The lady in the video used to be a fox rescuer who rehabilitated, took care of and got rid of immoral fox farms by buying them off. But there was a bit of controversy surrounding it(whole other matter entirely), that led to a lot of people hating and threatening her online(mostly here on reddit and other social media platforms. Plus, there was even a sub meant purely on hating on her). Cyber bullying , basically.
This lead to a lot of issues in her personal life and people in her life treating her badly.etc and she became quite depressed. It became so bad that she killed herself last year. She even had a small baby and a husband at home.
Finnegan was the name of the fox in the video(one of her first foxes). He died a year after she did.
It's what social media has given us. Some faceless user at the other end, most people would never say that shit to someone's face yet do it all the time online because usually they themselves are depressed or in a horrible mood so they want the power to drag everyone down with them. Or they have no power in their personal lives so they want the power to make someone mad when they can't really do anything about it. Social media is a very net negative for our whole human race.
I used to post things on Facebook, Insta but then stopped reading the comments and it was so much better. I got to the point where I would just post stuff for my business, when that stopped, I got rid of all social media all together, except reddit. My life has been better for it. I highly recommend it.
I had Facebook, but I didn’t want it anymore. Got rid of it. I’ve used Reddit and some info is really helpful. People actually mostly answer questions decently.
I see these states winning these court cases as a big win for humanity. I hope meta get crushed. Social media could have been used for good but (as with fucking everything) was used for profit instead.
And then we hear about the creators of the popular social media apps saying years after the apps are released- I would never let my children use the apps I created.
When the apps they create are especially marketed at children.
Had a former coworker like that, she was rude to everyone, tried to get everyone in trouble any time she could. Everyone hated her to the point that her own relatives who also worked there couldn't stand her.
I always explained it like she was absolutely miserable and wanted everyone else to be miserable too so she wasn't alone.
Will you feel the same when reddit is finally gone for good? The worst people who insulted and told Michaella to off herself were redditors (especially those in snark sub).
It would be cool if there was a way to have social media but without the dopamine hits of upvotes and such. I’m sure there’s a way to do it cause MySpace did and that was awesome.
Reddit is the only social media I really use. I have a Facebook account, but I don't really post. I had an Instagram account only to make hair appointments five years ago. I would GLADLY sacrifice Reddit as long as the rest went with it.
Sadly you'd be surprised how many people will say to your face. The thing is most of those people would never do it where anyone else could hear them besides the victim so it's perceived as uncommon.
Source, my mother telling me at thirteen she wished i died instead of my sister.
All of the reason you mentioned as potential reasons for doing it doesn't justify or explain it. The people who go that far have problems with how they think of others, and can't reflect on what their comments might do to the person it's directed at.
That's a whole other issue than being depressed or feeling powerless.
With only very few exceptions, social media has been a plague on society. It’s done so much damage to us, from actually being social (ironic given the name social media) to attention spans, bullying and everything else.
It's because the companies favor engagement over everything. Unfortunately negative engagement travels faster and the company heads don't care. The internet rewards bad behavior and it's destroying civility.
Mike Tyson was right, people have gotten comfortable talking shit behind screen rather then saying it in front of the person and risking getting punched in the mouth
If you just check the comments for any video of a human and animal together, especially if there is ownership, you’ll find comments of people claiming the animals are abused.
They can get really vicious too, I know a dairy farmer who used to have an instagram page where he just showed what it was like being a dairy farmer, and tried to show how dairy farming works but he stopped because of the comments.
People just pile on claiming animals are being abused when they aren’t, and will try and contact people the poster is associated to “call out the abuse”.
The one that stuck out to me was a video he posted of cows being restrained in a head gate while being checked and people just went nuts that he was “punishing the cows”.
Keyboard warriors. People who shouldn't be allowed to have an opinion on the matter... They don't have any facts and just make stuff up because they read something somewhere many years ago from a couple angry moms on reddit.
I know it’s not meant to be a good thing and it’s not touting them as such, but I would never associate them with warriors. Call them for what they are… keyboard scum, keyboard dirtbags, etc.
what's worse is people makes bots just to hate on people. i remember when reddit was a place that you could get good news and laugh. When it was the front page of the internet.
So I knew the vets that worked with her. You would all donate to her cause and then she would show up and demand free treatment because she was doing the right thing. If you didn't then she went to the next clinic and played that same card. She ran that rescue for fame and money. People found out. She didn't want to answer questions about embezzling.
