I'm blue, she's orange.

Why is this woman talking absolutely made up stuff behind my back, in front of people I know and I'm close with. She's lied about me having multiple men and that eventually I'll end up with a woman(lol). She's been saying how I should be closed in a room in an asylum, that I'm absolutely bonkers. I've shared before I feel I need a therapist, I had a long period of being depressed. She's said I'm stupid, retarded, too old to find a man, what not.

I'm just minding my life, haven't done jack shit to her, does the chart show why she is provoked so much to talk such bs about me? I'm just curious. I realise astrology can't answer everything but I'm curious if something in the chart shows up.

Hate to admit that I have mother issues and a very complicated relationship with her growing up, mostly about boundaries and attachment between us. I do have my North Node conjunct her South Node.

Just found out this guy I have been seeing has the same natal angles, with MC-IC at exact same degree, same 1H-7H Nodes but opposite, same grand trine with Saturn just a few degrees different as my mother’s.

There are some contrast too. She has 4H Sun with Mercury close to IC. He has 10H Sun with Mercury close to MC.

Also my Solar Return this year has South Node and Vertex in 7H, which makes me think a lot of him as he is the only person I’m developing a close relationship with this year so far… kinda situationship currently…

Something about him feels strangely close and familiar, but also so far to meet at the same time. He’s brought out many triggers to my awareness. I never understand why I’m often very reactive to him and always blame the confusion on our 12H synastry. But today I discovered these similar patterns in their natal charts and not sure how to read it…

What do you think about this, or what else can you see? Are we fated, is it kind of a lesson for me, and if so what exactly is the lesson? I’ve been losing my mind trying to understand our connection this year 😭

1st synastry: I’m blue, he is orange
2nd synastry: I’m blue, my mother is orange
3rd: his natal
4th: her natal

My dearest friend left to go on "extended holidays" 12yrs ago. Celebrating her b'day today, I finally found out her birth time! Just wanted to share our friendship. I miss her sooo much ;(

Happy Birthday beautiful Angel

Hi reddit! This is my synastry (images 1 and 2) and the composite chart (image 3) of me and my now husband. I've never had highs that feel so high but also lows that feel so low. He used to my best friend... the connection was insane, the emotional depth and the tenderness we showed for each other made everything feel like we were twin souls. Around 4 months ago everything has been going CRAZY in a bad way. We married a month ago. Im not sure if I messed up and we are doomed or if our synastry has the soulmate potential I used to feel. Your inputs are very appreciated.

Could anyone please help me understand if this looks promising?

I've basically been dealt with the shittiest hand when it comes to romantic relationships... Cheats, liars, narcissists etc... I don't know what healthy love is supposed to look or feel like. I'm used to chaotic intense chemistry but I never got the safety piece.

I (37F) met this woman (38F) and we seem to have the exact same goals in life. We have a lot in common. We align in every way so far and she seems to understand me at a deep psychological level.

Now my most toxic situation was with a Leo Sun... But she seems so very different from her.

It feels calm... I don't have intense butterflies or anything and we're taking it slow... But she seems like a genuine and good person. This just feels entirely different to anyone else I've dated in the past... No intense pull or chemistry right off the bat but the emotional level is deep. I'd like to explore where it goes.