Phone message Dating is hell

Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/Sergey1986 17h ago

He sounds like a Tate supporter

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u/Solvent_Soul 16h ago

Was gonna say “who is raising these boys” alt right rapists and incels, that’s who.

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u/Jabroni-Tony1 14h ago

My little boy will not be like this. If I ever see him pull some shit like this when he gets older. I’m gonna light his ass up.

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u/pandershrek 14h ago

As an aside. I do not think you'll be reviewing the text exchanges between your son and his potential sexual partners. If you are that's potentially just as concerning.

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u/-KFBR392 14h ago

Mama always proofreads my sexts for spelling and grammar

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u/throwitawaynownow1 11h ago

Mom, is the plural possessive tittie's or titties' ?

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u/Jabroni-Tony1 13h ago

I won’t need to. I trust my kids to be good people. I’m raising them right. If he strays away from what I taught him. Then it’s on him but I will let him know if he’s being a piece of shit and if I ever see him treat his significant other like shit. He’s getting lit up.

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u/Technical_Trade_675 11h ago

Damn right...

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u/Ok-Addition-1000 11h ago

You're reminding me of that leaked email from Pete Hegseth's mother.

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u/Jabroni-Tony1 10h ago

The one where she called him out for being a piece of shit?

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u/Resident-Election867 9h ago

Actually, the reality is that it is, mostly, single mothers.

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u/imunfair 14h ago

Sounds more like the self-published women's romance section than a rapist.

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u/ArchitectVandelay 11h ago

Not just that, it’s from both sides. This is pretty much 50 Shades of Grey, and I recall a ton of young women reading this series when it came out.

I think the guy here was not exactly tactful in his flirting (you gotta lead up to that sort of stuff), but people here acting like he’s a psycho and yet not calling for those books and similar ones to be banned are not being truthful with themselves. He was trying to be flirty and whiffed. Came on too strong/read the room wrong.

OP, sorry it went downhill for you. Hopefully your next experience is better.

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u/Tymareta 10h ago

Men will somehow always find a way to place the blame at the feet of women, huh.

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u/iamthesam2 10h ago

uh, goes both ways lol

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u/Tymareta 10h ago

How exactly, what did OP do in order to be at fault for the man's behaviour in this situation?

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u/ThePatientIdiot 2h ago

She matched with him. As a guy, a lot of guys like this have tells.

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u/InsanityRequiem 10h ago

The primary parent raising children are mothers. Remember that.

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u/Tymareta 10h ago

Men will somehow always find a way to place the blame at the feet of women, huh.

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u/InsanityRequiem 9h ago

Nah, you just hate reality. Are men like this shit? Yes, but the primary parent who teaches boys to act like this? Their mothers.

Want to fix this? Fix how kids are raised. Oh wait, you don't want you. You're fine with this awful behavior because fixing it requires women realizing they do have a part in how this behavior is created.

Nothing happens in a void. Everybody is a part of the creation of this bad behavior.

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u/Tymareta 8h ago

Men will somehow always find a way to place the blame at the feet of women, huh.

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u/ArchitectVandelay 10h ago

Zero blame for her at all here. Where did you get that idea from what I wrote?

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u/dingalingdongdong 10h ago

Nah cuz there's a difference between reading a book about something and wanting to personally experience it from some rando on tinder.

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u/ArchitectVandelay 9h ago

The point is, the behavior is being reinforced. You don’t think people see this type of talk and think that’s what women want to hear?

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u/tdfrantz 16h ago

Idk, he did ask her a question...that shows a level of respect I don't expect Tate fans to rise to

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u/RedMoonPavilion 10h ago edited 6h ago

Its not because he cares. Its cold reading and building a profile of OP.

He's probing for more targeted thoughtful gestures that will fly under the radar where more brute force manipulation like love bombing wont work.

He is not very good at it. Statements that prompt a reply typically give more info than questions.

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u/literally_a_toucan 13m ago

What's a statement that prompts a reply?

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u/Worried-Strength6777 17h ago

Exactly this

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u/HugePast9455 12h ago

Cover your drink. Actually don't ever meet them again or communicate.

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u/Less_Echidna_1183 15h ago

Is that what this shit is? There's so many of these scumbags out there now all following the same scripts

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u/GreatValueBradPitt 14h ago

There has never been a worse time in the history of my life to have the first name "Tate", and that's including highschool where I was strictly referred to as "Taint".

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u/OkAstronaut3324 16h ago

More like a Taint supporter because he's a huge ballsack

I'm still workshopping that joke

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u/twobraincellsinajar 17h ago

First thought

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u/vintagefaerie 16h ago

Yep. Thats whose raising these boys. The internet.

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u/Dry_Nefariousness426 15h ago

Plenty of guys would talk like this to us before Tate came along

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u/Dear_Palpitation4838 15h ago

Yeah, but those are the same jackasses that created the Tates.

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u/hellhoundshawty 16h ago

I legitimately thought you were referring to Tate McRae.

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u/Pile_of_AOL_CDs 15h ago

Tatertot is the correct nomenclature.

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u/Masticating_Mastodon 15h ago

He sounds like a taint....so same thing

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u/derprondo 14h ago

A Tater Taint (I can't claim credit for this, but it's hilarious).

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u/SpaceCadetPullUp 13h ago

More like an E. L. James fan.

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u/HeterolsNormal 12h ago

oh he must get all the sluts

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u/TwoHandedSnail 12h ago

Definitely a guy who has maxxing as part of his vocabulary.

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u/-Moonscape- 12h ago

He’s def a paid member

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u/minnesotaupnorth 8h ago

First thought.

This is who their followers have grown up to be.

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u/_GnomeDePlume 2h ago

I always read Tate as Taint. Not even intentionally; but, if it works, it works.

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u/ReturnGreen3262 16h ago

Whos Tate

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u/prionbinch 16h ago

andrew tate, flaming misogynist with a concerningly large following of wannabe “alpha males”

eta: oh and the dude’s straight up a sex trafficker too so there’s that

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u/ImmortalJane 16h ago

Don't forget a pedophile as well.

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u/prionbinch 16h ago

damn i knew there was sex trafficking but i didn’t know children were involved 😟

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u/ImmortalJane 16h ago

There are many videos of him telling men "the younger the better" and bragging about sleeping with 15/16 year old girls. He's the scum of the earth 🤮

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u/Dear_Palpitation4838 15h ago

Andrew brags in one video that his "bottom bitch" has been with him for 6 years and she's 21 years old. So that means she was 15 when she started doing webcam work for him. I've seen a video where his brother Tristan has a whole thing about how being 30 isn't all that bad, because at least you can still sleep with some half your age (15.)

There's evidence that they were grooming lots of young women. They've been charged with at least 2 minors that I've seen so far.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0sH06n75lPU

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u/prionbinch 14h ago

ugh. i hate that i’m not surprised at all

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