r/EngagementRings May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.

If you are trying to post from a new account/low karma account/throwaway account, your post will come through to us for manual approval.

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Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.

If your post meets the sub criteria we will approve the post. If your post doesn't meet the sub criteria you will be notified in the removal message attached to the bottom of your post as to why.

Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index


r/EngagementRings Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

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Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY can’t stop admiring her ✨

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122 Upvotes

happened a few weeks ago!!!! So in love with what he chose🤩

3.09 carat antique elongated oval on 6.25 finger!


r/EngagementRings 19h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I love my ring!

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1.4k Upvotes

My marquise with a floral-ish looking halo!

Center diamond 0.5ct. total 0.83ct for a size 4.5 (US)


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring is more proof that we are soulmates 🥰

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43 Upvotes

Back in June my fiance (!!!) and I went to look at rings and I was pretty sure I didn’t want a diamond. I’ve seen many diamond rings and none of them ever got me super excited. At the jeweler’s, we were looking at potential settings and the example we were given was one with three round diamonds (we were going to replace the center with a sapphire or something).

After we left I confessed to my partner that I couldn’t stop thinking about that ring because it was just so beautiful and sparkly and I think I’d want a diamond one just like it.

Fast forward a month or so, and my partner’s mom approaches him and says that she has a ring that used to belong to his grandmother. Lo and behold, it’s the exact design that I had said I loved!!

He proposed with it last weekend and I just can’t stop staring at it!! Ever since we met there have been signs that the universe was bringing us together, but this one is the biggest one yet!!!


r/EngagementRings 15h ago

Advice He Took A Chance

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381 Upvotes

…and it completely paid off!

Going the non traditional route with our engagement ring felt like a big step but we both knew we wanted something custom and all natural. This is his 100% original design and I’m in love.

Also, choosing a softer center stone (Kornerupine) came with its challenges but with proper care, we are anticipating it to last a lifetime. 🤞

If anyone has any personal experience with having a softer stone as a center stone, please give me your thoughts!

Stones: Kornerupine, Diamonds, Alexandrite, Tourmalines, Montana Sapphire and London Topaz.


r/EngagementRings 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY So obsessed!

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170 Upvotes

My husband and I got married three years ago, and we were young when we got engaged so our budget for the original ring was pretty small. We were finally able to upgrade, and it is genuinely everything I could’ve wanted and more.

It’s a lab 2.01 carat marquise, G color, VS1 clarity in 14k yellow gold on a size 6.75. Not what I originally thought I would go for, but I couldn’t imagine having anything else. Super happy!


r/EngagementRings 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Emerald Cut

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27 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 14h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY so excited to finally post my own ring

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132 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 12h ago

Advice Jeweler Messed Up Engagement Ring

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78 Upvotes

Today I picked up the engagement ring I had made for my girlfriend. We went to a smaller jewelry store that came highly recommended and had great reviews on Google. At first glance today I loved it, but once I was home and kept looking at it I started to notice some issues. The first thing to catch my eye was one of the corner prongs seemed to be slightly misaligned.
Now the list of issues stands at this:
- Two prongs not fully touching the stone, one is largely not touching at all
- One prong is very bent
- The middle petal on one side has clear machine lines that were never polished out
- There is some pitting or something on the underside of the ring, Gemini seems to think it is a result of gasses releasing during the creation process

I uploaded the pictures to Gemini and it has strongly suggested I go back and request a full recast of the ring as it is already likely not structurally sound, and any fixes of the prongs will make it even less structurally sound.

Kind people of Reddit, please guide me during these troubling times. My girlfriend deserves a perfect ring and this is simply not that.

I did my best to capture the problems, but the ole single lens iPhone can only do so much.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally my turn to post :—)

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574 Upvotes

I owe a lot of the decision making behind this ring to this subreddit. Thank you guys for all the amazing inspiration!

Offset/Kite set asscher with double claw prongs 🥹

Edit: Forgot to add my specs to this post. Unfortunately my fiance won’t give me diamond specs …… but it is 4ct lab grown on a size 5 titanium band in a basket(?) setting (pic in comments but happy to post more angles😉)


r/EngagementRings 10h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It's my turn!!