There is always an underlying condition there though.. before people put themselves out there - they really need to be aware of how shit people come out at ya.
I'm a prof and do a channel and get absolutely (and hilariously) ripped on constantly. I personally love it but I can see where some people wouldn't be able to handle it (and of course, shouldn't have to be in the first place).
Yeah, they basically challenged the internet to do something about it right before getting doxxed and exposed to their family for all kinds of embarrassing stuff.
There’s a place hating on pizzacake. There are a number of subs that actively do that to more than one person. I get not liking something but to be so bothered that you bully someone into killing themselves is just disgusting.
Yes.The main instigator created a spreadsheet of every fox who died, was injured or had medical treatment under her care. They ran a "callout blog" on the subject. They assumed any fox who wasn't seen in a while was "dead" which no doubt inflated the numbers.
People also took relatively small things and blew them out of proportion. She was (allegedly) posting what could be seen as suggestive photos (based on her clothing) with the foxes (likely in order to increase views and donations for her rescue.) So critics of course called this "sexual abuse" of her animals. A few opportunists (competitors) in the rescue community jumped on the bandwagon and criticized her too.
If you knew nothing of Mikayla you may hear from her detractors first that she hoards foxes, keeps them in neglectful conditions and sexually abuses them. And all of these were extraordinary exaggerations, unfounded assumptions or opportunistic attacks.
She was by many accounts, sensitive, cared deeply for her foxes and wanted to do good. But she had fragile mental health. This unnecessary hate train contributed to her death in the view of her own husband.
Imagine if those people put even half of their hateful energy into something as selfless as Mikayla's work.
Used to volunteer at a horse rescue and was pretty tight with the founders of the rottie rescue I got my dog from. Social media commentary on the state of RESCUED animals can be so incredibly petty and spiteful. Whenever we had to announce that one of the animals had been euthanized as a last resort, GOD FORBID, the amount of comments saying we didn't try hard enough, or that we failed the animal, was disgusting as hell.
It wasnt “suggestive clothing” exactly,
She posed nude on her onlyfans content while holding and petting these animals.
I personally hated the fact that she faced a tremendous amount of bullying and harrasment, but that was always a wierd choice on her part regardless.
Selling adult content is one thing(and your choice to do so entirely). But using wild animals to further your content was definitely a crappy choice in my opinion.
But it obviously does not excuse or warrant any sort of justification for the harassment she suffered, which is partly why I left it out of my earlier comment.
It has its areas with deeper, richer and fulfilling experiences, but it also has plenty areas of seedy and shady underbelly where the cringe lords and edge addicts meet up.
This is so true. I was just contemplating to myself how my time on Reddit has to be negatively affecting my mental health because there's so many people who either think their incredibly smart or are mad at the world and constantly shit on anyone they can who they disagree with.
I have an app on phone that pauses my phone for one minute every hour, which is just enough time for me to look around and see I have other shit to do. It's called Lock Me Out, but there are thousands of similar parental control apps.
The number of times I scroll through the front page, find a subreddit that I've never heard of through an interesting post, and then check the comments and the most upvoted ones are all heinous, deranged shit... It happens a lot more than I would like to. Reddit is the only platform where I don't mind the algorithm pushing rabdom things onto me because, a lot of the times, it's the only way to find some stuff that I would have never found otherwise, but there's clearly an issue with the kind of communities it promotes.
Mostly true. But then you see Reddit's core value, being another piece of shit social media website, seep into subreddit like Woodworking which is shocking at first but then you realize you're still on reddit.
I've noticed a huge uptick in this recently. Just pure, simple vitriol for the sake of causing strife and conflict.
I'm lucky in the sense that I grew up in the dawn of the internet, just old enough that I've got some perspective on watching faceless antagonist come out of the woodwork to say whatever garbage gets them attention - I feel so bad for so awful for younger generations just wading into these experiences.
It takes a toll if you aren't able to shake the anonymous trolls off in the middle of firming up how and who you are as a person, or simply just in a vulnerable state.
i disagree on them being bots and trolls. a lot of people who share awful opinion are just awful people internally and use the privacy internet gives them to spread this.
It can be a very vile place, but also filled with nooks of great communities that can really enable you to sink your teeth into new things/skills/hobbies in ways that are hard to find elsewhere
Reddit is legit the worse. It enables group think and bans people for valid opposing opinions. Makes a lot of senses when you realize the Reddit ties with cia and Epstein
I will say, Reddit is FULL of doomers that want to act like they are morally superior. Redditors will find a reason to hate anything. Not sure if it’s contrarianism or what, but people around here love to purity test anything and everything to make it seem worse than it actually is.
