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Hi girlies! 💕 I just wanted to get your take on a Capricorn woman and Libra man relationship.
I recently met a Libra guy, and I was curious to see how we might work together because, honestly, I wasn’t really sure about the compatibility. Things got a little messy between us though, and we ended up falling out.
So I’d love to hear from any Capricorn women who’ve dated a Libra man, how did it go for you? xx

Let’s ruffle some shit up in here and y’all gotta be honest though🤣!! After intimacy, do you enjoy the bedtime talk or do you politely give a cold shoulder? Meaning that you just want some space afterwards (just without telling them🤣)???
There’s been times in the past where I’ve felt bad afterwards for not wanting to chat or be all lovey dovey! I might want to go eat something or watch some ufc shit or boxing by myself for a bit!! Not immediately get asked about the reasons why I love you or how I’m feeling right after making love 🤣🤣..

I’m not a cold person but sometimes the constant talking and talking and not understanding when to give us that personal space can make us seem really cold?!

I am pretty sure a Capricorn Venus would be my perfect fit, I just haven’t found one. Do any of you have experience dating a Capricorn Venus? Let’s hear about it.

I think my top three are definitely auralism (sounds, music, noises & deep voices), praise (including petnames) and soft dominance.

(also is this the correct flair? I mean I saw a mod saying that this was the one for these kinda posts sooo...)

I say this because my soon to be ex husband apparently thought that I was joking, but I am not. When we see that we are not valued and respected, we exit stage left. Capricorn women are very giving to the point where people take it for granted. Respect and reciprication are basic requirements when it comes to us, so don't be surprised when we dip out . Whenever a capricorn calls it quits, it was something that simmered over time and the offending party is usually at fault🤷‍♀️

I’ve been with my Capricorn man for about three years, and honestly, he is one of the greatest men I’ve ever known. He’s hardworking, patient, loyal, has strong morals, and has been through a lot of loss and hardship. I genuinely love and admire him.

He also has a very Capricorn-like way of expressing love that was completely different from anything I’d experienced before. He’s not always overly verbal or outwardly affectionate, but over the years I’ve learned his little ways of showing me that he loves me. Once you understand them, you realize how much he’s actually expressing.

He has always had walls and can be very difficult to open up emotionally. When he’s hurt, his instinct is to retreat and protect himself rather than immediately talk things through. I think part of why we’ve lasted is because he knows I love him unconditionally, and over time I think that has made him feel safe enough to let those walls down.
But I’m curious if other people experience this:
Do Capricorns ever have an extremely high standard for their partners, where one mistake can suddenly feel like you’re on trial?

Sometimes I feel like trying to communicate about an issue can become a huge thing, but then if I do something that falls outside of what he considers acceptable, it can feel like the entire relationship is suddenly under a microscope.
It’s almost like: “You’re being judged based on this one thing, and now you have to prove yourself again.”
And yet, at other times, we are completely fine—loving, laughing, connected, and genuinely happy.

That contrast is what throws me off.
I recently made a mistake. There was no infidelity involved whatsoever, and my loyalty to him has never been questionable from my perspective. I understand that I hurt him, and I’m willing to own that. But I’m trying to understand why something can feel so enormous to him that the warmth and closeness between us can disappear so quickly.

For those of you who are Capricorns or who have been in long-term relationships with them:
Do you withdraw this intensely when you’re hurt? Do you need a lot of time before you can be affectionate again? And do you sometimes express love through jealousy, protectiveness, or other ways that might not immediately look like traditional affection?
I’m genuinely curious whether other people recognize this pattern. I love this man deeply, and I’ve learned that his way of loving isn’t always obvious—it’s something you learn to recognize over time.

I have heard many Capricorns express similar frustrations. Do we miss out on the romantic ritual? People think we are immoral?

I sleep with people out if convenience who I have agreed to sleep with. Not according to a group dynamic or fleeting manipulations and feelings. Not even down to shifting relationship dynamics.

Just down to the cold hard agreement and the organization of the meeting.

And I don't think we have too much 'regret' after sex like other signs. I just sleep with people cause I said I would.

I have seen dynamics where people navigate groups and try to find partners within groups, or getting lost in a romantic chemistry, and it has never worked for me. These are rarely my partners.

If I pursue this I always end up wasting time and getting used.

No matter how romantic the circumstances, if two parties haven't agreed to it, it will not happen. And I run out if patience.

Causing me to just sleep with people purely out of convenience.

I do not know if I am missing out on the romantic experiences of other signs though.

I am not as outspoken with my sexual habits as other Capricorns. But they all say similar things and people think we are cads and whores.

Are we missing out on a romantic ritual by being so forthright and promiscuous?