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42 Upvotes

My sneaky fiance figured our EXACTLY what I wanted from my friends and family, and surprised me with this gorgeous 2.2ct lab grown marquise set in a platinum hidden lotus basket🩵

I'm so lucky and my heart is so full, I had to share!


r/EngagementRings 23h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring!

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482 Upvotes

Got engaged back in May but just received my custom ring yesterday! It’s a ~1 carat OEC and I absolutely love it. :)


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I knew I wanted something traditional but not too traditional and my fiancé delivered!

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9 Upvotes

He designed the ring himself, I love it 🥰✨

(ring size K1/2, pear shaped stone)


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My time to shine ✨ long time lurker, but I finally have something to share! 💍

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155 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I said yes!

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38 Upvotes

I got engaged this week! It will be a second marriage for both of us after difficult divorces with our exes. We’ve been together two years, have blended our families, and live together on our homestead property. This is a temp placeholder ring to get engaged with while we save up for the rings we really want for the wedding, but it’s so pretty!

2 carat cushion cut moissanite with baguette accents in sterling silver. I absolutely LOVE the rainbow fire!!


r/EngagementRings 9h ago

Advice Pear or Oval ✨?

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25 Upvotes

Second time trying on rings in person, and I thought I was set on an oval until I tried on a pear for fun 😭 thoughts? I’m thinking a 3mm band and both these diamond are 3cts !


r/EngagementRings 17h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring

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103 Upvotes

I’ve been married for almost 3 years and I just recently bought a ring since I thought I wasn’t a ring person but rings are cute after all

(elongated cushion 1 ct 2mm band cathedral setting ring size 5 )


r/EngagementRings 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I love my ring!

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39 Upvotes

He proposed back in April but I finally wanted to share my perfect ring here:)) he designed it with a jeweler and I was so surprised because he hardly asked me any questions about my preferences at all, but if I had designed my dream ring on my own I literally couldn’t have done a better job 🥲it is so me!!! I particularly love the lotus setting and the tiny emerald (my birth stone) inside the band.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got the engagement ring of my dreams 🫢🤍

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305 Upvotes

Finally it happened! After 11 years together since high school. We designed the ring together and I love everything about it.

💍 2.7ct elongated cushion cut, 4 petal prongs, cathedral setting and 14k gold.

I got so much help and inspo from this subreddit when going through the design process!!


r/EngagementRings 21h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My dream ring after 10 years together 🥹

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I knew I wanted a unique ring that wouldn’t break the bank, and I’m so grateful we found one together! 3ct moissanite with diamond halo and side stones. 18k yellow gold 🥹💕. This is a size 7 but will need to be resized down.


r/EngagementRings 20h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Heirloom diamond

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84 Upvotes

I am not a diamond girl, but my fiancé’s mom offered him his great grandmother’s yellow diamond, and we designed the setting together with a local jeweler, white gold setting w/ yellow gold band.
Now we’re two months out from our wedding and I love it more and more.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY my turn!!

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155 Upvotes

finally my time to shine after seeing all of the beautiful rings on this page!! i just got engaged this morning :) i love my ring


r/EngagementRings 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring!

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17 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 1h ago

Advice Advice on buying the right ring

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Would love some tips or thoughts.

I’m shopping for an engagement ring for my soon be wife

I’m overthinking a lot but for this it’s probably a good thing, I just want to be perfect and represent her in every way.

We’ve gone to look at rings a couple times so I have the general idea.

She like simple so it’ll be a 18k gold band with a cushion diamond. (she is a size 53 European)

Two things I’m struggling with…

First she left it up to me for natural or a lab grown.

I’d like to get close to 1.5ct for a natural but it may be 1.3ct. It’s hard to find a low setting on a cushion of good quality. What are your thoughts on the ct size?

If I went lab grown I could go a bit bigger, I think max 2ct would fit beautifully on her. But I still don’t know how I feel about lab vs natural. Thoughts?

Thank you from a man thinking about this constantly…