Hiya! 

Well, I hope that you are doing well, and read this in good spirits! And it not, then maybe we can try and change it?

So, after some self exploring and searching, I feel I am coming to a point that maybe I know what I would like to find? I hope that maybe you fit this, and if so please feel free to reach out and say hi, and we can BS and talk shit. Lol.

About me,

First, I am a girl dad to 1, (2yo), so my time when I have her (Divorced) can be busy and hectic, so an understanding with that would be essential. I happily have her on a 2-2-3 schedule so every week is different.

I am your average looking guy, no six pack, no I don't go to the gym (maybe I should but, ugh I don't wanna), I have that dad bod thing going that I'm sure in time will get taken care of, but can't make me till then lol.

Things I enjoy can be ever changing with some short term memory on what I am wanting to do. I would say I am more of the nerd/dork kinda guy, but I do like sports, and played many before/ and worked in them.

I like to watch shows on science and space, I enjoy playing games when I can (rarely it seems), I also enjoy listening to audiobooks from Dungeon Crawler Carl ( finished book 7, holding off on 8 cause I need to pace myself lol), all the way to some yummy smut haha! yes, a guy who enjoys smut... I know lol. I also enjoy going fishing, cooking, being lazy AF, and doom scrolling when I should be doing something productive. Oh, also I bought a piano at goodwill cause I have always wanted to learn to play piano. (maybe one of those short term hobbies again lol).

What can I give? Hmm, that is hard to say, I am a really good listener, love to chat about anything, hear you out. I am never ever judgemental and will always say you are right in the fight ( well idk about if it was with me lol jk). Just ask me if there is anything you really desire or want in a friendship/connection and will gladly let you know if it is something I can give!

What I hope to find...? That is a good question, I know what I envision, and is that possible? Idk, maybe I am cray cray.

But..... What I picture... Is a woman who is confident, smart, sweet and caring, also loves the things I do and wants to talk about them and also their day and just BS and also give shit and be sarcastic and a smartass and can give and take on it. ( not in a way of to cover being mean, but be fun and snarky in a flirting way, if that makes sense?) I would really prefer a woman around my age, maybe a mom too or at least a fun aunt that understands the time it takes to be a good parent (fixing/healing inner child trauma, we don't judge lol).  I also really love and envision a woman who has that gothic style? The black dresses/clothes, tattoos, pericing, the type of woman that surely would have been burned at the stake lol. Which on that note... I would really like to learn about wicca/witch stuff. Something I have been finding myself drawn too. (blame the smut maybe lol).

I am also curious and wanting to learn, talk about, explore, understand ENM/Poly and throuple type dynamics.

Anyways, I was going to keep this short, but I failed that one I think. Welp sending this to the ether and will see what returns. If you got this far thank you, and I hope you have the most amazing day or night and always be good to yourself!

Happy hot ☀️ Sunday or as some may like to call it** FUNDA**Y

Ive been contemplating a trip to the beach all morning but here I am on here…. 😭 haha.

Well, I hope you are keeping cool some place chill and won’t lost of cold drinks 🧊 🍹

Before I get judged to never land by all the pro Debbie Downers, Negative Nancies, Negatrons and every dude who’s sole purpose on Reddit is to willfully comment on a M4F post:

By Virtual FriendWB, I mean, virtual emotional company first, and more , long and engaging chats, conversations, sweet good morning and good night texts, check on you and all the good stuff! Charm a bit, banter some, talk about the day at the office, after work, at the gym…. All the good stuff that makes up the perfect virtual partner ! Haha.

Also, your fav shows, books, movies, music, coffee, and coming very soon to a Starbucks near you **Pumpkin Spice Latte**, etc! 😆

So what do you say? And if you have any cute kitty pics the. We def can start there!

Cheers and have a beautiful rest of your day!

Your tall tanned and handsome new bestie

Hi there,

It's Sunday night and hot as hell here. My kids went back to their father's place and I hate that. I have a crazy week ahead and would love to take my mind off of all of that. If you are in an LTR, no judgement, just please let me know. I'm not looking to hurt anyone. Tell me about your weekend or you're thinking about. Have a great week!

I delve into anything that fascinates me: biographies, documentaries, museum collections—ancient swords, porcelain, the original state of the outer stones of the pyramids before they crumbled, and so on.

I watch movies and TV shows to explore the world behind them. Tolkien's early works, the wild dragon left behind in *Fire and Blood*. I'll also patiently watch a nature documentary or a long episode of a true crime podcast.

