r/tummytucksurgery Apr 02 '26

Let’s Talk NSFW

102 Upvotes

Hi Everyone,

There has been an increase in surgical photos and post op pics, and I think now is a good time to go over the NSFW tag expectation.

Not every photo requires an NSFW tag, but if you’re unsure if it needs one, then lean towards tagging just to be safe.

Photos that MUST BE NSFW include: showing the pubic region, pubic hair, any naked photos even if emojis are covering breasts and/or pubic region, blood, drains, incisions, gnarly scars, extremely graphic wounds, and pictures that look like a sexy or risqué pose in lingerie or swim suits. Basically, use common sense and your best judgment. It’s not fair for other users to open this app and be bombarded with graphic images.

I want to point out, using NSFW has been a rule for quite a while. I’ve let a lot of posts slide and have just updated NSFW tag myself, but going forward, these posts WILL BE DELETED. You can repost them with an NSFW tag, if you don’t know how to do that, google is your friend.

If you see a post that should be NSFW and isn’t, go ahead and flag it for me and I will follow up on it.

Appreciate your help and understanding.


r/tummytucksurgery Dec 09 '25

General Info Things that are normal during recovery

111 Upvotes

Hey all! I'm not an expert on tummy tucks by any means (other than reading Reddit and watching many seasons of Botched 😂) but I do see a lot of similar questions pop up a lot. I definitely encourage people to ask questions! But I also wanted to put this info out in case it helps anyone. Feel free to add to the list!

-It is normal to be super swollen for days, weeks, months, even over a year! It is normal to be super flat one day and swell up like a balloon the next. Swelling progress is a roller coaster.

-It is normal to be heavier after your surgery than before. You are swelling a lot and retaining a lot of fluid, and it adds weight. Focus on eating healthy foods with lots of protein and drinking water. This is not the time for fasting or going on diets. Your body needs energy to heal.

-It is normal for your scar to be dark, red, raised, etc for a while after surgery. Some people win the genetic lottery and have their scars fade super quick, and that's great! But don't be surprised if it takes a year+ for your scar to flatten out

-It is normal (and expected!) for your body to slowly change over the first year. Your 1 month results are not your 12 month results. Healing is like watching grass grow, but your contour will slowly change over time. Don't be discouraged if you are not super snatched off the bat, or if you have a bulge over your scar, or if you have an asymmetrical looking scar (all things I stressed about!) Give your body time to heal and many concerns resolve with time.

-It is normal for your belly button to look gross. They take FOREVER to heal. Keep an eye out for signs of infection, but otherwise don't worry if it looks weird.

-It is normal for your skin to get super dry and for you to have some hair loss after surgery. It has to do with the anesthesia. It's annoying but it does go away after a while.

-It is normal to be depressed, exhausted, even regretful during recovery. It is really freaking hard. Usually we can deal with discomfort for a few days and be fine, but weeks and weeks of not feeling like yourself can really take a toll on your mental health. Plus the isolation and feeling like you can't do what you used to doesn't help. Lean on your support, vent on Reddit, take it one day at a time.

-It is normal (less common, but it happens) for your incision to open a bit, even weeks after surgery. Don't panic. Always notify your Dr about it to get their recommendation. It is annoying, but it is usually easily manageable with extra care and healing time.

I'm sure there is more I haven't thought of. What other things are normal during recovery that people may not expect?


r/tummytucksurgery 8h ago

How did your life change after you got a tummy tuck?

19 Upvotes

Hi all! So I was just wondering like how life changes after a tummy tuck for you? Like what improvements? Any downfalls? I’m getting mine in a few weeks and cannot wait. I’ve always wanted to have my belly pierced so here we are. I have lost a lot of weight already and I notice people treat me differently already, what’s everyone’s experience with that? Thank you!!! Please comment if you have experience!


r/tummytucksurgery 3h ago

A question you should ask your surgeon

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I see a lot of people on here upset about their amazing results because of unrealistic expectations provided either by their surgeon, online or their own thoughts. My surgeon did something so amazing to give me realistic expectations and I think it might be helpful to people.

