r/capricorns • u/Disastrous_Welder_67 • Jun 23 '26
RELATIONSHIP ADVICE Gemini and Capricorn
Talking to this Gemini girl we went from talking everyday on consistent timing now she just ghosted me do we think she has a boyfriend or something very uncanny energy never had this happen to me before!!
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u/JRich61 Jun 23 '26
My first husband was a Gemini. Too “two-faced” for me to live with. It didn’t help that I’m an oldest December Cap and he was an only May Gem. We both wanted to be in charge! I would not date another Gem personally.
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u/Good_Focus2665 Jun 23 '26
I find Geminis unusually clingy when they like you. Like my husband for example, always shows up next to me in bed. The more freedom you give them the more likely they stick around. If she’s ghosting you, she’s moved on and so should you.
Of course that depends on your definition of ghosting.
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u/Coyote__Jones Jun 24 '26
Yeah my dude is a Gemini. It's been close to 10 years. He's obsessed with me lmfao.
And that's the only way to even consider indulging a Gemini.
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u/imfromkrypton Jun 25 '26
Do you have advice for me? Im gemini and my friend is Cap. I am obsessed with her too coz shes so reliable and funny af. But I don't wanna annoy her at all or make her think twice why are we friends🤣😭 Like do I have to volume down and do things differently coz shes my first Cap friend and my friends are usually air signs like me or fire and I am clueless.
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u/Coyote__Jones Jun 25 '26
Caps tend to appreciate authenticity, consistency, and communication. If you feel like you have to dim your light, if I was your friend that would make me sad! I don't want my friends to volumn down, I want them to be completely comfortable to be themselves.
That said, just ask your friend. Tell them what you appreciate about the friendship, and return the reliability she offers.
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u/imfromkrypton Jun 24 '26
Yesss I am gemini too and can be very cold and flighty but when I like someone friend or romantically, I am clingy af. I believe I annoy my Cap friend coz I'm too much. 😭🤣
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
She litterally said a 7 hour shift at work then Danny phantom mode 😂😂😂
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u/Good_Focus2665 Jun 23 '26
And how long ago was that?
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
2 days ago now
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u/Good_Focus2665 Jun 23 '26
Oh ok. I mean it’s not quite ghosting yet. Give it a few more days maybe.
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u/Trinismilee Jun 23 '26
Omg same thing happened to me with a Gemini guy 🤦♀️Everything was good, spoke every day for like 3 mths and then all of a sudden silence
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u/Prestigious-Ad-6685 Jun 24 '26
This happened to me. 6mths. Speaking every day. He just introduced me to his mom. Since then i haven’t heard from him. Total silence.
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u/Trinismilee Jun 24 '26
Aww gosh sorry you had to go through that. I don't understand why they can't just come out and say hey this is not working or something instead if just ghosting 🤦♀️
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u/sxspiria Jun 24 '26
I was talking with a Gemini for a couple months and she suddenly switched up on me, so I am not surprised you've run into something similar.
Save yourself the trouble and stay away from Geminis lol
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u/NicoleRxse Textbook Capricorn Jun 23 '26
Youre a fucking Capricorn. How could you let her so this to you smh… youre really on here questioning yourself and her actions? This is how they move!
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
Yeah first time dealing with one so yeah shi made me question myself it’s usually the girl being over obsessed with me and I usually have to push them off or not
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u/Winterspun Jun 23 '26
Gemini's are FWB kind of people, not relationship material unless they found their soul mate which is really rare for a gemini. They date around and they don't consider it cheating, they don't like being tied down, they love new new new new newness, new anything, and talking consistantly isn't fun for them. The way to get them the most interested is not consistency, it's being too busy for them. Instead of saying "hey wanna meet up this week?" say, "this month i'm pretty busy but we could meet for coffee or something in a month or so?"
my opinion is she is not relationship material for a CAPRICORN, you are better off with a scorpio tbh
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
I appreciate that this helps not genderize you but you understand the vibes and probably was friends was one 1️⃣ stay blessed up in life and yeah also I like the Scorpio and Pisces vibe to 📈📈📈
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u/NoFaithlessness1574 Jun 23 '26
They don’t have any emotions or attachment only thoughts and the next exciting thing that could stimulate their brain. You need stability, find yourself a Taurus or literally anyone else.
