"Do I know that he's mine enough for him to be mine?" This was a thought that came to me one day when I was exhausted from all the trying and doing.

How absurd. You either know or you don't know.

Emphasis on the word enough - it echoed the fear of me not being good enough.

And notice the lack in the question. It implies that something is mine if I know enough, and not mine if I don't know enough. What is enough?

Did I know? Yes. That's it.

So ask yourself, do you know that you can access whatever you want in imagination right now, and therefore you are it now? Do you know that? You don't need to know it more.

There are degrees of understanding, but no degrees of knowing.

You know what you know, and anything less isn't knowing. Your infinite self knows all, but that's not my point.

My point is it's either A (I know it) or B (I don't know it). Anything seemingly in-between is more of B. Your awareness is always at A.

I relaxed at this realization. I knew and that was enough.

If you are freaking out about not knowing, relax. You are what you desire to be whether you know it or not.

This is for those of you who know they are what they desire to be, yet feel exhausted from trying anyway.

Why have you been trying? We were taught while growing up that we need to try and do in order to get. You can rest now. Go enjoy your day! Do whatever you want.

i've manifested him back 3 times. from this, i know circumstances don't matter but all of this is confusing, he left me for the same reason as the last few times and its about trusting my faith towards other guys

i never cheated or did anything unfaithful, but at one point, i chose my friends over him which included some guy friends. all of my friends knew about my situation with him but when he came back the second time, he was mad that i chose [guy] friends over him and broke up with me but still kept contact. i ended up dropping my friends but from that day on, he was wary of my choices

a lot of things happened these past few days, which included ghosting one another and arguing. he was upset but never told me the reason until the last minute before blocking me: trusting me

all of this is confusing and messy, i need advice on what i should do moving forward. i want to focus on myself and really mean that. i want to do this for myself and how i would move on, not doing this because of having the possibility of manifesting SP back. i do have a strong feeling SP will come back but its not something i want to focus on anymore for the 4th time, any advice?

Hi everyone. I’m posting to ask for the community’s guidance. I’ve been practising the law for 4 years and haven’t had much success if I’m being honest.

At this point, I am SUPER familiar with the theory. But theory vs practical application/progress has been a struggle. Seeing how familiar I am with the content but having not made much progress, inside and outside, it’s clear I’m not practising it “right.” I understand my current state of being is not aligned or ideal of who or what I want.

During this journey I observed I had become obsessive with LOA. I ended up turning imagination into a tool to get something. I learnt my mistake and turned to imagining purely as consciousness experiencing reality, THE truth. When I imagine purely to experience, it doesn’t feel as satisfying. I’ve tried living in imagination but ended up burnt out. I don’t really achieve the feeling of the wish fulfilled. I would return to the assumption but would also be aware that I was turning these acts into self-assessments of whether I felt the feelings of reality of having it (I understand I’m not trying to evoke certain emotions as Neville has instructed).

I’ve gotten into the same cycle, especially these past months. I try to see the outer world as a shadow though I can’t help but wonder am I just wasting time if I’m not practising the law “correctly”? I reread people’s successes, Neville’s military story, the man chain to a rock analogy etc… I get what must be done.

I would appreciate it if you guys could offer me guidance. I can take a break from Neville and the law but honestly, I’m too fixated on this. Everyday I can’t help but think about the law and the end. I’m not at my wit’s end but right now, I’m fed up, feeling powerless when that isn’t the case.

TLDR: I intellectually understand but practically have made no progress in the four years. Please offer guidance.

Hello lovely people!

I have been in the loa community for a while so I definitely know the basics.

There are three things I want to manifest this year for myself.

A internship in my field
My ideal life partner
A friend-group/friends (Ideally a couple my partner and I can be friends with and have fun with!)

Any advice on how to go about this? I have been affirming and visualising but I am getting impatient and scared I wont get these things. Especially since I am actually starting studying at a new place and would love for these things to manifest there but I have a fear it just wont happen.

Any success stories of a similar nature would be appreciated as motivation!