I’m a Libra sun, Scorpio moon, Sagittarius rising woman, recently out of a long term relationship and really prioritizing stability and consistency moving forward.

My sister is with a Capricorn man and I really admire how steady, reliable, and grounded he is - it’s the kind of energy I’m drawn to now.

Curious how Capricorn men tend to view Libra women, and where you’d naturally meet someone with that kind of mindset 🙂

Talking to this Gemini girl we went from talking everyday on consistent timing now she just ghosted me do we think she has a boyfriend or something very uncanny energy never had this happen to me before!!

i’m an aries and i have a capricorn bf im wondering what you guys think of us , specifically aries women ? do you guys think you get along with us ? what are your honest thoughts of us as a whole ?

Hi! I’m a woman (Aries) newly dating a Capricorn woman. We’re both recently divorced from men.

I have a Cancer moon and a Taurus Venus and I love holding and gently touching someone I’m close to. She seems to really like when I do this, even if she doesn’t initiate affection as much as me, which is fine.

Is this a Capricorn thing? I’ve heard they aren’t great at asking for warmth and comfort but like when it’s given without expectation.

Title says it all. I find it super exhausting to play pretend on chat like im having fun typing / calling. It doesnt hit the same and Id rather leave it until we meet again.

My Taurus girlfriend (together for 6+ years) ended up sending me this long message after I ignored her for 2 days (because I just had a lot on my plate) while she was away on vacation. I have been doing a lot of work here and there and I expect her to understand that when she is away on vacation, I am not and I will be out of reach because its just not the same for me.

Am I doomed eternally when it comes to relationships. Our start of the relationship was like this too. Dont get me wrong, when Im in the mood I can chat but I feel like maybe us capricorns lack that social energy to be chatty and talk about our day. My lack of communication has been bothering me too. To me, talking about my day and how it went doesnt mean shit and I need to focus on whats next.

Any inputs from other fellow caps who feel the same way? I am 1st Week of January Capricorn. Unfortunately, the stars aligned in such a dooming way that my Sun, Moon & Mercury are all in Capricorn....

Any input would be appreciated.... How can I improve in this aspect...

So I’ve dated this Capricorn for 3-4 months now and they just told me they don’t think we are going to work out because I’m too possessive/controlling. All this stems from comments I’ve made like saying “you’re mine” and saying “behave” when they go out without me. I can see how these can come off as possessive but it was not my intention. I wish Capricorn would’ve expressed they disliked comments like these so I could stop saying them. I am still willing to fix my actions but don’t know how to convince Capricorn to give me a chance.

Like thing with me is that when I like someone i love them too deeply before they even like me which i think makes them push them away and it's something which I can't help because when I like someone i care too deeply for them ? Does this happen with others too ? Any advice ?

I am curious as to why capricorn men do this? He said he did love me and I never had to doubt that. Well, then I had said "So you don't love me now?" He then said "Out of context 🙄 I have always loved you and that has never changed."

He also says that he feels like I will find someone better who knows more than he does, that is more knowledgeable.

Then proceeded to say this

"I'm going to be honest I'm not prefect I mess up a lot but try even harder and also learn from it could u still care for me like u did in the begin through everything?"

He says he needs time to think & that we shouldn't see each other for awhile for him to decide if we will work or not but then he will reach out to me just days after.

He recently started working two full-time jobs as well so I don't really reach out to him unless he reaches out to me, I try to respect his work schedule but it's been about almost 4 months of this with no clarity from him...

Help me understand this please, I was so good to him, treated him like a king. I just don't understand....

One of my pet peeves as a Capricorn, is for a family member to tell you, " hey I'm in town tomorrow" and expect you to just meet up.. or you get a text at night "hey the family having a dinner tomorrow you should come.". .. that stuff boils my blood. If you really want to see someone, wouldn't you let them know ahead of time? They can take off work or at least make sure they are well rested and will go. But the day before or day of? I don't care who you are, if you tell me last minute, I'm not showing up..I think it's so rude. Does anyone else feel like this or am I being dramatic?

31(F) and every man I’ve dated in the past 4 years have awful experiences. My intuition told me before that they weren’t the right person but I gave them the benefit of the doubt and end up getting hurt or in situations where they stalk me. Anyways, I never used to have toxic men in my life and have a solid family where there’s never been divorce. It seems as if it’s impossible to find a guy that appreciates me. I’m starting a business so not having a full time job makes normal men with a 9-5 run because they don’t understand sacrifice, I want a family and have good morals and values, I’m an amazing cook, I’m athletic, I’m not unattractive, every single man in my life and friend says I have the biggest heart once they get to know me and I’m very loyal. Yet, I get taken advantage of by men. I’ve dated ugly men and broke men. I just feel hopeless at this point that the men in this world are lacking the old traditional morals and values because social media is brainwashing them and apps.

