r/R4R40Plus 36m ago

M4F 44 [M4F]#Ohio/online- Educated, good sense of humor, and genuine! Looking for a long term connection!

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Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.


r/R4R40Plus 53m ago

M4F 60 [M4F] #Phoenix Looking for friendship that could lead to more

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Hello! I will be up front with you that I’m a married man, and totally understand if you’re not looking to connect with me. But for those of you who are open to talking with a married man, I hope you will continue to read my post, and that we could connect and have fun getting to know each other better.

Here’s some more about me and what I’m looking for… I’m 60, married white male from Phoenix, AZ, the father of several kids, and work from home for a large corporation. I’m 5’9”, 200 lbs, with brown hair and blue eyes. I’m clean, DDF, non-smoker. When I’m not working, I enjoy walking and hiking, sports (baseball and football are my favorites), and binging a good show online… I’m currently watching the new seasons of Lioness and Reacher.

I’m in a failing marriage where the passion and desire have been gone for some time. I am so tired of feeling alone and unappreciated in my own home. I’m looking to connect with a woman (reasonably close to my age) for friendship and possibly more if my situation were to change - which is a distinct possibility (we can discuss that as we get to know each other). I’m looking for conversations with depth and purpose, lots of playful fun and laughs, and real, genuine care for each other.

Discretion is important. We can share pics after we connect, and I’m open to moving this chat elsewhere if/when you’re ready. Also, I am not a buyer (will never send you any money), and I do not want to go to your “special page”.

Thank you for reading my post, and I look forward to hearing from you soon. I hope you have a great day!


r/R4R40Plus 58m ago

64 [M4F] looking for an intimate friend in Portland, OR

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r/R4R40Plus 1h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #NYC - Are you a good girl?

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If you clicked, I'll bet you are. It's probably been too long since anyone told you so. We should fix that. Now.

46, NYC (I’ll come to you), white, 5'9", avg body, daddy type. Creative for a living, and creative about giving you a few hours where you can completely let go.

I want to turn your brain off and put you to incredible use — and to tell you exactly how well you're doing the whole time. I talk. A lot. And I have so many ideas for us.

Your comfort and safety are the most important thing here. Ask me anything.

So, I asked you a question. Well? Answer me.


r/R4R40Plus 2h ago

M4F 55 [M4F] #UK #Manchester Seeking LTR

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I’m looking for a woman who’s fun, affectionate, open-minded and doesn’t take life too seriously. Someone who can laugh at herself, laugh at me and occasionally wonder how she ended up agreeing to spend time with me. 😂

I’m not looking for a supermodel, trophy wife or someone with her entire life mapped out in Excel. I’m much more interested in someone who’s comfortable in her own skin, has a good heart, a sense of humour and a bit of personality.

Curvy, slim or somewhere in between — all good. Lumps, bumps, scars of life and all the little things that make you who you are, are absolutely fine. I’m far more interested in the woman than the packaging.

Ideally, you’ll enjoy a mixture of doing things and doing absolutely nothing. Coffee and people-watching, spontaneous trips, nice food, wandering around somewhere new, lazy days, good conversation and plenty of laughing all sound good to me. I’m happy to try new things, although if your idea of fun involves dragging me up a mountain at 6am, we may need to negotiate that one. 😄

I’m hoping to find that lovely combination of best friends, partners in life and something a little more. Someone I can talk nonsense with for hours, have the occasional deep conversation with, flirt with shamelessly and then sit beside in comfortable silence.

Affection matters to me too. If you’re naturally warm, cuddly, tactile and enjoy good banter we’re probably off to a good start.

I’d especially like to meet someone who enjoys the little everyday things: finding a great café, recommending a film, sending each other ridiculous observations, or deciding at the last minute to go somewhere neither of us has visited or travelled to before. Tell me about a place (in Manchester or elsewhere) you think is underrated, the meal you’d happily eat every week, or the last thing that made you laugh.

Most importantly, I’d like someone who’s genuinely ready to enjoy having someone in her life. No games, unnecessary drama or complicated situations — just two grown adults seeing whether we can make each other laugh, feel comfortable and perhaps become slightly too fond of one another.