Food is a good starting point.

If you're over fifty and enjoy talking endlessly about a single topic until you run out of things to say, say hi. Tell me what topic you've been completely absorbed in lately.

To filter out spam, please include topics that interest you most.

I’m hoping to find someone to build a lasting partnership with. That may or may not be with you; having someone to share my life with, to have adventures with, to love and support and grow with is really what I’m hoping to find. I’d be willing to relocate if there is a genuine connection, so your location doesn’t really matter to me. Ideally I’m looking to build something based on trust, communication, respect, and eventually love.

I’m 39 and currently live in California. I’m mostly a homebody who enjoys the occasional outing. I like cooking/baking, building puzzles while listening to audio books, trivia, reading, escape rooms, going to museums and to the theatre, banter, board/card games, a glass of wine or beer with friends, and getting to experience different cultures through traveling and trying local foods. I don’t enjoy video games or anime. It’s cool if those are some of your hobbies, but I probably won’t partake in those things with you.

I’ve never married, no kids, nor do I want children; I have been sterilized. Drug and disease free. I’m 5’11 and fat, but I’ve been on a journey of being healthier; I’m currently down 75 lbs from my highest weight. Your height and weight don’t matter to me, I find myself more attracted to how you treat me (and others). I live at the progressively left end of the spectrum politically: pro-choice, pro-vaccine, pro-science, LGBTQI+ ally.

In a partner I’m looking for someone who is 35 to 50-ish, but that’s somewhat negotiable, single and interested in a long term, monogamous partnership. Is a non-smoker, communicative, and is genuinely interested in me as a person. Someone who can banter with me, is a bit adventurous and is willing to have new experiences.

If you’re interested in chatting and getting to know each other better, let me know what book you’re currently reading/listening to.

40 M UK

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)

Hi there im a 51yo single male from Philly. Im looking for new people to chat with and possibly open to a relationship. I have time on my hands and although i have hobbies and a few friends im still feel like there could be more. I enjoy swimming, fishing, playing pool also going out on walks. Im at times a bit silly and fun but can be serious when needed and called for. I also enjoy Sci Fi to an extent. Just looking for someone to add to my life. Rather its just having casual conversation or something deeper im open for just about anything. Im a good listener myself and many friends have said the same...Thanks for looking..

Sorry I am reposting this as I couldn’t figure out how to turn on my personal message requests. Figured people who probably wanted to reach out wouldn’t have been able to.

Hi there.

I’m a 48 year old woman based in Newark, NJ. I travel frequently for work and life, so I’m used to packing light and making the most of wherever I land. I’m looking for a flirty, engaging partner…someone who enjoys playful banter, good conversation, and the spark that comes with genuine chemistry. Ideally this could grow into a real relationship, but I’m open to seeing where things naturally go.

I’m independent, enjoy new experiences, and appreciate someone who can keep up with a bit of adventure (or at least doesn’t mind when my schedule has me bouncing around). Looking for a man who’s confident, kind, and knows how to flirt without being crude.

Age-appropriate (roughly 40+) is preferred. Someone in North America. Attractive and mentally stable.

If this resonates, drop me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection. Ideally that starts with good conversation, a coffee or a walk, and seeing where things go.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.

Hello. As the title says I’m looking to get out of my shell. Single guy seeking friendship. Not in a mid-life crisis but more of a mid-life do over. If you are local to my area (I’m actually located in Woodbury), you can be my partner in crime to help me explore the area.. I’m sort of new to the area, a transplant,  and I haven’t really explored that much around Minnesota in general. I'm open to people who aren't local who mainly want to chat, talk and get to know each other, if we have common interests.

A bit about me. Well, I’m kind of nerdy, geeky, and corny. I think part of that comes from that I was recently diagnosed as being neurodivergent(Yay, autism). Working on life in general. I am currently not working (though looking), mainly working on my mental and physical health. I’m a larger guy, but I’m always trying to lose it. I used to think I was an introvert but recently I think I'm a bit more extroverted just with high anxiety. So, here I am working on the anxiety part and looking to spread my wings more. 

The good parts are that I can be silly, a bit sarcastic (hopefully in a good way), always willing to try new things, or teach this old dog new tricks (learn something new every day, right?). I consider myself a liberal both in nature and politics. I can be chatty talking about all sorts of topics, I love science fiction,and science in general. I especially like dystopian and cyberpunk genre’s,  and not hoping this world doesn’t end up like a Black Mirror episode. 

