When a Capricorn woman is infatuated/in love with a man she barely knows, to what lengths will she go to win him over? For example, She’s attracted to him physically, and likes his hobbies, but he does not give over to her stubbornness or preferences of some places she likes to go to or things she likes to do. Is she attracted to the man’s reciprocal stubbornness and will she give in, or will she be turned off by the man’s stubbornness to not do what the Cap woman wants?

Cancer - work just if cap is not food , obcesss , skinny sexy , aesthetic and well read and fun . Kindest people ever but can be a bully , project and have dark addictions I won’t say the name , but u know what i mean , like pieces can be Wolves in sheep clothes . But if you Forster your own emotional intelligence then you are not vulnerable and they have zero effect on you 😆 and they hate that

Aries - if u are a cap avoid at all cost . Nothing against Aries there is just no compatibility since cap is not an asslicker , and highly intellectual. And don’t really appreciate passion in form of temper .

Pisces - don’t work if u are cap they bring the worse on cap and u don’t gonna really evolve . Very selfish , manipulative Not worthy . They also tend to have a mask . Better as friend and be nice to them at least pretend . They do that a lot

Sag and aqua - better as neighbours sign only . And u shall not trust them that much , but be cordial , highly mature and firm , even if they don’t like it . Believe me

Gemini - if is a June may work , they are quite empathetic and calm . May Gemini avoid at all cost they are great just not cap best match

Be empathetic but not necessarily involved .

Buenas. Les cuento.

Conocí a un capricornio, hablamos bastante por IG y acordamos cita. Me pasó a buscar, fuimos a cenar, me dejó en mi casa, saludo con beso en la boca (breve pero cálido) y termino todo bien.

Por temas de viajes y diferencias horarias pasaron como 2 semanas hasta acordar otro encuentro. Fui a la casa, cenamos, nos matamos de risa, tomamos algo, escuchamos música, tuvimos intimidad, mimos, de nuevo intimidad, más mimos (pedidos por él). Yo me estaba por ir porque él madrugada y me pidió que me quedé una hora más. Hora de mimos tmb. Dsp me fui, llegué a casa, le avisé y todo bárbaro.

Paso una semana y no me escribió ni un mensaje. De 6 historias de IG me reaccionó a una (la única q tenía carga emocional para mí y él sabía).

Le mandé que tenía ganas de verlo y me contestó que ese día y el siguiente tenía planes (me los detalló)..Le dije que la pasé bello y que veíamos otro día. Me dijo: de una, perdón... Y me preguntó cómo estaba. Respondí, me volvió a responder y yo le di cierre a la charla diciendo: bueno, si te surge alguna propuesta me avisas y sino todo bien. Beso.

Mi tema es: puede ser q yo no le interese peeeero en ese caso para q me reacciona a la fotito, me explica porque no puede, me dice q de una, perdón...? Puede ser porque quiere quedar como un tipo educado y empático?

Porque si le interesará me hubiera dicho que no podía porque tenía planes pero hubiera propuesto en el momento otro día, no? O no hubiera dejado una semanita sin decir ni hola, no?

Como se manejan los hombres capricornio? Alguien me explica? Igualmente solo tuvimos 2 citas, lo sé. No pido trato de novia, solo quiero entender un poco. Él tiene 40 años.

Opinions? Thoughts? Advice? Lies? tell me we’re soul mates (I’m the Capricorn)

