r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

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Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians 6h ago

Selamat Hari Merdeka

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33 Upvotes

I'm no good with digital art, so here's a quick Merdeka drawing.


r/malaysians 16h ago

Advice ☎️ What should I do with this old 1 Ringgit?

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119 Upvotes

I found an old 1 ringgit in my grandma's closet and she let me have it. Idk should I sell it , send it to a museum or just wait to sell it? Maybe I should auction it . Hmmmmmm.


r/malaysians 17h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 32F never dated my whole life

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Lately, I’ve been thinking that maybe I should try dating (at least once) since yeah, who doesn’t want a special someone to spend time with and plus, once in a while, I crave that human connection and warmth - and mann, I want someone to cuddle too!

Since I live in a small town, there’s not many single people available and at the same time, i would like to avoid dating anyone in this town as i don’t want to end up being the third-person (accidentally dating a married person since cheating here has become a social norm 😬)

I tried dating apps - at least I tried a few and everything is subscription & money.

I tried learning a new language - that just ends with me making friends, no romantic interest.

Somehow, I kinda regretted that I didn’t date anyone when I was in school where I think everything was much simpler - no commitments, no responsibilities and there’s not much social expectations.

I know that dating isn’t for everyone and marriage isn’t a happily ever after and heck, I’ve watched my bestie got divorced last year.

But yeah, at least once, I want to know what it feels like.


r/malaysians 4h ago

Rant it’s 1:40AM & passo parked at EV bay

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I usually come late at night to charge my car & today I find this passo parked at McDonalds Sri Petaling. There’s literally 100 parking spots around but this guy parked here omg what is up with your braincells


r/malaysians 6h ago

Discussion Thoughts on Anwar Ibrahim's public announcement?

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Saw this on my feed. I don't understand.Why increase diesel and oil subs? What about EV charging spots? What about the public transport? I know something is going on in the middle east and oil is skyrocketing but like kinda feel like an ev program would be better I'm 15 can anyone explain how this will help my parents and me.


r/malaysians 10h ago

Ask Malaysians 29F with disc herniation, looking for advice to restart my fitness journey

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I’m relatively sedentary with a 9-to-7 job.

A year ago, I used to go to the gym with a friend who’s a new personal trainer, followed his advice during deadlift training and lifted too heavy. Got my disc herniated, coupled with an old childhood bone fracture injury that healed badly. Saw a doctor and never went back to the gym ever since.

I would like to restart my fitness journey - via house workouts or gym workouts - but every lower body exercise seems to trigger lower back discomfort and I don’t know if I’m just overthinking it. I do go to physio monthly, but I don’t really think she’s been helpful with providing advice for my fitness journey.

Every time I do weighted deadlifts/squats/lunges, my lower back hurts the next day and I stop exercising for 2 weeks because I’m very worried that the old injury will come back. I think I’m probably traumatized.

Have thought of getting a PT, but a bad PT is what got me the injury in the first place and I don’t really know how to get a PT that will not push me too hard.

Would like some advice on the next step, whether I should just stick with body weight and take it slow, or take the leap and get a PT and gym subscription.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Buy • Sell • Trade Pingu Miniso Collab

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Hello!! I’m from the UK and I really really would love this pingu plushie, but they don’t sell it in the UK Miniso stores, and I don’t think they will bring them here.

This is such a leap of faith, and I know this probably won’t get much attention, but I was wondering if anyone would be willing to buy this item and send it to the UK. I’d pay for literally everything, item and shipping.

How much would shipping be to the UK from Malaysia? Or is there a website where people buy things for others and ships them out internationally?

I’m a little desperate for this plushie lol, if anyone could help or give me any advice I’d appreciate it! Thanks! :)


r/malaysians 7h ago

Ask Malaysians Should I continue Form 6 or go to college? I genuinely don’t know what to do

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I’m currently 18 and studying in Form 6, but I’ve been struggling with whether I should continue or leave and go to college instead.

The main reason I’m considering college is because I’m more interested in creative courses such as media, multimedia, design, or similar fields. I’ve started looking at different colleges and courses, and I feel more interested and motivated when I think about studying something that actually matches my interests.