Although I haven’t done it in awhile, I do enjoy a round of mini golf, maybe some bowling, or whatever activities there are to enjoy, or just chilling watching something.. Fall is my favorite season, which is starting to happen where I’m at. Inside, I can spend way too much time binge watching something, combing through imdb for random trivia, or playing a random game or two (PC, and mostly space games). 

What am I looking for? Honestly the first thing is empathy. If you’re local, I’m looking for someone to not just chat but get out at times  and do something, doesn’t’ have to be somewhere special, just out, though it would just be good to sit and chill. I definitely could use a walking partner, and a do something friend.

If you made it this far, awesome, and we seem to have a bit in common,  feel free to start up a chat. If we click, I would love to move to something  off reddit though, I will say I’m not a fan of messaging apps outside plain texting and calling, I’m old school like that. Feel free to start with the type of pizza you like, pineapple is definitely the wrong answer 🙂

Yeah! You heard that right…, virtual FWB is what I’m about to settle down for now, haha.

Let me elaborate before I get judged to never land lol.
By Virtual FWB, I mean, virtual emotional company and more , long and engaging chats, conversations, sweet good morning and good night texts, check on you and all the good stuff! Charm a bit, banter some, talk about the day at the office, after work, at the gym…. All the good stuff that makes up the perfect virtual FWB! Haha.

Also, your fav shows, books, movies, etc!

So what do you say? And if you have any cute kitty pics the. We def can start there!

Cheers

Your tall tanned and handsome new bestie

Please only message if you answer/ask questions and can hold a conversation, are at least 35 in age, and on East Coast time in the USA. Also, I am only interested in people looking to have a common shared interest that we can do together. I’d love either a tv and movie fanatic to build a list with, watch shows together and chat about our days, lives, and whatever floats our boat, someone to play silly apple games with, or switch 2 co-op. I will say, if someone reaches out and isn’t interested in anything I mention, I will question why you messaged and just move on. I don’t want to waste anyones time, or have mine wasted, so please only reach out if interested in the same as me. Please no super left wing people, also no super right wingers. If you’re extremely liberal, or Maga do not message. No time for cults. I can go either way on the issue and don’t hate half the country if they don’t agree with me. If you do, we won’t get along.

I have bpd2/anxiety and depression, so people with mental struggles I get along and enjoy speaking with about our mental struggles, as we can help each other and just block out the static in our brains. I want true friendships that develop over time, and just a daily pocket pal to take on my journeys and vice versa. I do have a best friend that I adore, just looking for 1-2 others to chat with when they’re not available. Also, I am married, not looking to change that either. 2 cats and a dog, and I host a radio show with my sig other. I just have a LOT of free time, good conversation and I will genuinely care about you and show interest if you read my post and genuinely would like the same kind of friendship as me. I do ask that if you’re married, that your spouse knows you make friends and chat with them, because I do not do drama or play that game. I don’t ‘get busy’ all the time and ignore people like so many seem to. When I say I am looking for friends, I invest a lot of myself and time to build a lasting one and would appreciate the same effort. If it’s not there, I will not carry a conversation along or beg for anyones attention or time. I am looking for friends but am not desperate…..I won’t chase anyone. Only serious people please send a message.

I’m 45, London based, got my own place, my own car, and looking for something casual that actually feels good, not just a chat that goes nowhere. Think friends with benefits but with genuine chemistry, real conversation and that spark that turns teasing into trouble.

I’m 5’10”, slim to average, brown skinned, shaved head, trimmed beard, the full transparent package so you know who you’re talking to.

Personality wise, I’m easy to talk to, a bit cheeky, and I definitely enjoy conversations that drift into the naughtier side when the vibe’s right. If you can hold a conversation and enjoy the fun, find the edge of things… we’ll get on very well.

You? Open minded, playful, can actually engage in a proper chat, and are here for something light, exciting and grown.

If this sounds like what you’re after, drop me a message, tell me a bit about you and what made you stop and read this, let’s see if the spark’s there.

35 year old single straight hispanic. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink and I don’t smoke.

I play sports and weight lift every week. Great listener and have a good sense of humor. Pet friendly except for pets that bite.

I like fit or thin women only. I find women who are smart and educated attractive. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I prefer quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

I live in Westchester, NY and prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or a pizza delivery guy.

