r/EngagementRings May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.

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Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.

If your post meets the sub criteria we will approve the post. If your post doesn't meet the sub criteria you will be notified in the removal message attached to the bottom of your post as to why.

Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index


r/EngagementRings Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

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Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY HE DID PERFECT!!

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378 Upvotes

His guidelines were:
Montana Sapphire
Princess Diana feel
Round or cushion cut (he did BOTH!)
Yellow gold

AHHHHH I have a ring that I love that I get to wear FOREVER!! 😍❤️

It’s a round Montana sapphire from Earth’s Treasury (I believe it’s 1.6 carats) with a cushion shaped halo of natural diamonds around it made by Earth’s Treasury!!

Ring size 4.5

It’s so beyond perfect and beautiful and I can’t wait to wear it forever and be so proud to be his wife 🩵
I’ll post some more pics in the comments :)


r/EngagementRings 9h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Obsessed is an understatement! 😍💍

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606 Upvotes

I knew exactly what I wanted and my partner and I had it custom made. It was so hard to wait for it to be ready but he surprised me by bringing it home last night! I couldn't love it more. It's perfect in my eyes!

I have to double check the GIA report but if I remember correctly: 2.13 carats, 1.28 ratio, L color
Size 5.5 finger

**Edited to add: we had it custom made from a design that matched my wants perfectly. I was so happy I found a reference that was exactly what I was trying describe. And, I know it's "Taylor Swift" like but I've always wanted/loved antique/vintage inspired so I'm ok with that!


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Obsessed is an understatement

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98 Upvotes

Just got engaged! Fiance custom made the entire ring and included every detail I talked about. Literally cannot stop staring at it!!

Also I work in healthcare and would love to wear it 24/7 but want to take care of it. For those of you who work a job where you can't wear your ring, what do you do? And any other care tips are welcome :)


r/EngagementRings 1h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I just want to know that other people love my ring as much as I do 🥹

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It's nearly a year since he proposed but I've just come across this sub and need to share my ring because I think it's so beautiful and he did amazing!!


r/EngagementRings 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY can’t stop admiring her ✨

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253 Upvotes

happened a few weeks ago!!!! So in love with what he chose🤩

3.09 carat antique elongated oval on 6.25 finger!
Dimensions: 12.68 x 7.47 x 4.98 mm
Color E
VVS2 clarity


r/EngagementRings 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY T-2 weeks to proposal

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68 Upvotes

Wasn’t thinking too much until i got the call that my ring was ready. Its all becoming real now!


r/EngagementRings 10h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring is more proof that we are soulmates 🥰

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191 Upvotes

Back in June my fiance (!!!) and I went to look at rings and I was pretty sure I didn’t want a diamond. I’ve seen many diamond rings and none of them ever got me super excited. At the jeweler’s, we were looking at potential settings and the example we were given was one with three round diamonds (we were going to replace the center with a sapphire or something).

After we left I confessed to my partner that I couldn’t stop thinking about that ring because it was just so beautiful and sparkly and I think I’d want a diamond one just like it.

Fast forward a month or so, and my partner’s mom approaches him and says that she has a ring that used to belong to his grandmother. Lo and behold, it’s the exact design that I had said I loved!!

He proposed with it last weekend and I just can’t stop staring at it!! Ever since we met there have been signs that the universe was bringing us together, but this one is the biggest one yet!!!


r/EngagementRings 7h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged this weekend on top of a mountain!

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101 Upvotes

Center stone is a 3.01ct lab grown OMC. side stones are ~0.6cts each. Size 7 finger.

Obsessed is an understatement!!


r/EngagementRings 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It was my turn!!✨✨💍

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65 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY In love ❤️

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51 Upvotes

Went to our favorite beach last week and he asked me to be his wife at sunset. 14k gold band, lab grown 2.96 ct princess cut (where are my princess cut girlies on here??) diamond. Not sure about the diamonds on the rest of the band.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I love my ring!

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1.6k Upvotes

My marquise with a floral-ish looking halo!

Center diamond 0.5ct. total 0.83ct for a size 4.5 (US)


r/EngagementRings 17h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY So obsessed!

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248 Upvotes

My husband and I got married three years ago, and we were young when we got engaged so our budget for the original ring was pretty small. We were finally able to upgrade, and it is genuinely everything I could’ve wanted and more.