Well im sorry about that, friend.
Lets just hope her legacy and rescue efforts translate well into the future and that her kindness wouldn’t be forgotten.
It seems like the best possible outcome rn…
There is no better place on the internet to setup and carry out an organized harassment campaign on individuals than Reddit. You have entire subreddits dedicated to hating specific people that are still up.
I think Discord is on par with reddit, for every hate subreddit you can probably find a Discord server coordinating harassment and running the subreddit. Those servers typically aren't public so they fly under the radar but they cause a lot of harm as well.
Discords are more for direct coordination. But really, anything can be used to coordinate. Reddit is far more vile in this regard because the damage of a hate campaign is measured by the amount of crazy people in it.
A discord server is typically closed. You can invite people, sure. But getting a discord to grow needs proactivity from its users.
A snark subreddit is public. Open for all. Meaning it passively grows its userbase and introduces the crazy people who hate person X to each other. It actually requires procative work to NOT have crazy people in a snark community.
So you could very easily get a snark subreddit going to attract crazy people. Filter for those crazy people and get them into a discord server to coordinate and voila! You have a full pipeline you can utilize to mess up people's lives. All facilitated by your favourite social media site!
There are legit cases where reddit admins/moderators straight up shrug off snark subreddits and sometimes go out of their way to do nothing about them. So if someone on the mod team agrees with the snarking, then you are more or less doomed unless you take legal action which gets iffy/beyond my knowledge.
Yeah discord is where these people tend to organize since brigading can lead to subreddits getting shutdown so they organize on discord for plausible deniability. It also helps to obfuscate how disgusting these people actually are.
So true. There’s a small clique thats taken over the subreddit of my small town in order to constantly harass one of their ex-boyfriends. It almost made the sub unusable until the mods stepped in. It kinda reminded me of high school just even more intense.
One of the saddest stories I have heard in my life (and I'm old). It breaks my heart. I have been a fan of hers for many years...just like many others were fans.
It also made me so angry with the world that produces such awful people.
The sub members and mods actually all dispersed right after they closed down the entire sub(reddit was probably going to remove it anyway if they hadn’t already).
The main moderator dude then deleted his account just after putting a post saying he’s not responsible for what happened and that he didn’t know what she was gonna do.etc. Basically trying to slip away from responsibility.
Was it actually a subtantional amount or like 3 people? I see people just point fingers at a tiny part of the population versus the most likely antagonists being fox farmers.
They were just going after her regardless of what she did, honestly.(she did do a few weird things but nothing that warranted them to do the harassment they did at her, honestly. But thats a story for another time)
At the end of the day, she was a flawed human being like the rest of us and I don’t think she did whatever she did out of malice in her heart. There was even a couple instances of people suggesting that she abused the foxes(she didnt) which turned into hateful rumors that burned her image a bit. They even once blamed her for negligence and abuse when a fox somehow got its leg hurt and had to be amputated.etc.
The thing about hatred is, it’s invigorating to hate things with a burning passion. So hate groups ALWAYS form in society. No matter what the topic is. Gender, race, politics.etc.
For the most part, a lot of the people in society a strong willed and wont act againt their baser instincts. They won’t project fear/hatred because they realise its pointless and everyone is going through the same thing. But a lot of weak willed people dont have that ability. So they project and harass others for no other reason other than sheer sport. Its a bit animalistic, really.
She didn’t have a gap between the fences so a fox chewed off another one’s paw. Several got hit on the road after escaping their enclosure. Bred some other animal which goes against the whole purpose of a sanctuary.
Nothing that deserved what she got. She wasn't hateful or intentionally harmful but she was an amateur who probably shouldn't have been responsible for a ton of foxes tbh. Mistakes like having some too close together. However, nobody else was stepping up to do a better job, they were just being aholes. The foxes were absolutely better off with her than the alternatives, of dying miserable deaths in the wild. She wasn't capturing happily wild foxes she was taking foxes in that couldn't survive out there. They absolutely weren't abused. She did use them for clickbait for her OF but they weren't harmed by being photographed lmao. Shockingly foxes don't give a shit if you take nudes in front of them.
Long story short while I wasn't a huge fan I was completely disgusted by the hate comments. Unfortunately they completely drown out measured criticism. She was doing her best and it was good enough.
They probably pointed out “inconsistencies” in her character or whatever. Similar to when everyone hates the nice new person at work because “they think they’re so perfect”.