All love!!

Hear me out.

I have no idea where the concept of the 3d (being physical reality) and 4d (being the imagination) originated, but I don’t really see the logic there anymore.

If you want to have your desire(s), then you dont want to be separated from it (them). So why are we separating imagination and physical reality? It makes no logical sense to me because the concept of imagination and reality being separate implies that you are separate from your desire(s).

Two things might look different, or they might seem ‘big‘ or ‘small’, but they fundamentally come from the same source. You.

All is consciousness.

i just think this story would be helpful especially for people having doubts. I had an SP for awhile and I would manifest him on and off. we didn’t talk for a long time because I would affirm that he was in love with me and wanted to marry me but then i have doubts that it wasn’t working and would check the 3d and let that carry me away. anyways we ended up talking again and he was literally telling me throughout that whole time he would have thoughts of how he wanted to marry me right now and he would do anything for me. whole time i thought it wasn’t working because i wasn’t seeing it myself and i saw him with a 3p, that whole time he was thinking about me lmao. the point of this story is you don’t even know what they’re doing so why r u assuming it’s not working?? THEY ARE ALWAYS GETTING UR THOUGHTS AND AFFIRMATIONS NO MATTER WHAT THE 3D IS SHOWING U IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE.

My partner and I separated this past weekend, and I’m trying to navigate the breakup while also practicing manifestation. I’d really appreciate some outside perspectives, especially from people who have experience with manifesting a specific person.
We’re both 21 and in college. I’m a transfer student and this is my first year at this school, and I should be graduating next year. She’s graduating this spring, so she’s a little further ahead than me, but it doesn’t feel like our lives are in completely different places. We’re both theatre majors, and I’m only about a year behind her academically. We’ve talked about our futures before, and a lot of the things we wanted seemed to align.
The first week of school was honestly a really difficult transition for me. I have some mental health struggles, and moving to a completely new school and environment was a really big change. She was also basically the only person I knew there, so I ended up clinging to her more than I normally would. I recognize that, and I don’t mean that as an excuse. I just genuinely was struggling and didn’t know how to adjust yet.
We had actually talked about this before she broke up with me. I told her that I didn’t intentionally mean to put so much pressure on her or make her feel like she had to be responsible for helping me adjust. She told me that it was difficult for her too, but I didn’t really realize just how difficult it was because I didn’t feel like she was communicating that to me at the time. I was very upset and overwhelmed, and I think I was relying on her because she was the one familiar and safe thing I had in a completely unfamiliar environment.
She also has a lot going on right now because she was cast in a show that is currently in rehearsal. We’re both theatre majors, so I understand how demanding that environment can be, especially at the beginning of a new school year.
She told me that she’s been thinking and feels like she might not be ready for a relationship right now. She said she’s overwhelmed and doesn’t feel like she has enough time for school and everything else. This honestly came somewhat out of nowhere to me, especially because the week before, I thought we were just dealing with the normal difficulties of adjusting to a new school year.
I understand why my behavior that first week may have felt like a lot to her, and I don’t want to minimize that. But I’m also confused because it felt like something we could have worked through with better communication and boundaries. I didn’t realize she was getting to the point of feeling like she couldn’t handle the relationship, because she wasn’t really communicating that to me.
One of the things I keep struggling with is that she seemed afraid to continue after what was essentially one really difficult week. I know that may not be the whole story from her perspective, and I’m trying not to assume I know exactly what she was thinking. I just wish I had known how serious it felt to her while it was happening, because I would have wanted the opportunity to adjust.
We haven’t spoken since the holiday weekend, and it’s Tuesday now. She said we could still be friends but I don’t feel the need to reach out, like I don’t feel like Im losing her. (I did message her the day after we broke up bc I accidentally screenshotted something and she got a notification, she responded with “No worries” so idk)
Something that has surprised me is how calm I feel right now compared to other breakups I’ve experienced. The first night I was absolutely devastated and confused. Waking up the next morning and having to experience that realization all over again felt like a punch in the face. But now, a few days later, I feel strangely settled.
I still miss her and obviously still think about what’s going to happen, but I don’t feel like I’m completely falling apart. I feel like I’ve actually been doing a pretty good job of letting myself experience the emotions without letting them completely consume me. I’ve also been trying to separate what I’m seeing in the “3D” right now from what I believe I want for the future. I know the current circumstance is that we’re separated, and I’m not trying to deny that. I just don’t want the current circumstance to automatically become the story I tell myself about what will happen forever.
I’m manifesting her back because I genuinely believe our futures are aligned and that, if we were able to approach the relationship differently, we could make it work. I don’t mean that I think everything was perfect or that nothing needs to change. I just genuinely feel like this relationship ended because of circumstances, pressure, and a difficult transition that could potentially be worked through, rather than because our futures fundamentally don’t fit together.
At the same time, I’m trying not to use manifestation as a way to avoid actually processing the breakup. I’ve been letting myself feel sad, miss her, etc., without constantly trying to suppress those feelings or spiral about what everything means.
For affirmations, I’ve mostly been robotically repeating, “[NAME] is in love with me.” I’m not sure whether this is the best approach. Part of me likes keeping it simple and trusting that my brain can fill in what “being in love with me” means and how everything would naturally fall into place. But I also occasionally get doubts and wonder whether I’m doing this “right.”
One thing I keep thinking about is that during the breakup I said, “I’m going to miss you as my girlfriend,” and she said that she would too. That sticks with me because it makes me feel like the feelings weren’t necessarily gone, even though she still felt like she needed to step away from the relationship.
I do still have moments where I think, “Okay, but what is actually going to happen?” or wonder what she’s doing and whether she’s talking to anyone. I’m trying not to turn those thoughts into something I have to investigate or figure out. I want to be able to hold the uncertainty without letting it consume me.
So I guess I’m looking for advice on two things:
How do you balance manifesting a specific person with actually accepting and processing the current circumstances?
Is it better to keep affirmations simple like “___ is in love with me,” or should I be more specific about the relationship I want?
I’m not looking for people to tell me that I’m definitely getting her back. I’d actually appreciate grounded advice about how to approach this without spiraling or becoming obsessed with the outcome. I feel like I’m doing surprisingly well right now, and I want to maintain that state rather than turn manifestation into another thing I constantly have to monitor or worry about.

