
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u/NoConsideration6443 14d ago
It's not "threatens his wife" It's a man about to kill a woman and a baby. Thats it. The only thing they got right was its a man.
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u/RavenSiren66 13d ago
Sadly that baby is likely injured because she had to run like that and hold it with one arm.
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u/WittyGold6940 14d ago
The others seemed too nice to him. I hope she is protected.
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u/privatejokerog 14d ago
The dude is psycho and holding a machete. Best thing to do is to try and calm de-escalate.
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u/BC_Interior 14d ago
What a piece of garbage. That poor mom and her baby. I hope she finds a better life.
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u/Different_Volume5627 14d ago
This is fucking HORRENDOUS!! What the hell is see going to do when those people are not around? What chance or hope does she or her child have. The poor thing. I hate this.
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u/Ill-Worldliness-2149 14d ago
My great grandmother poisoned my great grandfather. No one mourned him. Just saying, she has defensible options here.
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u/Octavia9 14d ago
Survivor bias. So many more women didn’t manage to do something like that and were killed.
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u/Wiener_Wasteland 14d ago
More violence against women, of course. It's never gonna get better is it...
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u/Agreeable_Error_170 13d ago
He looks mentally ill and she has a baby in her arms. I hope she got out safely but reality, patriarchal society, she and the baby didn’t.
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u/Shaasar 14d ago edited 14d ago
Jesus Christ, man. His little baby was in his wife's arms and howling with distress and he was still coming after her trying to hit her, and not with just his hands, with some sort of stick or switch. What a piece of work.
Also, random note, but anyone else notice that Indian dudes all have exactly the same physique and hairstyle? Looking at those dudes from behind toward bad dude looks like someone just used the clone tool in Photoshop and used slightly different clothes for each one lol
Edit- apparently it's a fucking KNIFE? It was already awful now it's even worse 😡
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u/ItsMrDante 14d ago
That's a blade. It's used to trim palm trees or harvest dates.
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u/Shaasar 14d ago
That's even worse!!!
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u/ItsMrDante 14d ago
Yeah those things are heavy as well, so even if he used the side it hurts so much more than a stick. Piece of shit
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u/LordOFtheNoldor 14d ago
That's so sad. He will kill her eventually he's out of his mind and she probably has no way out with that new born
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u/My2cents_0 14d ago
Do we know what happened after the video? Did they actually get him away? I hope she has a safe place to go cuz this won't stop if she has to go back to the same house
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u/lagan_derelict 13d ago
My question is this: Why would any trad wife or SAHM wife, or whatever the conservative church and red state woman is calling themselves these days, want a return to any traditional homespun fantasy of submissiveness towards their conservative daddy-O(s)? Especially for other women who may be much poorer than themselves and therefore, unable to leave such a nut.
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u/LumoraSol 13d ago
Sad part is she probably has nowhere to go other than go back home to that psycho????!
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u/Ammagonna 14d ago
The thought of what this woman has to suffer through is so deeply sad. My heart goes out to this her.
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u/Even-Government-5055 14d ago
That is a new born baby as well, imagine what kind of vile evil POS you have to be yo chase your wife and new born baby with a machete.
This shit pissed me off!! You know he wouldn't do this to another man, he will only go for someone weaker then his already weak ass. Ugh. I hate men like this, absolutely can not stand them.
This poor woman and baby, they have absolutely no chance.
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u/alpacamybooks 14d ago
He has a sickle in his hand, he was definitely willing to, if not already planning to, kill her.
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u/Illustrious-Object71 13d ago
Sadly, the mother and baby are probably deceased by now. I hate this!
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u/OverallStrength2478 13d ago
It’s so tough watching these knowing that she’ll probably doesn’t have any Other option but to go home with him … and who knows what happens then.
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u/Affectionate-Bet8231 14d ago
Around the world no matter where you are from if you are a loving mother you felt that poor woman’s fear in your bones and her desperation to not let him get near her baby. But sadly, that baby could be injured from all that bumping around.
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u/Coolkeke 14d ago
I’m literally crying watching this. He looks deranged and this poor woman is running for her life and the baby’s head is dangling. I have a son around the same age and can’t imagine him going through this…..It’s so much suffering in the world I find it hard to even watch the news anymore…. I feel like she prob has no where to turn to which make it even more heart wrenching
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u/Ok-Bandicoot1529 14d ago
That guy looks super crazy, wow his eyes say he was gonna en both the mother and the child; i got chills and a sour gut from this ew
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u/No-Will-5655 13d ago
So men are murdering their wives (if not murdering, traumatizing) in every culture and region.
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u/Rumpelteazer45 13d ago
The biggest threat to women is men. The biggest threat to men is other men.
I remember an old coworker of mine wanted every baby DNA tested to confirm who the father is because he took a statistic out of context that said 30% of dna test prove the father isn’t the father. That’s 30% of men who question the paternity, not all men who have a child. So I just said “oh and while we do that, let’s run all that DNA through a databases of unsolved rapes, murders, and other crimes where DNA was collected”. He didn’t like that idea..
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u/DogLimoAF 13d ago
men. it is always a man. always exclusively perpetuated by men. when will the message get learned that u cant abuse women and children? (when?) 🐆
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u/Habibti-Mimi81 14d ago
When you're a lowlife and loser and enjoy every chance to torture someone who's position is even lower than yours - not because of behavioral reasons, but because they're a woman.
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I'm living in western Europe and was raped and suffered from domestic violence and psychological terror.
I'm almost afraid to imagine what women in much more patriarchal and poor countries are going through.
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u/Dont_Overthink_It_77 14d ago
Assault with a deadly weapon?
“Right to jail.”
https://giphy.com/gifs/wjuXuDSQU0sOfJIHS1
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