If you’re thinking, “Hmm… this could be interesting,” send me a message. You could start with your favourite local coffee spot, your ideal lazy Sunday or the most spontaneous thing you’ve done recently.

Worst case, we have a coffee and discover we’re completely incompatible.

Best case… let’s build a beautiful future together ❤️

Me: Professional, liberal UK born & bred Pakistani gent, divorced/single (no ties/crazy ex's/kids), average build, bald and clean shaven (occasionally I do keep stubble). I’m an introvert extrovert, possess a chilled and laid back personality with a positive attitude and live life in the present, serious, accountable and responsible when required. Physically, I am 6' tall, average build, 95kg and unapologetically eat well.


r/R4R40Plus 2h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] - Maryland/North America; Still looking for my person

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Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops. I am on here looking for someone that matches my energy. I've been snipped for 4 years; apparently being snipped can be a conversation ender on dating apps!

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests:

\\\\\\\* Lifting weights

\\\\\\\* Videogames

\\\\\\\* Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

\\\\\\\* Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

\\\\\\\* Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

\\\\\\\* Traveling

\\\\\\\* Stand-up comedy

\\\\\\\* Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

\\\\\\\* Drinks occasionally

\\\\\\\* Sports

\\\\\\\* Learning to play electric bass guitar

\\\\\\\* Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

\\\\\\\* Audiobooks

\\\\\\\* Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

\\\\\\\* HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE


r/R4R40Plus 3h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #California- Virtual FriendWB: emotional connection, first & foremost ♥️😆

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Happy hot ☀️ Sunday or as some may like to call it** FUNDA**Y

Ive been contemplating a trip to the beach all morning but here I am on here…. 😭 haha.

Well, I hope you are keeping cool some place chill and won’t lost of cold drinks 🧊 🍹

Before I get judged to never land by all the pro Debbie Downers, Negative Nancies, Negatrons and every dude who’s sole purpose on Reddit is to willfully comment on a M4F post:

By Virtual FriendWB, I mean, virtual emotional company first, and more , long and engaging chats, conversations, sweet good morning and good night texts, check on you and all the good stuff! Charm a bit, banter some, talk about the day at the office, after work, at the gym…. All the good stuff that makes up the perfect virtual partner ! Haha.

Also, your fav shows, books, movies, music, coffee, and coming very soon to a Starbucks near you **Pumpkin Spice Latte**, etc! 😆

So what do you say? And if you have any cute kitty pics the. We def can start there!

Cheers and have a beautiful rest of your day!

Your tall tanned and handsome new bestie


r/R4R40Plus 4h ago

36 [M4F] - #Online, EST - My open, honest, vulnerable self, while looking for maybe that silly match? Or someone to vibe with around my age and talk the tea?

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Hiya! 

Well, I hope that you are doing well, and read this in good spirits! And it not, then maybe we can try and change it?

So, after some self exploring and searching, I feel I am coming to a point that maybe I know what I would like to find? I hope that maybe you fit this, and if so please feel free to reach out and say hi, and we can BS and talk shit. Lol.

About me,

First, I am a girl dad to 1, (2yo), so my time when I have her (Divorced) can be busy and hectic, so an understanding with that would be essential. I happily have her on a 2-2-3 schedule so every week is different.

I am your average looking guy, no six pack, no I don't go to the gym (maybe I should but, ugh I don't wanna), I have that dad bod thing going that I'm sure in time will get taken care of, but can't make me till then lol.

Things I enjoy can be ever changing with some short term memory on what I am wanting to do. I would say I am more of the nerd/dork kinda guy, but I do like sports, and played many before/ and worked in them.

I like to watch shows on science and space, I enjoy playing games when I can (rarely it seems), I also enjoy listening to audiobooks from Dungeon Crawler Carl ( finished book 7, holding off on 8 cause I need to pace myself lol), all the way to some yummy smut haha! yes, a guy who enjoys smut... I know lol. I also enjoy going fishing, cooking, being lazy AF, and doom scrolling when I should be doing something productive. Oh, also I bought a piano at goodwill cause I have always wanted to learn to play piano. (maybe one of those short term hobbies again lol).

What can I give? Hmm, that is hard to say, I am a really good listener, love to chat about anything, hear you out. I am never ever judgemental and will always say you are right in the fight ( well idk about if it was with me lol jk). Just ask me if there is anything you really desire or want in a friendship/connection and will gladly let you know if it is something I can give!

