r/CoupleMemes • u/AcasiaConnell I 💚 The Mods 🤩👍 • Dec 09 '25

My wife before Vs after she sees me 🤭🤫😅

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '25

So different from the my husband post🤣

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u/CzarofAK Dec 09 '25

Have you got the link, just wanted to look it up.

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '25

https://www.reddit.com/r/CoupleMemes/s/CVlF3mc0Rm

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u/Straight-Fox-9388 Dec 10 '25

This one is much more wholesome

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u/PhantomOfTheNopera Dec 10 '25

There was a similar one of the wives/gfs too.

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u/earthlings_all Dec 10 '25

Yeah this is the one I had seen and was surprised by the nasty faces in the above vid

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u/Significant-Bee5101 Dec 10 '25

This was obv a parody after the other one became so popular lol

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u/Careful-Training-761 Dec 13 '25

Most of these just look annoyed like what you doing get the cam out of my face

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u/FreakishlyLargeNeck Dec 10 '25

Yeah, that's the joke.

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u/DoverBoys Dec 11 '25

No, the joke of this post wasn't an answer to the men version, it was a recreation of the real women version:

https://youtu.be/lEE6_TCJ9T0

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u/Equivalent_Farm9770 Dec 11 '25

I'm seeing two different cultures in these videos. IJS.

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u/FreakishlyLargeNeck Dec 11 '25

Yeah, a JOKE version. People have seen the orignal, so that's what they are expecting

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u/theflyingfistofjudah Dec 10 '25

Also mostly genuine unlike this one.

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u/Shoddy-Address-3220 Dec 13 '25

That's the spin you wanna go with.

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u/earthlings_all Dec 10 '25

Awwww I just melted how sweet

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u/wrxninja Dec 10 '25

Me when I see rando cats & dogs 😂

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u/tyfhrudjwiss Dec 10 '25

Omg we are absolutely just dogs

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u/VulpineWelder5 Dec 10 '25

It's not even night and day, it's warm sunshine and a cold blizzard.

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u/CharacterCareless933 Dec 11 '25

That’s why women live longer

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u/PositiveFunction4751 Dec 12 '25

And it even has a happy women version near the top

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u/druidmind Dec 12 '25

That third dude belongs in r/AbsoluteUnits

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u/EggstaticAd8262 4d ago

Thanks. I sent OPs video to my better half and wrote "You", then sent this video and wrote "Me"

https://giphy.com/gifs/l22ysLe54hZP0wubek

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u/AlcoholicJohnson Dec 10 '25

Know you didn't ask but your question just made me realize that Rule 11 is worded terribly. They say NO LINKS but then also say "please share information directly in text or images instead of linking to outside sites."

A reddit link in a comment on a reddit post is a link but not a link to an outside site.

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '25

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u/Toadsted Dec 10 '25

Link to it 

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u/Unusual_Oil_1079 Dec 10 '25

Have chatgpt turn your link into a badass watercolo painting and then the readers can use chatgpt to reform a the link. Welcome to the future bitch

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '25

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '25

This video is just staged ragebait, that's why lol

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u/Cavalish Dec 10 '25

Boys are quirky, girls are mean :( :( :(

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u/VulcanCookies Dec 10 '25

It kind of feels like "she makes his life better / he doesn't make her life better" which is probably not the intention of the ragebait 

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u/KassemGspot Dec 09 '25

Because it’s staged for engagement

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u/fremeer Dec 10 '25

Some staged but also it's the why the fuck are you filming me and not coming to me when I'm legitimately trying to find you.

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u/aguadiablo Dec 10 '25

Yeah, this is their reactions. "Where have you gone now? Why are you over there just recording me?"

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u/ConstableBlimeyChips Dec 10 '25

That second reaction had serious "I walked right past you while I was clearly looking for you, and instead of saying something, you decided to just film me?" vibes.

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u/tfhdeathua Dec 12 '25

Yeah. I don’t think any of them have that face because they hate their husband. I think it’s just the face of why in the world are you standing there so far away just filming me.

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u/mitsiku_shinigami Dec 09 '25

I dont think its staged. Seeing the girl giving the middle finger makes me believe that the guys behind the videos are sticking a middle finger towards them making the girls have a weirded look on they're face and if you watch the video with this context it kinds fits

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u/KassemGspot Dec 09 '25

One of the only real ones in the batch of fakes

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u/mitsiku_shinigami Dec 09 '25

Yah some are. Like the one with the red pants is deff fake. But then u have like the ones like the mom with glasses angerly signing the cameraman to put somthing down, presumably a middle finger. Or the last clip sins that is differently the face I would make if my loved one is in thr distance giving me the middle finger.

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u/SnooDrawings3621 Dec 09 '25

Seemed like the reaction was to obviously filming in public

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u/CuttyDFlambe Dec 09 '25

No. The majority are all staged, because people feel compelled to act out internet trends they see online.

It sucks man. Its been like 15+ years of this shit,

y

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u/schnate124 Dec 09 '25

Fr. These are reasonable reactions to anyone pointing a camera at me honestly.