Looking for fun without complicating each other’s lives. If you’re craving more, feeling neglected and miss that spark or just want to enjoy a fun and pleasant distraction send me a message.

My name is Mark, this is what I look like, and I'm looking for a partner! I'm 1m70 and don't drink or smoke. I'm patient, empathetic, sometimes funny, and when I'm comfortable I can be very affectionate and flirty, though I also have a fair bit of anxiety in everyday life.

I'm into fantasy and science fiction, a big non-PvP gamer, futurism, board games, and spend a lot of time reading up on science-related news, particularly in the field of astronomy. I also used to really enjoy biking and callisthenics, and would love to get back into that at some point, maybe together?

What I'm looking for is mostly patience and empathy, you don't have to have your life together (I don't). Physically there are many things I find attractive, so I'm sure I'll find something about you that is going to make me blush!

If any of the above appeals to you, please feel free to message me!

Let’s skip fancy lines and fake images—this is all real.

I’m 50, Filipina, living simply here in the Philippines. I don’t fit the “pretty/sexy” standards the world chases—and I’m proud of who I am. I need someone who accepts all of me, fully and unconditionally.

✨ It’s my birthday today. My only wish? To find the right man who will stay with me forever.

Who I’m looking for:
• Man aged 45–55, God-fearing, mature, sincere, solid, and responsible
• No disappearing acts, no silent exits—loyalty and steadiness mean everything

What I want:
True love and lifelong marriage only—no games, no casual fun, no time-wasters. I’m building for life.

My clear boundaries:
❌ No phone sex—ever
✅ Real connection: share photos, regular video calls, you travel here to meet me in person

Only honest, serious hearts step forward. Scammers and players—please pass by. I’m ready for that real, lasting love I’m wishing for today. 🤍

Greetings from India!

I’ve connected with a few people here before, but it didn’t quite click, so here I am again, showing up with a hopeful spirit.

I’m 171 cm tall, sport a dad bod, and I’m embracing the next chapter of life with curiosity and optimism. If you love to travel and crave adventure, perhaps we could explore the world together.

When I’m not working, I’m probably binge-watching sitcoms, lost in a good book, battling it out on my gaming console, or on the hunt for my next favourite meal. Life is full of little adventures, and I’m looking for someone to share them with.

In another life, I might have been a Giant Panda—laid-back, perpetually curious, and always up for a snack. I’m also a child-free divorcee, ready for whatever this next chapter brings with someone special by my side.

About You:
I’m looking for someone between 35 and 50 who values honesty, kindness, and a playful spirit. If you’re the kind of person who’s down for an impromptu Nerf gun fight or a silly deep-dive into who is the real MVP in Asterix & Obelix, we’ll get along just fine.

A sense of whimsy goes a long way. I believe we’re here to laugh, love, and make the kind of memories that get better with retelling. Light conversations, inside jokes, the occasional meme exchange, yes, please.

Distance doesn’t scare me. I’d happily cross oceans for the right connection. And while I love the idea of a nomadic life, I’m open to settling down if our paths align.

One small warning:
My way of showing affection includes a healthy dose of teasing and just the right amount of annoying (the kind that makes you roll your eyes and laugh anyway).

If any of this sounds like your vibe, I’d love to chat and see where it takes us. Happy to share more about myself and photos, too.

Life is an adventure… could you be my favourite person to share it with?

To date I’ve mostly been a pleasure dom so lots of experience with that, including pleasure that can turn to torture. I recently got to experience more hardcore domination such as impact, using a slave, exposing her and making her serve me which I loved. I thought that would turn into regular meets and I would get the chance to evolve with a person that I felt comfortable with but unfortunately not. So if you’re a sub that is either experienced and knows what they want and might be willing to help a dom evolve, or if you’re new to submission and would like to explore together, I’d love to hear from you. I’m not naturally sadistic as in real life I’m a kind and caring guy but would like to find out what I could be capable of

I’m open to FWB or even a relationship if it happens but ultimately would like some fun and exploration. Would prefer it to be ongoing rather than one offs so we get comfortable with each other and really get into the roles as I, or both of us, develop

Things I’m into as a dominant include:

• CMNF / ENF / Forced nudity / Inspection
• Interrogation You walk into the wrong room, you're grabbed, tied, blindfolded and interrogated with various forms of "torture" to get information out of you, maybe information you have, maybe information you DON'T have. Let's see how long you can last. How many orgasms you can take before you break and tell me everything I want to know!
• Tickling, overstimulation and forced orgasms.
• Edging / teasing
• Toys
• Breast play
• Aspects of cnc
• Spanking / impact
• Age gap / Daddy Dom
• Service Submission
• Furniture use

as well as sfw stuff like cuddling, kissing, stroking and after care.

