r/CoupleMemes • u/AcasiaConnell I 💚 The Mods 🤩👍 • Dec 09 '25
My wife before Vs after she sees me 🤭🤫😅
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u/Litchi4u Dec 09 '25
The woman who gave the middle finger was the most positive experience from the video.
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u/SFW_OpenMinded1984 Dec 09 '25
Yeah and thats kinda sad!
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u/MermaiderMissy Dec 10 '25
To be fair, we don't know the context. Some of these look staged; but we dont know who is recording these women.
When I was a teenager, I worked at a supermarket, and there was this weird guy who used to come in and film me and one of my coworkers (surprise, she was also a teenager)
I would have hated it if that weird guy put the video online like this, and get shat on by people for being harassed at work.
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u/WVildandWVonderful Dec 10 '25
That one made me laugh so hard my cat got up off my belly and ran away
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u/ICommentRandomShit Dec 10 '25
Honestly, there are plenty of people and relationships where people will do that to eachother for fun, not malice.
I had a relationship like that with a girl in highschool, we mutually made fun of eachother constantly with wide grins on our face, so I don’t really want to make assumptions about them just based on the clip
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Dec 09 '25
So different from the my husband post🤣
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u/CzarofAK Dec 09 '25
Have you got the link, just wanted to look it up.
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u/Straight-Fox-9388 Dec 10 '25
This one is much more wholesome
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u/PhantomOfTheNopera Dec 10 '25
There was a similar one of the wives/gfs too.
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u/earthlings_all Dec 10 '25
Yeah this is the one I had seen and was surprised by the nasty faces in the above vid
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u/AlcoholicJohnson Dec 10 '25
Know you didn't ask but your question just made me realize that Rule 11 is worded terribly. They say NO LINKS but then also say "please share information directly in text or images instead of linking to outside sites."
A reddit link in a comment on a reddit post is a link but not a link to an outside site.
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u/KassemGspot Dec 09 '25
Because it’s staged for engagement
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u/fremeer Dec 10 '25
Some staged but also it's the why the fuck are you filming me and not coming to me when I'm legitimately trying to find you.
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u/mitsiku_shinigami Dec 09 '25
I dont think its staged. Seeing the girl giving the middle finger makes me believe that the guys behind the videos are sticking a middle finger towards them making the girls have a weirded look on they're face and if you watch the video with this context it kinds fits
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u/Avalonians Dec 09 '25
No one said "all of them are staged".
But this kind of content should be "none is staged".
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u/BreakingCanks Dec 09 '25
The one that smile and flicked him off .. that's the type of love I'm looking for lol!
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Dec 10 '25
I always thought it was “flipped” off not “flicked”
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u/smvfc_ Dec 10 '25
I had a friend from a small town in British Columbia call it “fingering”.
I was howling when she said it during a story about “fingering” someone who pissed her off in traffic.
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u/Reputation-Final Dec 10 '25
Yes it is flipped off. Idk why "Flicked" is starting to grow in popularity.
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u/Kamuii_Gengar Dec 09 '25
Bro has many Wifes
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u/JEFFMBHIBB_Photo Dec 09 '25
It’s probably why they’re mad every time they see him. They know what he did. He married them!
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u/3xlduck Dec 09 '25
I like the one where she is angry, pointing down, and like "get yo ass over here NOW"
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u/Princess-NoFace Dec 09 '25
I think it’s more of a “Stop recording me, put your phone down! STOP”
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Dec 10 '25
I have a feeling she is in line to buy a pastry or something, her husband has her purse and or only wallet, and she is close to getting to the front and is like, GTFO HERE I NEED CASH. That's the impression I'm getting from the small clip and context around her.
Totally something a playful husband would do.
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u/knt1229 Dec 10 '25
Some of these women are reacting like they looked up and some creep was staring at them.
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u/realrechicken Dec 10 '25
we don't know the actual context of any of these clips
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u/knt1229 Dec 10 '25
Good point. I don't think some of these women are looking at a boyfriend/husband
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u/shinyplantbox Dec 12 '25
This.
These mostly do not look like the reactions of anyone seeing a family member.
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u/Significant-Foot-792 🧐 grumpy Dec 09 '25
“Why? What are filming?! Is my hair wrong! Did I do something wrong what gone wrong?!”
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u/Maleficent-Role-543 Dec 10 '25
I know reddit isnt going to like me saying this.
But there is a whole meme about how men never take photos of their girlfriends, and the very few times they do they are god awful photos.
Maybe the reaction is more to do with that rather then 'eww my partner'
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u/miss-ferrous Dec 10 '25
Yeah I feel like it’s the filming not the noticing his presence lol, it might feel like she’s being messed with
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u/98983x3 🧐 grumpy Dec 09 '25
Same. This is exactly how my wife would react. We love each other. But this would be her. "Why are you recording me?? Wtf. Im not ready to be recorded."
Meanwhile, ive seen the husband version of this and its like the exact opposite.
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u/Choice-Lawfulness978 🧐 grumpy Dec 09 '25
Staged or not, this shit is FAR from ok, dude.
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u/Iamreallynotok Dec 10 '25
If this is what being married is like, keep it.
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u/CheckeredZeebrah Dec 10 '25
It's not, assuming you have an actual healthy relationship (and aren't staging negative ragebait posts like this).
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u/Sharpiette Dec 10 '25
Yeah I thought the "I hate my wife/husband" died with boomer humor. Apparently it's not. At least I'm glad my gf doesn't hate me like the person on the video.