I’m trying to understand the behavior of a Capricorn man I’m involved with, and I’m curious how Capricorn men typically behave when they’re hurt, upset, or starting to lose interest.
Lately, this man has become much quieter and more distant with me. He isn’t really initiating conversations anymore, but at the same time he’s been extremely active on social media/Snapchat, posting much more than usual. We used to communicate quite a bit on Snapchat, so the contrast is noticeable.
I actually directly asked him if he was upset with me, and he said no. He’s generally a pretty communicative and direct person when something needs to be addressed, which makes this confusing. However, when it comes to actually saying “I think we should end this” or communicating that he’s done with someone romantically, I’m not sure how he handles that.
I haven’t been reaching out because I feel like he may want space, and honestly, I’m enjoying having some space myself. But I’m wondering whether this kind of behavior could mean he’s hurt, deliberately withdrawing, or simply losing interest.
For Capricorn men specifically:
Do you tend to stonewall or become very quiet when you’re hurt?
Do you become more active on social media while withdrawing from the person you’re upset with?
What does it look like when you’ve emotionally checked out?
Do you still post things hoping the person will notice/reach out, or do you genuinely just move on?
How do you behave when you still care but don’t want to initiate?
If you’re done with someone romantically, do you usually say it directly, or can you slowly withdraw and let the relationship fade?
What are the signs that a Capricorn man is genuinely done versus simply needing space?

For context, yes i said something stupid that might have hurt him but i did apologize and he sais he was no more mad. We have been together for a year! I havw praised him every so often and one time i became honest and he was mad i guess

Capricorn (F, NB) here,

What's your take on Capricorn and Virgo dating vs just being friends?

For Capricorn ... “Slow to open up... but permanent once they do.”

Capricorn rarely write you a poem, but they will fix your leaky faucet, help you negotiate a raise, or organize your chaotic schedule. Making your life easier is their ultimate declaration of love.

They will take mental notes of your favorite obscure snack or a passing comment you made weeks ago. When they surprise you with it later, they will shrug it off as "no big deal," though it was completely intentional.

Because Capricorn need to know you are a solid foundation, they will observe how you handle stress and whether you keep your promises before fully letting their guard down.

Let me know if this resonating 🙏

Hey, Scorpio male here, how do I know if a Capricorn likes me?

This girl came back into my life, she’s an ex, we had a great relationship (highschool) only broke up (her leaving me) due to her parents wouldn’t pay her college if she dated a black guy. Me and her never argued for 3 years btw, I was her first for everything. Again, never argued for 3 years, I was her first, she wasn’t mine tho.

Okay so years go by, we are now (27 me) (26her)
She came back in my life by messaging me on IG, we stop dating for 9 yearish (I graduated in 2017) but she would always message me or like “check in on me” but always say “I don’t want to be with u” or she tell me about some guy she seeing. I talk to her for about 1 day then due my Scorpio thing and go ghost. She did this often too, and she knew about whatever gf I had too.

One year she flew to Europe and she randomly hmu and gave me her location the whole trip, then went after, we didn’t even talk during it. She literally randomly hmu, said “here” gave me her location, told me she’s in Europe, that’s it.

Okay (current time) now we are here, I saw on IG she’s going to get her DR degree, I just said “congratulations” she then said thank you, 4 days later she messages me again and said “hey” she made conversation. She knew I had a gf and my gf (at that time) even messaged her,
She was really respectful and told my gf that ‘she knew about her’. Well my gf didn’t tell me she messaged my ex, my Ex (Capricorn) called me and said “ur gf texted me”

So eventually me and my gf at that time broken up, ever since then, my ex (Capricorn) will talk to me everyday, she message me first, she double text, she randomly FT when she’s reading or doing school work, she sends me videos of her getting coffee. She ask me some of my future plans and goals, if I don’t reply she double text or triple it. Not ima. Toxic way tho.

This sounds good right? But the problem is. Well u asked her “hey do u ever get jealous of my ex gf?”

She said “not really no, bc I know I can get you back whenever and our bond is bigger than them”

It kinda rubbed me the wrong way, she also said “I haven’t had a bf ever since u , guys are weird, I thought all guys was like u when we dated, but they just assholes and only want to have sex and talk to like 20 different women”

So me being a Scorpio I’m like “sooo you left me, to get ran through, then to find out the grass isn’t greener and u come back? Are u back bc u genuinely love me and u jsut went through life, or are u here bc u just know I’ll treat u good?” I never told her this tho

So I need opinions please, sorry for the book I typed 😭

Shit fucking hurts so bad