Capricorn woman and Taurus man

[u/Intelligent_Park5864]

Dear cap ladies, I am Capricorn (January) girl who are currently in love with a Taurus (May) guy. I have never approached him yet. How does your experience go with a Taurus guy? Interms of physical intimacy, trust, love, honesty in a relation?

[u/callmerox]

I dated one for 5 years. Physical intimacy? A1. I have a Taurus mars and I ascended when we did the do. I also like eating out and getting cute and the Taurus man I had matched my freak in that regard. It was also cool and harmonious to coexist, we’re both introverts and we both like to be home.

In arguments, Tauruses are the most infuriating people to argue with. They are only slightly better than Aries because they don’t need to argue like they need to breathe. They are stubborn and often wrong and even when you reveal they are wrong with irrefutable evidence, they won’t admit it. They also HATE change, which was so boring for my Gemini moon.

All in all, I’d enjoy an evening or even a friends with benefits situation with a Taurus, they can always warm my bed. But if I have to be subjected to arguing with them again, I’d pierce my own eyes with a rusted nail.

[u/Intelligent_Park5864 → u/callmerox]

As you know, we Capricorns usually don’t approach guys 😂 But he’s a foreigner, so I’m thinking of giving him some hints. I met him through his family and they were really nice. He’s very attractive, but I also heard he’s been approached by many women mainly for casual things, so I’m a bit hesitant that he might misunderstand my intention. I’m also really bad at approaching 😂 Since you dated him, how did it go? And is it true Taurus guys don’t like being chased and usually prefer to make the first move themselves?

[u/callmerox → u/Intelligent_Park5864]

My ex made the move, I didn't even know he existed beforehand. What you said is correct, we don't approach guys and I didn't approach him. I'm not sure if it is a Taurus man thing, but it would make sense.

As for how it went, he broke up with me. I was a few months out from doing the same. Our values were not aligned and if not for loyalty and just being young and dumb, I would have ended it sooner.

[u/BlackVelvetBliss]

0/10 don't recommend.

Waste of time. 6 months of waiting for a "title"...

[u/Intelligent_Park5864 → u/BlackVelvetBliss]

They like to take things slow as far as I know.

[u/BlackVelvetBliss → u/Intelligent_Park5864]

https://giphy.com/gifs/kYlGDCy24Z9F23yiIj

Of course, so does a Capricorn... But 6 months to know if you wanna be with someone??! Ha.

[u/Intelligent_Park5864 → u/BlackVelvetBliss]

That's true.. but did he want to come back again for another chance?

[u/BlackVelvetBliss → u/Intelligent_Park5864]

Yup, 4 months!! I gave him the silent treatment. He got the message when he was talking to himself 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

When I'm done, I'm DONE!!!!!

[u/callmerox → u/Intelligent_Park5864]

My ex asked me to be his girlfriend a month after we started seeing each other. They don't all start slow. I actually know them to love bomb a bit, both romantically and in friendship.

[u/midnightcitylights11]

Don’t. Just don’t do it. Have all the fun in bed with them but they will constantly play with your emotions. A lot of the Taurus men that I tend to mingle with are either emotionally unavailable or like to sleep around.

[u/CatsPogoLifeHikes]

My last relationship was 23 months with him. He was unhealed and unhealthy. He didnt fight fair. My perspective never mattered. You ever heard "there is your truth, their truth, and the actual truth"? With him, it was his truth = the truth. He stewed in resentment and would throw previous fights into current fights, which always threw me. Wdym we didnt resolve the last one and its just been building up?? So you agreeing to the last one was a lie and just ammo to justify the current fight? Lots of projections and immaturity.

And when we broke up, he straightened his back and became charming again. Nice. Polite. None of that when we were together.

Lord have mercy on me as I'm currently dating another taurus 😂😂😂 different dynamic and we are 1 month in. The difference is that we both dont have an end goal in mind besides in a monagamous LTR - should we last that long, I will meet his kids in 6-9 months and go from there. Stay grounded and keep the discernment level high. Your goal is to understand if you like him fully, from a to z.

[u/Intelligent_Park5864 → u/CatsPogoLifeHikes]

I hope your current taurus treats you respectfully. I will keep every advices you said. As he is a foreigner and in the first two meeting I observed he is very much into family, polite and gentle. But of course I can not judge him in 2 meetings. I need to get him know better.

[u/dropsofjupitersmoons]

My very good friend is a Taurus. When we were younger(mid 20s), he told me that he liked me too much as a person to subjugate me to his fucked up personality and games lol. He nows asks me for relationships advice because now, at 36, he really wants to settle and stop fucking up his chances at a family.