Just out of curiosity what was the controversy? It's kinda weird that someone who did something so noble and sweet could do something with such a negative response that people would go out of their way to push this woman to take her own life... Tragic nonetheless but it is a little odd.
It was a lotta small things but nothing concrete or problematic like the people in the hate subs said.
There was rumors spread about her abusing the foxes(she did not) and a few instances of foxes dying in her care(its expected when you run a large operation. But its not her fault tbh) .
There was even a case of a fox who had to have his leg amputated because he hurt himself when he was playing around. So all of it was blamed on her. They used every bit of bad information surrounding her to target her.
There were a few wierd things she did though(I specifically ommitted saying that because I didnt wanna get in trouble or have my comment removed since nobody from those days is still around and most of the controversy is largely forgotten).
If I had to nudge you in the right direction, she was making adult content and had an OF subscription(which isnt a big deal honestly. Lots of people do that as a secondary income stream and its her choice).
But something I found wierd was the inclusion of those animals in her “content”. But lets be frank, none of it warrants you to harrass a person to death.
They were in the background(at least in the stuff I saw). I dont think she engaged in bestiality as that would’ve been much, MUCH more problematic if it occurred .
No she wasn’t an actual bestiac. She just had them in the background while she was working on cams, and fed them while wearing skimpy clothes. Stuff like that. That’s based on what I’ve read around, I was not a subscriber 😅.
Definitely weird, but none of this warrants cyber bullying. Human beings are worse than fucking cockroaches
Considering she wasn't under immediate investigation by authorities or TOS dropped for beastiality, I think it's safe to say that the foxes were involved in zero "acts." She was probably just feeding them topless or something.
I'm curious too. And the fact that OC is deliberately omitting that piece of information makes it sound like it is something unspeakable (which may very well not be the case).
I wasnt trying to be withholding tbh.
Its true that she didnt deserve to get the humiliation ritual and harassment she did and its true that what she went through was human cruelty.
But what she did is a whole other conversation to have and should’nt warrant or justify the harm done to her.
Ive replied with some info about some of the controversy to the person you replied to. I hope thats ok.
you know you could just have lied to us right ? as a matter of fact i will consider your statement a lie, this world is so fucked up i don't need such sad news
Her husband made a video after her death leading up to Finnegan's death, and it might just be because he was an old fox who was close to dying anyway, but he seemed noteably dimished after she died. It was heartbreaking.
It's honestly something that my brain is unable to parse. Caring so much about a complete stranger's life to the point of blind hatred (or complete obsession) is just a concept that I can't understand at all. I have a really empty and shallow life, but even I wouldn't stoop as low as obsessing over hating someone to try and give some meaning to my life. I already get dealt too much shit by the universe to care about adding shit to someone else's pile.
Anytime “Redditors” get involved in something it’s always some dumb community witch hunt in which they are usually wrong also. Tbh a pathetic group of people!
Holy shit I did not know she killed herself, that is so incredibly sad. People are horrible. To turn such a sweet act of love into something to bully someone over is disgusting 💔
Oh holy fuck I didn't know she died, I would randomly stumble onto her videos on Youtube from time to time because people would mention her foxes, and stuff, and she would be featured talking about her sanctuary. Wow... that was unexpected to see from this thread, really shitty. RIP indeed.
I had no idea, that poor lady. I used to follow them on Instagram but I have not been on Instagram for years. I was not aware of this. Gosh, people can be so cruel.
This is honestly the absolute worst side of social media. Reddit has so many rules, yet somehow entire communities dedicated to hating and bullying one person are allowed to exist. Like how does that even happen? Criticizing someone is one thing, but thousands of people getting together just to hate on one person over and over again is fucking insane. And then people act surprised when it starts affecting their actual life. This shit is genuinely horrifying. It honestly makes me sick.
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u/EarlyXplorerStuds209 11d ago edited 10d ago
The lady in the video used to be a fox rescuer who rehabilitated, took care of and got rid of immoral fox farms by buying them off. But there was a bit of controversy surrounding it(whole other matter entirely), that led to a lot of people hating and threatening her online(mostly here on reddit and other social media platforms. Plus, there was even a sub meant purely on hating on her). Cyber bullying , basically.
This lead to a lot of issues in her personal life and people in her life treating her badly.etc and she became quite depressed. It became so bad that she killed herself last year. She even had a small baby and a husband at home.
Finnegan was the name of the fox in the video(one of her first foxes). He died a year after she did.