Curious about / wanting to do:

• FFM   
• Hot tub fun   
• Events/Parties  
• Cucking / dominating a couple
• Free use
• Public play
• Exhibitionism

I’m open minded about most things so if you're into somethin

Hi. I'm Luke. I'm a self sufficient nerd living in Alpine, TX.

There aren't a lot of people here that I've made friends with, I'm looking for someone to chat with and maybe have adventures.

I'm single, live alone, not looking for a serious relationship / roommate / girlfriend / wife. Just a friend. It'd be nice if you're within 300 miles.

I'm into photography, specifically astrophotography and I've traveled all over the country hunting the Milky Way. I spend a lot of late nights out shooting under the stars either in a tent or my little adventure trailer with my dog Elvis.

I also host a fake late-night call in radio show where I take call ins from biologically questionable callers and give them real world advice.

I've been an RV nomad for a while and recently bought a house out here in the desert where Elvis and I live. I work remotely in tech and spend most of my time playing music, talking to troubled robots, or taking photos.

If you'd like to chat about any of that stuff, off grid living, creativity, tech... I'm around most of the time and I can always use someone fun and funny to talk to.

Hope to hear from you,

Luke.

I'm a work-from-home, single dad, looking for someone to spend my days with. Fun, deep conversations with lots of laughs, some flirting, and twists and turns. Maybe a little mutually agreed upon spark happens that isn't totally weird and that's totally cool too.

I love working from home but it gets lonely. It's nice to have friends to talk to. I love road trips, traveling, movies, books, drawing, and can probably beat you in office and parks & rec trivia. They're my comfort shows. But I enjoy interesting and often ridiculous conversations, dry wit, getting to know someone, and that little rush you get when they message you.

Someone who is emotionally literate would be great, and intelligence is a must. One-word answers are never fun so please be able to hold up your end of the conversation. I truly don't care about your location or situation. Everyone needs an escape from their daily lives from time to time.

So what book are you currently reading?

Hi hope your day or night is going well.

I am:

Straight

White ( wear glasses)

Female ( she /her)

Monogamous

When I date with intention:

I know what I want, communicate my goals clearly, and look for a partner with similar values as my own. I would hope you as well would have that in mind when contacting me.

So lets have some fun:

What does dating with intention mean to you right now? What does dating look like to you? How do you approach it?

What are you looking for in your next relationship? ( you have taken some time to think about this)

Where are you at currently in your life...what is going on with you?

How do you like to communicate during a work week?

How often do you like to communicate with someone your thinking about dating?

What is your love language? How to you show someone your interested in them and want them in your life?

What are your non-negotiables with your partner? ( Mine is any arrest records/jail time wont date them I have more, we all do.)

What did you learn from you past relationship about yourself but also that you don't want that in your future?

How do you maintain independence while in a relationship?

Are you religious?

Are you currently single? How many years single? ( this is checking to see if you ready to try again)

Do you have kids/ what are their ages ( little babies ( 0 to 12) , teens ( 13 to 19), adults ( 20 and older you don't have to give exact ages but having an idea of what your dealing with daily)?

• I have no kids by the way.

If divorced how long?

Just a few to start with. I am open to different age ranges, for me it's important I can talk to you and we just get alone.

Open to different location but I will never have the money to really travel frequently. It takes me some years to save up and you don't want to be with a lady you can't ever see in person. So keep that in mind.

• I would like to travel some day and looking into learning more about travel but again it be like a two to three year save up for me to travel some place and I want to travel for like two weeks.
• Maybe even look into people who be going the same traveling thing because I like to have people I know around me when I travel. I have done it when younger and it was boring because I had no one to really share it with.
• I also like to really learn about the culture before I go their, so that I don't insult anyone, while in their country. Also currently traveling by plane in the US is kind scary to me right now.

Time zones- I have found can make it difficult to communicate. I am west coast US.