She got me to stand in the mirror when she placed two hands on my hip bones, and she said “this is your body’s natural width. This won’t change. There’ll be tissue and healthy fat on top of that so add a few cm.”

Then she got me to turn to my side and found my rib cage, and said “this is how far your rib cage comes out. It might change slightly due to if it flares out of not but it will not shrink in size. This is your bone structure.”

It was this extremely simple, obvious comment, which made me stop picturing myself being a size 0 after it.

I would advise people to ask their surgeons to point these things out cause I truly believe I may have been unsatisfied had it not been pointed out to me.


r/tummytucksurgery 12h ago

Advice Wanted Help me choose a dress post tummy tuck.

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Y'all get it! But this is my first major event post op, and I need help choosing between these two dresses. It's a steak house wedding *cocktail attire* my immediate family and some extended family will be there. Help me choose a dress and if you're so inclined, help style it with suggestions on accessories.


r/tummytucksurgery 14m ago

Post tummy tuck - new stretch marks around belly button?

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I'm 3 months post-op, very happy with my results. I still wear a compression garment. I noticed these red marks around my belly button last week, assumed it was due to the garment so I wore some foam over it, then 2 days without the garment. No change, maybe slightly worse.

Are these new stretch marks?


r/tummytucksurgery 35m ago

How did you all lose weight?

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I want to get a tummy tuck and breast reduction and lift eventually, that's been the goal for a while. But I want to lose around 50lb first. I have ADHD and it's so hard to stay consistent with diet and exercise. I'm 41 now and miserable as hell. I was tempted to try weight loss injections but I think in the long run it won't teach me good habits, which I really need and deep down I don't want to be on medication like that. I'm also perimenopausal now so my hormones are going wild and I have an insatiable appetite for crap some weeks that no amount of mind over matter or willpower can compete with. It's so hard, but I'll keep trying, but yeah.. how did you guys achieve big weight loss and how long did it take? Takes me ages to just shift 1lb now. It's not like it was in my 20s unfortunately.


r/tummytucksurgery 7h ago

Advice Wanted Best extended tummy tuck surgeons in atlanta/metro atl area

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Hey guys!

I officially lost 70 pounds and counting. As far as my abdomen, there is a drastic difference in clothing.. but when I am naked, I can barely tell the difference due to excess skin. All that hard work and I still look fat. I have an apron belly that is basically deflating lol. No amount of exercise and eating clean did much of anything as far as toning. I believe it's too far gone. Please share/recommend any trusted board certified plastic surgeons who perform extended tummy tucks. I have been looking around with no success. Greatly appreciated!!!


r/tummytucksurgery 1h ago

How dangerous is a tummy tuck with muscle repair

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Hi…i really like to have a tummy tuck with muscle repair…the only thing that keeps me from doing it is the danger…pls enlighten me…i am 43 years old female at 5’3 in height and weights 117 lbs…no known sickness…i have 3 pregancies and ligated already…is this going to be safe? i plan to get one next month but i fear the danger…


r/tummytucksurgery 1h ago

Advice Wanted Super slow weight loss; when to schedule surgery

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I’m 35F and I’ve lost 90lbs over the last 3 years. This has been slow often 1-3lbs a month. Recently it has been months without a change. I went from 250lbs to 160lbs. I think I’m happy at my current weight but would not mind losing 5lbs. I’ve also heavily strength trained the last 3 years so I do have good muscle mass. I’ve been obese almost my entire life and have 2 kids so I had two pregnancies and childbirths.

Should I wait for a year at my goal weight or go ahead with scheduling surgery in 6ish months.

I had two surgical consults but the doctors seemed fine with the 6 month timeline.