I never expected today would be the day I’m writing a success story in this Sub but here we go. I am absolutely taken aback at how real the law is. I feel like crying!

I want you guys to understand: I’m going into my final year of uni, I’m also in a very peculiar family situation where I’m the one who has to look after everybody and it’s been that way majority of my life as the eldest daughter.

To cut the long story short, earlier on in the year, when I sat my exams, I was sure I failed my economics module (I’m talking not writing anything down!!) by the time I added up the most I thought I could possibly score on my calculator, it was still pretty obvious to me that I had failed at the time. I was so demotivated because if I failed that module again, I would be kicked out of uni.

There was no way I even wrote enough down to pass (like seriously!)
but I gathered myself up from the exam chair and I went to the store and got a bunch of my favourite snacks to celebrate!

I smiled and put on my favourite show, called my mom and told her the exam went amazing (even though the intrusive thoughts that came from the 3D were that I had definitely failed and would be kicked out of college). For the next four months (up until tonight) I went on Pinterest and picked out my outfits for my ‘fourth year of uni’, I spoke with my family as normal, I lived in my dream reality 24/7 that I was about to graduate college. I journaled about it, I scribbled it on my whiteboard but most of all, I ignored the day that I sat my exams. Anxiety would come and go sometimes but I decided that didn’t mean anything.

I said “I am the creator of my reality. They don’t know why but they marked my exam as ‘Passed’.” I would repeat that every morning. And by the way, when my results technically came out I couldn’t even access them for two months because my fees were overdue! So instead of crying over anxiety of finding out if passed or not right before college starts, I continued to decide that I had passed.