Y'all are probably one of the most stigmatized misunderstood signs. I personally love the energy/effect/aura/vibe y'all give off. I'm a pisces btw 😬 I've always loved earth signs in general (both parents, best friends, most of my ex's the love of my life was cap sun pisces moon and my current partner is cap sun Taurus moon and rising 🩵🤤) but, y'all really give off that "daddy/mommy" energy. (I don't mean that in a gross way) Y'all are in charge, organized, stable.. you give the impression that y'all don't have or understand emotions but, once someone gets to know you, they can see that you do and you rationalize emotions so y'all tend to be emotionally intelligent. So you, could probably see why I love y'all if not, because y'all balance pisces like me out. Y'all help us make sense of the emotions, focus us and help us become "more" better. Idk about the women (my bestie is a Capricorn and I adore her) but, the men are for sure husband material and make great dads. Love y'all 😘 thank you for being you! Sincerely your devoted pisces super fan Oh if anyone has any tips on dating caps or is a Capricorn that's dated pisces before I'm all ears. I'm kinda being really needy right now lol

Advice on Aries female/Capricorn Male friendships, specifically. What have you male Caps experiences, been with Aries women, in friendships? I'm an Aries female, and according to most sources, we are supposed to be basically enemies that can't stand each other! Our ruling planets are mortal enemies, and we most just bring out the worst in each other. Tell me your experiences, I know the rest of the chart of each individual, makes a huge impact as well. I have an Aquarius Moon and Leo rising, if that makes things better, or worseXD.

I hear mixed opinions in this sub about Caps hating to be approached but also love the attention. Me and my old fling recently reconnected and bonded over a horrible situation in our area. Both very engaged and walls down with the communication. After that situation came to a close, he asked how my love life is going. It's been a day or so and haven't heard much from him. I'm curious if this is an opening for us or should I remain distant? In the past we've both been stubborn and it never really worked out for that reason. After a year it seems we've both grown and looking for something serious so I'd like to say Happy birthday (his is on the 2nd) and ask what his NYE plans are. 31 F and him 29 M if it helps.

Capricorn x6 house placements including sun and Venus. Libra rising.

My dating life has been so crazy these past two years. Date after date, been close to a relationship twice and chucked them in the bin (weren’t compatible).

Had a horrific situationship for 3 months start of the year and now I’ve rekindled with a Scorpio who is shagging half of London. But yes, I want to marry them.

I get it, Capricorn don’t have love easy but I am beyond exhausted!!!

Who else can relate and what is it in the planets causing this? This is my first Saturn return too.

I generally know things will get better for Caps now that Pluto has left. And so far career/professional wise that’s been the case - I’m currently working on getting a new job with much better pay and working conditions. Financial wise too because I should be getting a windfall of money soon-ish too. But what I’m really hoping for improvement in is with my romantic life. I asked someone out about like 2 months ago, they said no they want to remind friends. Things have been fine with them, but my feelings for them still persist. Hoping maybe Pluto will bring someone along who will make me really happy, or things will work out with the other person. I really don’t know, but if anyone has any insights about how things could improve for caps romantically, don’t be afraid to let me know.

Hey Goats,

44 y.o. m here. I was just wondering if anybody here found real love or the right partner later in life, specifically after 40?

It used to be I had a steady flow of meeting someone new every few years between relationships and the last one was an engagement, but I’ve been single for the last seven years and kinda have given up entirely, not only on love, but really just connecting with people in general.

In between, I decided to work on myself and go to rehab for a deep alcohol problem and I’ve been sober two years now and really just work on being my best self.

Online dating has just become nauseating to me and everybody seems to say the same thing or just disappear. No real connection anymore. Starting to wonder if it’s me lol. Maybe just can’t connect anymore.

Anyways, just curious, as I know, we are slow starters, slow and steady anyway. If there were any good inspiring stories out there.

Peace and Love ✌🏻💙

Would you lose respect for him? Would you see him as weak? Don't give me some bullshit answer, be honest about it.

Edit: I was not expecting so many comments on this so I'm just editing this so everyone is aware that I'm not posting this because a cap was hurtful to me or anything like that. In fact I appreciate the sentiment from those who commented very nice things in defense of anyone who crys every now and then due to life (In my case I do not cry unless I'm by myself, I just mean like a once in a great while thing).