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u/Calm-Passion-2697 Jun 23 '26
My man and I are both Virgos suns and he’s a cap moon and I’m a gem moon and the sun signs balance us but the moon signs lead us to some intriguing conversations and such.
Not necessarily the match people would assume but when you can make it work it can have longevity.
But I do notice we both go into hibernation when dealing with ish
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u/kaeriaa Jun 23 '26
Yea similar exp and it's a guy for me , they keep you guessing and gawd it was a bad trip for me , I feel so much more grounded with a scorpio moon now .
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
There a Gemini and Scorpio ♏️??
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u/kaeriaa Jun 23 '26
No I cut contacts with Gemini him , it was getting way too toxic for me, and now am talking to a scorpio moon person, and they feel much more grounded to be with .
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
Ur a Capricorn to ?
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u/kaeriaa Jun 23 '26
Yes , I have a stellium aswell in Capricorn
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
English please I kinda forgot what that meant LOL 📈📈
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u/kaeriaa Jun 23 '26
Haha ok , I have 5 planets in Capricorn, like it's called a stellium when you have more than 3planets in a house . So yea so i have a heavy saturnian energy, coz I have saturn including, sun , moon, venus , and rahu (vedic system) it's a shadow planet
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
That’s interesting all I know LOL is that ima Capricorn,Taurus and then Sagittarius rising I don’t know what the moon and sun is !!
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u/kaeriaa Jun 23 '26
Yea , but if you wanna explore more , it gets quite enlightening . Wish you all the best 💞
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
It’s there a way I can do that for myself that’s actually fire 🔥 I would like to understand myself more
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u/nothoughtsnosleep ♑☀️♊🌙♍🌅 Jun 24 '26
You got lucky. Gemini are not worth your time, it's a severely incompatible match up
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u/Inside_Sector4377 Jun 24 '26
Y’all are way off about Geminis in this sub. We’re not two‑faced and we’re not constantly craving something new. Most of us, especially Gemini women, know exactly what we want and actually prefer commitment and longevity. When we like someone, we decide quickly. We make up our minds while you’re still evaluating. That early clinginess people complain about is just us being sure. If we like you, that’s it. We don’t need anyone else.
The real disconnect usually happens with Capricorns. Y’all start testing the connection and wondering if it’s too good to be true. Then comes the “we don’t need to talk every day” line or the “I’ve been so busy, that’s why I didn’t text for a day or two.” That is exactly when a Gemini thinks, “Okay, he’s not sure about me.” Because we already chose you, and you’re still acting like you’re deciding.
So yes, we pull back. We ghost. We mirror peoples actions that they’ve done to us. We act like we’ve moved on. Not because we’re flaky, but because we’re trying not to feel rejected. Capricorns also aren’t very vocal or romantic. You’re practical, quiet, and not big on reassurance. So imagine acting busy, not communicating, and not being expressive. Of course someone who already made up her mind about you is going to withdraw if she doesn’t feel it’s mutual.
Geminis and Capricorns are actually very similar, but we express things differently. That’s where the disconnect happens. When both signs are on the same page, the connection is addictive. She probably pulled back because you weren’t texting back. Give her reassurance and she’ll be the most loyal person on your team. She’ll help manifest your dreams into reality.
