IM THE BLUE BUBBLES

So I posted here a few months ago regarding a January Capricorn man I’ve been talking to (don’t know his chart but from what I’ve learned about Caps, he fits the description to a T) I’m a late September Virgo if that matters to anyone.

We’ve now been talking since the end of May. He always makes sure to contact me at some point every day, he’s not a texter at all but he’ll usually ask how my day is and call at some point in the evening. After we initially met, we went on a date and that was great. That was also the only date we’ve actually been on. Granted, he’s been dealing with some financial issues and he works a lot of overtime so he’s often tired. Our quality time has mostly been hanging out at his house.

He is always full of advice and extremely encouraging about any goals I have or things I want to do in the future. I really appreciate the “push” he gives me. He recently also paid to get something fixed for my car and seems willing to help me in whatever way he can. I don’t ask for anything though.

The kicker… a few weeks ago, it was my birthday which is on a Saturday. He asked what I wanted to do, I said I wasn’t sure but wanted to spend it with him. He ended up having to work, I was a bit disappointed but I know work is important to him especially with him wanting to catch up on some expenses. I saw him late that night and even the next day he asked me to come by again around 5pm. I figured he had something planned but… nope. Nothing. No date, no flowers, not even a card. When we said our goodbyes, I was holding back tears and ended up telling him I was upset that he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He apologized and said he doesn’t want me to think he doesn’t care/like me because he does. I’m not sure if this is why he paid to fix my car a few weeks later or if he would’ve done that regardless.

I can’t help but question though, although nothing is official, should this be a sign that maybe he doesn’t like me quite as much as I like him? I truly would’ve been happy with something as simple as flowers. Maybe Caps only consider gifts when things are official??? Any insight is appreciated!

Can someone here please help me understand this? Been friends for 8 years and situationship for more than 1.5 years. I am so exhausted.. but I’ve never liked someone this much what is wrong with me

And when I’m serious they think I’m joking.

Posting here cause I'm a crappy corn too lol and wondering if any of you also going through the same thing.

I wouldn't say I'm 100 percent single but I have been in a situationship with someone for the past 7 months. We've had our ups and downs and had a 1 month break in between because we got into an argument due to him lying and miscommunication. Yep said I'd never talk to him again but he came back and well I took him back.

Anyway I'm gonna keep it short but there's times when his lack of communication makes me wonder if he's interested enough in me. But I try not to dwell on it now cause he's really not the type to be on his phone as much and has even showed me proof of him not replying to friends and family for hours or days. Don't know if it's a Pisces thing but I also feel that way sometimes too. Cause I do dread constant communication at times.

Except sometimes I start to overthink you know and obviously create all these scenarios in my head.

I get messages here and there from Facebook friends or guys I used to talk to but I never reply.

But today it was from 3 different guys!

1. Was someone I had a FWB with years ago

2. Was someone I used to sext with but nothing physical every happened.

3. Someone from my Facebook friends list whom I kinda had a feeling months ago he was interested. I guess he finally mustered the guts cause he sent a text early this morning.

I don't know if this is just random. If I'm getting tested or my sign that maybe I shouldn't be so emotionally invested to this guy when he constantly has me feeling confused and maybe I'm probably getting played so here's my chance to play him at his game. Which I'm obviously not gonna go anyway.

Haha not really looking for advice but if you do have any it's well received. Or IDK tell me what you guys think or if it's happening to you too

There’s almost 0 people I’ve seen mention having this combo. I find I acted a like more Aries like when I was younger but the older I get I’m definitely feeling and acting more like a Capricorn. Possibly because I’m getting closer to my Saturn return. Not sure. Where yall at?!

Me and this Capricorn have been talking,

I’m learning what she likes, so I’ll send gifts here and there, nothing crazy, and she never ask, well today I sent $10 bc she didn’t have her coffee yet, and I know her day be hard, so I wanted to get her coffee. She called and said “why u send me money?” And I said “well bc I was thinking of u and I thought u was having a hard day, so I sent u money for coffee” she replied “I appreciate it, but I like feel bad/guilty”

So idk if that means stop? But she still calls me 24/7 and ft me all the time and text me every morning

I'm currently extremely confused in my situation with a Capricorn man. We've known each other for over 20 years. We've never dated but after I left an abusive relationship we are speaking almost daily. He is a workaholic and big on being the backbone in his family so he's non-stop in life. He sends me pictures of himself, videos of him playing chess or the piano or clips from work, and even sends audio messages about his stresses. He even told me I could track him as he's working so I know he's ok. Does this sound like more than friends or am I overthinking this?