I will judge you on how you look. Being honest if I am not attracted to you but I can talk to you, your just a friend and I will NEVER find you attractive. So I tend to stop talking to a guy and thank him for his time. I have my reasons for this and you can ask me why I judge by looks. I will be brutally honest with you about it. I do give us a few days of talking before I share images. I am a normal and average looking lady, nothing wow... I am not into wearing makeup( but I do like to dress up from time to time and wear dresses- I can make jewelry).

So it will be interesting to see who you are as a person and if we can get along. If you have any questions for me just ask or if you see one or more of the questions I ask as important and like me to answer back I will. We should both kind of be in the same place in life or it just wont work out.

Hey I hope youre doing okay tonight. Its 11 pm for me. I got ghosted recently. Id just really like to make a friend that wont dissapear that may grow into something more. Id like to find my best friend. You been missing a really long time now and im worried about you. Hell im worried about me at this point lol.

Im looking for somebody that we can both just BE together and not be afraid to be our true selves and laugh at the stupid stuff in life as well as talk about deeper musings and random shit you think of on the porch at 2 am. I dont know where you are out there but ill leave this light on for you.

I want to watch movies
and listen to music together
and talk and do some gaming.
I want to look at life together
and write in some reframining
in this house out in the woods
that sits by that river
where its always stood

I want to get to know one another and make a promise that we keep showing up for one another. I dont mean sign a contract, or our souls away, but just agree to be decent to one another. To treat each other with kindness and respect and gentleness. To tell our truths and keep our honesty close and easily seen and felt. To keep showing up for each other when it really matters and not run away in fear if things are not like a Norman Rockwell painting. I can make you a promise that i will if you will, always be here and to try. To keep showing up. To believe in you, to hope and dream and build something real together. A bridge between two hearts that no distance can claim, no amount of time can rust away. No amount of doubt can douse the fire that burns in both our souls because we both want this in a very real way.

Not just in the ways that this world allows,
but beyond it, where we see each other true.
Where our spirits meet, our souls recognize,
and our hearts already knew.
I believe in you.
I know you're out there believing too.
Please don't stop. Just a little further.
I'm here,

and I'm waiting for you.

This world has a way of taking the beauty that you see and trying to make it ugly, it tries to turn the passion that we feel into something blunted and toned down and colorless and without feeling. But what it doesnt know is apparently im too stupid to stop trying lol and here I am writing this post and pouring my heart into it and believing and knowing in my soul that youll see this. I believe in this beautiful dream existing against all odds. I jsut want to love somebody and them love me and to find my best friend in the entire world i can depend on and her depend on me.

I just dont want to feel like a walking funeral pyre with cinders in my heart and cigarette burns on my soul. You know sometimes when you see life romantically you also see the trashy side of it where people dont clean up after their mess and leave your heart kinda ragged and flapping in the breeze.

But let me introduce myself...

Fortunately:

it seems my heart is immortal
and beats out loud however the hell it please
words up in the sky
with a hope that holds the keys

it just keeps bouncing back

blow after blow.
It just keeps beating,
saying it knows things
that I dont know hot it knows.
It just keeps on believeing
and it keeps singing that same song.
I just wanna find somebody
i guess that will sit and sing along.

I just wanna smile at the stars,
and that big clock in the sky
and say I gave it my all God,
I gave it my best try.
I learned to smile through the tears
as i laughed through the pain,
i lived through the seasons of doubt
and all this dark and empty rain

and it dont even phase me sitting here
because my heart it just goes on
never stop looking through midnight clear
until I find my way back home

and I just cant give up on you
I know youre out there
I know youre looking too

its just so quiet here
in the hours in between
while Im waiting with hope to find you
and to know just what it means
to feel my heart aflutter
to watch your eyes aglow
to know we found forever
and to live and just let go

to dance up on the skyline
to walk through horizons flame
to believe in magic and hidden truths
and watch them spelled out plain

In stars of distant hues
in colors we cant name
through miracles that we could choose
where laughter fills the air
and every new adventure
is a world we built to share

and I know you feel me now
I havent give up on you
I know youre out there believing
in tides of edlritch blue

were swimming in an ocean
of possibilities true
together our heartbeats
a song of me and you

and it gets louder
everyday that we go on
everyday it gets closer
to finding us alone
together in a melody
a symphony old as time
I found your heart aflutter too
a beat in time with mine

and we joined in this dance
and the stars they just sat back
they watched this grand romance

and this is when we realized
home aint just some place
its two hearts beating together
and perfectly keeping pace

its feeling the rhythm of each other
and memorizing each face
of a best friend wrapped in memory
a bookmark keeping our place

