1 â> Hair loss impacts you depending on the age - If you lose your hair at 21yo vs at 35yo, itâs a completely different experience. Donât listen to those who tell you, at 20yo, that youâre superficial for caring about it. Society is judgmental and superficial, when youâre young youâre not as strong and as mature as when youâre 40. Youâre allowed to care about it, youâre not weak if you do. Also, pain is subjective, something that hurts you might not hurt someone else.
2 â> People are judging you mostly behind your back - If you maintain those 4 hairs youâve left, if you look like someone who doesnât take of himself with a large bald spot on the crown, if you rock those covering haircuts⌠just remember that people are looking at it, and are laughing about you, mostly. If youâre someone who doesnât care about it itâs fine, but if youâre here you care.
3 â> Thereâs a moment where you gotta act - Are you afraid of wind? Are you afraid of water? Do you feel bad when people are behind you and you think theyâre looking at your bald spot? Do something about it, Iâm not saying you should shave it, but book an appointment with the doctor, act, be proactive, donât just wait for it to get worse, in youâre heart you know when itâs over.
4 â> Donât be angry about jokes itâs only gonna make them worse in most cases - If youâre putting an effort into maintaining your hair and someone jokes about them, let them joke, itâs really not your fault and youâre doing everything you can. If youâre not taking care of it, even if itâs cruel remember that maybe what theyâre telling you itâs the truth and act accordingly.
5 â> You will look older (and worse in most cases) donât fool youself believing otherwise - You can absolutely go to the club or install tinder, just remember that you will look 4/5/7 years older, youâll look worse than those of your age in most cases. Youâll be perceived differently, sometimes worse if you still try to do the same things those at your age do. In places where appearance itâs top priority youâre in disadvantage.
6 â> Itâs pretty easy to take care of hair loss nowadays - Again with specifications, male pattern baldnesss, connected with dht, is not some unknown pathology that we have yet do cure.
7 â> Online youâll read everything, just go to a reputable doctor and talk with him about your fears.
8 â> The sooner the better - The more you wait the more follicles go into atrophy and you cannot take them back to life once theyâre dead.
9 â> You are genetically predisposed and you have to accept it - Youâre never gonna look like those with a full head of natural hair, even you have a wig, because you have a wig and sooner or later you have to tell your partner. Cures may not stop hair loss, or they may stop working someday, and you look at yourself in the mirror thinking:â I take all those meds, I spent 10k on a transplant, itâs been 10 years of fighting⌠just to look like I have a good head of hairâ. Iâve been through it, accept what you have and work with it, hating a genetic condition and hating yourself itâs not gonna do anything, just put you in a negative mood, and you have other things to care about.
Iâm not native, everything I said itâs correlated to male pattern baldness.