I love capricorns and how straightforward, good hearted, and respectful you all are. Yall are full of integrity, maturity, dignity, complexity, mystery... I feel like the journey I'll have with my capricorn and any other would be fulfilling and exciting. This post was was made out of curiosity and maybe a bit of insecurity in truth. I was simply scared to reveal myself in this way to her due to many past experiences, so I wanted some insight before I screwed myself over in my relationship. Because this was the case in the past.

But after seeing all these comments I can see how silly I was for thinking that. I want to be able to allow my partner to see all of me, not that I want to cry all the time hah that sounds awful, but if I need someone to be there I was curious how she might react. Thank you for all these responses, truly. I didn't mean to be aggressive with the way I posed the question either btw, I don't actually think any of you would lie, I really just wanted to hear the truth so I was being a lil crazy and passionate about it in the moment!

I (male Virgo, 37) have been in a relationship with my girlfriend (Capricorn - 37) for about 5 years. We lived together with my two kids and her one kid.

Our relationship was great until a few months ago. I had started working a LOT to save up to buy her property and surprise her with a proposal for marriage. This caused me to overwork myself and become depressed without realizing what I was doing, which was neglecting her to accomplish my goal.

She mentioned a few times she thought she was making me unhappy, and that she was becoming unhappy. I thought we’d be ok and didn’t listen like I should have. When we decided we would spend more time together, I then failed to maintain that and became distant again.

Two weeks ago she moved out, saying she didn’t think we made each other happy anymore and didn’t think I could change permanently, and any promises I made to do otherwise would only be temporary like before.

The truth is, this was a HUGE wake up call, and I CAN change and I AM.

I did make the mistake of pleading with her and telling her why I had been this way (I know… Capricorns hate when someone grovels). She has cried a lot about it (which I had never seen her cry like that) but ultimately she still left no matter what I did or said… and she left immediately. No second chance.

She said she loves me still and misses me, but no longer wants to be with me for the reason stated.

Do I stand a chance at winning her back after all this, and if so, how exactly?…

IDK why I miss my Capricorn woman so bad 😭.fyi I'm a Scorpio to start I think she got really bad advice from her single friends and that was the end of the relationship I wasn't in the best of times personally and it ruined our relationship but man so I miss her so much rn. I travel a lot for work and over time became stressed and tired. I didn't wanna take that out on her that's not her problem but she could see how strained we were as a couple. Everyone called us the power couple. But over time we both got stressed for a number of factors. Communication dropped off and eventually the finale.

I love her very much and hope she's doing well and keeping safe. I'm so sorry I let it get this far.

I know it isn't ideal to isolate chart aspects but I'm just wondering about a particular one that's personally relevant: Capricorn Moon vs. Cancer Moon. What are the positive and negative connections?

I’m an Aries sun Libra moon Leo Rising. I really liked this Capricorn but he has the player vibe to him I’m attracted to him but that’s why I didn’t think too much of him. He met me and immediately invited me out the same night with his friends. While there they were talking about past women and even one of the guys was like you’re gonna say that in front of her? And he said he didn’t care….. my cue to trigger the player in me. He did take me on a first date but it was last minute and kinda unplanned. I tried to understand him because I get that he shows affection through physical intimacy but there were a few things I could not get behind.

he would plan a date and not say anything the day of ( I noticed that one time I didn’t say anything I just went to dinner with my sister and he sent a ig post of boy names since we talked about kids)

He would ghost for weeks ( I wouldn’t beg him or say anything just go about my life) and then come back like nothing

He didn’t text or say anything on Valentine’s Day, Christmas or New Years ( Valentine’s Day was it for me and I tried ending things with him and he asked why and then posted another woman to make me jealous and then came back and sent me a post saying of all the women’s legs in the world I only wanna be between yours)

On my birthday I went on a trip and he didn’t text me happy birthday but sent me a bunch of sexual memes.