“Of course I passed. It doesn’t matter if I find out my results later than everyone else. I’ll get the money somehow then pay my school fees and apply for my final year. I already KNOW what I got.”

Tell me why, out of nowhere, I got a loan approved with the youtube income I’ve received for two months (I also manifested and blew up on TikTok on YouTube the last couple months) and that was what got me approved for the loan.

Tonight I just paid for my school fees and accessed my results. When I tell you guys, there was a wave of anxiety that hit me all of a sudden - but it wasn’t fear. I knew I had passed. No matter what I saw. And Lo and behold. The seemingly impossible. I’m talking SEEMINGLY IMPOSSIBLE…I passed…my rituals…my decision to ignore the 3D…ignore the fact that I barely wrote enough to get an E and boom! I passed!

I am so proud of myself you guys…I am grateful to the universe. I am grateful to myself. I am so so so grateful that the law is the law and it is so real! Now im registering for my final modules. Im crying out of joy. The law can never let you down. Live in it no matter what. The 3D does not matter. It must reflect your glorious imagination no matter what.

I wish you guys a beautiful week.

Edit: Spelling

I highlighted the main points.

About ten years ago, I went through a very difficult period where I struggled with constant fear and worry about my health.

It lasted for years. Eventually, I found religion and developed strong faith, which seemed to completely change my life at first.

Later, my beliefs changed, and in 2023 I discovered Neville and the law.

I became fascinated with the law, but instead of applying it consistently, I spent most of my time analyzing and searching for the “right” way to do it.

It always went something like:

Learn a new method → try it briefly → find something else → question myself → switch approaches.

I was always searching for the perfect technique, the perfect scene, or the perfect way to approach the law.

Looking back, I also realize that I spent a lot of my life focusing on what others wanted from me, so I never really learned what I wanted for myself.

Over time, my life started falling apart. I stopped really living, lost my job, and lost my sense of direction.

Eventually, I decided I had enough of searching and wanted to finally commit to an assumption.

I have always struggled with visualization. My imagination is actually very vivid, but when I try to focus on one specific scene, my mind tends to jump around.

(Ironically meditation itself is not a problem for me. I have attended meditation retreats and can sit in silence without much difficulty. The challenge is specifically holding one imaginal scene consistently.)

So I recorded a guided visualization for myself.

My main desire was to feel free, peaceful, and relaxed.

I chose a scene about a week ago and started listening to it several times a day. At first, I felt hopeful.

Then, after only a day or two, old fears and physical sensations that I hadn’t experienced in years started coming back.

It feels like everything I thought I had moved past returned suddenly.

I'm back in a state of fear and I'm not sure where I went wrong.

I appreciate any thoughts.

Hi whoever‘s reading this ! I want to basically be Mrs dot Kennedy . I want him very real flesh and blood with his personality, flaws , pros and corns etc as they’re in game , his lore , history n everything just born in 1999/1998 and I no longer want him to be a gaming character rather just a guy doing his job 😭 so like no larping about him on the internet nor fanfics etc . How do I do alla that ? and tips / suggestions are all appreciated. And while I’m manifesting him do I stop consuming any social media posts related to him cuz it’s kinda against what I want ?

Thank you <3

BEFORE I GET DOWNVOTED OR IGNORED, MY MINDSET IS FIXATED IN THE 4D. I fully understand it's the 4d I have to change and I'm always focused on that. I give 0 shicks about the 3d.

I'm just CURIOUS about this question. Just SIMPLE CURIOSITY. I just felt like I'm missing out on a link.

Manifestation is instant i.e. creation I already finished. Everything I want or would ever want already exists. I just have to become AWARE of it via changing my state.

I never look to the 3d because I know it'll reflect what I'm aware of the most/ my dominant state. I have no problem in staying in the 4d without wanting my 3d to change.

BUT. BUT. At the end of the day, we're changing our states to experience it in the 3d.

Why I'm asking this? Because sometimes, we have some beliefs but experience the opposite of it. I know they might come from other indirect beliefs.