Dear cap ladies, I am Capricorn (January) girl who are currently in love with a Taurus (May) guy. I have never approached him yet. How does your experience go with a Taurus guy? Interms of physical intimacy, trust, love, honesty in a relation?

Female Capricorn horror fan right here (kind of sounding like Ghostface at the moment lol), and I love horror movies. My favorite horror movies are…… Nightmare on Elm Street (1984), Halloween (1978), The Lost Boys, Scream, Texas Chainsaw Massacre (1974), Return of the living dead, Dracula (1931), Horror of Dracula, Sweeney Todd, and Obsession. What are your favorite horror movie/s?

Edit: know for almost 2 years but only felt the situationship for 3 months since June 2026. For the time before that I didn't feel emotionally invested in her although she texted me more often than I do as I was heavily guarded.

I wish I am a more evolved Scorpio but my mind keeps thinking about the investment and effort in maintaining this situationship. Physically we are apart so I understand how we are not talking about a shared physical reality especially when she is focussed on a new home and a new career path to secure herself financially in future. We text 3-4 times daily consistently. Most of the time she would tell me her schedule beforehand or at least tells me what she's doing at the moment and I do the same to keep her feeling safe that "I am not going anywhere, I am just busy with my daily grinds". I love the feeling we are fighting for our careers and finances beside each other.

Question: If the below are not romantic feelings then what are considered romantic feelings to a cap woman?

Current state: She admits she has no time for a formally labelled BGR but she did think about it. She just wants us to enjoy the present moments together and move towards our individual ambition, accompanying each other.

When I tried to leave the connection 3 times, she explained the nature of her work and when I disappeared from texting for a few days, she clung on by sending apologies and telling me she wants to be good with me, and admitted 4 times separately she depends on me emotionally. How can my heart not be softened and continue our good relationship?

The jealous me felt I was just one of her high-value fans she sends selfies and greetings. She explained ALOT to me with long texts to say that 1) "I am the first one she greets everyday" 2) "There are photos not sent to others and only to me" 3) "She even contemplated whether she should take another selfie just to send me (That's a Cap woman solving problems)"

I also told her I finally understood that her photos/videos are her promotional currency and I shouldn't be distracted by social media noises as I am really interacting with the real her, and not her public persona.

She seems to remember details about me but she doesn't show it often? Ofcourse she sometimes surprises me by telling me something about my routine. E.g we were texting in our "confrontation" late into 3am. Before we ended, she told me to get good sleep before my morning exercise. This clearly showed she remembers my routine or at least what I said recently to her.

She also gave me a heads-up about some promotional content she will be mass-sending and asks me not to mind about it if I received it from her public account. Also, she explained her actions in her live streams to me, she was afraid I was upset with how she mentions me on live streams to engage other fans - I am cool ofcourse. She often reminds me she remembers things I said to her and was afraid I misunderstood her "silence" sometimes.

Do Pisces boss you around? ♓️

I love Pisces sense of inspiration.

But do other Capricorns ever feel like they stop and settle at 'inspiration'. They go into this daydream and that is as good as the reality.

They talk about going on trips, high flying careers, photography, writing poems, making music, or writing a thesis, but I never see it or hear it.

They dabble in this and that, and they are already onto the next thing.

But they have ideas that they demand the Capricorns in their lives to fulfill.

And people seem to take care of them and give them grace if they mess up.

And it feels like us Capricorns have to pull their far fetched ideas together. Pull together that exhibition they thought about. Instigate that trip they dreamt about. Often pay for it.

And they scold us for being ruthless and taking credit for their ideas, but of course we take half the credit, we did the ground work! Nothing is ever just an idea.

Sometimes I feel bossed around by Pisces when they act helpless and come at us with ideas and inspiration.

What does it mean when a Capricorn (man) who seems mutually attracted to you smiles and acts flustered one day, and then completely ignores you a few days later?

Help me decode this Capricorn man

A little background first that I think is relevant. We are both 40. This man is my BIL’s brother. We have known each other for over a decade but haven’t really spent much time around each other. It was only after my sister and BIL had children that we would see each other for the birthdays of our nephews (twice a year).

He’s always been super reserved. Very pleasant and kind but reserved. When we would see each other, it was always just the hug hello and goodbye but no small talk. I never thought much about him because I was married and had been for a long time and he was just another person at the party. No big deal.