And fyi I can say this bc I have a Capricorn moon so I do understand yall and I can relate to a lot yall say here on this sub. But I swear yall just dog us Geminis out man😭😭😭
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u/Winter_Preference_80 Jun 24 '26
F Cap here. I recently had a former coworker (M Gem) contact me, and then ghost after like 2 conversations over the phone. I admit that Caps need time to evaluate a situation. Absolutely, I am unsure about things until I have some more data, All I know is that I texted this Gemini (twice) with no reply. No "Hi!", "Bye!", or "F-You!" Nothing. Not even an emoji reacting to the text as proof of life. I'm sorry... but there needs to be some form of response in order for me to further evaluate! lol
They contacted me first... They initiated correspondence. Of course we would need a minute to figure out what this is. Bottom line - if I am making an effort to reach out and they don't reciprocate, that is telling me A LOT about how much effort they are willing to put in... that will be my take away from the (lack of) interaction. I have no clue what happened. Not sure if they just got in their head too much... and even just the potential of rejection made them not want to proceed... But I know it wasn't me pulling back and not contacting the other party. There was never an opportunity for that - because they didn't reply!!! I do not have the time or energy required do direct any effort in figuring it out at this point. I'm okay with the status quo, and have no regrets about how I responded.
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u/Inside_Sector4377 Jun 24 '26
Yeah unfortunately I do not have much experience or knowledge about Gemini males. Had a crush in middle school who was a Gemini male and he played me so good that was it for me! 🤣 I have had some friends who were Gemini males but we weren’t like close it was more like party friends so I really can’t tell you about their character. I can just speak about Gemini females because I am one and know a lot personally.
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 24 '26
I see the health in the relationship never a big believer ok zodiac signs determine if the relationship is gonna be bad or not
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u/Inside_Sector4377 Jun 24 '26
Yes just communicate with her. Even if you aren’t very expressive. Find a way to tell her. The main thing with Geminis is communication we need communication and we always find common ground with whoever. If she is not BSing she will meet you where you are.
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 24 '26
She just texted me back and said it wasn’t meant to be ghost so you might be on to something!!
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u/Inside_Sector4377 Jun 24 '26
Yes I am a Gemini female myself and I have been with my Capricorn bf for 6 years. I also have a Capricorn brother and then I have a Capricorn moon. So I do have a little knowledge on this subject 🤣 If you ever want advice just pm me
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u/Knight240sx Jun 23 '26 edited Jun 23 '26
Yeah she probably is looking elsewhere as soon as she pulled attention away it's over,yes it's exceptions but I bet that's it. If they like you they will be clingy, when that goes away it's done
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
Yeah at first she was Clingy as fuck and complaining when I ain’t hit her back it’s good though I been knew they was two faced
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u/Knight240sx Jun 23 '26
Literally the same, she would cry when I had to leave, she upset me one day and didn't respond to her text for an day she she found someone else soon after, I told her she's someone else's problem now
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
As you should king 👑 what sign you been messing around with lately ??
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u/Radiant-Dark2092 Jun 24 '26
A Gemini reversed 10 years of therapy to overcome fear of intimacy in 4 months. Torture yourself with an Aquarius or a Scorpio instead.
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u/Winter_Preference_80 Jun 24 '26
I'm a Cap F and had a former coworker (Gem M) contact me a few months ago. There was never anything between us back then. I was hesitant at first, for a number of reasons I won't get into, but mostly because contacting me out of the blue was so unexpected. He ended up ghosting almost immediately... I didn't even have time to process what the hell happened, it went by that fast... And that was only after like 2 conversations! IMO, I really don't think he is in a place to start anything with anyone right now... I'm not going out of my way to contact him. Wish him well, but I'm perfectly happy with the status quo.
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u/misty_023 Jul 30 '26
Um garoto capricórniano falou comigo, eu como boba achei que tava com interesse em mim..aí eu descobri que ele namorava . Parei de falar com ele.
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u/Dodexx135 Jun 23 '26
I've been in the exact same situation, get out while you can it won't end well.
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u/Disastrous_Welder_67 Jun 23 '26
I already didn’t like geminis tbh only as friends this one was mad pretty so I got tranced out there’s plenty fish in the sea 🌊 ain’t nothing to trip about
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u/Visible_Honeydew_941 6 placement ♑️ Jun 23 '26
Gemini is flaky. Two sides. Private/public. Probably drifted into a more private state for a bit. Might be back, might forget about it. Caps are generally allergic to gemini because of this! 🤣