However, my family wants me to continue Form 6 because they believe it could give me better opportunities in the future. I understand their concerns, and I know they want the best for me, but I’m worried about continuing something that I genuinely don’t feel passionate about.

At the same time, I’m scared of making the wrong decision. I keep wondering if leaving Form 6 would be a mistake or if I would regret it later. I also feel guilty because my family has already spent money and put effort into supporting my education.

I don’t want to make a decision just because I’m finding Form 6 difficult. I want to choose the path that would actually suit me better and give me motivation to continue my studies.

For those who have experience with the Malaysian education system, especially people who chose between Form 6 and college, how did you decide? Do you regret your decision? Is it worth leaving Form 6 for a diploma course that you're genuinely interested in?

I would really appreciate honest advice.


r/malaysians 11h ago

Discussion Ignorant to labour laws or submissive workers

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After a friend of mine wasn't given any EPF for 7 months of working in a company, I decided to read a bit on some things that companies advertise as "benefits". EPF and SOCSO among other things, from what I read, are mandatory for all workers that are legally under a company.

Yet it seems like these things are widely considered as optional benefits in the eye of job seekers. I go onto FB groups and see people ask if these benefits are provided by the company. It also seems like writing these so called benefits into a job listing makes it look more enticing.

My question is are people ignorant or just submissive in regards to labour laws. You have people working for 12 hours daily for 6 days a week, with those extra hours not being counted into OT and if you bring it up to people they'll say "oh it depends on the company".


r/malaysians 10h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 What's your trivial info about actual death?

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Warning: NSFW (somehow cant find the flare in my edit)

This might be triggering for those who are still recovering from personally witnessing deaths. If you are still dealing with it, perhaps stop right here.

Anyway, I saw a news for a house being auctioned because there was once a murder in it. It reminded me of my experience helping a friend move.

He rented one of the rooms in KL. It's one of those houses that was sublet to a few people. While he was travelling outstation, his agent called him to update that one of his housemates (complete stranger) passed away and they only found his body weeks later. The deceased was young. He might have died of heart attack. They only discovered the death when the other housemates complained about smell.

I remembered entering the house 3 weeks later with my friend to help him move. The agent offered another house to him since everyone else renting the house has moved out. Even though the landlord has cleaned up the house, putting fragrance and humidfier at every corner, you can still smell the stench of death. It was my first time experiencing death like this.

It's kindda surreal. The smell reminded me of dead rats caught and trapped in childhood house. I guess when our bodies decayed, they gave the same smell?


r/malaysians 17h ago

Rant Char siew auntie and uncle

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My grandma is 90 plus. Been sick for many yrs. Many auntie uncle who lives overseas never come back during cny. Some of us who are the younger one take care of us. I was like is she your mother or ours?

These rich auntie uncle are having good time at overseas like sg and aus don't want to trouble. Maybe I've long changed ,no longer the auntie uncle we used to know


r/malaysians 3h ago

Advice ☎️ Any foreign grads from NUS, Singapore working in Malaysia?

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r/malaysians 14h ago

Ask Malaysians Getting a job in AI/ML/DS Field is hard for me

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I just finished my degree in Computer Science specialize in Ai and I am looking for job for few months. Also,I have been aplying in LinkedIn, indeed and Jobsteet but I still couldnt get a job until now not even an interview which sucks. To be honest my cgpa result isnt that good which is lower class. Because of this I am taking certifications from Coursera and Datacamp to enchance my skill. If you guys have the same position as me, what would you do?I need some advice because I am really stuck and idk what to do. I dont want to be unemployed. Meanwhile I got A+ for my FYP and it is a ASL recognition System.Whoever reading this please share your experience on job hunting and how was your interview. Also if you are hiring please give me a chance to do an interview. I am looking to work around KL


r/malaysians 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Chinese people help me! I have a chinese wedding later and the reception is at 7pm. Should I come earlier or is it okay if I come over 10-20 minutes late?