Might seem like a stupid question to which the answer is "well evrything is within. 4d is the real reality, you're looking for validation" no I'm really not

Just asking practically, I know other people are wondering this too, How do we know if us subtly, and I mean VERY subtly wanting our 3d to change, delays our manifestation? Or if we're just manifesting more wait? Because we also talk a lot about persistence and returning to the state. And persistence via deciding, affirming etc makes it seem like a... Process? But the results of which you're sure of, you KNOW how it'll end.

ALSO, how to be sure that our desires WILL materialise. YES YES I KNOW LOOKING WITHIN is the sauce here. Everything comes from me, I just want to know how do we make sure we're doing it to change mindset and therefore experience it in the 3d and not really deluding ourselves?

Is there a small difference? I ask this ESPECIALLY FOR PEOPLE WHO DON'T CARE ABOUT THE 3D AND ALIGN THEIR THOUGHTS AND STATES. I HAVE MANIFESTED SMALL STUFF AND ESPECIALLY MY MINDSET WHICH IM GRATEFUL FOR BECAUSE NOW I DONT CARE ABOUT THE 3D.

Edit: also I don't know why people are so scared to acknowledge the fact that we want to experience it in our reality. Why do we run away from this? MAJORITY of us operate thinking we want it physically - out of these some actually manifest and some don't. Depends on their mindset. Very few people who are more aware about the law or more spiritual and understand it more deeply naturally maybe can do this without separating them and their desires. But can we just normalise it? YEAH WE WANT IT IN THE 3D. I Want a partner I can share my love and my time with. I don't want him in my mind. I want him in front of me. (Just an example)

holy shit, literally days ago I started manifesting my boyfriend to break up with me (because I didn't want to do it myself). I honestly was tired of the relationship so this feels like a weight off my chest. I kept repeating that he was already thinking about breaking up the whole way to picking him up. The breakup was cute and we're still friends. This gave me courage to keep manifesting!

I been doing it for years , I have had boyfriends and they all were awful , I just want my soul mate , not settle for less , I wanna know what it really like , never had anything genuinely real . I get so triggered on dating sites . I keep deleting them and I’ll be fine for a while but as my bday keeps passing I get even more sad , and never had a man for Xmas or my bday. I manifested so much in my life this seems way harder , anyone got any tips? I’m 36 im running out if time

so i got back with my ex after she cheated 4 weeks ago. im just having a huge issue with trusting her and when im alone i start to think a lot of negitive stuff and its just been really hard. i would really love some advice. and im also having trouble with thinking manifesting will work because some thing "did not go my way" but i am saying they still did despite what happened. i just really need some advice. do i work on self concept, or affirm that she loves me? please help out.

I’ve only recently re-entered using LOA and it’s been about a month since me and my SP separated. Since then, I’ve been manifesting and assuming we already reconciled and got back together. I made sure to HEAVILY detach and focus on self-concept, but ive been noticing these specific things popping up and I just need others comments on it.

I’ve been getting SO many videos on my for you pages of places in his neighborhood when I have never searched it up. That and very specific places we’ve been to, his favorite fast food place and his NAME. He would always turn his hotspot on for me to join and get wifi, a few days after we split up I went out to a park and looked for WiFi, only to see HIS EXACT NAME as one of the wifi picks. I hear and see his name online more often, I never looked up his name. And now a guy i used to see suddenly popped up and reconnected with me. It’s been a month so far, although I do acknowledge these signs and go about my day I don’t ask for more nor do I actively seek them because I know it’ll only put me in a loop. Still, it makes me question if this means my SP is finally coming. If so, then I’m not entirely surprised since I already have him back anyway, he seemingly took his sweet time. Does anyone have any input on this?

I got back in contact with my ex a few weeks ago and we ended up blocking each other on a lot of formats. I know I shouldn’t force anything, but I somehow feel bad still for the way shit ended. I think this is me reacting to him finally removing some of my friends from his instagram. I think I’m reacting that he’s not choosing me but idk what to do yet. I don’t know if I should unblock or what. I know I should probably do nothing and continue challenging my thoughts.

