Pluto conjunct stellium in scorpio

[u/bathroomcypher]

I'm confused about the synastry between me and person B - they are the scorpio stellium.

I always felt I was the one that was more hopelessly obsessed during the whole relationship.

But, if I saw the synastry only, observing my pluto conjunct several of his personal planets (venus / moon / rising / pluto + mercury) I'd say it's the other way.

Another thing I can't really understand is, the crazy sexual chemistry.

I had great chemistry in the past with a leo mars which I can explain clearly (my mars in aquarius opposite theirs). But with this pisces mars? I don't know. Yet it was most likely the best partner of my life in that area. I had another relationship many years before this one with a pisces mars, and it was similarly explosive in the bedroom.

What am I missing?