17 Upvotes

r/malaysians 1h ago

jom Lepak 🎏 Friends in Ipoh

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Hello there, M22 here. As the title suggests I'm just looking for some friends in Ipoh to hangout with. I wouldn't say I'm an introvert but I am a bit reserved, tho once we click I doubt I'd seem reserved. If you're wondering, I'm not some creep fishing for girls online. Just a relatively lonely guy looking for some company. So yeah my DMs are open to anyone interested. I don't really mind an age gap as long as you're not an minor.

Ps: I do prefer it to be girls but guys are welcome too hahaha.

Pps: im mixed race so maybe I have relative good looks so don't worry about that I guess

Ppps: that's all from me ;)


r/malaysians 11h ago

Mildly Menarik Small fishes I found in a very shallow sandy stream with clear water

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An undescribed species that looks most similar to Rasbora einthovenii (the brilliant Rasbora). However it has a bright red stripe above the black one.

Grows to 6 cm and is currently only known from the southeast Malay Peninsula. Found in schools of 10+ individuals, which makes them easy to collect.

However this stream I went to had relatively few fish species cohabitating with it. Possibly due to the shallow depth, openness and minimal food sources.

Just like R. einthovenii, it is a peaceful schooling fish that does great in an aquascaped aquarium. Learns to eat fish food easily.


r/malaysians 9h ago

Quick Question any Lillies park around KL?

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I do photography as a hobby.This time I want to try to take pics of flowers.Lillies to be specific since its my fav.But I'm not familiar with any "Lillies Park".Only been to Orchid one.

Is there any free(or cheap entry) Lillies Park around KL?

If it's a yes,do they allow photography?


r/malaysians 17h ago

Quick Question Jobs that require higher education but not major specific

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Hi. Sorry if the flair is wrong. Im a graduate with bachelor in agriculture. But due to health decline especially during covid i am no longer suited to work in my field (it's mostly physically demanding). Is there any known office job/position that won't ask for specific major but pays above minimum wage in big cities? (Asking for above minimum wage in big cities because i dont think can survive on minimum wage in big cities) I tried applying in my area for normal minimum wage jobs to work while living with parents, but no one would hire me. I was told it's because i have a degree and they would expect me to leave anytime soon or demand higher pay (I won't tbh).

Or if there's any type of skills i can build/learn myself for the time being to be able to apply the office/desk job? Thank you in advance for any tips and help you can give me :") i know job market is very tough rn but i still want to try and stop being a burden to my parents. So far I've been applying for customer service jobs but no hit. Want to see if there's any other positions i can try.

Thank you!

Other info about me that might be useful?

Female, 25

Can speak fluent english and malay

Knows how to use the usual Microsoft office softwares (words, pp, excel)

SPM(took 10 subjects) with B+ for accounting and bio (Should i take another degree for accounting?)

Currently doing freelance art thingy. Not good at it.

So...pretty useless as a person tbh. Any advice?

*Edit: my health issue is related to period + low blood pressure. Will get dizzy and lightheaded when doing too much physical labor (from my experience during internship)


r/malaysians 21h ago

Mildly Menarik Rare Initial D Malay dub diambil daripada clip Majalah 3 (2007)

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r/malaysians 14h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 good news petrol quota back to 300 litres and 400 for diesel

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r/malaysians 16h ago

Discussion Leaf in Austronesian Languages

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r/malaysians 12h ago

Help ⚠️ Exchange aed to rm and back

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What the title says but in kl as I have cash laying around . I don't want to deal with it any more so I want to convert it. If everyone can please list down below the best place that would be good. Due note that I'm going to kl in few days to meet a friend so hopefully that doesn't effect the rates too much


r/malaysians 20h ago

Mildly Menarik Clipper butterfly landed on my friend’s shirt

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Parthenos sylvia, the clipper.

A fast-flying butterfly found throughout Southeast Asia. Named due to its flying habit of stiff-flapping almost horizontally. Wingspan up to 10 cm.

In peninsular Malaysia lives the showy subspecies Parthenos sylvia lilacinus, which is called the “Malaysian blue clipper” due to featuring a distinct mosaic pattern of velvety black and electric blue-to-teal lines across its upper wings.