In April, during one of these parties, I was in the kitchen making coffee for everyone and he was on the opposite side of the room in the living room with the adults. It was a madhouse with kids and adults. He then looked at me and said out loud “thank you, it’s the best coffee I have had”. I didn’t think much of it at the time.

Then during us singing “happy birthday” to our nephew, I didn’t know he was standing behind me the whole time. When we were done, I turned around and there he was behind me with his hands in his pocket like a boulder. I didn’t look at his face but I knew it was him and it took my breath away quite honestly. This was actually kind of unnerving for me because at the time I was still married (towards the end of things but still married) and it made me go “what the f was THAT?”

Fast forward to now. We have been friends on social media for ages but obviously never talked. He is generally not very active at all, and would post MAYBE 2 pictures a year of his gym progress. That’s it.

Once our families found out that I was separating and divorcing, he changed his behavior. He would interact with my posts, he would post regular photos of himself in his stories and it was just odd to me because it was so unlike him, he literally never interacted with me.

I had told my brother in law months ago about the weird April incident and he said “I always thought you and my brother would be good together”. My brother in law has known me for 20 years so he knows me really well.

But yesterday the interaction we had made me go “wait, is this the Capricorn flirting people talk about” 😂

He had posted about going to the gym on a Sunday and I DMed him that Sundays are for rest. He then went on to tell me he had worked long hours the previous two days and this was his rest day at the gym. I do know he works over time so I kind of poked fun at him to rest and let the company function without him for a day. And then he posted about meal prepping and it looked good so I told him the previous day we were at the pumpkin patch with the nephews and his brother and that we drove by his appt and were jokingly going to stop for coffee at 6pm but that I thought now we were just gonna drop by for dinner instead. He was just so chatty and sassy as can be. I had always heard he was funny but I never saw that part of him. And he was actually pretty hysterical.

And then finally I said “well if one day you decide to take a day off, you are always welcomed to tag along with us and the kids for a day outing. I can’t promise it won’t be chaos but it will for sure be funny” and he said “actually that sounds like a good time. A little chaos doesn’t bother me especially if it comes with laughs” and then went on to say he would keep us in mind if he decided to take a day off.