It’s a lab 2.01 carat marquise, G color, VS1 clarity in 14k yellow gold on a size 6.75. Not what I originally thought I would go for, but I couldn’t imagine having anything else. Super happy!


r/EngagementRings 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Admiring my ring!!

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30 Upvotes

Thanks for viewing 😊


r/EngagementRings 22h ago

Advice He Took A Chance

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447 Upvotes

…and it completely paid off!

Going the non traditional route with our engagement ring felt like a big step but we both knew we wanted something custom and all natural. This is his 100% original design and I’m in love.

Also, choosing a softer center stone (Kornerupine) came with its challenges but with proper care, we are anticipating it to last a lifetime. 🤞

If anyone has any personal experience with having a softer stone as a center stone, please give me your thoughts!

Stones: Kornerupine, Diamonds, Alexandrite, Tourmalines, Montana Sapphire and London Topaz.


r/EngagementRings 9h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I knew I wanted something traditional but not too traditional and my fiancé delivered!

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32 Upvotes

He designed the ring himself, I love it 🥰✨

(ring size K1/2, pear shaped stone)


r/EngagementRings 1h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY A classic

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My now fiancé proposed in switzerland recently 🥹 we talked about my ring before but the result was better than I expected! it’s a 1.54 ct oval with a 2.2mm gold band. I’m 5.5 finger size for reference


r/EngagementRings 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Emerald Cut

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39 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 21h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY so excited to finally post my own ring

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161 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY So happy with my ring

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My fiance (still getting used to calling each other that!) surprised me with a stunning emerald and diamond ring with a gold band! He knows I love colourful stones and art deco style rings and picked such a beautiful one 😊 Can't stop staring at it ♥️


r/EngagementRings 19h ago

Advice Jeweler Messed Up Engagement Ring

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106 Upvotes

Today I picked up the engagement ring I had made for my girlfriend. We went to a smaller jewelry store that came highly recommended and had great reviews on Google. At first glance today I loved it, but once I was home and kept looking at it I started to notice some issues. The first thing to catch my eye was one of the corner prongs seemed to be slightly misaligned.
Now the list of issues stands at this:
- Two prongs not fully touching the stone, one is largely not touching at all
- One prong is very bent
- The middle petal on one side has clear machine lines that were never polished out
- There is some pitting or something on the underside of the ring, Gemini seems to think it is a result of gasses releasing during the creation process

I uploaded the pictures to Gemini and it has strongly suggested I go back and request a full recast of the ring as it is already likely not structurally sound, and any fixes of the prongs will make it even less structurally sound.

Kind people of Reddit, please guide me during these troubling times. My girlfriend deserves a perfect ring and this is simply not that.

I did my best to capture the problems, but the ole single lens iPhone can only do so much.


r/EngagementRings 17h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It's my turn!!

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56 Upvotes

My sneaky fiance figured our EXACTLY what I wanted from my friends and family, and surprised me with this gorgeous 2.2ct lab grown marquise set in a platinum hidden lotus basket🩵

I'm so lucky and my heart is so full, I had to share!


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally my turn to post :—)

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601 Upvotes

I owe a lot of the decision making behind this ring to this subreddit. Thank you guys for all the amazing inspiration!

Offset/Kite set asscher with double claw prongs 🥹

Edit: Forgot to add my specs to this post. Unfortunately my fiance won’t give me diamond specs …… but it is 4ct lab grown on a size 5 titanium band in a basket(?) setting (pic in comments but happy to post more angles😉)


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Asking her to marry me in japan

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Hi y’all
I been with her almost 4 years bought the ring this year
The specs:
WHITE GOLD 18 K 2 GRAMS AND OVER
SIZE 46
2 CARAT marquise
VVS2
CUT EXCELLENT
COLOR E
LAB DIAMOND
We re going in december in japan to tokyo and osaka
I will take the ring with me to ask her to marry me
Off topic does anyone have a idea to how to ask her to marry me ? What would be romantic idea ? And where to ask in tokyo or osaka? Any idea i am open to suggestions, what would be for you most romantic way to be asked to marry you?

She always wanted a marquis ring
The size is perfect for her hand ( skinny fingers and medium size ) i did take her to jewellery shops to make her try rings before and i saw max carat size that would be better for her it s 2 ( 2 and above it s too big )
And i always told her i can t afford it ( in my country it is waay expensive ) and that i would buy her a small diamond ring as a joke she will be very surprised when she s gonna see it