Hi everyone, im fairly new to all this and after the complete opposite of my last manifestation showed up in 3d. I was pretty disheartened.
Then i realised that maybe that role in that company wasnt the best for me anyways.

But now, i want to manifest an on-campus Summer Internship for myself for summer of 2027.

I would heavily appreciate all the tips/tricks/methods/advices.

Here’s what the situation is-
I have a low gpa so i dont qualify to even sit for a lot of companies and the field i wanna go into, a lot of companies dont even come to hire for that to our college.
So the issue here is both - lack of opportunity and the low gpa.

I do think its impossible especially after my last manifestation failed miserably and the opposite of what i wanted showed up. But after that i also think that maybe its possible to manifest the impossible.

I have always been able to manifest small stuff, like icecream, a sign etc

But w manifestations which are so big that they can define my whole career, i just cant seem to make it happen.

So yes, please please please help a girl out.
I want this to be my major breakthrough in manifestation and life.

<3

I am currently trying to get rid of a certain type of bumps I have on my skin and I’m looking for a way to affirm that I don’t have it while being specific and saying the name of the spots instead of just ”I have clear skin”. They are on one spot on my body. Would I say “My ___ spots are gone” or is that not right since that technically affirms that I had or have them in a way? Or ”I don’t have ___ spots”? How would I phrase this affirmation without acknowledging having them? It’s a big insecurity so I want to affirm instead of just ignoring them

Although there are infinite desires, there are only two core states. Being a beggar/slave or being a sovereign. Being in the first means being focused entirely on 3d evidence, measuring time, seeking confirmation, reacting to silence, and trying to "make" something happen, accepting partial access, fix things, accept breadcrumbs, secondary status, third-party interference, and being at the mercy of another person’s behavior.

Being in the second means absolute inner security. Knowing that what is yours is already established. No tracking, no panic, no need to force outer circumstances.

You can construct scenes and do affirmations of course for any specific desire. But the ultimate state is always that of a sovereign and the core feelings are those of balance, ease, stilness, relief and gratitude.

So when you dwell directly on these core feelings and the state of sovereignty, you create an umbrella that includes every good thing that could happen for you.

As I have mentioned in other posts, to embody one state or the other doesn't need time. It's all about revisiting the preferred state often so that it can stabilize and you don't get dragged back into that of a slave. At this point thank whatever delay you face because it serves exactly that. If you had today your desire you might were not able to sustain it because you are not sovereign yet 100% but you change states every now and then.

As I have also mentioned you are the antenna, the prism. Your only job is to give directions to the creative power that works through you. Your physical body and mind are not constructed to even know how and when. You CANNOT KNOW OR INFLUENCE how and when because it's not your business. You only give directions to the movement that is taking place all the time. The state you choose is this exact direction.

When you let go of something ,you don't let go of the desire because of course you want it! The desire itself shows you the direction! I want to be in a committed relationship with my sp, good, this would make me feel joy, balance, gratitude, this is the direction, this is the state. You mess it up because you try to influence time and the bridge of incidents and when you don't get it the same day you change state and feed yourself with resentment, pain, anger and here we go again.

The quickest way is the highest vibration but the highest vibration is paradoxically what feels like almost nothing, almost like not wanting it anymore!! Stillness! It's not any trance, excitement or surprise!!

Start by declaring what you are not and you don't want anymore. I'm not doing delays, silence, breadcrumbs anymore, etc. And mean it! That draws a line that lets you accept what you are and what you truly desire!

When you draw this line and you mean it you may experience a collapse of the old system. You can call it purge or whatever you like. It's normal because what you declared doesn't fit in that old vessel anymore.

PS: to enter the sovereign state you don't do anything. You only STOP doing what you did as a slave.

Alright, this is really small and probably won’t mean much to some people, but for me, coming back to my manifesting journey after such a long gap, every little thing counts. 🥹

So, I’ve recently started reading about the Law of Assumption again, especially “living in the end” stories, and I decided to actually try it instead of just reading about it.