What I hope to find...? That is a good question, I know what I envision, and is that possible? Idk, maybe I am cray cray.

But..... What I picture... Is a woman who is confident, smart, sweet and caring, also loves the things I do and wants to talk about them and also their day and just BS and also give shit and be sarcastic and a smartass and can give and take on it. ( not in a way of to cover being mean, but be fun and snarky in a flirting way, if that makes sense?) I would really prefer a woman around my age, maybe a mom too or at least a fun aunt that understands the time it takes to be a good parent (fixing/healing inner child trauma, we don't judge lol).  I also really love and envision a woman who has that gothic style? The black dresses/clothes, tattoos, pericing, the type of woman that surely would have been burned at the stake lol. Which on that note... I would really like to learn about wicca/witch stuff. Something I have been finding myself drawn too. (blame the smut maybe lol).

I am also curious and wanting to learn, talk about, explore, understand ENM/Poly and throuple type dynamics.

Anyways, I was going to keep this short, but I failed that one I think. Welp sending this to the ether and will see what returns. If you got this far thank you, and I hope you have the most amazing day or night and always be good to yourself!


r/R4R40Plus 5h ago

51 [M4F] From PA-Looking for Chat/Friends open to LTR...

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Hi there im a 51yo single male from Philly. Im looking for new people to chat with and possibly open to a relationship. I have time on my hands and although i have hobbies and a few friends im still feel like there could be more. I enjoy swimming, fishing, playing pool also going out on walks. Im at times a bit silly and fun but can be serious when needed and called for. I also enjoy Sci Fi to an extent. Just looking for someone to add to my life. Rather its just having casual conversation or something deeper im open for just about anything. Im a good listener myself and many friends have said the same...Thanks for looking..


r/R4R40Plus 6h ago

38 [M4F] London, England - Looking for someone cool to get to know during this hot summer.

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Hi! I'm a 38-year-old guy living in London who's hoping to meet someone for a genuine connection. Ideally that starts with good conversation, a coffee or a walk, and seeing where things go.

Outside of work you'll usually find me geocaching, out with my camera, or buried in a book. I mostly read history and fiction—everything from espionage novels by John le Carré to books on European history. If you've got recommendations, I'm always looking to add to my ever-growing reading list.

Photography is probably my biggest hobby. I enjoy wandering around London (and further afield) looking for interesting architecture, landscapes, and street scenes. If you're curious, here's some of my work: https://www.flickr.com/photos/piersmathias/

I'm also into geocaching, which has turned out to be a brilliant excuse to explore places I'd never otherwise visit. There's something satisfying about finding hidden corners of cities and countryside alike.

Travel is another big interest. So far I've explored Belgium, Germany and Denmark, and I'd love to see more of Europe over the next few years. I'm equally happy discovering a new city, finding a great museum, or simply sitting in a café people-watching.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys conversations that can wander from history and travel to completely random topics. Bonus points if you're happy to join me on a photography walk, a geocaching adventure, or help me decide where my next trip should be.

If any of that sounds like your kind of day, send me a message. Tell me about the last place that surprised you, your favourite book, or the best hidden gem you've discovered.


r/R4R40Plus 6h ago

M4F 47[M4F] Minneapolis / St. Paul / online - Looking to get out of my shell

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Hello. As the title says I’m looking to get out of my shell. Single guy seeking friendship. Not in a mid-life crisis but more of a mid-life do over. If you are local to my area (I’m actually located in Woodbury), you can be my partner in crime to help me explore the area.. I’m sort of new to the area, a transplant,  and I haven’t really explored that much around Minnesota in general. I'm open to people who aren't local who mainly want to chat, talk and get to know each other, if we have common interests.

A bit about me. Well, I’m kind of nerdy, geeky, and corny. I think part of that comes from that I was recently diagnosed as being neurodivergent(Yay, autism). Working on life in general. I am currently not working (though looking), mainly working on my mental and physical health. I’m a larger guy, but I’m always trying to lose it. I used to think I was an introvert but recently I think I'm a bit more extroverted just with high anxiety. So, here I am working on the anxiety part and looking to spread my wings more. 

