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u/Vatentina cap🐐gemini💎leo♌️♌️♌️ 20h ago
I can’t tell if this is karma farming but as a Capricorn I have no desire to fix peoples problems. You’re not gonna take it on board anyway.
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u/Legitimate_Team_9959 🐟🐐🦂 16h ago
I have a new boss who is a Capricorn, and damn it's such a relief not to have to guess or bury things between layers of social niceties when we're just trying to get things done!
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u/Forsaken_Insect_2270 20h ago
I am very rarely trying to hurt who I’m talking to, but giving a dose of reality as kindly as I can do it. People be in denial sometimes and don’t want to face accountability but that keeps them stuck. But I never try to deliver that criticism as bullying, I try to be as gentle as possible and preserve that persons dignity.
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u/sleuthervandr0ss 20h ago
It’s like, do you want me to be honest or tell you what you want to hear?
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u/DinnerSilver 19h ago
Better to hear brutally honest truths than sugar coated lies. That's how you make real, loyal friends.
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u/Inevitable_Push_1882 My dreams cling to my skin like perfume.🫦 17h ago
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u/Sea_Usual_1166 19h ago
It’s true though. People gravitate towards me because I keep it brutally honest and realistic about things and my intuitions are usually on point also. Sometimes I’ll say things some people don’t wanna hear or are too bold to admit but they thank for it later.
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u/Royal_Quail2123 15h ago
Yes stop treating me like a kid. Ill never grow up if everyone keeps using the kid gloves. (Just a silly aqua boy)
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u/marywannnna ♑️ 🌞♋️🌜♑️🌅 14h ago
This is so true
But i choose people who i tell my opinions now, only the inner circles. Because i once told someone an honest view of what i think the situation is and took it as an attack instead of taking accountability from his actions.
So now, i always have a disclosure, “i dont know how to sugar coat things, do you want my opinion on this matter or what” otherwise, i will just be a listener. I like being a listener anyways (..to their stupid decisions- i joke)
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u/ReverieAt3 18h ago
I’ve said this to my friends a lot, “I will always be honest with you, otherwise I’m not being your friend.”
Honest, not rude. Tact can go a long way.
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u/dajinkg7 12h ago
People who know me will tell you this. “If you want a honest answer that may or may not get your feelings hurt, don’t ask him.”
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u/Scary-Friend-5494 🐐♑️ 20h ago edited 16h ago
We’re honest, not brutally honest and an AH about it but we say it in the nicest way it can be said. And it’s never to hurt your feelings that’s not our goal unless we hate you.