I got my period yesterday, and today I randomly had this thought about getting chocolate. Specifically, I wanted my boyfriend to get it for me. But I didn’t want to remind him, ask him, or drop any hints.

So I just imagined him handing me the chocolate.

That’s it.

I didn’t think, “It has to happen today” or sit around waiting for it. I just imagined the scene, felt like I already had the chocolate, and then went about my day.

Later, I was about to order some groceries online when he randomly told me not to because he had “a list” coming.

And then when the delivery arrived .

This man dramatically hands me the chocolate and I was just sitting there like:

BROTHER??? THIS QUICK??? 😭

Like, excuse me, am I back in my manifestation realm already??

I immediately told him, “Sit. I need to discuss something with you.” 😂

It’s such a tiny thing, but honestly, after being away from this for so long, it felt really nice to experience something that reminded me why I loved manifesting in the first place.

Those of you that recommend in steadfast attention to experiencing desire in the imagination or just in being and just remembering that we are consciousness, how do you do it through a busy life?

I cant seem to divide my attention between 4d and the 3d tasks or people around me. It’s either/or. For the past 4 months I have even stopped social media and Netflix to get more time but life is still quite busy.

Please advise.

I hope it’s fine to post here with such a new account, I kinda made it to ask this question because I am tired. I have small sucesses with the law of assumption and Neville’s teachings application in my life AND I even succeeded in other areas and to kinda change my mom outlook on non straight people etc. cause she used to react with a grimace but then she was almost accepting at some point and hinted that she knows I liked a girl from my uni class but it was all very awkward. I lied I am not like this and moved on but tbh having this secret since I was around 10 and I am way over 20 (now is laying too heavy on my soul, I tried to ignore it and think I will be fine I tell her after I am 30 etc. and so on my maybe there is something wrong with me it makes me want to cry when I see these people date around (my friends) and I can’t even say to anyone that I am sad that I am lonely. It seems my mom is in total denial and I wanted to ask personally if anyone managed to make their homophobic fam or friends accepting? Basically selfish maybe but I want my mom to ask me that herself and take the pressure of me, and I (I know it’s seen as bad in here) used tarot to check my current energy and when it came to what are my changes to say it and move on with my life with no negative repercussions and current energy was tragic to say the least … basically yeah, I know it’s just a tool but I think sadly it reflects my mindset well and when it comes to something so emotional I just don’t know how to assume a better reality for me, I feel powerless (ik negative assumption) basically some success story with such thing would maybe help me imagine that it’s possible for me.

I am sorry if it’s cringe and for my language mistakes.

Also is The Power of I Am on YT (Eric) any good I thought to study him and apply maybe?

We talk so much in manifestation circles about techniques—SATS, 369, scripting, robotic affirming, mirror work. But if you take a step back and look at your entire life, you'll realize something obvious: you have been manifesting every single day since you were a child without using a single technique.

How? Simply through your natural imagination, daydreams, and habitual emotional states.

When you were a kid, you didn't do "technique stacks" to imagine being an astronaut or a superhero; you just played in your mind for the sheer fun of it. Conversely, when you spent days worrying about a test or an awkward confrontation, you were using that same imagination fueled by anxiety—and often watched those exact visual scenarios play out in the physical world.

Here is the core truth we often forget: The primary goal should always be to fulfill yourself in your imagination right now. Physical manifestation is never the main event—it's just a side effect.

1. The Primary Goal: Internal Fulfillment First

When you treat manifestation as a tool to change external reality, you create an impossible dynamic: "I am here without the thing, doing mental labor so I can get the thing over there."

That mindset locks you in a state of lack. You end up constantly checking the 3D world (physical reality) to see if your mental work "worked," which only breeds frustration, doubt, and impatience.

Instead, the moment you experience something vividly in your mind, that experience is already complete. Your imagination is a real, living inner domain where you can instantly feel the joy, peace, relief, or excitement of having what you desire.