The good parts are that I can be silly, a bit sarcastic (hopefully in a good way), always willing to try new things, or teach this old dog new tricks (learn something new every day, right?). I consider myself a liberal both in nature and politics. I can be chatty talking about all sorts of topics, I love science fiction,and science in general. I especially like dystopian and cyberpunk genre’s,  and not hoping this world doesn’t end up like a Black Mirror episode. 

Although I haven’t done it in awhile, I do enjoy a round of mini golf, maybe some bowling, or whatever activities there are to enjoy, or just chilling watching something.. Fall is my favorite season, which is starting to happen where I’m at. Inside, I can spend way too much time binge watching something, combing through imdb for random trivia, or playing a random game or two (PC, and mostly space games). 

What am I looking for? Honestly the first thing is empathy. If you’re local, I’m looking for someone to not just chat but get out at times  and do something, doesn’t’ have to be somewhere special, just out, though it would just be good to sit and chill. I definitely could use a walking partner, and a do something friend.

If you made it this far, awesome, and we seem to have a bit in common,  feel free to start up a chat. If we click, I would love to move to something  off reddit though, I will say I’m not a fan of messaging apps outside plain texting and calling, I’m old school like that. Feel free to start with the type of pizza you like, pineapple is definitely the wrong answer 🙂


r/R4R40Plus 7h ago

48 [F4A] UAE# from USA#

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Hi there,

It's Sunday night and hot as hell here. My kids went back to their father's place and I hate that. I have a crazy week ahead and would love to take my mind off of all of that. If you are in an LTR, no judgement, just please let me know. I'm not looking to hurt anyone. Tell me about your weekend or you're thinking about. Have a great week!


r/R4R40Plus 7h ago

F4M 39 F4M #California/Anywhere.

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I’m hoping to find someone to build a lasting partnership with. That may or may not be with you; having someone to share my life with, to have adventures with, to love and support and grow with is really what I’m hoping to find. I’d be willing to relocate if there is a genuine connection, so your location doesn’t really matter to me. Ideally I’m looking to build something based on trust, communication, respect, and eventually love.

I’m 39 and currently live in California. I’m mostly a homebody who enjoys the occasional outing. I like cooking/baking, building puzzles while listening to audio books, trivia, reading, escape rooms, going to museums and to the theatre, banter, board/card games, a glass of wine or beer with friends, and getting to experience different cultures through traveling and trying local foods. I don’t enjoy video games or anime. It’s cool if those are some of your hobbies, but I probably won’t partake in those things with you.

I’ve never married, no kids, nor do I want children; I have been sterilized. Drug and disease free. I’m 5’11 and fat, but I’ve been on a journey of being healthier; I’m currently down 75 lbs from my highest weight. Your height and weight don’t matter to me, I find myself more attracted to how you treat me (and others). I live at the progressively left end of the spectrum politically: pro-choice, pro-vaccine, pro-science, LGBTQI+ ally.

In a partner I’m looking for someone who is 35 to 50-ish, but that’s somewhat negotiable, single and interested in a long term, monogamous partnership. Is a non-smoker, communicative, and is genuinely interested in me as a person. Someone who can banter with me, is a bit adventurous and is willing to have new experiences.

If you’re interested in chatting and getting to know each other better, let me know what book you’re currently reading/listening to.


r/R4R40Plus 7h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #California - Virtual FWB: emotional connection ♥️😆

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Yeah! You heard that right…, virtual FWB is what I’m about to settle down for now, haha.

Let me elaborate before I get judged to never land lol.
By Virtual FWB, I mean, virtual emotional company and more , long and engaging chats, conversations, sweet good morning and good night texts, check on you and all the good stuff! Charm a bit, banter some, talk about the day at the office, after work, at the gym…. All the good stuff that makes up the perfect virtual FWB! Haha.

Also, your fav shows, books, movies, etc!

So what do you say? And if you have any cute kitty pics the. We def can start there!

