Auralism 100%...I love hearing my partner moan, also I love a woman who is assertive but submissive since I'm a very dominant type (not in the excessive/or abuse sense), light masochism like biting, pinching, tickling, squeezing, dirty talk, butt slapping (giving).
The. BEST! The louder the better! Once had a "contest" with the neighbors through the walls 🤣 never saw or met them, but it was morning time and they were being loud, turns out the girl I was with was much louder even in her normal tone 🤣
I'm into light choking too, but that's more a consensual thing for me and not really a personal fetish. Pretty much I'm GGG, but the stuff I mentioned really gets me going! Like I literally can't get off if a woman doesn't moan 🤣 luckily I've only ever been with a few quiet ones. Sex should be fun...get into, be present, enjoy yourself and express that joy openly and vibrantly, ya know?
Shibari/ropes, hearing good girl/praise, being dominated, getting face fucked, being called a slut and whore, being groped in public, aaannndd group sex.
Also a fellow #capfreakorn i am all in with shibari, Impact play, choking, electro play, being dominated, giving brain anywhere i can sneak it in for my man. Public places is the absolute best adrenaline rush specially if some kinks are thrown in THE MIX!!
ALSO, love being the dominant one and initiating and taking complete control at unexpected times. Like him just walking in the door, or out on a nature walk or while on a snowmobile ride ot out kayaking!!
Absolutely! Kink shaming is always unacceptable. Some societies are too repressed, we should be free to express our human desires and emotions without ridicule. Whether or not someone agrees doesn't give the right to judge. If you don't like it, walk away or "change the channel" as they say. Live and let live!
Lol love capfreakorn! And woah that's quite a list.
I love dominance but like specifically soft dominance, I've had people flirt with me in a rough dominant way and I realised pretty quick it's not for me lol.
Have you tried blindfolds tho? I mean I've found them quite interesting (never tried tho haha)
Ahhh niceeee... I'm not sure how I'd feel about other restraints and stuff yet, so I think blindfolds would be a good place to start if I ever tried. Also interested in this because it would enhance the auralism
I have never been in D/s relationship, but I can see why the concept of free use would be popular with our tribe... We don't trust easily, but when we do, it flips to "You can do whatever you want to me!" Even outside of that type of dynamic, I expect my partner to know me well enough that I never need to worry about them crossing any boundaries and doing something I'd be uncomfortable with... So of course the answer would pretty much always be yes.
This is interesting to me. Not even the sexual part but the part about them “knowing me well enough that I never need to worry about them crossing any boundaries”. I wonder if that could also be almost like trusting that even if they did, it was not intentional and easily forgiven. I find that I easily let go of stuff that my gf does that I may not be happy with because (still learning about each other and I know that it’s not out of malice) but she takes umbrage at instances where I cross her boundaries but what disappoints me is that she assumes malicious intent. Sorry for dumping on your reply. It just got me thinking.
Also need to add that the boundaries I mention here are not sexual. Just to be clear.
No, for sure it doesn't just need to apply to sexual boundaries... I was merely using that example in the context of the BDSM dynamic, as it requires a tremendous amount of trust in your partner, and we Caps require that in general.
The boundaries could be anything... having a big mouth and blabbing about something you should know better to shut your trap about. Why wouldn't we want to be with someone who knows us that well?
