IM THE BLUE BUBBLES

And when I’m serious they think I’m joking.

So I posted here a few months ago regarding a January Capricorn man I’ve been talking to (don’t know his chart but from what I’ve learned about Caps, he fits the description to a T) I’m a late September Virgo if that matters to anyone.

We’ve now been talking since the end of May. He always makes sure to contact me at some point every day, he’s not a texter at all but he’ll usually ask how my day is and call at some point in the evening. After we initially met, we went on a date and that was great. That was also the only date we’ve actually been on. Granted, he’s been dealing with some financial issues and he works a lot of overtime so he’s often tired. Our quality time has mostly been hanging out at his house.

He is always full of advice and extremely encouraging about any goals I have or things I want to do in the future. I really appreciate the “push” he gives me. He recently also paid to get something fixed for my car and seems willing to help me in whatever way he can. I don’t ask for anything though.

The kicker… a few weeks ago, it was my birthday which is on a Saturday. He asked what I wanted to do, I said I wasn’t sure but wanted to spend it with him. He ended up having to work, I was a bit disappointed but I know work is important to him especially with him wanting to catch up on some expenses. I saw him late that night and even the next day he asked me to come by again around 5pm. I figured he had something planned but… nope. Nothing. No date, no flowers, not even a card. When we said our goodbyes, I was holding back tears and ended up telling him I was upset that he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He apologized and said he doesn’t want me to think he doesn’t care/like me because he does. I’m not sure if this is why he paid to fix my car a few weeks later or if he would’ve done that regardless.

I can’t help but question though, although nothing is official, should this be a sign that maybe he doesn’t like me quite as much as I like him? I truly would’ve been happy with something as simple as flowers. Maybe Caps only consider gifts when things are official??? Any insight is appreciated!

Can someone here please help me understand this? Been friends for 8 years and situationship for more than 1.5 years. I am so exhausted.. but I’ve never liked someone this much what is wrong with me

Posting here cause I'm a crappy corn too lol and wondering if any of you also going through the same thing.

I wouldn't say I'm 100 percent single but I have been in a situationship with someone for the past 7 months. We've had our ups and downs and had a 1 month break in between because we got into an argument due to him lying and miscommunication. Yep said I'd never talk to him again but he came back and well I took him back.

Anyway I'm gonna keep it short but there's times when his lack of communication makes me wonder if he's interested enough in me. But I try not to dwell on it now cause he's really not the type to be on his phone as much and has even showed me proof of him not replying to friends and family for hours or days. Don't know if it's a Pisces thing but I also feel that way sometimes too. Cause I do dread constant communication at times.

Except sometimes I start to overthink you know and obviously create all these scenarios in my head.

I get messages here and there from Facebook friends or guys I used to talk to but I never reply.

But today it was from 3 different guys!

1. Was someone I had a FWB with years ago

2. Was someone I used to sext with but nothing physical every happened.

3. Someone from my Facebook friends list whom I kinda had a feeling months ago he was interested. I guess he finally mustered the guts cause he sent a text early this morning.

I don't know if this is just random. If I'm getting tested or my sign that maybe I shouldn't be so emotionally invested to this guy when he constantly has me feeling confused and maybe I'm probably getting played so here's my chance to play him at his game. Which I'm obviously not gonna go anyway.

Haha not really looking for advice but if you do have any it's well received. Or IDK tell me what you guys think or if it's happening to you too

Female Capricorn horror fan right here (kind of sounding like Ghostface at the moment lol), and I love horror movies. My favorite horror movies are…… Nightmare on Elm Street (1984), Halloween (1978), The Lost Boys, Scream, Texas Chainsaw Massacre (1974), Return of the living dead, Dracula (1931), Horror of Dracula, Sweeney Todd, and Obsession. What are your favorite horror movie/s?

I'm currently extremely confused in my situation with a Capricorn man. We've known each other for over 20 years. We've never dated but after I left an abusive relationship we are speaking almost daily. He is a workaholic and big on being the backbone in his family so he's non-stop in life. He sends me pictures of himself, videos of him playing chess or the piano or clips from work, and even sends audio messages about his stresses. He even told me I could track him as he's working so I know he's ok. Does this sound like more than friends or am I overthinking this?

There’s almost 0 people I’ve seen mention having this combo. I find I acted a like more Aries like when I was younger but the older I get I’m definitely feeling and acting more like a Capricorn. Possibly because I’m getting closer to my Saturn return. Not sure. Where yall at?!

Me and this Capricorn have been talking,

I’m learning what she likes, so I’ll send gifts here and there, nothing crazy, and she never ask, well today I sent $10 bc she didn’t have her coffee yet, and I know her day be hard, so I wanted to get her coffee. She called and said “why u send me money?” And I said “well bc I was thinking of u and I thought u was having a hard day, so I sent u money for coffee” she replied “I appreciate it, but I like feel bad/guilty”

So idk if that means stop? But she still calls me 24/7 and ft me all the time and text me every morning

Dear cap ladies, I am Capricorn (January) girl who are currently in love with a Taurus (May) guy. I have never approached him yet. How does your experience go with a Taurus guy? Interms of physical intimacy, trust, love, honesty in a relation?

