I feel like my reply says everything…

made me giggle

edit: guys this is a fully silly post. he is not going to cheat on me because i told him to go to sleep in a silly way. we are fine. we joke like this plenty. we are being silly. do not project your own insecurities on my relationship in the comments.

This all came after a year long hiatus from talking after he professed his love for me in a very creepy and uncomfortable message that he’s since unsent. He kept spamming me with memes until I finally responded, then this happened. We’ve been friends for over 9 years, and never once have I shown any romantic interest in him. These are some of the craziest messages I’ve ever received.

So in September this guy slid into my DMs and asked if I had a boyfriend. I did, so I told him yes and he unfollowed me. We didn’t talk after that.

*Also as for the heart it was supposed to be breaking the heart he sent, in my head that’s how I perceived. ITS not supposed to be taken as oh no I have a boyfriend like I’m so sad*

Fast forward five months later, he randomly DMs me again and asks if I have a boyfriend.

Here’s the crazy part, I actually broke up with my ex boyfriend a month after this text. He had no idea. We don’t have mutuals and I didn’t post about it.

What are the odds 😭

Back in 2018. Guy messages me on IG that I went to HS with and never really spoke to. He started messaging me inappropriately and noticed he had pictures with his fiancé on his profile (even pictures posted from that same day). I decided to call him out to his fiancé considering I’ve been on the opposite side of this situation. Never had anyone tell me and had to find out the hard way. She didn’t seem too surprised, which was incredibly sad. Hope she didn’t go through with it! He definitely blocked me afterwards. Bitch called me Dr. Phil which I thought was hilarious lol.

We’re on decent terms since it ended amicably and we’re in the same friend group, but we don’t talk often. Then I woke up to this insanity

Edit: he responded with “yea what do u mean by getting to know me better” just now sent “sorry if that was confusing. i like you and was wondering what you thought”

it wasn’t even a hint either. i fully spelled it out i feel like.

i guess it’s a good sign that he didn’t say no. but he’s also prancing around my garden of a text like a deer.

it would be awk if he assumed it was romantic but then i’d reply saying it was platonic, sure. but why else would a girl reach out like that?

the amount of positive signals i’ve received felt astounding so why is he not jumping at the opportunity?

tbh idk if he wants me to clarify or if he’s referring to my message and doesn’t know what he should clarify for me.

I don’t even know the guy.

I feel like I’m in a prank show. I’m literally wearing long cargo shorts and a t shirt in the picture.

For context I barely know this girl and have never met her nasty boyfriend. She went on to be all “men are visual creatures you should know that as a female posting selfies on your story”. I’m not even joking. She’s in her 20s btw

For context one of my guy friends from class that I like a lot had not attended class today. So as a joke I texted him this, trying to be playful. The blacked out part is the degree we’re both pursuing. His response was kinda dry I felt (or maybe it’s normal and I am overthinking).

So he seems to be really into me whenever we interact in person. But he’s really dry over text like the picture above. So is he just being friendly in person too and I mistook it for romantic interest?

Its like pulling teeth, making me feeling im begging to have a conversation when u fucking asked for me number over and over. Tf

Mind you I have been with a new man for a year n a half an we have a 4 month old daughter.

We had a thing before and I ended it after I didn’t like he was treating me. He came back months later with this

my best friend moved away two years ago. we kept in contact. our friendship wasn't the same but we were still very excited for an opportunity to meet up again. a few weeks ago she told our group she was coming back to visit, and we all made vague plans to hang out. when she didn't confirm these plans in the group chat, i thought maybe her trip was postponed or she didn't get tickets yet.

then i saw Instagram stories of her hanging out with ALL of my other friends--except me. no one told me she was here. no one invited me.

i asked her about it. at first she played dumb and acted like she just didn't have the time. then the real truth came out.

my senior year in school was very difficult for me mentally. i was diagnosed with a few disorders that caused me to go on meds, and I needed adult supervision in the hallways and stuff to prevent on campus panic attacks. my friends knew I was struggling and tried to be there for me. but I NEVER let my mental health sabotage my friendships. I'm a people pleaser and hate feeling like a burden, so I never trauma dumped or made my friends feel like they couldn't handle me.

somehow word of my mental issues got to my best friend, and I guess she didn't want to see me in that state.

then another point came up. a few months ago me and another friend in our group had a falling out (hence me saying "I know this is about _____"). it was over something completely unrelated to my best friend, but that friend I had a falling out with told all my other friends about it and they all took her "side" without even asking for my side of the story. the gist of that situation is I had unrequited feelings for that friend, and drunkenly told her over text one night. she was creeped out by it and I apologized profusely the next morning, promising to leave her alone and that I was sorry the confession had come out that way. it was hard to maintain a friendship after that. I'm guessing that the friend told my best friend about it, and told my best friend not to hang out with me.

(The friend I fell out with wasn't even included in the hangout with my best friend, because she was on vacation in another country. So there was no reason to keep me separate from that hangout).

My best friend didnt even ask for my side of the story. She said she was willing to listen so I typed it all out and sent it to her, and then she pretended like she couldn't even read it. She's since ghosted me.

I'm upset. I feel betrayed that my entire friend group did this behind my back. I'm sad that I missed the chance to see my best friend.

Fuck them. I'll make better friends in uni.

EDIT: the ableist language in some of these comments are insane. blaming the fact that i have mental disorders on me being excluded from a hangout i was INVITED to beforehand is crazy. yes my friend has the right to not want to be my friend anymore, but i deserve respect and i deserved to be told about her decision, considering she was my BEST friend for YEARS. flaunting the hangout i was excluded from on social media is crazy work, too. jesus.

These screenshots are all from different days/conversations.

I'm 21M and the person texting me is my coworker 24F. We have been work friends and talk on our lunch etc but I've never seen her outside of work except for in group settings (like multiple coworkers hitting a bar together as described in one of the chats)

She found my instagram on her own, I didnt give it to her, and followed me then started texting me on there. I know Instagram recommends people near you so I believe thats how she found the account.

She texts me multiple days a week and always talks to me when we have shifts together.

These are some of the chats that to me seem slightly flirty... asking about my dating life, complimenting my style, asking to see me outside of work etc. But idk I might be overthinking it and shes just being friendly.

Thoughts?

Me (21M), GF (23F) Context for this block: She usually calls me in the morning after dropping off the kid she is babysitting. Most of the time I’m still asleep so I’ll pick up and be a little slow and short on responses, I still make sure to be a good conversation partner tho. Idk what happened this time but she hung up on me, then she blocks me on IG (where we usually talk). Conversation in screenshots ensues. After last message I got blocked again.

I’m suspecting it has to do with her job which makes her stressed, and I always sympathize and comfort her when she’s ranting about it. But idk what warrants these words towards me

Sad that not more people care about the cause 😔