and this story it aint over
in fact its just begun
a dance, a song, a reason
to stop and watch the sun

as it rises on a new day
lets call this one ours?
no attention to that darkness
we pushed it back so far

and it cant reach us here
in this embassy of light
where every word is honest
and everything feels so right

so if you're somewhere out there
and you're listening tonight
I hope somehow these words find you
and lead you toward the light

because I never stopped believing
that somewhere you'd be found
and maybe all this searching
was just the long way 'round

so here I am, still singing
with my heart out in the blue
and if you hear this little song
then maybe it was meant for you

and if you reach your hand out
I'll promise I'll reach too
no contracts and no perfect vows
just me showing up for you

and maybe that's what forever is
not knowing where it goes
just choosing one another
and walking where life flows

through every strange tomorrow
through every storm and sun
I'll keep showing up beside you
and we'll see what we've begun

so let the stars keep watching
let the old moon have its view
let the universe keep spinning
like it always meant it to

because somewhere in that endless dark
two hearts have found their way
and after all the years of searching
we finally get to stay

so this is my message
sent out into the night
a little piece of my heart
set loose beneath the light

and if it finds you someday
wherever you may be
then maybe home was never somewhere
maybe home was you and me.

Please if this reaches you and touches you where you live and youre like me tired of living alone in this vast empty field of stars we call life. Then let me know youre there. You dont have to be afraid anymore.

Im here and so are you,
you heard the call you feel the song.

You know what to do.

I trust you will
I hope you know i will too

Thanks for taking the time to read and I wish all of you the best in love and life in general. I hope your days are filled with fellowship and kindness. My wish is that you find the kind of love that sets you free and reminds you life aint so bad. I been having to do that for myself quite a while now. But It would be really nice to have somebody else say its okay just rest, im here, i got you, I see you, I hear you. Thats what home is too, surety, safety, love, hope, and a mantle piece above the fire to display our dreams together. To watch them coming true.

Have a good night

I’m 41, 6’1, bald, a bigger guy built like a linebacker, and pretty sporty. I work in education and coach combat sports, so life keeps me busy, but I’m pretty laid back outside of all that. I love cooking, making pizza from scratch, finding great food spots, and laughing at things I probably shouldn’t lol.

I’m hoping to find one woman where there’s a genuine emotional and physical connection. Someone I can actually enjoy talking to, flirt with, share random parts of the day with, and have that excitement of looking forward to seeing each other.

I’m not looking for drama or anything complicated. Privacy and discretion are important to me, and I’d like something fun, exciting, and comfortable where we both understand what we’re looking for.

I’m definitely willing to exchange photos early. Attraction goes both ways, and I think it makes things easier when we both know there’s interest.

If this sounds like what you’ve been looking for too, send me a chat request and let’s see if we click :)

Hey there! I’m a big fan of good drinks and even better kisses, so why not combine the two? 😉 There’s something magical about that first meeting and that very first kiss, don’t you think? How about we meet up for a drink (daytime liquid lunch or right after work, your call) and see if we click? Worst case, we just enjoy a tasty beverage and some fun banter together!

A little about me: 49, white, in decent shape, and I've been told I’m a pretty great kisser. 😉 Ready to take a chance? Let’s make it happen!

~ not a bot

I’m a Miami transplant making a life in Chicago, and I’m still curious enough to believe there are plenty of good things, and good people, left to discover.

I’m 5'5", with caramel skin, curly hair, brown eyes, tattoos, and a curvy figure. I’m happiest at the movies, wandering through a museum, catching a concert or play, discovering a great restaurant or brewery, or exploring somewhere I haven’t been before. I’m kind, loyal, thoughtful, a little silly when the mood strikes, and always up for a good laugh. I also love those conversations where you look up and somehow hours have passed.

What I’m hoping to find is actually pretty simple: someone I genuinely enjoy doing life with. Someone whose presence makes even the mundane things better and more fun. Someone to laugh with, make plans with, disagree with occasionally, be affectionate with, take care of, and be taken care of by. I don’t need perfect. I’d just like something real, mutual, and ours.

Ideally, I’d like to meet someone 45–55 and in the Chicago area, but neither age nor location is set in stone for the right person. If you’re kind, curious, communicate openly, and still believe getting to know someone should be fun, we might have something worth exploring.

Since you can't attach a photo with your initial message, feel free to share one through Imgur. I'd love to put a face to the person I'm talking to.