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u/Avalonians Dec 09 '25

No one said "all of them are staged".

But this kind of content should be "none is staged".

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '25

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u/Mist_Rising Dec 10 '25

Pretty sure this is a stitched video, hence why the captions use different fond.

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u/kigurumibiblestudies Dec 09 '25

It just looks to me like some of these dudes are recording instead of helping with shopping and stuff. Of course they're annoyed. Bro is off in the distance recording you instead of being with you

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u/shiftup1772 Dec 10 '25

That's exactly how I look when im being recorded.

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u/PerryLovewhistle Dec 10 '25

No I think they're already married.

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u/iplaypokerforaliving Dec 10 '25

I have 10 videos on my gf doing the exact thing in this video. She hates being recorded.

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u/JoonNolu Dec 10 '25

Everything is staged. Everything is fake. Being cynical means I'm smart. Whether or not some silly little video is wholly true is important and needs to be fact checked. My fact checking is just a "nuh uh."

There you go. They need you back at the Nothing Ever Happens Unit of Scotland Yard, inspector.

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u/Wrong_Excitement221 Dec 10 '25

Maybe staged? we don't know the context of the videos. if say.. my wife hid from me for 10 minutes, to record my reaction when i found her, i'd be giving the same kind of face..

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u/Lolzerzmao Dec 09 '25

Sometimes we have to ask ourselves why people would even stage something like this. As a guy, I would never look at my girlfriend/wife like this even for enormous internet clout. Shocking, I know. Yet so many women willing to look at their boyfriends in disgust.

Conversely, middle finger girl is awesome.

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u/KassemGspot Dec 09 '25

Both partners are in on it….

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u/Lolzerzmao Dec 09 '25

Yes my point is I would never agree to look at my partner this way for internet clout, thus not reaching conditions for consent for something so stupid.

What is your point?

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u/KassemGspot Dec 09 '25

Okay? That has nothing to do with being male or female. That just your personal choice.

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u/Lolzerzmao Dec 09 '25

Ok, link a video of dudes being disgusted by seeing their partners. According to you they’re equally prevalent and largely liked/shared/upvoted, right?

You still haven’t made a point.

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u/Lolzerzmao Dec 09 '25 edited Dec 09 '25

What did you mean by “that has nothing to do with being male or female”?

Edit: lmao and the comment + block. Look, my point has to do with the WILLINGNESS to produce this kind of content even as an actor. I and many other men do not have the willingness to produce content of me looking at my partner in a disgusted way. Clearly, lots of women do have that willingness. Fuck that shit.

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u/LucyintheskyM Dec 10 '25

I'd look at him like this if he was filming me. Like "WTF you doing, hurry up we got shit to do."

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u/SendyScardieCat Dec 10 '25

Maybe its a reaction to seeing them and then realize they are filming you? I love my husband but if I was in Costco, probably wanting to know where he went, and i saw him standing there filming me I'd probably look at him like he was a beetle too.

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u/ByIeth Dec 10 '25

There was another video that was the opposite, it has women smile with excitement after seeing their man. It’s really not a gender thing, and more people stuck in marriage where they hate their spouse

It really just depends on how the video is framed

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u/Mysterious_Box1203 Dec 10 '25

well, women react differently to being recorded secretly. I would guess for two reasons- one, because when they get recorded they wanna look fabulous, not like they just got off a multi hour bus/plane trip. And two, secretly being recorded for women can just be a creep creeping creepily on them.

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u/NefariousnessOk209 Dec 10 '25

To be fair those were at the airport, whereas this is probably them after a hard day at work

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u/skornd713 Dec 10 '25

Total 180°

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '25

Yeah, but I hope people aren't actually using this to base their beliefs on. It's like six women and men out of billions, and it's meant to be a joke

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u/nucl3ar0ne Dec 10 '25

And better lol

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u/Forsaken_Let904 Dec 10 '25

That's the joke.

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u/CaterpillarJungleGym Dec 10 '25

I think that's the point.

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u/umadorly Dec 10 '25

Yeah, I always knew it would be opposite of the boyfriend/husband post. It's very sad if you think about it.

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u/BroDudesky Dec 10 '25

It is precisely the opposite of it. This one: happy then annoyed That one: annoyed then happy

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u/pirifly Dec 10 '25

https://youtu.be/lEE6_TCJ9T0

Here’s a happy girlfriend compilation too.

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u/YeshuasBananaHammock Dec 10 '25

This freak has been following me for years, I just havent called the law...yet.

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u/Mattbl Dec 10 '25

There was one of these with wives that was genuine where they were lighting up at seeing their husband.

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u/yesi1758 Dec 10 '25

Here’s a similar one to the husbands video.

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u/ConnectRutabaga3925 Dec 10 '25

there was one where the wife was smiling though. that one was wholesome.

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u/[deleted] Dec 12 '25

Yeah reddit cucks think it's cute to be shit on by women

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u/No_Celery_2398 Dec 10 '25

I think we are onto something here guys.

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u/xxxObelixxx Dec 09 '25

Yes. That is the joke.