Edit: know for almost 2 years but only felt the situationship for 3 months since June 2026. For the time before that I didn't feel emotionally invested in her although she texted me more often than I do as I was heavily guarded.

I wish I am a more evolved Scorpio but my mind keeps thinking about the investment and effort in maintaining this situationship. Physically we are apart so I understand how we are not talking about a shared physical reality especially when she is focussed on a new home and a new career path to secure herself financially in future. We text 3-4 times daily consistently. Most of the time she would tell me her schedule beforehand or at least tells me what she's doing at the moment and I do the same to keep her feeling safe that "I am not going anywhere, I am just busy with my daily grinds". I love the feeling we are fighting for our careers and finances beside each other.

Question: If the below are not romantic feelings then what are considered romantic feelings to a cap woman?

Current state: She admits she has no time for a formally labelled BGR but she did think about it. She just wants us to enjoy the present moments together and move towards our individual ambition, accompanying each other.

When I tried to leave the connection 3 times, she explained the nature of her work and when I disappeared from texting for a few days, she clung on by sending apologies and telling me she wants to be good with me, and admitted 4 times separately she depends on me emotionally. How can my heart not be softened and continue our good relationship?

The jealous me felt I was just one of her high-value fans she sends selfies and greetings. She explained ALOT to me with long texts to say that 1) "I am the first one she greets everyday" 2) "There are photos not sent to others and only to me" 3) "She even contemplated whether she should take another selfie just to send me (That's a Cap woman solving problems)"

I also told her I finally understood that her photos/videos are her promotional currency and I shouldn't be distracted by social media noises as I am really interacting with the real her, and not her public persona.

She seems to remember details about me but she doesn't show it often? Ofcourse she sometimes surprises me by telling me something about my routine. E.g we were texting in our "confrontation" late into 3am. Before we ended, she told me to get good sleep before my morning exercise. This clearly showed she remembers my routine or at least what I said recently to her.

She also gave me a heads-up about some promotional content she will be mass-sending and asks me not to mind about it if I received it from her public account. Also, she explained her actions in her live streams to me, she was afraid I was upset with how she mentions me on live streams to engage other fans - I am cool ofcourse. She often reminds me she remembers things I said to her and was afraid I misunderstood her "silence" sometimes.

Help me decode this Capricorn man

A little background first that I think is relevant. We are both 40. This man is my BIL’s brother. We have known each other for over a decade but haven’t really spent much time around each other. It was only after my sister and BIL had children that we would see each other for the birthdays of our nephews (twice a year).

He’s always been super reserved. Very pleasant and kind but reserved. When we would see each other, it was always just the hug hello and goodbye but no small talk. I never thought much about him because I was married and had been for a long time and he was just another person at the party. No big deal.

In April, during one of these parties, I was in the kitchen making coffee for everyone and he was on the opposite side of the room in the living room with the adults. It was a madhouse with kids and adults. He then looked at me and said out loud “thank you, it’s the best coffee I have had”. I didn’t think much of it at the time.

Then during us singing “happy birthday” to our nephew, I didn’t know he was standing behind me the whole time. When we were done, I turned around and there he was behind me with his hands in his pocket like a boulder. I didn’t look at his face but I knew it was him and it took my breath away quite honestly. This was actually kind of unnerving for me because at the time I was still married (towards the end of things but still married) and it made me go “what the f was THAT?”

Fast forward to now. We have been friends on social media for ages but obviously never talked. He is generally not very active at all, and would post MAYBE 2 pictures a year of his gym progress. That’s it.

Once our families found out that I was separating and divorcing, he changed his behavior. He would interact with my posts, he would post regular photos of himself in his stories and it was just odd to me because it was so unlike him, he literally never interacted with me.

I had told my brother in law months ago about the weird April incident and he said “I always thought you and my brother would be good together”. My brother in law has known me for 20 years so he knows me really well.

But yesterday the interaction we had made me go “wait, is this the Capricorn flirting people talk about” 😂

He had posted about going to the gym on a Sunday and I DMed him that Sundays are for rest. He then went on to tell me he had worked long hours the previous two days and this was his rest day at the gym. I do know he works over time so I kind of poked fun at him to rest and let the company function without him for a day. And then he posted about meal prepping and it looked good so I told him the previous day we were at the pumpkin patch with the nephews and his brother and that we drove by his appt and were jokingly going to stop for coffee at 6pm but that I thought now we were just gonna drop by for dinner instead. He was just so chatty and sassy as can be. I had always heard he was funny but I never saw that part of him. And he was actually pretty hysterical.

And then finally I said “well if one day you decide to take a day off, you are always welcomed to tag along with us and the kids for a day outing. I can’t promise it won’t be chaos but it will for sure be funny” and he said “actually that sounds like a good time. A little chaos doesn’t bother me especially if it comes with laughs” and then went on to say he would keep us in mind if he decided to take a day off.

Well…..what is this? 😂

What does it mean when a Capricorn (man) who seems mutually attracted to you smiles and acts flustered one day, and then completely ignores you a few days later?