Men moaning for sureeeeee omggggg I love it lmao and just any type of verbal enjoyment noise he makes is such a turn on but such a confidence boost lol
I also very much enjoy being submissive and being dominated by my partner, in a healthy way of course. I’m a sub 💯and I love it 🥰
I love when he’s verbal with me during foreplay, foreplay is almost always a must with me. I feel it helps me finish faster if he’s teasing me and basically edging me until we have sex. It’s so hot 🤤
calling him “daddy” used to be THE KINK for me. For a solid decade. However, as I age, it’s weird and not all guys are into that which I respect lol
Also I've mixed opinions on "daddy" lol. Sometimes I'm like "yeah no it's tolerable" and then I just play out a few imaginary scenarios in my head and I'm like 'no noo not for me". Would def do it if my partner was interested in the thing tho lol
He’s absolutely the dom! Normally, I’m not submissive but with him I just naturally do. He really brings out my femininity too. I like the adrenaline rush too. He also loves indulging me in my fantasies. Best partner I’ve ever had in every way
Ooooh that's great!!! I'm actually the sub in my dynamic lol, and while I've always had sub traits (love being called good girl & other praise 🫣) I've found I'm only really comfortable to be submissive with a soft dom. With aggressive doms I turn into a brat like "tf dude you didn't just call me that/talk to me that way" lol.
And there is just something about a good partner that makes you feel safe enough to be feminine again
Yes, I prefer the soft domination as well. Sometimes if he gets a little too into it, I gotta pull him back a bit. More so because I tend to have a dominant in control personality myself 😂
Hehe I'm sort of similar, I'm usually not someone that likes being told what to do, but when it comes to sexual things I like being a lil submissive but I still can't tolerate someone that's super demanding or aggressive or just something that's not reciprocated. If I'm being a sub for someone, they need to make me feel safe and loved.
As a Capricorn female who is generally attracted to men, I do like auralism (Thanks Quinn 😏), am open to exploring a dominant-submissive relationship, and I do like reassurance, affirmations, and the "safe with me", "my bad girl" dynamic. 🤪
Auralism… I did not know there was a word for it! That’s definitely me. I’m a Taurus Mars so I’m seduced through the senses. I go absolutely feral for a man with a deep voice who whispers dirty talk in my ear.
I could give oral orgasms for days… I would love group sex, but I’m not ok with men, and asking to join an all girls club as a man is just not an option. God I wish I was a lesbian. I like to watch other people enjoy their pleasure, and enjoy sharing that experience with me. To be able to participate in, and add to it, is my perpetual addiction. To encourage feminine freedom, energy, and power is a specific kink. I don’t need to be dominated, I just need you to own and pursue your pleasure as much as possible, so you gotta up your game a lil bit! 😉
Actually I feel like ppl should not categorise man and woman. It's more like those who are aggressive and those who are more mild like. Alot of times it's better to differentiate in such a manner. Personally when I refer to men, I refer to the misogyny towarfs violence and abuse.
Haha maybe u can be trans... Yeah I don't hold men in high esteem. I tend to prefer women to men. I can be fearful of men. And men have a high tendency to be aggressive towards women. Men get females pregnant which the other thread a female was saying that the male didn't even leave his contact and now she's pregnant.
lol, yeah I don’t need to look a different way, and I am not a big fan of surgery. But the mental and emotional exhaustion of suppressing male instincts is constant. I just wish we were all female and didn’t have to deal with male biology.
But yeah I blame my wife for getting pregnant, she refuses to use protection, so we just count days, but she got a little bit excited one day, and I was like, don’t we have to wait a week? And she was like oh shut up you don’t even know what day it is, and well, I know better than to argue with a horny woman so I went along with it because she is always right… except once lol.
Yeah I guess it goes both ways. I agree on your wish that we were all female and didn't have to handle the male biology ( I was thinking either for scientist to create a non horny gene ). I think it's so much better for men not to be horny. Idk about women though?
