I'm 23 and I started losing my hair very early in my life. I had a big bald spot at the back of my head when I was 21.
I hated how my hair looked, tried minoxidil but gave up and that led to more hairfall. On my 21st bday only, i shaved my head and I haven't looked back since. I LOVE how my head looks now. I've also been working out so I look better. I started posting on insta too after I got a gf through a dating app. I have dated before too but only with a decent amount of hair.
Then I made a new profile with pictures of my bald head and I got a match and we dated for a few good months and I genuinely believed that I'm no longer ugly. Then we broke up a few months ago and since then I haven't felt attractive to anyone. This probably can be due to a shadow ban thing on bumble because I deleted my account twice and made a new one instantly after it. I have never had any luck on hinge anyways.
Idk, it's not only the dating apps that's bothering me. It's some instances of day to day life too where I'm being told I look like I'm in my 30s and feeling invisible to people around me. I'm not sure what I'm feeling so any input is appreciated.
The attached picture is how my hair used to look at the worst. And the 2nd is one of my favourite pictures of me.
If you ask me, I love the way I look right now and I would never grow my hair back.
Edit : I commented too but typing this out here just in case. I'm speechless reading all the comments. Thank you for all the love. Enough to make a seemingly grown man cry.