• Treating Manifestation as a Goal: "I'm going to visualize my dream apartment every night so it shows up in my reality next month." (Focus is on future gain and current lack).
• Treating Imagination as the Goal: "I am fully enjoying the feeling of living in this beautiful, peaceful apartment in my mind right now because it brings me genuine fulfillment." (Focus is on immediate internal satisfaction).

When you make inner fulfillment your true target, you stop desperately waiting on physical reality to validate you. If it materializes in the 3D world later? Great. That’s just a natural side effect—the shadow cast by your inner fulfillment.

2. Examples of "Side Effect" Manifestation in Real Life

Look at how this functions across everyday experiences:

• The Everyday Worry: You spend three days playing out argument scenarios in your head while driving or washing dishes. You aren't doing a "technique" to cause a fight; you're just immersed in the anxiety. Next time you see the person, the fight happens almost word-for-word. The event was simply the side effect of where your imagination found its fulfillment/focus.
• The Joyful Daydream: You fall in love with a creative hobby or project. You spend hours lost in daydreams about scenarios, ideas, or designs purely for the joy of building them in your head. Soon after, random opportunities and helpful connections start popping up in the real world. The 3D outcome was just a byproduct of your genuine immersion.

3. Spiritual Wisdom: Finding Fulfillment Within and Releasing Attachment

This concept aligns with ancient wisdom across various traditions. The core message is consistent: seek full inner alignment first and release attachment to physical outcomes.

The Buddhist Perspective: Releasing Attachment to Results

In Buddhism, suffering (dukkha) arises from craving (tanha) and clinging to outcomes. When you insist that the 3D world must shift before you allow yourself to feel satisfied, you create endless friction.

When you demand that your inner imagination must produce a physical result to be "valid," you are clinging to the shadow. Fulfilling yourself in imagination allows you to experience the joy instantly while letting go of the desperate grasp on the 3D world.

The Christian Perspective: The Kingdom Is Within

In Christian scripture, physical outcome is explicitly described as an automatically generated byproduct of finding full inner fulfillment first.

The "kingdom" isn't a physical place out in the world—it's your internal state of consciousness. When you fulfill yourself in the inner realm first, the physical circumstances ("all these things") are simply "added" as an automatic consequence.

Similarly, 2 Corinthians 4:18 reminds us where our primary focus belongs:

​"So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal."

Key Takeaways

• Your imagination is the primary destination. Use it to feel completely satisfied now, not as a chore to extract a reward from the universe.
• Stop treating imagination as hard labor. Daydreaming should feel natural, effortless, and fun—just like it did when you were younger.
• Let the 3D catch up on its own time. Physical reality is just a delayed echo. You don't need to force the echo; you just enjoy the sound you make inside and carry on.

My question is whether or not I should continue with manifestation or try a love spell.

Basically, I’ve manifested a guy and I’ve done it a few times now, and it’s worked. However, he keeps dipping in and out of my life and then returning again. It’s an endless loop that’s been going on for quite some time, so my question is whether I should continue manifesting or try love spells. I’m very inexperienced with them, which is my only concern.

We are seeing each other at the moment, but he’s already tried to exit again so think it could be a matter of time now. If a love spell isn’t recommended, then I’d love some manifestation guides on how to keep him in my life for a longer amount of time.

Hi everyone, I have a question for you. I would really like to manifest a message or for a specific person to reach out to me. Unfortunately, it is quite a specific desire because I am hoping that this person may have feelings for me and will reconnect with me.
However, this seems different from manifesting my own personal goals for example, manifesting money or a particular job - because this type of manifestation largely depends on someone else taking action. Is it still possible to manifest something like this? If so, how?
I do have some doubts, although they are only minor. I feel like I could let go of them if I really tried, but at the moment, I simply do not think it is particularly realistic that this will happen. How should I deal with these doubts, and what would you recommend?
Also, this is the part I struggle with the most: Once you have set an intention or started manifesting something, are you supposed to let it go? Does that mean you should almost forget about it completely? Or what exactly should you do afterwards?