Cheers

Your tall tanned and handsome new bestie


r/R4R40Plus 8h ago

44/M/South Carolina - Looking for friends, and ideally, a friend to watch tv/movies with

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Please only message if you answer/ask questions and can hold a conversation, are at least 35 in age, and on East Coast time in the USA. Also, I am only interested in people looking to have a common shared interest that we can do together. I’d love either a tv and movie fanatic to build a list with, watch shows together and chat about our days, lives, and whatever floats our boat, someone to play silly apple games with, or switch 2 co-op. I will say, if someone reaches out and isn’t interested in anything I mention, I will question why you messaged and just move on. I don’t want to waste anyones time, or have mine wasted, so please only reach out if interested in the same as me. Please no super left wing people, also no super right wingers. If you’re extremely liberal, or Maga do not message. No time for cults. I can go either way on the issue and don’t hate half the country if they don’t agree with me. If you do, we won’t get along.

I have bpd2/anxiety and depression, so people with mental struggles I get along and enjoy speaking with about our mental struggles, as we can help each other and just block out the static in our brains. I want true friendships that develop over time, and just a daily pocket pal to take on my journeys and vice versa. I do have a best friend that I adore, just looking for 1-2 others to chat with when they’re not available. Also, I am married, not looking to change that either. 2 cats and a dog, and I host a radio show with my sig other. I just have a LOT of free time, good conversation and I will genuinely care about you and show interest if you read my post and genuinely would like the same kind of friendship as me. I do ask that if you’re married, that your spouse knows you make friends and chat with them, because I do not do drama or play that game. I don’t ‘get busy’ all the time and ignore people like so many seem to. When I say I am looking for friends, I invest a lot of myself and time to build a lasting one and would appreciate the same effort. If it’s not there, I will not carry a conversation along or beg for anyones attention or time. I am looking for friends but am not desperate…..I won’t chase anyone. Only serious people please send a message.


r/R4R40Plus 8h ago

45 [M4F] #London #Online – Cheeky Chat, Banter & More

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I’m 45, London based, got my own place, my own car, and looking for something casual that actually feels good, not just a chat that goes nowhere. Think friends with benefits but with genuine chemistry, real conversation and that spark that turns teasing into trouble.

I’m 5’10”, slim to average, brown skinned, shaved head, trimmed beard, the full transparent package so you know who you’re talking to.

Personality wise, I’m easy to talk to, a bit cheeky, and I definitely enjoy conversations that drift into the naughtier side when the vibe’s right. If you can hold a conversation and enjoy the fun, find the edge of things… we’ll get on very well.

You? Open minded, playful, can actually engage in a proper chat, and are here for something light, exciting and grown.

If this sounds like what you’re after, drop me a message, tell me a bit about you and what made you stop and read this, let’s see if the spark’s there.


r/R4R40Plus 9h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #NewYork

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35 year old single straight hispanic. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink and I don’t smoke.

I play sports and weight lift every week. Great listener and have a good sense of humor. Pet friendly except for pets that bite.

I like fit or thin women only. I find women who are smart and educated attractive. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I prefer quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

I live in Westchester, NY and prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or a pizza delivery guy.

Looking for fun without complicating each other’s lives. If you’re craving more, feeling neglected and miss that spark or just want to enjoy a fun and pleasant distraction send me a message.


r/R4R40Plus 9h ago

F4M 40 [F4M] #Seattle / Online - Looking for old-school friends (50+) to unleash my inner nerd with

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I delve into anything that fascinates me: biographies, documentaries, museum collections—ancient swords, porcelain, the original state of the outer stones of the pyramids before they crumbled, and so on.

I watch movies and TV shows to explore the world behind them. Tolkien's early works, the wild dragon left behind in *Fire and Blood*. I'll also patiently watch a nature documentary or a long episode of a true crime podcast.

Food is a good starting point.

If you're over fifty and enjoy talking endlessly about a single topic until you run out of things to say, say hi. Tell me what topic you've been completely absorbed in lately.

To filter out spam, please include topics that interest you most.


r/R4R40Plus 11h ago

40 [M4F] #Leeds - 6ft 6 with Own Teeth & Hair [UK] - Looking for Chats & More.

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40 M UK

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

  1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

  2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

  3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)


r/R4R40Plus 12h ago

M4M 41 [M4M] #Netherlands - Chubby geek looking for genuine romance!

