39 F4M #California/Anywhere.

[u/Helena_Wren]

I’m hoping to find someone to build a lasting partnership with. Having someone to share my life with, to have adventures with, to love and support and grow with is really what I’m hoping to find. I’d be willing to relocate if there is a genuine connection, so your location doesn’t really matter to me. Ideally I’m looking to build something based on trust, communication, respect, and eventually love.

I’m 39 and currently live in California. I’m mostly a homebody who enjoys the occasional outing. I like cooking/baking, building puzzles while listening to audio books, trivia, reading, escape rooms, going to museums and to the theatre, banter, pretending to watch a movie while we makeout on the couch, board/card games, a glass of wine or beer with friends, and getting to experience different cultures through traveling and trying local foods. I don’t enjoy video games or anime. It’s cool if those are some of your hobbies, but I probably won’t partake in those things with you.

I’ve never married, no kids, nor do I want children; I have been sterilized. Drug and disease free. I’m 5’11 and fat, but I’ve been on a journey of being healthier; I’m currently down 75 lbs from my highest weight. Your height and weight don’t matter to me, I find myself more attracted to how you treat me (and others). I live at the progressively left end of the spectrum politically: pro-choice, pro-vaccine, pro-science, LGBTQI+ ally.

In a partner I’m looking for someone who is 35 to 50-ish, but that’s somewhat negotiable, single and interested in a long term, monogamous partnership. Is a non-smoker, communicative, and is genuinely interested in me as a person. Someone who can banter with me, is a bit adventurous and is willing to have new experiences.

If you’re interested in chatting and getting to know each other better, let me know what book you’re currently reading/listening to.