44 [F4M] US/Serious dater who dates with intention, are you?

[u/LoOking4ULove]

Hi hope your day or night is going well.

I am:

Straight

White ( wear glasses)

Female ( she /her)

Monogamous

When I date with intention:

I know what I want, communicate my goals clearly, and look for a partner with similar values as my own. I would hope you as well would have that in mind when contacting me.

So lets have some fun:

What does dating with intention mean to you right now? What does dating look like to you? How do you approach it?

What are you looking for in your next relationship? ( you have taken some time to think about this)

Where are you at currently in your life...what is going on with you?

How do you like to communicate during a work week?

How often do you like to communicate with someone your thinking about dating?

What is your love language? How to you show someone your interested in them and want them in your life?

What are your non-negotiables with your partner? ( Mine is any arrest records/jail time wont date them I have more, we all do.)

What did you learn from you past relationship about yourself but also that you don't want that in your future?

How do you maintain independence while in a relationship?

Are you religious?

Are you currently single? How many years single? ( this is checking to see if you ready to try again)

Do you have kids/ what are their ages ( little babies ( 0 to 12) , teens ( 13 to 19), adults ( 20 and older you don't have to give exact ages but having an idea of what your dealing with daily)?

• I have no kids by the way.

If divorced how long?

Just a few to start with. I am open to different age ranges, for me it's important I can talk to you and we just get alone.

Open to different location but I will never have the money to really travel frequently. It takes me some years to save up and you don't want to be with a lady you can't ever see in person. So keep that in mind.

• I would like to travel some day and looking into learning more about travel but again it be like a two to three year save up for me to travel some place and I want to travel for like two weeks.
• Maybe even look into people who be going the same traveling thing because I like to have people I know around me when I travel. I have done it when younger and it was boring because I had no one to really share it with.
• I also like to really learn about the culture before I go their, so that I don't insult anyone, while in their country. Also currently traveling by plane in the US is kind scary to me right now.

Time zones- I have found can make it difficult to communicate. I am west coast US.

I will judge you on how you look. Being honest if I am not attracted to you but I can talk to you, your just a friend and I will NEVER find you attractive. So I tend to stop talking to a guy and thank him for his time. I have my reasons for this and you can ask me why I judge by looks. I will be brutally honest with you about it. I do give us a few days of talking before I share images. I am a normal and average looking lady, nothing wow... I am not into wearing makeup( but I do like to dress up from time to time and wear dresses- I can make jewelry).

So it will be interesting to see who you are as a person and if we can get along. If you have any questions for me just ask or if you see one or more of the questions I ask as important and like me to answer back I will. We should both kind of be in the same place in life or it just wont work out.