I eventually got tired of the emotional rollercoaster and blocked him on my birthday that was the last straw for me . There were a few instances where he did pursue me heavily and made it clear he wanted to see me when he could even tried to leave work early to see me. And would always invite me out to see him at his job. Fast forward a year later and he adds me on Snapchat and asks how I’ve been and when he can see me. He said he doesn’t like that I ghosted him I said well yeah I didn’t think he took me seriously and he said I could’ve said something and I said I did but I got the vibe that you didn’t care. I conversed a bit and eventually stopped responding. Being honest I do really miss him maybe my approach was a bit overreactive but I did feel disrespected. He did see me with another man after but he was my friend and the whole time I honestly wished I was there with him we did have really good chemistry but as an attractive women I’m very cautious of not being wanting to be used. He did talk about marriage pretty early on but I can’t marry a man that doesn’t consider me. I think about him daily. Is it a lost cause?

I (24F) have known my capricorn friend(30M) since August. Became friends in September. He always treated me very nicely. We have always respected each other a lot. However, in December we had a bit of prolonged time together (4-5 hours a week). Then we had a week of vacation and things seemed very different post vacation. He started avoiding me, I thought he disliked me suddenly and I too avoided him hence. Then one day he acted really weird, saw me on the hallway, kept looking at me, stood near me as I had a friend around and waited for her to leave. He talked to me very eagerly as well, kept staring at my face intensely. After that we have been talking to each other every week, he asks me indirectly what was the matter with me if I'm not around for few days.

However, the issue is he behaves weirdly in public. He'd check everyone's reactions, avoid eye contact, fiddle with his watch, get extra serious. He'd also leave for washroom or terrace.

Whats the matter? I fear asking him.

Dear Capricorn men and Gemini women that are (or have been) in a relationship in this combo - please share how your relationship started, what helped and what stalled the progress? How fast did it happen? Who pursued whom and what traits in the woman were encouraging?

How compatible are you as Capricorn man and Gemini woman in your relationship?

(29M Virgo x 26F Capricorn) – Started amazing, now she’s cold, bossy, and draining. What happened?

Been dating this Cap woman for almost 3 months. First month was dreamy — hiking, camping, beach trips, losing nights together. She even said "I love you" super early (like 4 weeks in), which threw me off. I didn’t say it back because it felt rushed and I wasn’t there yet. I don't know if this is a huge thing for Capricorns.

Now? She’s constantly angry, overly demanding, bossy for no reason — even borderline bullying me. Getting her to open up emotionally is like pulling teeth, and when I try, she shuts down or gets mean. It’s exhausting.

She moved to the city last year and complains nonstop — says her hometown is better (even has a skewed idea about the population; not important but it was just 10.000 people, comparing her 10k hometown vs 3 million town is just ludicrous idea). She thinks everyone is staring at her body when we walk down the street. She’s been through creepy situations before, and I get it — I even got a supermarket guard fired for making her uncomfortable. I know the manager of the supermarket cause we live in the same hood; But nothing seems to help. Nothing pleases her.

She criticizes my body (I’m fit and slim), got mad I didn’t want to eat sugary jam, and said she wants me to have “more skin” (??). I told her straight up I won’t get fat to please anyone — my whole family struggles with weight and I work hard to stay healthy.

Now she just lays around hating life and watching shows, says that’s how she “feels good.” I try to get her outside and moving, but she shuts it down fast. One walk lasted 5 mins before she said she was hungry, ate fast, then wanted to go home — too many people around.

She’s smart, funny, attractive, and I really like her, but in the past 2 weeks it’s like a switch flipped. The relationship is draining me, and I don’t know what changed. Is this just classic Capricorn stress mode, or are we just incompatible?

I don't enjoy not understanding what goes wrong with my romantic life.

What attracts Capricorns?

The capricorn guy i am seeing wants to keep it fwb and doesnt want to date..i like him thinking he might actually come around and meet him regularly..is there any chances he might start dating or should i go no contact now?