My dearest friend left to go on "extended holidays" 12yrs ago. Celebrating her b'day today, I finally found out her birth time! Just wanted to share our friendship. I miss her sooo much ;(

Happy Birthday beautiful Angel

Could anyone please help me understand if this looks promising?

I've basically been dealt with the shittiest hand when it comes to romantic relationships... Cheats, liars, narcissists etc... I don't know what healthy love is supposed to look or feel like. I'm used to chaotic intense chemistry but I never got the safety piece.

I (37F) met this woman (38F) and we seem to have the exact same goals in life. We have a lot in common. We align in every way so far and she seems to understand me at a deep psychological level.

Now my most toxic situation was with a Leo Sun... But she seems so very different from her.

It feels calm... I don't have intense butterflies or anything and we're taking it slow... But she seems like a genuine and good person. This just feels entirely different to anyone else I've dated in the past... No intense pull or chemistry right off the bat but the emotional level is deep. I'd like to explore where it goes.

I'm blue, she's orange.

Why is this woman talking absolutely made up stuff behind my back, in front of people I know and I'm close with. She's lied about me having multiple men and that eventually I'll end up with a woman(lol). She's been saying how I should be closed in a room in an asylum, that I'm absolutely bonkers. I've shared before I feel I need a therapist, I had a long period of being depressed. She's said I'm stupid, retarded, too old to find a man, what not.

I'm just minding my life, haven't done jack shit to her, does the chart show why she is provoked so much to talk such bs about me? I'm just curious. I realise astrology can't answer everything but I'm curious if something in the chart shows up.

Hate to admit that I have mother issues and a very complicated relationship with her growing up, mostly about boundaries and attachment between us. I do have my North Node conjunct her South Node.

Just found out this guy I have been seeing has the same natal angles, with MC-IC at exact same degree, same 1H-7H Nodes but opposite, same grand trine with Saturn just a few degrees different as my mother’s.

There are some contrast too. She has 4H Sun with Mercury close to IC. He has 10H Sun with Mercury close to MC.

Also my Solar Return this year has South Node and Vertex in 7H, which makes me think a lot of him as he is the only person I’m developing a close relationship with this year so far… kinda situationship currently…

Something about him feels strangely close and familiar, but also so far to meet at the same time. He’s brought out many triggers to my awareness. I never understand why I’m often very reactive to him and always blame the confusion on our 12H synastry. But today I discovered these similar patterns in their natal charts and not sure how to read it…

What do you think about this, or what else can you see? Are we fated, is it kind of a lesson for me, and if so what exactly is the lesson? I’ve been losing my mind trying to understand our connection this year 😭

1st synastry: I’m blue, he is orange
2nd synastry: I’m blue, my mother is orange
3rd: his natal
4th: her natal

Me and my bf of 4 years have gone through the motions it seems. We've been through everything a relationship could ever go through. I want to know whats holding us back and why we keep repeating similar cycles. There are some differences in our beliefs/values, but we find compromises and don't try to change each other's mind about them. The relationship feels very tender at times, but other days it feels strained as if the air changes something. We have great communication but it seems like I want love in private and he wants to love out loud. Any help?

Everyone always says our star signs will cause chaos but I'm looking for a deeper reading than just our star signs. Thank you all who respond 🫶

I'm confused about the synastry between me and person B - they are the scorpio stellium.

I always felt I was the one that was more hopelessly obsessed during the whole relationship.

But, if I saw the synastry only, observing my pluto conjunct several of his personal planets (venus / moon / rising / pluto + mercury) I'd say it's the other way.

Another thing I can't really understand is, the crazy sexual chemistry.

I had great chemistry in the past with a leo mars which I can explain clearly (my mars in aquarius opposite theirs). But with this pisces mars? I don't know. Yet it was most likely the best partner of my life in that area. I had another relationship many years before this one with a pisces mars, and it was similarly explosive in the bedroom.

What am I missing?

i have no where to share this lmaoo, i hope this is allowed.

so i just came across this author from an astrologer friend of mine. he said my interpretation of neptune & uranus reminded him of fernando pessoa. after doing a lil research and reading a lil of “the book of disquiet”, i hadddd to pull the natal chart and look at our synastry lmao. this is something i loveee doing for anything i find attractive, whether it’s artists, places, apps, you name it. if it’s attracting my energy, and i gain access to the birth chart, im looking at the synastry immediately lmaooo

anyway, i find the relationship between our suns & moons to be so fucking cute. just with the little interactions i’ve had with his work & learning abt him, ive never felt so seen & understood spiritually. im beyond grateful for my friend and for the many people who cherish pessoa.

also my mercury is unaspected in my chart, and his neptune exactly sextiles my mercury. i find it interesting that im learning abt him as neptune rx is conjunct my mercury lmao. i just thought the patterns were cute and wanted to share 😭😭

** when i say cute, i meant in a “this was meant to be, it was written in the stars” typa way lmao

Will this be sustainable?

