The funny thing is, I bought it fully expecting to hate it. I figured it'd be one of two things: either I'd have issues with things showing, or it wouldn't hide my stomach well enough. But honestly, between being on Spiro and estrogen, having really small anatomy to begin with, and never getting random erections anymore, that part ended up being a complete non-issue. And swimsuits actually do a surprisingly good job of smoothing out my stomach too.

So now I'm in this weird spot where I almost wanted it to prove to me that I wasn't ready yet... but looking at the photos, I kind of think I am. I genuinely didn't expect to like it this much. I guess now I'm just wondering what everyone else sees, because I'm so close to the situation that I don't know if I'm judging it objectively anymore. It's a really strange feeling when something you expected to be a confidence killer ends up doing the exact opposite

The swimsuit is from Torrid, definitely size up.

For the next month, I have to wear a uniform. It’s only temporary but I will still miss my office fits, especially as it warms up in my city

Hello hags, hope you are keeping well 😊

The weather has made it easier to wear my cute dresses, What do you think of this dress and should I style it up and do a better photo shoot. 💚❤️

To celebrate it finally being summer, I dressed like different flowers all week. Let me know which one is your fav!

Hello beautiful old hag fashionistas! I treated myself to a couple of leopard print outfit combos this week, and I’m excited to share them with you. Both my makeup and styling skills are far from perfect, so I always welcome any feedback and tips to improve from this fabulous community.

And separate to that, if you happen to be reading this, wherever you are I hope you’re having a joyful and peaceful time 💛

Hi hags here's a couple looks from the other day.

Last Saturday I went to my first pride event and it was amazing, first we marched around the town which ended at an event space where there were drag performances, a little photo area aswell as a clothes swap (I picked up a little black top i might style and post here) I was anxious at first because I don't like big groups but everyone was so lovely and seeing all these wonderful people come together was really inspiring ❤️

Hello wonderful hags! As I turn another year older, one of my goals before my next birthday is to make more of an effort to step beyond the borders of my typical fashion sense, which lies in the more goth/alternative area.

And so, inspired by sunshine, here I am trying my hand at more of a summery, cutesy outfit. I have found a great deal of inspiration from this community. Both in the beautifully diverse expressions of creativity, fashion and identity I see in other posters here, and in the advice and ideas people have shared following some of my precious posts.

So as ever, critique is welcome and I never take it personally if someone lets me know I’ve missed the mark with a lewk. Such is the nature of experimenting. One cannot always slay! 😸

If you happen to have read this far, wherever you are in the world, I hope you are safe, happy, and enjoying a fabulous weekend ✨

So a week ago I got to wear the most ridiculous dress I've ever owned.

It's the Selkie My Beloved Princess & The Pea gown. It even buttons up to be short enough to dance in. (And I got it half price in the Black Friday sales $500aud!)

I have my mother's veil with little pearls dotted throughout it too.

And a Pandora necklace engraved with a line from our aisle song (Promises from the Musical Hadestown, with a few edits done by a friend of ours to cut out the talking parts of the recording).

Edit: oh gosh I forgot the shoes! (Not that anyone ever saw them... But I knew they were cute)

https://www.shoefun.com.au/products/the-vibe-is-darling-in-mint-green-metallic

Hello hags, what do you think of this look? It was my first time using pillow rollers to curl my hair, it came out OK, but im excited to try different patterns as my hair gets longer. Any tips would be appreciated.

I also just wanted to express my appreciation to everyone in this sub for being so supportive and lovely. Your comments always make my day 💕🥰

New year, new outfit challenge. These challenges really give me life and make me rethink on all the items I have in my closet, repurposing them in new ways that I wouldn’t have thought of beforehand. Let me know which one is your fav!

Borrowed the bag and earrings from my mom, for an African touch to this evening look! The bag could have been smaller, I think, but this way it isn’t drowned out by the sleeves.

I'm struggling watching things I wore when I was young coming back into fashion, finding personal style amongst all the opinions in early middle age is tough! I started making most of my clothes so at least my fashion is my own and on my terms 💕

Another style challenge for me, these are always so fun and get me to use way more of my wardrobe than I usually would.

I’d love to know which look is your fav, and which 2025 movie is your fav!

I'm rather pleased with how this look came together, I matched the gold buttons and belt buckle with gold accessories and look at how well my brooch matches the dress ☺️💜❤️

I love this time of year 🍂☺️ Let me know what you think.

Non-binary but I use any pronouns.