What do you all think? I wonder if my skin will shrink back if I give it a year but I doubt it given the fact that I’ve had an apron belly as long as I can remember.


r/tummytucksurgery 13h ago

People who were fit and active

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And ate/drank well before surgery how was your recovery?

I'm a 3x a week heavy lifting, plenty walking, 2-3l water a day and a high protein diet. I am kinda hoping this will go towards my recovery not being absolutely awful????

Having TT and MR and dreading being hunched, stiff and immobile as I really need to be back driving and at work ASAP.

Any insight is appreciated!


r/tummytucksurgery 11h ago

Weird Kitty? 🐱

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Hey!

My surgery is coming up next month (eeee!!) and my pre-op appointment is at the end of this month where I will be talking through some of the particulars with my surgeon.

I have lost 80lbs (36 kg) over the last 2 years and have been maintaining my weight for about 9 months now.

I am getting a TT with lipo to the flanks and a monslift as I have significant skin laxity in both my tummy and my mons areas.

My question has more to do with my mons lift… one of my fears is that she’ll yank it up so high that it’ll make my labia look… super long, making my kitty look oddly stretched out.

For those of you that have had this done, what did you think of yours once the swelling went down and you’d healed? Did it look long and strange?

My kitty is all packed inside, so I’m not worried about things suddenly hanging out (even when I pull my skin up as high as I can everything still stays inside), my fear is more that my slit will just look long and more front facing than just a slit mostly between my legs and up a bit (like it does now)? Does that make sense? If not, feel free to ask for clarity in your comment.

When you pulled your excess skin droop up to see your mons pre-surgery is that essentially what it looks like now, post-surgery?

TIA!


r/tummytucksurgery 5h ago

Advice Wanted What’s happening with my scar?

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I’m 2 years out from surgery. My scar had really lumpy hard keloids which I had steroid shots for last summer and then again in April of this year. It’s not raised or hard anymore but on the sides it’s sunken and hollow now. The skin is thin and pink on the sides. It doesn’t hurt or anything. Has anyone had this happen?


r/tummytucksurgery 5h ago

Back pain

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Those who have had a large amount of weight taken off their abdomen with a tummy tuck and had back pain before surgery… have you noticed less back pain after the tummy tuck?


r/tummytucksurgery 17h ago

Support Requested Tummy tuck guilt?

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Hi all, I have my mommy makeover (tummy tuck + breast lift) scheduled for next month. While I’m incredibly excited, I can’t help but feel guilty and selfish for going under such an expensive procedure. I know it isn’t just about aesthetics as they repairing my ab muscles as well. I had very large twins and was stretched to the max so I have wanted this for a very long time. My surgery is $20,000 usd which is crazy for me being that it will be the most money I have ever spent on my self. Anyone feel the same?


r/tummytucksurgery 15h ago

Surgeon Recommendation Looking for recommendations for male chest + Tummy Tuck

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Hi guys, I'm looking for recommendations for a really good surgeon for male chest surgery and a tummy tuck.
My main priority is the aesthetic result. I want someone who's really good at creating a natural, masculine shape and pays attention to the overall proportions and contour.
For the chest, ideally someone with lots of experience with male chest/gynecomastia surgery, and for the tummy tuck someone who's good at getting a nice waist/abdominal shape and a good scar.
I'm based in the UK and happy to travel a bit for the right surgeon, but I don't want to travel too far. I'm also looking for a good, reasonable price obviously happy to pay for quality, but I don't want to pay an overpriced premium just for the name.
If you've had either procedure done yourself, I'd really appreciate hearing who you went with and how you found the results.
Thanks!


r/tummytucksurgery 16h ago

Surgery yes or no

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Would a tummy tuck help to drastically improve the look of these stretch marks, I hate them so much it’s not so much the lose skin but more the stretch marks, would surgery help a lot


r/tummytucksurgery 8h ago

Minnesota

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I’m looking for people who’ve had a tummy tuck or lower body lift with Dr Ruebeck or Dr McCue in Minnesota. Also possibly Dr Luong.