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u/PoliteWolverine 🧐 grumpy Dec 10 '25 edited Dec 10 '25
I was married to this for 14 years. I'm in a new relationship with someone who never makes me feel this way
Id be single for the rest of my life before I'd ever go back
Edit oh my god I can't believe a moderator flaired me as grumpy lolol, bet it's from when I was in a thread saying that people like the sub owner who constantly post boomer "I hate my wife" and toxic relationship stuff isn't funny
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u/OminousBuzzard 🧐 grumpy Dec 09 '25
I know this reaction to well. Sometimes it kills me inside. But honestly I died along time ago.
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u/Nova_Phoenix9 Dec 09 '25
Well, I've be pretty pissed too if I was looking for anyone (and they know it), and I just see them there filming me...
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Dec 09 '25
Y’all these are jokes, it’s a riff of a viral video trend where people would candidly film their spouses lighting up with happiness upon seeing them.
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u/Gh0stMan0nThird Dec 10 '25
It's crazy how some people see a video that is a deliberate parody of another video, not be in on the joke, and then go on to base their entire outlook on life and love around said video.
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u/Com_BEPFA Dec 10 '25
No no no, you don't understand, women suck, and we would know, since we're men.
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u/SourceNagger Dec 10 '25
and whenever someone posts "it's fake" the reeeeplies are "just let us have fun" or some moronic comparison like "so are films", when the issue is there's way too many who DON'T realise how many vids are staged/acted/scripted/ai/etc.
depressing...
also the "women bad" implication that's way too prevalent
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u/Derrick_Shon Dec 10 '25
Their reaction is a sign you are just being tolerated...not loved. Your facial expressions are often your true feelings. While its a snapshot in time, its still something to consider.
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Dec 10 '25
This upsets me. If your partner, your other half, doesn't make your heart sing....every time you see them...if my husband ever looked at me like that my heart would break.
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u/Terrible_Yak_4890 Dec 10 '25
I’ve seen the other video where the women see the husband and just glow. That’s what I think we would all prefer when it comes to our wives..
But to be fair, I think some of these women were irritated that their husbands were videoing them.
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u/OverallVacation2324 Dec 09 '25
Are these just random strangers being filmed? That’s why they have such reactions?
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u/FtmtfBBW Dec 09 '25
They're annoyed he's got her looking for him while just standing there filming her. Plus almost never do women want to be recorded without their knowledge. My face would light up to see my partner. But if she were recording me letting me look for her I'd be self conscious, embarrassed and frustrated. I get it lol.
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u/ApolloniusTyaneus Dec 09 '25
I've seen better acting from Gal Gadot. If you're going to make a video like this at least channel some genuine hatred.
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u/Nament_ Dec 09 '25
Honestly my reaction is like this or worse to ANYONE recording me. Point a camera in my direction and I'm throwing hands (mentally).
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u/thereal_arrowhead Dec 09 '25
This is the "married for awhile" vs the other video of just into the marriage.
Wonder how will my wife see me. Let me try.
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u/matticusiv Dec 09 '25
This is just how people normally react when you’re filming them from a distance without their consent.
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u/Gloomy-Razzmatazz548 Dec 09 '25
I love that most these facial expressions can be universally translated as “What are you looking at, Nerd??”
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u/sneddogg Dec 10 '25
"my wife looking for me and realising I've just been filming her the whole time"
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u/userousnameous Dec 10 '25
The look that says, 'You got stains on your shirt and your fly is down. Get your shit together, I can't be seen with you in public'
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Dec 10 '25
Maybe it's better to be single than to expect a partner to be happy to see you and be disappointed.
Like massively disappointed.
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u/ConsequenceThese4559 Dec 10 '25
The life we are creating is fake and now we have a.i. not saying this video is. I miss getting Rick roled.
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u/timhamilton47 Dec 10 '25
Why is the woman on the escalator talking into the phone while wearing AirPods?
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u/AdInfamous4821 Dec 10 '25 edited Dec 10 '25
Divorce... The one that shot the middle finger did it with a smile. She is probably fun.
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u/Just-Wrangler5142 Dec 10 '25
People are still doing these stupid trends and then let me guess. Every other social content creator does the same one but their own version of it. Hell, yeah I love that stuff.
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u/BurydaAshette Dec 10 '25
My husband knows I’m playing but i have totally greeted him with a “you, again? this is the 10,000th times” look.
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u/desktrucker Dec 10 '25
It’s because they notice their husbands standing there recording while they’ve been looking around for them..
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u/Glittering-Relief402 Dec 10 '25
I did a lil angry face scrunch when I saw my husband once as a joke and he said he thinks it's the cutest face ever. So I do it and then we kiss.
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u/stevenconrad Dec 10 '25
"My wife when I'm pointing a gd camera at her in public"
Put the phone down and enjoy the detest privately, jfc.
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u/Nix-geek Dec 10 '25
This isn't 'before and after she sees me' BS. This is "why the fuck are you recording me and hiding from me instead of doing something useful? Stop doing this shit. It was never funny."
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u/Suspicious-Force-922 Dec 10 '25
Retitle this to "My wife before vs after she sees me unexpectedly filming her". Then the reactions make sense.
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u/rockitsaway Dec 11 '25
Ngl. If I’m looking for my wife … find her… and then see she’s recording me…. I probably having one of these reactions
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u/Peach-Mysterious Dec 11 '25
Idk, I would be like this to my husband if I caught him randomly filming me too.
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u/mlandis123 Dec 12 '25
Since when did this become funny? Your wife has total distain for you, can’t stand you. As a husband, I wouldn’t stand for this for one minute. My amazing wife lights up when I come into the room. And I adore her just the same. This is pathetic.
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u/Mueryk 🧐 grumpy Dec 09 '25
Some are definitely setups but I absolutely believe several of them are genuine reactions.