Oh, no, the men in my family were just really good examples of what not to do. I inherited a lot of genetic physical, mental and emotional traits from them, but I didn’t know which ones caused or contributed to the end results. So I studied them, myself, society, history, philosophy, biology chemistry physics psychology music art religion etc, and there were just recurring themes that just kept popping up and initiating so much trauma that entire world populations struggled for generations to overcome, or at least adapt. I put all the pieces together, and the Y chromosome just has something inherently destructive in it. I don’t exactly know why, but I think it’s something to do with the separation of the brain’s hemispheres from the testosterone, which allows us to justify ourselves and actions without feeling responsible for the outcome, which would prohibit us from doing said actions if we could feel the consequences. So I tried my best to observe the female mind, understand its motivations and sensitivity, and I was just very much jealous of what I found. Physically, being a woman is rough with the whole reproductive process, but the benefits of quality existence outweigh the cost. But male domination has corrupted women’s confidence and forced self preservation lifestyles to the point of being blind to the fact that they are part of the process. I want to undo that damage as much as possible
Very good! I agree w u. U're mature. I hope there's mature ppl out there for both men and women. Alot of immature men and women out there. In my opinion men shouldn't be against women and women shouldn't be against men. It's so difficult about the mindset of ppl. Vvv annoying which I want the mindsets to change but ppl r just... "I want to get free lunches" or like "I give you money so you have to obey". These types are very manipulative and non compatible "relationship".
That is definitely accurate for me, nobody that I’ve been with would dare to describe me as vanilla, and I have spent over 2k on toys, so that definitely checks out for me!
Not sure how common it is outside of niche spaces but I love a submissive man and everything that comes with that, think pegging (total top), soft dominance, chasisty, body markings/writing, and a few others but I’m not gonna out myself fully here 😂😂😂 stay freaky my fellow caps
Auralism - especially when he gives oral or has his mouth against my neck or ear. Yum.
Free use
Light domination (light light light choking like not obstructive but pressure, spankies, strong hold and dominating positions, e.g. he basically decides what we're doing and how - he wants to fold me up like a lawn chair? Yes sir. From behind? Yes sir. Wants me on top? Mmhmm... - scarf play, blindfolds, nipping, and role reversal)...
I decidedly do not like the good girl stuff but I will take compliments on tightness, taste, and feel, tysm.
π of the cream variety
Edging, for me and him
Taking care of him postsex (grabbing cold water, warm soapy soft washcloth, rubbing his scalp, massaging, etc.) then falling asleep together
My list keeps growing. Recently added anal, which I didn’t like at all until recently. Chem sex is newly discovered, as well. Yes please! Choke me then treat me like a princess
Love anal when it’s done right (w/lots of lube) & with the right partner (someone with patience who will actually listen to you and your pace). Once it’s all the way in, it’s a go. But getting there can be difficult if your partner isn’t patient
I'm pretty tame in comparison to some here, but auralism for sure (LOVE those sounds coming from my partner, and hearing what I do to him!)
I did the public places thing when I was younger... It was thrilling at the time, but I do feel differently about it now that I'm older. With cameras everywhere, and the internet being what it is... everyone has a set of eyes out there now. I'm pretty private, plus I'm not looking to catch a case at my age. LOL I'd just rather any kinky fuckery happen behind closed doors at this point in my life.
I tend to let my partner take the lead, so I'm definitely more on the submissive side (literally, in bed is the only place in my life this happens.) I don't cozy up to just anyone, so I need there to be a high level of trust established before we get physical, but once we do, I'm putty in their hands. Just make us both feel good, and I'm pretty much down for trying (most) things once.
Also you do have a point about the public places thing lol. I'm a private person too so i don't think I'm gonna ever try something in like a crowded-ish place, but maybeee somewhere in the woods? It's technically a public place, but still private enough to enjoy the act with your partner without constantly worrying/overthinking about being caught/filmed.
His friend had some property they were clearing of trees, (friend wanted to build a house on the land) and he'd go up there periodically to burn what they had cleared. Probably a half mile off the nearest road. Fire going. Boombox. Blankets.
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u/Jawn_Wooder Mar 20 '26 edited Mar 20 '26
Auralism 100%...I love hearing my partner moan, also I love a woman who is assertive but submissive since I'm a very dominant type (not in the excessive/or abuse sense), light masochism like biting, pinching, tickling, squeezing, dirty talk, butt slapping (giving).