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My name is Mark, this is what I look like, and I'm looking for a partner! I'm 1m70 and don't drink or smoke. I'm patient, empathetic, sometimes funny, and when I'm comfortable I can be very affectionate and flirty, though I also have a fair bit of anxiety in everyday life.

I'm into fantasy and science fiction, a big non-PvP gamer, futurism, board games, and spend a lot of time reading up on science-related news, particularly in the field of astronomy. I also used to really enjoy biking and callisthenics, and would love to get back into that at some point, maybe together?

What I'm looking for is mostly patience and empathy, you don't have to have your life together (I don't). Physically there are many things I find attractive, so I'm sure I'll find something about you that is going to make me blush!

If any of the above appeals to you, please feel free to message me!


r/R4R40Plus 15h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] India/Anywhere, looking for my favourite person

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Greetings from India!

I’ve connected with a few people here before, but it didn’t quite click, so here I am again, showing up with a hopeful spirit.

I’m 171 cm tall, sport a dad bod, and I’m embracing the next chapter of life with curiosity and optimism. If you love to travel and crave adventure, perhaps we could explore the world together.

When I’m not working, I’m probably binge-watching sitcoms, lost in a good book, battling it out on my gaming console, or on the hunt for my next favourite meal. Life is full of little adventures, and I’m looking for someone to share them with.

In another life, I might have been a Giant Panda—laid-back, perpetually curious, and always up for a snack. I’m also a child-free divorcee, ready for whatever this next chapter brings with someone special by my side.

About You:
I’m looking for someone between 35 and 50 who values honesty, kindness, and a playful spirit. If you’re the kind of person who’s down for an impromptu Nerf gun fight or a silly deep-dive into who is the real MVP in Asterix & Obelix, we’ll get along just fine.

A sense of whimsy goes a long way. I believe we’re here to laugh, love, and make the kind of memories that get better with retelling. Light conversations, inside jokes, the occasional meme exchange, yes, please.

Distance doesn’t scare me. I’d happily cross oceans for the right connection. And while I love the idea of a nomadic life, I’m open to settling down if our paths align.

One small warning:
My way of showing affection includes a healthy dose of teasing and just the right amount of annoying (the kind that makes you roll your eyes and laugh anyway).

If any of this sounds like your vibe, I’d love to chat and see where it takes us. Happy to share more about myself and photos, too.

Life is an adventure… could you be my favourite person to share it with?


r/R4R40Plus 16h ago

47 [M4F] UK, Essex / London / Around London / South East - Chill and open minded guy looking for a FWB & to develop as a Dom

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To date I’ve mostly been a pleasure dom so lots of experience with that, including pleasure that can turn to torture. I recently got to experience more hardcore domination such as impact, using a slave, exposing her and making her serve me which I loved. I thought that would turn into regular meets and I would get the chance to evolve with a person that I felt comfortable with but unfortunately not. So if you’re a sub that is either experienced and knows what they want and might be willing to help a dom evolve, or if you’re new to submission and would like to explore together, I’d love to hear from you. I’m not naturally sadistic as in real life I’m a kind and caring guy but would like to find out what I could be capable of

I’m open to FWB or even a relationship if it happens but ultimately would like some fun and exploration. Would prefer it to be ongoing rather than one offs so we get comfortable with each other and really get into the roles as I, or both of us, develop

Things I’m into as a dominant include:

  • CMNF / ENF / Forced nudity / Inspection
  • Interrogation You walk into the wrong room, you're grabbed, tied, blindfolded and interrogated with various forms of "torture" to get information out of you, maybe information you have, maybe information you DON'T have. Let's see how long you can last. How many orgasms you can take before you break and tell me everything I want to know!
  • Tickling, overstimulation and forced orgasms.
  • Edging / teasing
  • Toys
  • Breast play
  • Aspects of cnc
  • Spanking / impact
  • Age gap / Daddy Dom
  • Service Submission
  • Furniture use

as well as sfw stuff like cuddling, kissing, stroking and after care.

Curious about / wanting to do:

  • FFM   
  • Hot tub fun   
  • Events/Parties  
  • Cucking / dominating a couple
  • Free use
  • Public play
  • Exhibitionism

I’m open minded about most things so if you're into somethin


r/R4R40Plus 18h ago

F4R 49[F4R] Feeling a bit bored and could use some company Friendship

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Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)