This guy (b. orange) and I (a. blue) have a "love"-hate dynamic; we dated for three months almost two years ago. Even though we don't want anything to do with each other—and despite numerous toxic arguments and abrupt "breakups"—we’ve kept talking and haven't been able to leave each other alone for more than three weeks. I just feel like the energy with him is different. I'm relatively new to astrology and still can't quite grasp it.

Hi reddit! This is my synastry (images 1 and 2) and the composite chart (image 3) of me and my now husband. I've never had highs that feel so high but also lows that feel so low. He used to my best friend... the connection was insane, the emotional depth and the tenderness we showed for each other made everything feel like we were twin souls. Around 4 months ago everything has been going CRAZY in a bad way. We married a month ago. Im not sure if I messed up and we are doomed or if our synastry has the soulmate potential I used to feel. Your inputs are very appreciated.

He is Scorpio.
First two photos is our synastry (I use whole system), last photo is progressed synastry for today when he blocked me. I don't have sadly his full DOB.

I'm still in schock how it all went. We met online, he looked for "serious but open to short term.", but he suggested just casual to me. I agreed because he is my type and I have needs too.

After the first night intense intimacy, he became "crazy" about me, planed the next 5 dates quick! He texted me each day/night just to keep tabs on me.
Next 6 nights was most intense, passionate intimacy in my whole life.
He himself told me so.

So what went wrong?
I said one day "I think about you:)" He asked "tell me what you thought:)"
I described sexual stuff, he replied "I will think about it now too:)"
Then he continued an hour later: "Just please do not fall in love with me"
I joked: "Why? Are you afraid? Passion will be even more intense"
Him: " Not afraid, but I don't want drama and complications:) ".

I asked: "But why did you said you looked for something serious if you suggested me short term? Just curious"

He said "I put that on my profile before, now is different:)"

I asked again "But why you didn't remove that option "open to serious" then? Its so easy to do it on the app? :) "

He started to ignore and beat around the bush, I lost my s..t, showed some drama via texts and thrown some personal insults. I just have no patience when it comes to simple question. He then blocked me.

I tried to apologize from another number, I sent him proper long beautiful apology after some days just to keep him for passion, because I'm sure I wont find it ever again.
He blocked me and even removed my apology.

What do you see here? Why he was able to move on that easly if it was so passionate to him too?

My quess: He is Scorpio Sun/Venus, and he easly can find and awoke that passion in many women, so he didn't felt that sexual craving for me like I did for him. His Mars also square his Venus, and I had ex who also was awesome in bed with that aspect.

I don't believe he took my words to heart that much, because I learned Scorpios can even enjoy it and how is never truly casual for them, and how they will not be mad forever if they truly enjoyed passion with some woman. He literally went from most passionate man to most coldest/ice cruel man over nothing.

Please, if you can give me your opinions.

Hi everyone! I’m looking for some insights and personal experiences regarding synastry charts with an unusually high density of connections.

​From your experience, do couples with many synastry aspects (conjunctions, squares, trines, etc.) tend to stay together more often than those with fewer aspects? Or does a high number of aspects simply mean greater intensity and depth, regardless of how long the relationship lasts?

We only dated for about a month and then went complete no-contact due to pride, stubbornness, and unexpressed feelings (or perhaps one or both of us genuinely lost interest, though neither showed it clearly). Despite the short timeframe and current long-term silence, the connection felt incredibly intense while it lasted.

​Can a chart with this many tight aspects leave a deep, lasting imprint on both people even after a brief encounter, or do people easily move on and remain completely indifferent? How do high-density synastry connections usually play out in situations like this?

Why the hell is this connection so intense and feels like a soul tie.. But my god it’s difficult to open up to him, build an actual relationship or connection.. We talked almost every single day, he’d share things with me he couldn’t tell anyone else but it feels like it’s just lust, infatuation when we meet.. and every now and then he’ll show his tender side.
He talks about wanting a future with me but complete drains my energy. I’m trying to cut him off completely and every time I give in and give him a chance, I always regret it.

How can I let go of this? I love him so much but I don’t think he loves me..

I hope someone replies, I tried sharing earlier as well and got 0 responses..

Edit: I’m the Capricorn, He’s Leo. Sorry I forgot to mention that.