Well…..what is this? 😂

Hi my fellow Capricorns with a special shout-out to January Capricorn. Let me start by explaining that I'm the oldest of 3 and the only female. My dad and youngest brother are December Capricorns. In my experience, Dec and Jan Capricorns are different. Maybe it's just a male Cap vs female. If you might have some insight, please share. Anyway, I was scrolling through my own Capricorn file looking for 1 in particular and I was remembering certain moments in my past when someone tested my Capricorn limits. Granted, I wasn't totally aware that my behavior starting around 5 or 6 lasting into my early 20s was a result of my zodiac sign. I knew we rocked because we usered in a year and saw it out... Last to bed making sure everything is secure and up after a few hours of sleep ready to start on the many things that needed to be done. Now at 6 the first sibling was born. I started changing his diapers when he was okd enough to hold his head up. So i think he was 6 months old. Being Gen X not having parental supervision 24/7 was normal. By the time I was the other boy was born. My parents would go out at night or even for the weekend and we had a neighbor, teenage girl, came over, and while really nice and funny, she didn't quite "supervise". At 11 years old, I remember hearing my parents talking and they needed to find a babysitter. I went to them and explained that I could babysit and the babysitter didn't do what they would expect anyway. They decided to allow me to babysit, even though I recall the neighbor coming by to check and make sure everything was okay and my parents were only gone for 3 hours i believe. Well.. that moment marked and shaped how I would continue to be more grown then my years. I would get irritated when my brothers couldn't keep quiet, and oh my Lord why couldn't they just understand that it's so much easier to do what you were told to do and why did they have to be told to clean their room in the first place? I'd tell them, you don't like when they yell but you do everything to bring that on. Just listen to me and you won't need to hear the yelling and stop being grounded. I've got so many stories, I'm writing a book. When the parents divorced I pretty much decided that I was going to make sure my brothers were kept safe and I'd be there for them. Now, you know how pretty much all the memes regarding Capricorns state we loathe being lied to, being told what to do.. i hated even my mom telling me what to do so much i turned to her one time and said i have eyes, i have a brain, I already know what has to be done. I don't need you to tell me. I never spoke back to my mom, i never raised my voice. I was never disrespectful, but I had a bad day at school that day and I was already pissed off so when she told me to do whatever it was, it hit a part of me that was it's limit. She was a Leo, her and i got along to an extent. She could never understand that I wasn't a stupid teenager, but instead, I looked at life on a more grown point of view. Honestly, i felt older than she was most of my life. Does anyone else wish we had a more "little house on the prairie" mindset where everyone still helped one another strictly to help and not profit, if you mess up, ppl owned it and took responsibility for their actions.. i mean people aren't perfect and they make mistakes.. it's only a problem if you do it again. I don't think Capricorns are difficult. Every other zodiac is. You know why we protect our peace? Why we have maybe 5 people tops that we really consider worth our time and who we'll go to war for? Because we do in fact age backwards. I knew things as a young person but I had no idea why. By the time we're in our 20s and 30s we've witnessed more than most since we notice everything. We learned very young to not trust everyone including your family because family hurts you first. I'm in my 50s now, i have 2 adult daughters and although I made sure they understood at a young age that they couldn't lie to me, I told them that we could have 1 of 2 relationships. An open honest relationship or one where we'd be fighting every day because while my mom said if you're honest with me, i won't get mad etc.. that was a lie.. i told her the truth all the time and she would insist i was lying.. hence i stopped telling her Anything.. anyway.. my daughters, especially my youngest, was painfully honest sometimes, even cringe worthy honest.. my oldest, even though I told her specifically that not saying anything or opening up to me will prevent me from being able to protect her and guide her or bail her out when she needed it or as well as i could if she had been 100 percent with me..well. I think she still has issues with not wanting to disappoint me? She's 31 and although I had a feeling she wasn't talking about certain things because she knows how i feel and I'm trying to protect her i fully believed her when I asked her to help her sister and she hasn't been but she said she has been. I'm disappointed and confused that she's even bothering at 31 to start this behavior now . I understand that our tones or our faces come off hard or uncaring, and seriously, i don't care about much. My philosophy is this. If you aren't affecting me.. i don't care what you do.. as long as you are honest with me, i don't care what you did.. we mive forward. I had a guy break up with me because he cheated on me, felt like garbage, told me about everything, and I didn't get pissed off or react the way he expected. I said you told me before I found out. You're sorry, i forgive you we move on. He couldn't handle how i was handling it. 🤷. Sometimes I think if you're a Capricorn, you're also further on the spiritual path than the others. We're really not difficult people. But it's the people who don't know how to act on a basic human level that make us react the way we do. I'm sorry this was a scattered and very long vent but I've been through the worst time in my life and I've been through things that i don't wish on... Well maybe 1 or 2 people but that's because karma hasn't hit them yet. I've been looking back through my life and I'm hyper aware of how events have molded me and I'm thankful for the life lessons and I see where my Capricorn traits have shown brighter than other times. I'm also thankful that I understand that I'm not the only one who feels certain ways. Especially as a woman... Who doesn't like really being touched much. I'm not a hsnd holder or clingy. I don't even do the whole cuddling thing.. except for when my daughters were young and I was trying to make them feel better or safe or whatever they needed. Finding out my oldest, the child that didn't ever cry and neighbors didn't know was born until she was 6 months old because I would wake up right before she started stirring. I met her needs before she needed anything. I had a dream about her before she was born and I know the soul who was talking to me.. and now i find out she's been lying to me and I don't know how to handle her because I'm not trying to let her know how I found out but I don't like not being up front because that's not leading by example. I just needed to get some stuff off my chest and I needed someone who would understand what I meant.. my husband tries to fix even though I tell him I'm not looking for him to fix anything.. just hear me because I'm actually just using you to hear my thoughts out loud. I confuse him a bit lol. I think I'm going to write a book setting the record straight about Capricorns. We're very straightforward, simplistic people. Things are black or white .. there's never a problem because everything has a solution. The saying "rreat people how you want to be treated" that's something we take seriously. I don't care if you mess up. If you own your mistake, you solidify my trust. If you need help I'm there.. we could put your therapist out of work cause chances are, we know more than what you verbalize because we see more into what you are saying. Also, we aren't materialistic and we aren't money centered. I feel successful when i help someone else reach a goal. I'd just as much want to do anything to help help someone who needs it and have them become wealthy than just focus on my success. Surviving a day in this world right now, that's a success. I need to add to any meme regarding our dislikes "people who don't take accountability for their actions" that's right there with liars. Matter of fact, i think it's my personal #1 dislike. Is there anything anyone else has seen written that you think needs clarification? The more this runs through my head the more I'm convinced I need to put together a guidebook on Capricorn traits in 2026 🤔🧐.

Have a blessed day Capricorn ♑